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Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott

By Diana | Posted Under Book Reviews | Comments (18)



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Reading this book is as though one were sitting through a writing class with Anne Lamott. I’ve never read her work, but I’m inspired to do so. Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life is not so much a how-to book as it is a book of advice.

Lamott fills her book with wry observations and witty remarks from her own experiences. Again and again she cautions a writer from focusing on publication as the end goal. With chapters titled “Shitty First Drafts,” “False Starts,” “Broccoli,” and “Radio Station KFKD” you know this isn’t a dry writing manual. The idea that shitty first drafts are OK or to even be expected and celebrated is a liberating thought.

“I know some very great writers, writers you love who write beautifully and have made a great deal of money, and not one of them sits down routinely feeling wildly enthusiastic and confident. Not one of them writes elegant first drafts. All right, one of them does, but we do not like her very much. We do not think that she has a rich inner life or that God likes her or can even stand her. (Although when I mentioned this to my priest friend Tom, he said you can safely assume you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do.)”

Lamott’s advice to those who don’t know where to start is to start with their childhoods. She says to write down all your memories as truthfully as you can. “Remember that you own what happened to you.” This advice resounded strongly with me for I had once tried to practice a similar exercise regularly. The purpose was to pick emotionally charged moments in my life and write short sketches. It’s a practice I should pick up again.

I was reading this book on a plane, and I couldn’t stop the laughs that escaped my lips. She has an unexpectedly funny style of writing. Anne Lamott writes to you as a friend. A friend you could meet for drinks. A friend who will tell you what you need to know. A friend who reminds you to enjoy the journey.

This review is part of the Cannonball Read series. For more of Diana’s reviews, check out her blog Badinage.









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Comments

That's funny, I had a class last semester that used this book as a guide, and it was really, really helpful.

Posted by: ChristianH at April 29, 2010 8:57 AM

I teach a fiction writing course for high school kids and use this book. I have always loved it and I'm hoping that the kids do too.

Posted by: Melina at April 29, 2010 9:07 AM

" . . .you can safely assume you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do."

I love that quote.

I may have to get this book just to find out what the chapter on Broccoli is about. Whenever I eat broccoli I have halugenogic dreams. I call them broccoli dreams. I'm serious. Even darling husband has noticed the connection.

Posted by: BWeaves at April 29, 2010 9:12 AM

I love Anne Lamott but I haven't read this one--which is crazy since I have writing pretensions of my own. She's so honest, but in a good way--not like one of those obnoxiously honest people who are only honest enough to piss you off.

Posted by: lainiefig at April 29, 2010 10:14 AM

I agree; I really enjoyed Anne Lamott's Bird by Bird and keep a copy near my desk.

I really like Stephen King's On Writing, too.

Posted by: VClark at April 29, 2010 10:26 AM

I read this for a Creative Writing class. Even though I ended up hating the class, I liked this book so much that I still gave it seven years later.

Posted by: (Not so) Blonde Savant at April 29, 2010 10:26 AM

Ooooh. I used to want to be a writer, and one of my goals for this year is to do that "Write a novel in a month" challenge. This book sounds like it could be really helpful for that purpose.

Posted by: SaBrina at April 29, 2010 11:37 AM

I agree this is a good book. I even recommended it to my mother. She enjoyed it too.

Posted by: DarthCorleone at April 29, 2010 11:46 AM

It's really true -- the first draft is ALWAYS shitty. It's your dedication to poking at it and fixing it afterwards that turns it into the good stuff. Or at least adequate stuff.

SaBrina-- I've done National Novel Writing Month every year since 2004, and I reached 50,000 words every time except for 2007, which is when I had a newborn... still made myself reach 25,000 that year though.

Doing that challenge in a month really helped get that shitty first draft (or even part of one when the story is more than 50k) out faster, without giving myself time to worry about how good it was. The good comes later, the best you can hope for first time out is that you have a few glimmers of hope.

Posted by: Sara at April 29, 2010 12:09 PM

I love this book so much! I think her non-fiction is better than her fiction overall - this particular book is so inspiring as well as entertaining. I don't write as much as I used to, but I remember how much freer, looser, and better my work was after reading this book and taking her advice to heart.

Posted by: Chickaboom at April 29, 2010 12:35 PM

Her book Travelling Mercies: Some Thoughts On Faith, the chapter about the "Aunties"... Seriously some of the funniest and most honest stuff I have ever read.

I prefer her non-fiction to her novels though.

Posted by: Janey at April 29, 2010 12:58 PM

Chuck Jones, in his autobiography, stated that his drawing instructors said that, "Each of you has 10,000 bad drawings in you. it's time to get them all out."

In this, I think there's a similarity - every writer has thousands of bad sentences or paragraphs, and it all needs to come out those first drafts.

Posted by: idiosynchronic at April 29, 2010 4:20 PM

I have read this book four times. The pages are dogeared and the spine all flaky paper.

This book helps me pick up my pen again and again. I have never been published and have pretty much given up hope on writing anything of significance, but it inspires me to express myself in a way that no other form helps me to do.

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