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Mel Gibson is a Class Act! U Da Man! All is Forgiven! B'hatzlacha! Jump Up My Ass and Suffocate!

By Dustin Rowles | Posted Under TV Reviews | Comments (35)



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I don’t want to write too much about this because it makes my head spin, my eyeballs float, and the seams holding my head to my neck burst. But Mel Gibson gave his first public interview since the racist, misogynistic, violent, victim battling and hateful ordeal with ex-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva back in July, the day after which we officially declared Mel Gibson’s career dead.

Apparently, we spoke to soon.

The interview was granted to Allison Hope Weiner, who handed it over to Deadline for publication. It is a very candid interview, where Gibson basically expresses a lot of self-pity, suggests that his ex-girlfriend betrayed him, claims that he never “treated anyone badly or in a discriminatory way based on their gender, race, religion or sexuality — period”; said that he doesn’t care if audiences hold the experience against him; stated that he doesn’t care if he never acts again; claimed the leaked tapes were “edited”; thanked Whoopi Goldberg for defending him; and discussed all of his future projects.

What I didn’t see in skimming through all the bullshit was an honest admission of guilt or a real apology. No matter. All is forgiven! At least, according to the comments underneath the interview, which were overwhelmingly forgiving. And if they are any indication of how the rest of the world will treat this interview, Mel Gibson may be back at the top of the box office within the next year. Because all it takes, apparently, is one slightly defensive, not particularly remorseful interview, and the world will forget you ever told your ex-girlfriend to give you a blowjob or you’d burn down her house. That’s the post-Charlie Sheen world we live in now. In fact, if Gibson really wanted to win the world’s affection back, all he’d need to do is go up on stage, play those phone recordings over load speakers and shout exclamatory 80’s catchphrases to the audience. How long before celebrities drag women on stage and beat them for encores? Is there nothing that can’t be forgiven if you’re famous?

Don’t believe me? Here are a few forgiving comments from the early half of the Deadline comment section. And these aren’t cherry-picked — they are typical of the majority of those comments.


  • We have all done stupid things. Mel is cool. Forgiveness.

  • Thank you, Mel, for opening up. Know there are many, many people who love you and pray for you. You may not know us personally, but we have your back. Lean on our strength.

    As a film student (who went to work in PBS) I find myself engaged in many conversations about the medium. There are few directors I consider artists. I could write them down on a single 3×5 card.

    You are on that list. In my opinion, you are one of the rare true artists currently working in Hollywood.

    I love you, Mel, and God loves you. Blessings.

  • Wow. Refreshingly candid.

  • yes that was a refreshing read… always have liked Mel and so glad to hear he is OK. He is a brilliant mind and he sounds like he really GETS IT. Bravo Mel … all the best to you.

  • Mel is still the man. We’ve all gone through something insane in our life. Mel’s was public (and crazy) but hey, it happens. Be cool and let the man do his business.

  • God bless you Mel!

    You have guts and talent and have made some real good pictures. I’ve appreciated your willingness to tell the truth as you see it, even though it has brought you a lot of flack.

    Here is hoping you have more years to do that in the future. Not all the good leading roles involve young men. We old guys have adventures too, and maybe more profound than when we were young.

  • Come on Mel give us another Braveheart (u da man)!!

  • Class act.

  • I am Jewish. Had a bar mitzvah and all. However, I have a deep respect and sympathy for Mel. Everyone says things they deeply regretted or acted in a manner they realized later was way out line. The difference is Mel had these acts recorded and widely publicized.

    I have respect for him because, unlike many stars cause in similar scandals, he took the brunt of the responsibilities for these actions. He did not hire a 10 person pr team to combat the bad press and, instead, acted in a humble manner (as demonstrated in this interview).

    If I never talked or respected anyone who had ever expressed an anti-semitic joke or statement that went a bit too far… I would be living a very isolated existence.

    Behatzlacha Mel.

  • Mel Gibson is one of the few real people in Hollywood. He will do more than just survive - he will continue his greatness because of his honesty.

  • The media is the ones who crucified Mel Gibson, then they took it upon themselves to tell us how we all feel about him. I never saw any outrage towards Mel Gibson from his fan base. It always seemed obvious to me and everyone I know that he was set up, and it was obvious that his girlfriend didn’t fear him at all. I think the media thinks we can’t think for ourselves. We can, and we never crucified Mel, they did.

  • Great interview, have always liked and respected Mel. The leaked tapes simply showed a man who was in pain….and in today’s day and age, who isn’t!?
    The interview was direct, honest and sincere.

  • I am actively going to support Mel’s future films just to stand on the other side of the line from those who would cast stones. Those execs who tried to blackball him should be retreating into shadows of shame. They know who they are. And so do we.










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    Comments

    Blech.

    Posted by: Soda at April 22, 2011 10:21 AM

  • I made it through exactly three of those comments. Jesus, what is wrong with people?

    Posted by: tamatha at April 22, 2011 10:29 AM

    He called a female officer "sugar tits." How is that not a comment based on gender?

    He said "the Jews are responsible for all the wars." How is that not a comment based on religion?

    To the idiots praising Gibson's interview over at Deadline: candid is Catherine Zeta-Jones admitting to the world that she has bipolar disorder and subjecting herself to the stigma and judgment placed upon people suffering from mental illness. Candid is Michael J. Fox admitting he has Parkinson's Disease and choosing to go off his medication and face the scrutiny and constant jokes about his condition. Candid is not saying "don't blame me, the jews...err...executives who run Hollywood blackmailed me." That's being cowardly. The only new information to come from that interview is how gullible people are when it comes to childhood heroes.

    Posted by: Robert at April 22, 2011 10:34 AM

    Those execs who tried to blackball him should be retreating into shadows of shame. They know who they are. And so do we.

    Better look out, execs! Some pie hags/bag ladies/cat ladies/turtle ladies know who you are!

    /can't find any non-old-lady justification for Mel appreciation
    //watches Payback anyway
    ///overuses forward slashes

    Posted by: LEROOOY at April 22, 2011 10:35 AM

    I have to disagree with the Deadline commenters. I've seen quite a few Gibson films (although I missed Apocalypto), and I find nothing really spectacular about him, either as actor or director.

    As an actor I'd give him a C, were I grading him. As a director, I'd give him a D based solely on his snuff film, Passion of the Christ(although torture porn aficionados may disagree with me).

    The interview he gave was not an apology. The Deadline commenters, no doubt used to hearing the classic "non-apology apology" schtick, have apparently taken it hook, line, and stinker.

    Posted by: The Wanderer at April 22, 2011 10:35 AM

    I'm not sure a self-selected sample of some of Mel's biggest fans is a real picture of American society. I hate people as much as anyone, but it's always a mistake to draw a conclusion about humanity in general from the stupid shit people write in website comments.

    These people's slobbering of Gibson's knob (maybe he should invite them to his house and they can do it personally, rather than via a website) just reflects the fact that many people are gutless suckups who are happy to give aid and comfort to anybody who's rich and/or influential, no matter what repellent things they've done or said. Exhibit B: Donald Trump fans.

    Plus, it would probably help if Gibson's girlfriend wasn't such an obvious gold digger. However, unlike most of these assholes, I don't feel sorry for him because of it. Nobody forced him to fuck around on his wife of many years and knock up the Russian chick. He did that of his own free will, but now we're supposed to feel bad for him because it ended badly. Fuck him with splintery telephone pole.

    Posted by: Slash at April 22, 2011 10:49 AM

    George Carlin once said the types of people that the world really didn't need could be put into one of three categories (and sometimes all three); Stupid, Full of Shit and Fucking Nuts.

    After reading these half-witted comments, if they are indeed the norm and are to be believed, I'd say we found our first group that would make the world a better place if they were culled from the herd.

    Sound extreme? Not to worry. We'll give them the same kind of half-assed explanation and we'll have a few washed-up celebrities present it too them. They'll no doubt forgive us to and gladly walk into their nearest suicide booth.

    Posted by: bleujayone at April 22, 2011 10:53 AM

    You have to put it all in the proper context of being in an irrationally, heated discussion at the height of a breakdown, trying to get out of a really unhealthy relationship. It’s one terribly, awful moment in time, said to one person, in the span of one day and doesn’t represent what I truly believe or how I’ve treated people my entire life.

    Tie me down and butcher me for saying this, but I can totally empathize with this statement. In the heat of a deteriorating relationship, people can say some really nasty things to each other. I once told an ex-girlfriend (who I had just confessed to cheating) that I hoped she gagged on his cock and choked to death. I called her a "fucking cunt." And other really terrible things which I won't repeat here (yes, "fucking cunt" was the least of it).

    Is that indicative of the way I treat people in general? Absolutely not. Would people see me differently if the entire conversation had been recorded and publicized? Of course.

    I've said it before and I'll say it again; people should not be judge based on their lowest moment. All of us -- all of us -- have said and done things that are hateful and reprehensible, and of which we're ashamed. Those are not the things our entire being should be judged by.

    Posted by: superasente at April 22, 2011 11:12 AM

    Dear Dustin,

    I do so enjoy Pajiba’s port in the cubicle storm. I come here a lot. I suspect you’ve noticed. I am a person who spends a great deal of her life not really being listened to due the nature of power dynamics (my boss doesn’t have to), nature (my 5 year old doesn’t want to) or inclination (sometimes Mr. Julien needs a break). But here on Pajiba, I blither, I burble and I don’t know if I’m being ignored. It’s a trifecta of joy. Then over the course of one week, you give us enough fodder for long form commentary and troll enticement to really bring people out of the woodwork. Look at you thinking of us: You give and you give and you give some more. You set up a deserving target for our week’s build up of bile and invective. Revisiting Mel Gibson’s behaviour, some will choose to spew, others circumspectly excuse or maybe kind of condone, and still others, who like the dead are in the majority, will read and say nothing. Cleansed of our bad humours, we can head into the weekend refreshed and ready to participate in whatever level of undignified behaviour calls to us. Kudos to you, sir.

    Yours in Pepto Pinata Smash,
    Esme Julien

    Posted by: Mrs. Julien at April 22, 2011 11:38 AM

    I never really was much of a Mel fan.
    I like him less now that I know how his rage works.
    I won't watch any more of his movies.
    but the thing I remember most about Mel
    and why this article is awful to me
    is that I wouldn't want to forgive a man who hit his girlfriend while she was holding their child in her arms.
    I don't want to.
    She might be a golddigger
    and he might be angry
    (and yeah, harsh language when angered? Guilty of that myself)
    but this hitting thing?
    with the kid right there?
    He can fuck off.
    And I hope every movie he makes going forward tanks.
    So that he will go away
    and I won't have to think about what he did anymore.

    Posted by: ChickaBoom! at April 22, 2011 11:46 AM

    RE superasente:

    Duly noted, and I agree that in the heat of an argument, your point applies, but ...

    Gibson said a lot of those things in telephone calls. It wasn't in the heat of any moment that arose as the result of a single face-to-face argument. He called her up and said these appalling and stupid things.

    At the very least, that makes him very stupid. Nowadays, when angry phone calls with threats of violence are so very easy to record and pass on to interested parties, it's just fucking retarded to call your baby mama and imply any sort of violence towards her.

    Posted by: Slash at April 22, 2011 12:06 PM

    Buh, buh... when will Hollywood give him a second chance? I mean, the poor guy was raised by crappy parents who pushed him into acting and has a problem with alcohol and the papparazzi are always hounding him! Why won't they leave him alone?! They took his words out of context! He just wants to find love! He should be allowed to party as much as he wants! That judge hates him! He didn't steal that jewelry, he forgot he borrowed it! All he wants to do is work with his BFF James Franco!

    Posted by: Protoguy at April 22, 2011 12:09 PM

    That was a particularly impressive display of sarcasm Protoguy.

    Posted by: Mrs. Julien at April 22, 2011 12:17 PM

    The only way I'm going to make it through today without putting a bullet through my brain, is to convince myself that he paid someone to write every one of those comments. Fuck. Me.

    Posted by: jayco at April 22, 2011 12:20 PM

    NOPE! He's dead to me.

    If you say something stupid, racist, gender insulting, etc. and immediately afterwards apologize, and then reform yourself by not doing it again, I might forgive you eventually.

    But, when you consistently do layer upon layer of stupid ass things and spout this insulting crap, I'm sorry, but no amount of "I'm sorry, months after the fact, that I got caught doing this." will get you back in my good books.

    Posted by: BWeaves at April 22, 2011 12:22 PM

    "I am Jewish. Had a bar mitzvah and all."

    Wow. I loved reading those comments, it was like taking a vacation from the tedium of sanity.

    Because God does really love you, Mel, even after all of those the times he watched to you strangle yourself whilst dry humping the Virgin Mary statue you keep locked up in your chamber of secrets/panic room.

    Big G is cool like that.

    Posted by: beet salad at April 22, 2011 12:30 PM

    I think Superasente is studiously ignoring what is referred to as a "pattern of behaviour". Why would his girlfriend magically decide to start taping his calls on the exact day he hit his personal low?

    Posted by: Mrs. Julien at April 22, 2011 12:35 PM

    Yeah, but how many of those comments were written by John Galliano. Lots of time on ones hands in rehab you know.

    Posted by: PaddyDog at April 22, 2011 12:36 PM

    We have all done stupid things. Mel is cool. Forgiveness. - Anonymous

    Spoken like a true wife beater.

    Posted by: RobP at April 22, 2011 12:42 PM

    I'm not ignoring his history; he hit his wife. He doesn't deny it, why would I? He has a history of violent, angry outbursts -- which I can relate to. To be clear, I've never hit a woman, but I've started stupid, nonsensical fist-fights in bars. I nearly ended a friendship once by socking a buddy in the jaw. Hell, I've punched my own father. I've battered mailboxes until my fists were bloody and destroyed furniture in drunken fits.

    I've got a history of anger issues. I can empathize with others who have similar issues.

    Now, I've taken the time to evaluate those issues, to work through them and try to subvert them. I've taken a long hard look at myself and made an effort to change. Through self-awareness and sheer stubbornness I've managed to conquer those demons. It takes a lot to get me heated to that point these days, and I can count with just my thumbs the number of times in the last five years or so that I've really lost my temper and lashed out. But it's an ongoing struggle, and I have to remind myself every time I get angry that I shouldn't let myself get out of control.

    I would hate to think my anger issues are the sole criteria on which I was being judged. It is my lowest quality. There is more to me than those outbursts.

    It's easy to let our disgust take us over. It's easy to write off Mel Gibson as a drunken, anti-semetic misogynist. It's easy to put one's self on a pedestal and say, "Well I never..." Moral superiority is a fun place to be. It's easy to forget that we're all not paragons of virtue. And so it's easy to judge him.

    I'm not going to do that, though. While I don't expect any of you to follow suit, I'm certainly not going to pretend that I'm any better than this man.

    Posted by: superasente at April 22, 2011 1:24 PM

    No, and I agree, but our opinion and our dollars are the only ways we have to say we don't agree with him, don't approve of this type of behavior. He's not our neighbor where we can go have a heart to heart. He's a celebrity and he requires us to make his living.

    Your anger issues are yours and your closer friends and family to deal with. I don't ever have to even think about them. Mel made his front and center when he wasn't bright enough to realize the 20-something Russian immigrant model he married would take advantage of his anger issues. Or are we supposed to believe he believes she married him out of twu wuv? I don't excuse his behavior, but anyone with some money and a little bit of brains should have known not to trust Russian Immigrant Models Who Marry Insanely Rich Insane Guys.

    Posted by: Protoguy at April 22, 2011 1:51 PM

    Do men understand that when women see a guy who is willing to lash out at one woman, some of us see a guy who is lashing out at every woman? That it means that they see all of us as fair game?

    Posted by: Mrs. Julien at April 22, 2011 1:53 PM

    Protoguy -

    And the baby should have been smart enough to not be in the room with Mel's incoming fist when her mother made him take a swing at them. Bitches and babies, man. Bitches and babies.

    Posted by: Mrs. Julien at April 22, 2011 1:56 PM

    Superasente - But you looked at your actions, JUDGED YOURSELF, realised they were completely unacceptable and took action. You hold yourself accountable for your behaviour. That is a very different thing.

    Posted by: Mrs. Julien at April 22, 2011 1:58 PM

    That baby was just fishin for a lawsuit. Money-grubbing little crumbgobbler.

    Posted by: Protoguy at April 22, 2011 2:18 PM

    sorry but i just can't look at him the same way i did before. wait a minute. how did i look at him before?

    ....

    oh, yeah. i liked him well enough and saw his movies. i did enjoy apocolypto (can't be bothered to check the spelling) but i think i'm done with mel.

    that trailer for the puppet movie did NOT do anything for me. and, really, i just can't look at him the same way. the whole suspension of disbelief thing is gone. poof!

    Posted by: splinter at April 22, 2011 2:18 PM

    Superasente:

    I think the reason why I have such a major problem with forgiving abusive jerkwads is because I too had massive anger management problems. Trust, I know all about the horribble, horrible things a person can do and say to others when they are in the grip of rage. I once told someone that it was a good thing that their father was dead, so he would not have to witness what a shitty person their son turned out to be, and that is still not the worst thing I have ever said. I can be a complete asshole when I'm pissed off.

    My limited tolerance for Messrs. Sheen, Gibson, Brown et al. is that they have displayed neither remorse nor shame nor even accepted any responsibility for their actions. This is what I find unforgivable. If you're a hyper agressive douchewad, then just own it, apologize and actually try to work on your behaviour. Make fucking amends. This whole thing of "Oh I'm so misundertood/haters gonna hate/what the hell ever, I'm awesome" is just so much weak sauce. Is saying, "I fucked up and I'm sorry" really so damn hard? But hey, it's not a problem for him, so why the heck should he have to change?

    Posted by: Nobody's Little Weasel at April 22, 2011 2:22 PM

    Superasente, the difference between you and Mel Gibson is that you realized you didn't like your behavior. Mel Gibson thinks the world turned on him for no reason and now there's some grand conspiracy to ruin his life. You took responsibility for your actions while he continuously tries to spin himself as the victim.

    A little self-reflection goes a long way. Mel Gibson refuses to admit he has faults related to drinking, racial/gender/religious slurs, and anger management. Until he actually takes some responsibility for his life, I'm not going to respect him as a person. If he does good work as an actor, writer, or director, I'll judge his performance accordingly.

    Posted by: Robert at April 22, 2011 3:58 PM

    As part of the shadowy Jewish cabal responsible for trashing Mel's reputation and career, I'd like to say this is extremely frustrating. All the work we've put in, all the media manipulation and all the girlfriends we've planted, and this guy still has fans cheering for him? Damn you Mel Gibson, don't make us reach for the ultimate weapon. We can have you put into a movie with Rob Schneider and Adam Sandler. Don't think we won't do it.

    Posted by: Mrcreosote at April 22, 2011 4:10 PM

    We can have you put into a movie with Rob Schneider and Adam Sandler. Don't think we won't do it.

    Posted by: Mrcreosote at April 22, 2011 4:10 PM

    Now that level of cruelty is just uncalled for, Mrcreosote. Be the bigger man.

    Posted by: Uriah Creep at April 22, 2011 8:44 PM

    How many times do I have to say it?

    Never never never never never bet against the comeback.

    Posted by: , at April 23, 2011 1:33 AM

    Totally done w Mel. But I'll never be done w Apocalypto.

    Posted by: klingonfree at April 23, 2011 1:46 PM

    "too"

    Posted by: Mom at April 23, 2011 4:11 PM

    My limited tolerance for Messrs. Sheen, Gibson, Brown et al. is that they have displayed neither remorse nor shame nor even accepted any responsibility for their actions.

    Posted by: Nobody's Little Weasel at April 22, 2011 2:22 PM

    That is exactly why some love them and some hate them. Because they truly believe that they are winning. Truly believe they are blessed and therefore have no reason for remorse or shame. They think we're the idiots for not seeing it. Some fans think the same.

    Posted by: Protoguy at April 24, 2011 6:00 AM

    I don't 100 percent agree, but regardless a very well written post. I'll link back from my site in the comments, when I get time :) Thanks!

    Posted by: Willian Olden at May 18, 2011 6:46 AM