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"How I Met Your Mother" Finale Recap: Why Didn't They Just Rick Roll Us? At Least It's Slightly Less Dated than "Psyche!"

By Dustin Rowles | Posted Under TV Reviews | Comments (31)



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[Spoilers Abound, although What’s Being Spoiled is Nothing]

Did Carter Bays and Craig Thomas really drop a Psyche bomb on us last night? Did they guide us all onto the red carpet only to pull it out from beneath us? It’s not that I care, at this point, who Ted’s future wife will be. Until there’s an announcement that “HIMYM’s” run is definitively ending, I don’t expect it. But last night’s episode, which had its sweet and funny moments — all thanks to Marshall and Lily — was both cruel and frustrating. Not only did it tease us with the potential identity of the mother of Ted’s parents, it created an entirely new mystery: “How Barney Met His Wife.”

But let’s back up, and examine the entire season. Per “HIMYM” tradition, season six was fitful, alternating between great and mediocre episodes, which was at least an improvement over season five, which alternated between mediocre and bad episodes. The best thing they did all season was to introduce Zooey. Not because Zooey was a great character, but because Zooey’s obnoxiousness steered focus away from Ted. For the first time in at least two seasons, I cared about Ted again. Ted had an arc. He wasn’t just jumping in and out of relationships or in and out of bed with Robin. He had an antagonist, even if that antogonist was his girlfriend. And pressing that button to knock down the Arcadian was the culmination of Ted’s growing maturity, if not in relationships, at least in his career. He put aside youthful idealism and accomplished something practical. He also extricated himself from a relationship doomed from the beginning.

But that “Pysche” moment, well, that was just uncalled for. It added nothing to the story, and it burned a lot of long-time “HIMYM” fans in an episode — the season finale — when Carter Bays and Craig Thomas should be building goodwill toward next season instead of taking a dump on our chests. Uncool.

Marshall and Lily, on the other hand, provided the best reason to watch “HIMYM,” as they always seem to do. Everything about their arc was handled perfectly — as though there were separate writers responsible for their storyline. They consistently blended the show’s funniest side-plot with heaping doses of sweetness and, at one point, one of the saddest episodes of a sitcom in the history of television, the episode that elicited a million ugly cry faces (I choose to forget the cruelty of the Countdown Clock in that episode, which was almost as carelessly flip as the “Psyche” moment in last night’s finale). And in the season finale, Marshall and Lily once again captured the whiplash poignancy that’s made their arc such a wonder to watch: After 20 minutes of diversionary velociraptor yacking (it worked as a good smokescreen for 10 of those minutes), they hit us with Lily’s pregnancy, another in a long line of sweet moments between Lily and Marshall.

But what about Barney? Barney actually did display a great deal of emotional growth this season, particularly after meeting his father and realizing that he no longer enjoys being himself. The episode when Barney couldn’t bring himself to go inside and meet Nora’s parents was the second best of the season, and they brought it full circle last night when Barney made an overture toward Nora again. But not before seemingly rekindling those feelings for Robin again. (Poor Courtney, tortured once again, when Robin said to Barney, “The future is scary, but you can’t run back to the past just because it’s familiar.” (My imagined Courtney reaction: Yesyoucanyesyoucanyesyoucanmawfuckersyesyoucan followed by 20 minutes of literal hair pulling and subsequent realization that the bald spots won’t fill in before her own wedding).

And what was the big reveal? That the wedding where Ted serves as best man, and where he will meet his wife, is that of Barney’s. Who is he marrying? Robin? Nora? A guy? Someone else completely? That’s now the second mystery that Carter Bays and Craig Thomas have layered onto the premise, another mystery that will undoubtedly carry us through the next two seasons. I expect that next year’s finale will reveal the identity of Barney’s bride-to-be, and the final season will take us through their courtship, leading into the final reveal.

It’d best be damn good.










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Comments

Just for a moment imagine me as someone who things that the central message of Buddhism is everyman for himself, you have worn dresses with higher IQs, and that you have known sheep that could out wit me (all of which might actually be true):

DISAPPOINTED!

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at May 17, 2011 11:47 AM

All the mistakes in my preceding drivel: Method Scathing!

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at May 17, 2011 11:50 AM

I enjoyed the finale, there were some laugh out loud parts, but like the season, it was up/down to the point of... well, yeah, whiplash. Better than last season, though. Fo'sho.

As to this...

But that “Pysche” moment, well, that was just uncalled for. It added nothing to the story, and it burned a lot of long-time “HIMYM” fans in an episode — the season finale — when Carter Bays and Craig Thomas should be building goodwill toward next season instead of taking a dump on our chests. Uncool.

I agree, to a point. Bob Saget told us at the beginning of the season that Ted would meet his wife at that wedding. So, if any fan thought that adorable blonde who got the flowers instead of Zoe was actually going to be the Mother... Well, you deserved the "psyche!" It was still lame, sure, but -- C'mon.

I had long come to the conclusion that it would be Barney's wedding, and that the Mother is actually Barney's half-sister. I'm putting 2:1 odds that the Wife is Robin, and 10:1 odds that it's Nora. For the latter, it would be a green card wedding; for the former, it could be that (and that could, would, should) lead to something more substantial, or Barney and Robin just do it because gorramit, they should just do it. "Uncle" Barney and "Aunt" Robin are actually Ted's kids' Uncle Barney and Aunt Robin.

I think I got off on a tangent... Basically, what I really wanted to say was, Barney's story (also Marshall and Lily) has now made me patient for the conclusion of Ted's story, and I'm fairly certain that was Carter/Bay's goal. Also, where's NPH's Emmy?

Posted by: RobP at May 17, 2011 11:53 AM

And by "Carter/Bay's" clearly I meant "Bays/Thomas." I'm sorry, sort of, but dude has to know his name is fake, right?

Hey, Mrs. J, high five for being too excited to post about this episode, for good or ill, mistakes be damned?

Posted by: RobP at May 17, 2011 11:57 AM

Wow. This show is still on?

Posted by: Raoul Duke at May 17, 2011 12:05 PM

Psyche! was annoying, but it's just the kind of thing your dad would do when telling you a story. Parents like to try and use the hip cool kid lingo but end up using the phrases that went out of style years before.

Posted by: pxilated at May 17, 2011 12:06 PM

I liked this season a lot less than you did, Dustin. Most episodes, for me, were just so-so, and I'm sure I'd be able to count all laugh out loud moments on just one hand (though Robin and Lily's experience with absinth did crack me up). At this point I'd prefer them to just introduce the mother and then introduce additional mysteries -- such as who Barney's dad is, or who Barney is going to marry (which, by the way, is completely ridiculous. Barney marrying before Ted? Or at all? Puh-lease!) -- instead of milking it for all it's worth, and it's become obnoxious and overwrought.

And as soon as Lily started throwing up, I knew she was pregnant. WAY too obvious.

Posted by: Thijs at May 17, 2011 12:15 PM

I thought the episode was lame:

There were no big laughs, although the cat in the restaurant was a nice sight gag.

I guessed Lily was pregnant the moment she sniffled.

I like Barney and Nora. Robin needs to marry Don.

I love the way they embrace Ted's fussines.

Does anyone else think Marshall and Lily's bed is bizarrely small? The man is a sasquatch (and therefore he is on alert for himself).

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at May 17, 2011 12:18 PM

So much hate for "Psyche", Dustin.

Posted by: James S at May 17, 2011 12:20 PM

I don't make a habit of watching HIMYM but I watched it last night because I'm friends with the actor who sneezed in the soup. That was awesome.
That's all I've got.

Posted by: JenVegas at May 17, 2011 12:35 PM

Before I begin my defense of the Psyche moment, I have to confess: I did omit a long, loud, guttural Fuuuuuuuuuuuck right after the Psyche Out. I had the same emotional response as Dustin.

However, later on, I realize that it wasn't a mean-spirited move on behalf of the writers. I think they were actually mocking themselves. I wonder if they realized the direction the show would take; instead of rooting for Ted, Marshall is the most beloved character, with Lily, Barney, and Robin tied for second. The show isn't about how Ted met his wife anymore; it's about watching how this group of young adults grow up. So that nod to the show's original premise was a reminder of where the show started and how far its come.

Or maybe it actually was a major asshole move.

Posted by: Ruthie at May 17, 2011 12:56 PM

They should have Robin Sparkles rolled us, that would have been amazing. Mediocre or not, I have been with this show from the start and I will see it through. It is a show that I turn to like comfort food, and though I wish they would hurry up the story already, I am still enjoying the ride.

Posted by: Alli at May 17, 2011 1:30 PM

Screw Nora. Barney should marry Robin. And Robin should be in her Robin Sparkles persona instead of a wedding dress

Posted by: Minto at May 17, 2011 2:19 PM

I will patiently explain this one more time.

The title of the show is How I Met Your Mother. Once Ted meets his kids' mother, the show is over. There will not be more episodes after that. We will meet the mother in the series finale, Bob Saget will say "And that, kids, is how I met your mother", and that's it.

I would be fine with next season being the last. It is getting pretty tired. The season arc should be all Barney/Robin/Nora triangle, ending with the wedding.

Posted by: Three-nineteen at May 17, 2011 2:19 PM

It's going to be a season-long guessing game over who becomes Mrs. Barney (it's Robin) culminating in finding out who the wife really is (it's Robin) and that's why the story started where it started (with Robin) because it's at her wedding that Ted meets Your Mother.

And if they dick with me, there will be hell to pay.

Posted by: Courtney at May 17, 2011 2:22 PM

C'mon, how can you hate the psyche-out?!? That was hilarious! Even better is the realization that instead of pulling the usual Ted move by going in and telling blondie who-ever the fuck that the old lady gave the flower to the wrong girl, he says "oh well" and lets her suffer being stood up. Good for you Ted.

I love that so many of you complain about Ted so often. I mean really, who gives a shit? Besides, Ted is narrating the story, so of course its about him. At least he isn't making himself out to be perfect or always having done the right thing. He's a flawed human being, and he allows his kids to see the true Ted. Could any of YOU do that?

As for the show, I still love it. Last week's episode was better, in fact, it was one of the best. The season in general was pretty good, and its not another dumb reality show, so quityerbichin'.

Posted by: EJ at May 17, 2011 2:30 PM

This is my first time reading anything on HIMYM on this site, so excuse me if I'm treading old ground here, but how can anybody like anything that Lily does in this show? Lily is probably my least liked character on any TV show. She has consistently betrayed Marshall: dumping him to go to San Fran, racking up huge amounts of debt without telling him, forcing him to take a job he doesn't want because of her huge amounts of debt, criticizing / undermining him because the job(which he took only because of her) is somehow not in the spirit of the man she fell in love with, and then almost running away again because he gets out of the job that he hates (and took only because of her) and doesn't find a new job right away.

I love Marshall, even though at times this season he has acted in ways that completely undermine what makes him such a likable character, namely that he would betray Ted and Barney (and the bar association's rules about conflict of interest) by becoming Zoey's lawyer. But there's always a part of me that can't respect him fully because he chooses to be with such a terrible person.

Anyways, just wanted to get in my two cents on what the biggest problem with the HIMYM universe is.

Posted by: Tyler at May 17, 2011 3:15 PM

What's the name of the show, again, Three-nineteen? I've been watching for six years now, and yeah, I always forget what it is. It's good to know there are people like you to remind us mouthbreathers who think a better story could be made my going slightly beyond the premise and allowing the audience to actually meet the Mother as a character before Bob Saget has the last line, but still also enjoy the show on its own merits just fine without needing the narrative to bend to our own will.

Thanks!

Posted by: RobP at May 17, 2011 3:29 PM

@Tyler: I think there are a couple of quibbles in your Lily analysis, but otherwise, sadly, it's spot-on. First, the job Marshall took to get them out of debt was not at GNB, that was the job that John Cho (Harold, Sulu, the bad guy from Better Luck Tomorrow) gave him, which he quit soon thereafter. The checks were huge. They got out of debt at that point. He took the job at GNB because he was out of work, and Barney convinced him that Lily needed "the finer things" in life. Even though Lily said that wasn't true, none of Lily's subsequent actions upheld that, and basically proved Barney right -- that's when her character started tailspinning. However, Marshall did take and keep the job at GNB (until this season) because he also liked the money, and working with his friends, so when Lily was angered by his quitting (despite always telling him he should be following his dreams, argh), she had a little more ground to stand on considering it wasn't her "fault" he was still there.

But, yeah, the rest of your critique is spot-on. I was ready to quit the show when she threatened to leave a second time; very glad they didn't do that. I hope this pregnancy brings back the funny Lily and not the manipulative, borderline sociopath Lily we've had since season four.

Posted by: RobP at May 17, 2011 3:37 PM

At least they dropped the Lily catch phrase. That was never going to catch on.

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at May 17, 2011 4:13 PM

I don't think it's Barney's wedding. I still think it's Ted's friend Punchy's wedding (where Ted is supposed to be the best man), and that that ending was somehow a trick. They didn't explicitly say that Barney was actually the groom.

Posted by: Elfrieda at May 17, 2011 4:28 PM

They finally found the poo, Mrs. J. It was coming from Lily's mouth.

Posted by: RobP at May 17, 2011 4:50 PM

Am I the only person alive who remembers Bob Saget saying that"Aunt Robin" married "Uncle Don"??????? SOMEBODY HELP MY BRAIN

Posted by: annie711pm at May 17, 2011 9:00 PM

I'm with you, Tyler. There were a few reasons a bailed on the show when I did: I realized that this was a premise I wasn't patient enough to wait out, I found the constant clamouring for coining catchphrases that would be adopted in the real world and the self-referencing to puff up viewer's egos was obnoxious. On a personal note, I really don't give a shit about who is dating whom or what married what and that applies to real life and all others.

But these were secondary compared that great yawning void that can't act for SHIT called Allyson Hannigan. It's not even that she's the worst character on the show, but she's the worst performer. Wakka-wakka-wakka, it's a SIT-COM! She just doesn't fit, it was watching someone drop Boots Randolph into The Passion Of Saint Joan. You're ruining everything, don't you know that? Once in a while I check in on the show on some forum to see what's happening, but after that Thanksgiving episode where Chris Elliot played her father and she Firestarter-ed her new enemies into oblivion, I knew there was no going back. Who keeps hiring this woman and what the hell (outside of physical attributes) do people see in her? I've already declared it's not talent, so that's gospel now, and don't try to de-narrow my mind.

Posted by: Jo 'Mama' Besser at May 17, 2011 10:11 PM

What is a 'Psyche!' moment? I'm not from the U.S. and have never heard of that.

You could as well say 'Wow, that was such a Flowerpot moment' or 'Phew, they totally pulled a Windowpane on us'.

What in God's name does that mean?!

Posted by: Trustiva at May 18, 2011 7:03 AM

Trustiva a Psych moment is basically a "gotcha" or "haha" moment. You're led down some kind of path and then find out it's a trick. The whole Rick Roll concept is one big Psych - where you think you're going to watch some cool video, and then it's Rick Astley's "Never Gonna Give You Up"

The link on my name is to an urban dictionary site that explains it pretty well.

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