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"Men of a Certain Age" Review: The Best Drama on TV Right Now is a Show You Never Even Thought About Watching

By Dustin Rowles | Posted Under TV Reviews | Comments (22)



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“Men of a Certain Age,” which is nearing the end of its second season on TNT, is a dramatic enigma. The stars of the television drama — Ray Romano, Scott Bakula, and Andre Braugher — are not unlike the other kinds of leading men you’d expect to see on a TNT series, but “Men of a Certain Age,” to its credit, doesn’t fit into TNT mold. It’s a mature, languidly paced program more about themes and character than about plot, and it’s probably for that reason that the show had shed half its viewers since it debuted in 2009. Regular TNT viewers might have expected Wild Hogs with the guy from “Everybody Loves Raymond” and “Quantum Leap.” What it’s become is a rich examination of middle-aged malaise, a realistic and intimate portrait of three men dealing with life in their late 40s.

The show was created by Ray Ramono and Mike Royce — who had worked together on “Everybody Loves Raymond” — and while Scott Bakula is his typical easy-going laid back charming self and Braugher every bit as good as his Emmy-winning career would suggest, it’s Ramono himself who is the surprisingly warm center of the show. In “Raymond,” he’d always struck me as the family-sitcom version of Jerry Seinfeld, a reasonably amusing guy that surrounded himself with much better actors. But Romano blossoms in “Men” as a slightly neurotic party store owner trying to cope in the aftermath of a divorce while dealing with a lingering gambling problem. The first season touched upon that addiction in a fairly straightforward manner, but in the second season — as we see him struggling to find ways to fill the lack — we find out how much that addiction truly has a hold over him. It starts with small mind bets — promises he makes to himself if he does or does not fulfill certain tasks — which are like the small tastes of non-alcoholic beer that lead a man back to alcoholism. The character has been so richly drawn and superbly acted over two seasons now that Romano’s Joe is a hard character not to root for, even as he teeters on the edge of disaster, a disaster that would further fracture his relationship with his two teen-aged children

Scott Bakula’s Terry is dealing with his middle-aged crisis in reverse: After a life as a struggling actor, sleeping with women half his age, Terry is seeking stability and companionship. He settles in as a car salesman for Owen (Braugher) and, over the course of the second season, has fallen in love with a woman his own age, a former actress turned teacher. Commitment is new to Terry, and there’s some novelty to watching him jump through some of the typical tropes of relationship dramas as a 50-year-old man. I’m happy to report, too, that 20 years after “Quantum Leap,” Bakula still has that familiar twinkle, and there’s something very appealing about a ladies’ man weighed down by earnest naivete.

Andre Braugher, along with the smart writing and the comfortable pacing, is nevertheless the chief reason to tune in to “Men of a Certain Age” each week. He’s simply outstanding as a married father of two, rooted in a stable relationship, dealing with the day-to-day running of the family car dealership he inherited from his father, a former NBA player and still a large presence in the car lot. Owen is an assured, self-confident person at home, but he turns into a weak pushover in the presence of his father, who he still (uncomfortably) calls “Daddy.” It’s been an absolute joy over two seasons to watch Owen mature, to bring some of that confidence at home into the workplace. Moreover, the drama’s A-plots often revolve around the dealership, which allows the show to bring in more colorful supporting characters.

Billed as a comedy, “Men of a Certain Age” is more of a drama with a light, somewhat amusing sensibility, much like “Parenthood” with a larger focus on friendship instead of family. It’s a show that rarely hits the big notes or wallows in the low — it levitates, floating through thematic complications with comfortable ease, gradually piling on the smaller conflicts, crescendoing to satisfying but never overcooked conclusions. “Men of a Certain Age” is warm and compelling, a show that embraces middle age as much as it fears it. Now with “Game of Thrones” on hiatus, “Men” is also the best drama running right now.










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Comments

I absolutely love this show! Of course the fact that I happen to be one of those "men of a certain age" probably helps. But aside from that it just has the right rhythm. Oh and a great observation about Owen calling his father "daddy." I cringe everytime he does that.

Posted by: TheBlackMenace at June 27, 2011 12:47 PM

Scott Bakula = the TV nondescript equivalent of Bill Pullman.

No, thank you.

/Worst. Captain. Ever.

Posted by: BarbadoSlim at June 27, 2011 12:50 PM

I haven't seen this show so it may be irrelevant in this context, but in many places (such as where I grew up), "Daddy" is what we call our fathers and there's nothing unusual or creepy about a grown man using the term in that context. It's just the same as dad or papa or father, depending on ones culture.

Posted by: PaddyDog at June 27, 2011 12:55 PM

PaddyDog, I once met a famous actor/musician while working at his dad's office. This guy was in his 40s and his father was in his 70s or so. Still, it kind of tripped me when I heard him call his father "daddy". Had he said "Dad" or "Father" I would have thought nothing of it. "Daddy" has such a childish connotation.

Posted by: Fredo at June 27, 2011 1:03 PM

I never cared for Ray Romano or Scott Bakula until this show; Andre Braugher has always been genius. I love seeing an entire show from the dudes' points of view and the unique friendship between a group of older guys.

Posted by: Cindy at June 27, 2011 1:03 PM

Fredo: I think it's all cultural. "Daddy" may have childish connotations to people who didn't grow up with it as the norm but to others it's fine. When I moved here I couldn't believe how people in shops would address me as "ma'am", it seemed so obsequious and insincere, but I've come to accept that culturally that's how female customers are addressed here.

Posted by: PaddyDog at June 27, 2011 1:08 PM

Ray Romano...

NO.

Posted by: logan at June 27, 2011 1:30 PM

Nearing the end of the season? It just started!

Posted by: Bob Collins at June 27, 2011 2:02 PM

We love this show and, until Breaking Bad comes back in a couple of weeks, it is the best show on TV. Besides, you can watch it without me constantly saying, "I hate Terry's hair" and listening to Mr. Julien say, "Joe, whaaat are you doooooing?".

We were in after the episode where the guys started arguing over how old Joe was, including Joe. They asked Owen's wife to be sure, "Honey, how old is Joe?" "48".

I blanch every time Owen calls his father "Daddy" and, for the purposes of the show, we are meant to: Owen is trying to create his own place in the world without having to overtly defy his overbearing father.

Give it a go. It's really good. And it has Andre Braugher. How can you go wrong with that?

(I know I blither frequently on threads, but I want to formally acknowledge that this was a particularly lacklustre entry.)

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at June 27, 2011 2:02 PM

Ok, I've at least thought about watching this show. Doesn't mean I actually have.

Re: "Daddy" issues - my mom calls her father "Father". My aunt calls him "Poppa", which seems ridiculous and childish to me. It seems all the more ridiculous and childish because my mom and aunt had shitty childhoods, don't particularly like their father, or feel love-y and family-ish towards him. Especially my aunt. Which is why it seems so *ridiculous* that she insists on calling him Poppa.

But yeah, it's a cultural thing.

Posted by: MM at June 27, 2011 3:15 PM

Mrs Julien, I hereby formally absolve you of your lacklustre blithering solely because you have the brass candlesticks to describe it that way. Not enough people use the word "blither," when, clearly, it is all around us.

Posted by: Salieri2 at June 27, 2011 4:00 PM

Is this an American remake of the British show "Manchild?"

Posted by: BWeaves at June 27, 2011 4:22 PM

@Mrs. Julien - I read this headline and thought, 'better than Breaking Bad? I don't THINK so' (I get really haughty when talking to myself). I heard Ray Romano and promptly dismissed it, but seeing that you're a BB fan and a MoaCA fan, maybe it's worth a shot? I just mainlained all three seasons of BB in the last two weeks and goddam is that show fantastic. It's hard to imagine that this could compare, but I'll have to check it out.

Posted by: Nicole at June 27, 2011 4:28 PM

BREAKING BAD SPOILERISH

Nicole We just blasted through BB too. It was very smart of AMC to do those back-to-back episodes. They nearly lost me with the ATM episode (I had to leave the room) but I'm so glad I came back and they found a way to temper the darkness. We finished season three Saturday night. I keep randomly saying things to Mr. Julien like, "What on earth is Hank going to do? Sh*t I mean Walt. What is Walt going to do? Why can't I get that straight? Don't you just love Gus? Giancarlo Esposito is always good and it's nice to see that guy who plays Mike get a bigger role for a change. Gus could kill his whole family. He's probably planning it. What was Walt thinking? Is he going to work for the competition? This whole show is a meditation on pride, don't you think? It's Walt's pride that got them into this mess and now it's just wall-to-wall hubris. I'm not sure I buy the "miracle meth chef" thing. It's meth, it's not like other people couldn't figure out how he does it. I think Jesse moved the gun before he shot it. I don't buy Skylar staying. She's got two kids. One a miraculously continuously babysat newborn. Remember when Little Julien was that small? It's a 24/7 job. Why was Skylar able to be at the hospital so much for Hank? I love Hank. He's my favourite character..."

You might be haughty when you talk to yourself, but I maunder right along as always. I say "talking to myself" because about a 1/3 of the way into the above prattling, Mr. Julien realises life is finite and walks away.

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at June 27, 2011 4:55 PM

Bweaves took my question. But it sounds less allaboutmeeeeeeeeee! than Manchild, which I rather enjoyed, mainly because no one comes off good, despite the glib narration.

Posted by: Agogagogo at June 27, 2011 5:08 PM

I might catch a few eps because I love Andre Braugher.

But Ray Romano is on my "Actors That I Hate Unreasonably" list.

Posted by: greer at June 27, 2011 7:50 PM

Mrs. Julien, all of those questions have been going through my head too, although I read an interview with the showrunner and he seemed to definitively answer the 'did Jesse shoot Gale' question. I don't know if I should say what he said for the sake of not spoiling, but I'm going with his answer. He seemed to be of the mind that they didn't intend it to be unclear one way or the other.

ANYWAY, I also make the Hank/Walter mistake, I also LOVE Gus Fring, and Mike the Cleaner, and Hank. I have no clue what Walter is planning - I felt like it was a last-ditch effort to buy himself some time and hopefully come up with a plan, but who knows? One thing the show is great at is subverting expectations. There have been so many times where I've thought "well, now they're totally fucked" and lo and behold, they manage to win. I just really really REALLY don't want them to kill Walt Jr. as some kind of punishment because that is a sadness that I don't think I could bear. When is July 17th already???

Posted by: Nicole at June 27, 2011 9:04 PM

Too. Close. To. Home.

Posted by: James S at June 27, 2011 9:33 PM

Because every time I see Ray Romano, I think back to his sitcom with that bitchy shrieking wife and how that pussy should have balled up his fist broken that harpy's jaw just once instead of taking her crap.

Don't get me started on Captain Archer...

Posted by: Mr. Stitch at June 27, 2011 10:20 PM

TNT is showing all the episodes at their website.

Posted by: Donnie Brasco at June 28, 2011 12:32 AM

Interesting Mr. Stitch. I spent a lot of my time watching Raymond and saying, "Why doesn't she divorce him? He's useless and counterproductive."

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at June 28, 2011 8:02 AM

Lisa Gay Hamilton is quite excellent as Andre Braugher's wife.

Posted by: hattie at June 28, 2011 9:44 AM