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Capturing the Friedmans Review: Even Handed? Or Effective Manipulation?

By Drew Morton | Posted Under Film Reviews | Comments (20)



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Andrew Jarecki’s Capturing the Friedmans (2003) is a stunning piece of documentary journalism that is particularly memorable for following through in its act of walking the tight rope of impartiality. Unlike Errol Morris’s equally wonderful The Thin Blue Line (1988), which combines noir, documentary, and dark comedy into a thought provoking and infuriating defense of convicted (yet innocent) murderer Randall Dale Adams, Jarecki’s film does not attempt to exonerate Arnold Friedman, a high school science teacher who gave computer lessons in his free time, of sexual child abuse. When the film begins we feel a gaze much like Morris’s; the Friedmans are an eccentric family: throughout the accusations, trial, and sentencing, one of Arnold’s children, birthday clown David Friedman, filmed the family. Jarecki’s documentary consists of interviews and David’s original footage. We begin the film, after discovering that federal officials were drawn to Arnold after monitoring his mail for an order of child pornography, thinking he is guilty: case closed. Yet, Jarecki uses the documentary form to make us realize that no matter how horrible the circumstantial evidence is, we can never really say for sure if Arnold Friedman harmed his computer lesson students.

After discovering Arnold’s child pornography collection, the police officers of Great Neck, New York began to track down his students, concerned that abuse had occurred in the classroom. During these interviews, some of Arnold’s students stated that their instructor played bizarre sex games with them. These accusations gradually snowball and we, again, find that Arnold Friedman may very well be guilty. Yet, shortly after establishing that Arnold is probably guilty, Jarecki allows doubt to begin seep into the edges of the frame. Contrary statements arise from the students. Some allege that the abuse occurred in front of the other students while other students speak at length at how great a teacher Arnold Friedman was. Secondly, there is no physical evidence of abuse. If a handful of children had been abused on a weekly basis, wouldn’t there be some sort of physical evidence? Also, why would the students keep coming back? Why wouldn’t one student say anything about it until the police knocked on their door? Third, Arnold’s family was present in the house during the lessons. None of the abuse was captured on David’s videotapes and no one noticed any screaming or yelling from the basement. His son Jesse is also accused of abuse and the two of them are put on trial.

Jarecki’s threads of doubt take the form not of lying, demonic children trying to lash out at an older man but of a city scared into a witch hunt after Arnold’s child pornography collection was discovered. The statements from some of the Great Neck residents are chilling and many of them are more than willing to make the leap from Arnold Friedman, child porn connoisseur, to Arnold and Jesse Friedman, child rapists. It’s fairly clear that Arnold has issues, but does that make him a rapist? As the trial ramps up, the Friedmans’s lawyer, Peter Panaro, encourages Arnold to plead guilty, hoping to spare Jesse from any prison time. Moreover, Panaro encouraged Jesse to both accuse his father of molestation and to also plead guilty, under the logic that the plea would bring leniency. This logic begins to shatter the family: the matriarch, Elaine, believes Arnold to be guilty of molestation while the children stand united against her, accusing the police and the city of railroading the two of them because of the taboo attached to the crime. When Arnold and Jesse are both sentenced to prison (Jesse would serve 13 years while Arnold would die in prison at his own hand, leaving Jesse a large life insurance benefit for his troubles), they quickly recant their confessions, lashing out at their lawyer.

Once again, Jarecki sows the seeds that Arnold may be guilty. Why would he confess with no physical evidence being offered against him, especially in the light of the contradictory statements being made by his students? Moreover, Friedman admitted later that at age 13 he had sex with his 8 year old brother, Harold. Between his possession of child pornography, plea, and later confession, even the lack of physical evidence begins to make the case against Arnold stronger and stronger. Yet, Harold admits that he cannot remember being raped by Arnold and offers nothing but glowing memories of the deceased Arnold. Jarecki never allows us to feel confident in reading Arnold either way. He certainly didn’t help himself when it came to his behavior preceding, during, and following the trial and sentencing, nor did Jesse (who is the only subject that Jarecki seems to want to exonerate, guilty because of association, a form of collateral damage).

I find Capturing the Friedmans, now on Netflix Watch Instantly, to be essential viewing, particularly in the light of the Casey Anthony trial. It’s a thought provoking account of the different evidence offered up in both legal proceedings and the media during a trial centered around a heinous act. Moreover, the film delves into the different guiding philosophies behind the prosecution and the defense of a criminal trial. Finally, it’s an account at how evidence functions in the documentary. Who do we give testimonial clout to? How does editing shape the way in which we perceive the documentary subject? The film functions perfectly on so many different levels (as a filmic train-wreck of an eccentric family, an investigation of the American legal system, a self-reflexive exercise in documentary filmmaking, and a critique of American mob mentality) that, despite the discomfort brought by the subject matter, it is endlessly watchable.









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Comments

I'm always excited to see a review by Drew and today, for the first time in a while, it's for a film I've actually seen. The movie made a deep impression on me. It was heartbreaking and beautifully constructed. There are so many different kinds of victims in the movie, including children, now grown, whose treatment at the hands of extraordinarily well-intentioned police has left them scarred and with recollections that may or may not be true.

Lesson learned: NEVER, NEVER, NEVER plead guilty to soemthing you did not do no matter what seeming benefit there might be.

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at July 22, 2011 9:13 AM

It's triumphant when the film reveals that the mother got remarried & moved to the Berkshires. That lady deserved some distance, fo really.

Posted by: the new transported man at July 22, 2011 9:48 AM

Just a point of clarification but it is possible, depending on the type of abuse, for there to be no physical evidence. Especially if the examination doesn't happen immediately after the offense.

Posted by: Cel at July 22, 2011 10:40 AM

My reaction to this film was that both parents came across as very dangerous people who definitely damaged all of their children, if not physically, certainly psychologically. Whatever did or didn't happen to the children in the class, I was far more interested in this as a study of really messed up family. No sympathy here for the mother: she damaged her sons just as much as the dad di in my reading of the film.

Posted by: PaddyDog at July 22, 2011 10:52 AM

This is one of those films that I saw once, am very glad I did, and will never watch again. But I would recommend it to most everyone. I especially love the title, as "capturing" the Friedman's is both the film's point, and as Drew's analysis reveals, is ultimately impossible to do -- fairly, anyway.

Good stuff, sir.

Posted by: RobP at July 22, 2011 11:32 AM

"To a jury, any doubt is reasonable"
David Simon, Homicide: A Year on the Killing Streets

Posted by: Blake Shrapnel at July 22, 2011 11:33 AM

I paid to see this movie when it came out. It's a good movie, but man, it's grim. You really are watching the destruction of a family.

Posted by: Slash at July 22, 2011 12:05 PM

"Moreover, Friedman admitted later that at age 13 he had sex with his 8 year old brother, Harold. Yet, Harold admits that he cannot remember being raped by Arnold and offers nothing but glowing memories of the deceased Arnold."

What I found fascinating in that moment in the documentary is the words Harold uses. He says something along the lines of "I don't remember anything violent happening."

I think Arnie saw what he did to his brother in the context of his (Arnie's) arc of sexual predation (there's also that revelation that Arnie did molest a young boy during a family vacation); Harold, though, may not have characterized any sex-play between the two of them when they were children the same way. If Harold is searching his memory for sexual violence, he isn't finding it.

Posted by: Mike B. at July 22, 2011 12:36 PM

God, this movie was compelling and creepy. My heart broke for his sons, who were so damaged. And, of course, for his wife.

I think the dude was was a pedophile and a predator. The family vacation story is pretty damning, as was his confession that he raped his 8-year-old brother. All of this plus a huge child porn collection?

" If a handful of children had been abused on a weekly basis, wouldn’t there be some sort of physical evidence? Also, why would the students keep coming back? Why wouldn’t one student say anything about it until the police knocked on their door?"

Well, I don't know: the Catholic church (of which I'm a practicing member, so I'm not demonizing here) managed to keep kids silent for decades. It was a different time and he probably selected kids he thought were more vulnerable.

Posted by: samantha t at July 22, 2011 2:23 PM

‘Capturing The Friedmans’ has stayed with me since first watching it in 2003. I was so totally engrossed in this film that it was hard to believe what I was seeing and hearing even as it unfolded before my eyes- the wife is eerily distant and uncomprehending of the reality surrounding her; the sons are emotional and unwilling to consider their father Arnold‘s possible guilt, much less able to articulate the actual crimes he’s being charged with and genuinely mortified that their mother thinks he is indeed guilty; and David Friedman, the one videotaping, or ‘capturing’, this surreal nightmare (and some of the most bizarre family dinners you’re ever likely to see) is himself a volatile and explosive person who, amazingly, makes a living as a very popular clown for children’s parties, a singular case study of anger management deserving of his own analysis. All of this is too wild for even the most far-fetched sitcom writer to conceive of, and I was left in stunned disbelief after the experience, a reaction that is nearly identical for me upon each subsequent viewing.

Although this film makes it impossible to fashion one concrete opinion on Arnold Friedman’s guilt or innocence, his quirky personality and stunted emotional makeup works wholly against him, making his curious reactions and non-committal attempt at self-defense a sickly and destructive mechanism that engulfs the entire family. Upon sizing up this developmentally arrested little man, it’s easy to see how his child pornography ‘addiction’ could be exploited and attributed to the most extreme deviant and/or sexually perverse crimes; however, this same uncommitted and tortured personality is virtually impossible to imagine as being the least bit effective in controlling or successfully abusing even the youngest mind. Arnold’s own unformed and malleable disposition was enough to garner his ‘confession’ regardless of how heinous, or wrongly attributed the charges leveled against him could be. Arnold most likely never touched a single one of his students; however, his own sense of guilt compelled him to accept any accusation of sexual criminality whether he directly engaged in such or not- in his mind, he was just as guilty of the sex crimes he was charged with even if he didn’t actually commit them. Taking his own life was his acknowledgment that he was a worthless individual incapable of ever forgiving himself, much less expecting anyone else to.

It’s an amazing movie whatever one's personal opinion may be.

Posted by: GMan at July 22, 2011 2:56 PM

And this is why watching movies 'On demand' or stream,ed online is a fucking hilarious bunch of shit and anyone who watches movies in this way is a fucking retard mongloid. This movie can only be watched on DVD where one can look at the deleted scenes and listen to the commentary track which puts an entirely new point of view/perspective/light on the entire matter.

The result is that it was all the fault of the Jews and Jewesses.

Posted by: Mr. Pancake at July 22, 2011 4:18 PM

WTF? Bullshit. If you NEED the commentary and deleted scenes to understand the movie completely, then it's a BAD movie. If they enhance the experience, great. But it shouldn't be required or else that's the damn movie that should have been made.

It's like saying you have to read all the reviews and interviews with the author before you have any hope of understanding a book.

Posted by: Wednesday at July 22, 2011 5:40 PM

Watched this recently, and I agree completely with Samantha t. I have little to no doubt that Arnold is guilty, and the nail in the coffin was the story that their lawyer told towards the end of the film.

The lawyer said he went to visit Arnold in prison, and nearby was a little boy sitting on his father's lap. The lawyer claimed that Arnold leaned in to him and made a comment, something to the effect of 'God, I can't concentrate watching that, I am so turned on.'

That revolted me to my core, and the only way it is not true is if the lawyer, having already spared Jesse of guilt, decided to make it up in order to throw one last piece in there to ensure the audience of this film believed fully in Arnold's guilt.

I believe its much more likely that Arnold is a sick, perverted creep.

Posted by: Jim at July 22, 2011 5:41 PM

Ooooo, I've seen that this is on Netflix and have wondered if it's worth it, but now I'm watching it TONIGHT. Thanks, Drew!

Posted by: Snuggiepants at July 22, 2011 7:39 PM

It's Silly Billy!

Posted by: Lucas at July 23, 2011 2:28 AM

Wednesday, Y'know, I'd really advise you to stop posting and walk in front of a runaway bus, because your complete and utter ignorance is shaming and embarrassing your family. Commnetary tracks on documentaries are necessary listening because they often tell you precisely how biased the filmmakers were and this is the case with the Friedman film. But you are too busy jacking off to infant snuff porn to bother as you and you alone know that the 'truth' is to be found by only watching the documentary itself and none of the added features. You alos take everything FAUXNews barfs out as gospel truth right?

Fucking 'tard.

Posted by: Mr. Pancake at July 23, 2011 12:31 PM

dude, can someone PLEASE get rid of the troll? seriously.

Posted by: MizB at July 23, 2011 10:09 PM

Wow, I just thought I was on an IMDB site where uncivilized folks attack other posters personally.

Pancake called Wednesday

stupid
a child molesting masturbator
mentally handicapped
a shameful family embarrassment
a political conservative
and a potential suicide

all in one poisonous diatribe of a paragraph. Would someone please escort Mr. Pancake to the door and direct him back to a site where this type of verbal intercourse is the norm. I moved here to get away from that boorish behavior.

Posted by: kirbyjay at July 23, 2011 11:54 PM

"Arnold most likely never touched a single one of his students; however, his own sense of guilt compelled him to accept any accusation of sexual criminality whether he directly engaged in such or not- in his mind, he was just as guilty of the sex crimes he was charged with even if he didn’t actually commit them. Taking his own life was his acknowledgment that he was a worthless individual incapable of ever forgiving himself, much less expecting anyone else to."

Like Jim, I was quite convinced of Arnold's guilt. I don't think he thought of himself as worthless at all - I think he genuinely felt no remorse and had no filter. I think it's far more likely that he was a predator than that a bunch of his students were straight-up lying about him. Some of the stories may have been far-fetched, but that doesn't mean zero of them were true.

Posted by: Samantha T at July 24, 2011 4:52 PM

I haven't seen the film in a while but what struck me at the time was David F.'s hatred towards his mother. She was the only family member willing to consider Arnold's guilt and she paid full price for it. As the filmakers themselves indicate (I think in the interviews section)- this isn't a case of whether Arnold was a child molester (he was) - it was a case of which child or children he molested. (Arnold admitted to 'seducing' one (aside from his brother) who wasn't a student and the question is whether there were more).

Posted by: Legion at July 24, 2011 11:57 PM