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This Show Makes Me Want to Breed

By Dustin Rowles | Posted Under TV Reviews | Comments (29)



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NBC’s “Parenthood,” now beginning its second season, is one of the most warm and affectionate television dramas I’ve ever had the pleasure of viewing. There’s not a character in the amazing ensemble cast that I don’t like. Everyone is endearing, and — over the course of the series so far — has been fairly well fleshed out (although Joel and Julia are lagging behind a little). There’s not an episode that I’ve seen where, by the end of it, I didn’t want to have another child, or six.

That’s maybe the best compliment I could give the show: “Parenthood” makes me want to breed. It makes me long for a large, close-knit family full of problems, but lacking in dysfunction.

It’s taken me this long to review “Parenthood” because there’s a part of me that wants to keep my relationship with this show to myself. There’s also another part of me that doesn’t want to open up a discussion about “Parenthood,” wherein our readers will feel compelled to quibble with the show. I don’t want to subject “Parenthood” to snark. It may have its faults (though if it does, they are few), and it may not instantly appeal to everyone. But to me, it feels like a supremely honest show. Earnest and unironic, witty, and effortlessly intimate.

“Parenthood” takes the reality of family life, condenses it, dramatizes it, and packages it into 42-minutes of coziness. For the most part, each member of the ensemble gets equal play, though Peter Krause’s Adam Braverman, if anyone, is the center of the show, if only because he represents the responsible son, the dependable husband, and the reliable brother. He’s magnificent in the way that he interacts with his family and deals with his autistic son, Max. Lauren Graham is the unreliable single mother, sister, and daughter, a well-intentioned and hard-working mom who can’t seem to get out of her own way when it comes to both her career and family. Meanwhile, Dax Shepard — who has a much better and more likable presence than you could ever hope for in the guy from “Punk’d” — is trying to raise an illegitimate son he only recently became aware of, five years after the boy’s birth. His situation is the only one on the show that feels contrived, but only in its conceit — the way he handles that situation, however, feels as honest as anything on the show. Then there’s Julie (Erika Christiansen), the ambitious corporate lawyer who feels like she’s missing her daughter’s childhood, and her husband, Joel (Sam Jaegerman), the stay-at-home Dad, who is grappling with the sometimes emasculating reality of that position. He’s a licensed contractor who has been relegated to juice box dispenser, but he doesn’t dismiss it. He understands the importance of his role. The family patriarch and matriarch here are Craig T. Nelson’s Zeek and his wife, Camille (Bonnie Bedelia), who ironically are the only family members whose marriage has legitimately been endangered, but only after decades of marriage.

Much of “Parenthood” feels to me like the family life of Coach and Tami Taylor on “Friday Night Lights.” But where “FNL” leaves me with the desire to be a better person, “Parenthood” makes me want to be a better Dad. The characters here are good people dealing with the small realities of everyday life, trying to control chaos and raise their children appropriately. There were a few growing pains last season, as the characters worked to come into themselves and grow out of their setups, but in season two, the drama has already hit its stride. It’s comfortable with what it is, and as long as it remains small in focus — like “FNL” — it’s likely to continue to be the best family drama in years, buoyed by superb and charming cast, crisp writing, thoughtful characters, and honest developments.









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Comments

I haven't seen the show, yet (though, this review has put it on my radar), but Erika Christensen definitely kindles (or perhaps "explosively ignites" might work better) the desire to share the same bedspace.

Posted by: Rykker at September 16, 2010 4:15 PM

Huh. I found it mostly likable last season, but I stopped watching about 2/3 of the way through the season, for no real reason. I'll have to give it another chance. One assumes I didn't miss anything so major I would have to watch the end of last season to understand the plots. It is, after all, about the trials of parenthood, and as the mother of teen boys, I'm pretty clear on what that's about.

Posted by: Reba at September 16, 2010 4:19 PM

Seriously? I hate this show so much. I had to stop watching it because at the end of each episode I wanted to give my kids up for adoption.

Posted by: bob at September 16, 2010 4:20 PM

I dig it, too. It's one of the only shows on tv that my wife and I both enjoy (the others being Dexter and Breaking Bad, oddly enough).

Posted by: Mattfactor at September 16, 2010 4:26 PM

I really like this show. I love Lauren Graham and the chemistry between the members of the family. It's way better than Brother's and Sisters which I've given up completely.

Posted by: griffimx at September 16, 2010 4:33 PM

I've always loved Lauren Graham and I've always hoped that Erika Christiansen would make something more out of her career (and it seems she has) but I can't get on board with this, just can't.

In all due respect to Dustin I will merely say that it looks too warm and fuzzy...too many rays of golden sunshine. And that's fine, it's just not for me. I've been seduced by darkside of television.

Posted by: citizen_cris at September 16, 2010 4:51 PM

I've seen all but the most recent episodes. I got bored with it about halfway through season 1 but am trying to stay with it. Especially because I worship the ground that Lauren Graham walks on and the rest of the cast is really excellent. Not a surprise really because everything Jason Katims writes/develops is awesome.

Posted by: grace b at September 16, 2010 5:00 PM

I also think that tiny, almost hobbit-like Mae Whitman, as Lauren Graham's fuckup daughter, is too adorable for words.

Posted by: Withnails at September 16, 2010 5:00 PM

Perhaps I should watch this show online. But it will NOT make me want to breed. No way. No how. Uh-uh.

Posted by: Lindsey with an 'e' at September 16, 2010 5:05 PM

I love this show! I wondered why your weren't reviewing it last season. The best part of the show for me is the interaction of all the siblings. It's really rings true and reminds me of my family.

Posted by: TWoP_Fan at September 16, 2010 5:11 PM

I love this show so much; and I totally get you when you say you want to keep it to yourself. I lock myself in the bedroom on Tuesday nights so I can watch uninterrupted. Nothing kills a good TV show like my yammering husband.

Posted by: special k at September 16, 2010 5:13 PM

I have just started watching "Parenthood" recently, and yeah, it's pretty damn good. I didn't avoid it previously, just couldn't find the time to watch. I have a life, dammit.

Posted by: Slash at September 16, 2010 5:26 PM

Ditto to everything in the review - this show is fantastic. And @withnails, you are so right about Mae Whitman. She's amazing.

Posted by: Nicole at September 16, 2010 5:30 PM

I love this show. And yes, it's WAY better than Brothers & Sisters -- which I watched for a little while, then had to give up on the whole melodramatic bullshit (Plotline: "Oh you're not really my half-sister after all? Let's date!")

Also, I love Lauren Graham.

Posted by: Sara H at September 16, 2010 6:34 PM

I have a new respect for Dax after hearing him on Howard Stern today. Dude is funny and personable, not douchy at all.

I may check this show out now.

Posted by: Riles at September 16, 2010 6:43 PM

All I could think when I watched this show was, "Dude. Rory gained some pounds."

Posted by: Jim Doggie at September 16, 2010 6:48 PM

I guess I need to start watching this.

Posted by: figgy at September 16, 2010 7:32 PM

I completely love this show. The cast and writing are so phenomenal. Thank you for your review! I'm so happy we get to see the Bravermans for a second season.

Posted by: Kristine at September 16, 2010 8:09 PM


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Posted by: yuta123 at September 16, 2010 8:41 PM

I love this show - and I too wanted to keep it my little secret that I watched on DVR while my family slept. As a married mother of one, and also an only child, it makes me long to be a part of a much larger (and slightly fucked-up) family.

Posted by: jayco at September 17, 2010 12:41 AM

If watching "Parenthood" does lead to breeding, please control your damn children!

Posted by: Craig at September 17, 2010 2:10 AM

Who IS that fucking troll?

Posted by: Maryscott O'Connor at September 17, 2010 6:31 AM

I tried the show for 3 episodes and found myself wondering if I should refold my shirts to avoid severe wrinkling because I sometimes fold them too quickly straight from the dryer because I need to get back to the chicken which I know is overcooking AGAIN because I can't cook that shit for shit and the goddamned broccoli isn't going to steam itself is it you moron . . .

See what I mean?

Posted by: Kballs at September 17, 2010 7:53 AM

Loved season one, but the season two premiere left me cold. I'm hoping it improves.

In the interests of honesty though: I come from a large close-knit brood (there are five of us) and was raised in a country literally spilling over with large close-knit broods (at five children, we were considered to be on the small side). There are no Bravermans out there. We are all dysfunctional.

Posted by: PaddyDog at September 17, 2010 9:15 AM

"Everyone is endearing--"


So it's the exact OPPOSITE of Absolutely Fabulous.

Posted by: Snuggiepants at September 17, 2010 1:30 PM

I watched the pilot. I thought it was o.k., but it didn't wow me enough to win me back. I don't entirely recall what I didn't like about it, but I think that for me it might have felt a little too plot-driven and missing the verisimilitude I wanted.

It did spur a vocal debate at my office, however, in which I stood by my claim that the feature film Parenthood remains Ron Howard's best.

Posted by: DarthCorleone at September 17, 2010 2:27 PM

This review has about as much scathe as a sleeping puppy with the hiccups.

Dustin, your slip is showing.

Posted by: bostonadrianne at September 17, 2010 3:03 PM

Add me to the list of those who love this show - Peter Krause makes me swoon, and no matter what show he's doing, he comes across as a real person. It's a little weird watching now since I read that he and Lauren Graham are dating and I'm reading into the looks they give each other as brother and sister, but I guess that's on me. And I'm totally skeeved by whichever Baldwin that is (Billy?) and bummed that Jason Ritter is gone. He and Graham had real chemistry.

I found Erika Christiansen very cold the first season, but by the end she seemed a little more integrated and in the season opener she was almost likeable.

Totally adoring Craig T. Nelson in his patriarchal role.

Posted by: Cindy at September 18, 2010 12:34 AM

Eh. I second those that haven't been able to get into this show. I love the cast and I wish the show was more compelling, but it's playing to the lowest common denominator of relationship cliches. It irks me that most of the plot is driven by adults acting like overgrown teenagers.

Posted by: Len at September 19, 2010 5:24 PM