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Like Zack Attack Said, Friends Forever, Always Till The End: The Best Female Friendship Movies

By Courtney Enlow | Posted Under Seriously Random Lists | Comments (33)



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It struck me when Bridesmaids came out, the rarity of a movie featuring a pure female friendship, unencumbered by jealousy or pettiness. ‘Cause, see, here’s the thing about women: we’re not all catty bitches, prone to spontaneous explosions of hormones and deserving of being referred to as “threatened” by the success, happiness or looks of other women. That is not to say we never experience any of these things. We do. Some of us do it a lot. But, for most of us, it is momentary, and does not define us.

I say this because you would not come to that conclusion based on women in movies purportedly about “friendship.”

Do you know how difficult it is to come up with a movie featuring a female friendship that doesn’t involve some manner of hair-pulling bickery, random untrustworthiness or a fight about a man? Because I’ve racked my brain and can really only think of Steel Magnolias. In fairness, I pretty much always only think of Steel Magnolias. I may have said, “Daddy, it’s tahm!” on my wedding day, don’t worry about it.

After further racking, I’ve come up with more worthy celebrations of female friendship in honor of this week’s DVD release of Bridesmaids. Sure, these friends may not be perfect, but they’re fun, always there for you and would never put dye in your shampoo or sabotage your spray tan like some twunts.

Muriel’s Wedding

The Sweetest Thing

Romy and Michele’s High School Reunion

Now and Then

Clueless

Bridesmaids

Fried Green Tomatoes

Honorable Dude Mentions, because I didn’t feel right leaving out good old fashioned man love.

Shaun and Ed, Shaun of the Dead
Dante and Randal, Clerks, Clerks 2, “Clerks: The Animated Series”









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Comments

pft...Zack was way better when he went out on his own.

Posted by: PissBoy at September 22, 2011 2:07 PM

What about Waitress? That movie was full of "Helpful and Supportive Girlfriends" pie.

Posted by: Groundloop at September 22, 2011 2:16 PM

Television has some great ones, but you're right.. not a lot to be found in movies. No Thelma and Louise, though (or is that too obvious)?

Posted by: beckster at September 22, 2011 2:17 PM

Yeah... Thelma and Louise much?

But these are all good suggestions.

Posted by: MM at September 22, 2011 2:22 PM

Oh sure, Idgie and Ruth were just good "friends." Like my sister and her "roommate" are totally just close, awesome "friends."

Posted by: Cree83 at September 22, 2011 2:22 PM

Don't you just love it in Muriel's Wedding when the sexually active female character gets paralysed? Didn't she so totally have that coming?

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at September 22, 2011 2:30 PM

See, to me, T&L is more a "sisters are doing it for themselves" movie over a straight-up buddy flick. Though the friendship is obviously dominating. But that's why I left it off. It also took every ounce of strength to not include Beaches. It really did. But it was ever so slightly contradictory to my message of "we aren't all crazy bitches."

Posted by: Courtney at September 22, 2011 2:31 PM

Beaches be crazy, y'all.

Posted by: Alabaster Salamander at September 22, 2011 2:56 PM

Mrs. Julien you just paraphrased the thesis of almost all of my MA English papers: sexually active women always get punished! Why? Thank you.

(not for the punishment, but the pointing-it-out-ness)

P.S. Everyone LOVED those papers!

Posted by: DizMixen at September 22, 2011 3:08 PM

Walking and Talking! A little known gem from the nineties starring Catherine Keener and Anne Heche.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118113/

Posted by: Ray Ray at September 22, 2011 3:20 PM

Hee hee, I forgot how lesbionic Fried Green Tomatoes is. Thank you for reminding me.

Posted by: Cara at September 22, 2011 3:20 PM

Boys on the Side is a great ladyfriends movie, and I completely agree on Waitress.

I was going to say Death Proof for ladyfriends who can kick the shit out of Kurt Russell, but then I remembered they traded that poor, dumb cheerleader for the car.

Posted by: Ophelia at September 22, 2011 3:21 PM

I’m so in love with Rudolph, she is so goddamn hot. My feelings for her are not at all sexual, I want to study every inch of her. She is in me deeply.

Posted by: Pookie at September 22, 2011 3:46 PM

How about: Boys on the Side?

Posted by: John W at September 22, 2011 4:25 PM

How about: Foxes?

Posted by: John W at September 22, 2011 4:28 PM

Gotta throw in Whip It.

(Apologies for my utter lack of HTML knowledge.)

Posted by: bev rage at September 22, 2011 4:35 PM

How about Satan's Cheerleaders?

Posted by: Pete at September 22, 2011 4:36 PM

SRL suggestion:
Male/Female buddy flicks wherein none of the following occur:

They realize they are in love and end up in a relationship by the end of the movie.

They randomly kiss/have drunken sex/whatever and end up no longer friends by the end of the movie.

One has unrequited feelings for the other who does not reciprocate/is in a relationship with someone else/is getting married, drama ensues, and they realize they have to learn how to be happy on their own terms.

Posted by: DominaNefret at September 22, 2011 4:43 PM

@DizMixen and Mrs Julien - Wasn't that, like, rule #1 for Scream?

Posted by: NateS1973 at September 22, 2011 4:53 PM

Hey, anybody else notice how FUCKING TERRIBLE the female friendships were in Bridesmaids? No? The rest of these listed are pretty great though.

Posted by: valerie at September 22, 2011 5:09 PM

The Sweetest Thing? Really? That movie bored me to death.

Posted by: FabMax at September 22, 2011 6:06 PM

9 to 5?

I love that movie, I'll watch it whenever it's on TBS, much to Zombie Mr Smith's dismay. Lily Tomlin rocks.

Also, First Wives Club has some girl fighting, but it's not over a mayun. I've always kinda liked that one too. Plus, Dame Maggie is involved.

Yes, I am old, thanks for reminding me.

Posted by: Zombie Mrs Smith at September 22, 2011 6:14 PM

No pettiness or jealousy? Really? What about the petty jealousy between the Wiig and Byrne characters that also drives a wedge between Wiig and Maya Rudolph?

Posted by: pem at September 22, 2011 6:33 PM


i don't get the obsession with " bridesmaids ". i didn't get any
sense of a super friendship. these " empowered " women were
all about men ... melissa mccarthy winds up hustling the
air marshal, wiig bounces back and forth between the scummy
hamm character and the cop with the brogue and maya rudolph
is about as " hot " as point barrow in january.


Posted by: snake at September 22, 2011 6:47 PM

Sugar and Spice? Cheerleaders robbing a store to help out their pregnant best friend who happens to be head cheerleader? Awesome film.

Posted by: Nieve 'The Threadkiller Queen' at September 22, 2011 6:52 PM

Judge me so hard for this, but Where the Heart Is. Ashley Judd and Natalie Portman have a sweet, supportive relationship. Then toss Stockard Channing in the mix for a mother-figure, and you have the reason I've seen this move so many times.

Posted by: kelsy at September 22, 2011 6:57 PM

The Color Purple.

Posted by: TL at September 22, 2011 8:04 PM

not exactly the shining beacon of selfless platonic lady love, but death becomes her. they end up best freinds-ish eventually!

also, the witches of eastwick and in the same vein, practical magic? sisters, but still. it's a friendship.

and the craft!

basically most of the movies about witches.

Posted by: me at September 22, 2011 10:14 PM

After further racking

I know it's terribly immature, Courtney, but that line kind of excited me.

It's OK, I know where the door is...

Posted by: Uriah Creep at September 22, 2011 10:19 PM

I know it is an awful movie but Sisters of The Ya Ya Sisterhood has a great cast, and those old ladies are a freakin riot. Although Dame Maggie did sound quite rediculous with the southern accent, her crushing a roofie into Sandra Bullock's drink was funny as hell. I pray my friendships las that long.

Posted by: daria at September 23, 2011 11:03 AM

Yeah, totes, where is the Thelma and Louise love?? And, although otherwise a good list, there was a lot of petty bullshit in Bridesmaids, funny movie but not really a great example of female friendships.

Posted by: Lulu at September 25, 2011 11:30 AM


Ooooh, and How To Make An American Quilt

Posted by: Lulu at September 25, 2011 11:31 AM

WHERE the hell is Gentlemen prefer Blondes?!

Posted by: Carpe Jugulum at September 25, 2011 1:35 PM