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Standing in the kitchen of the empty home they once shared, Betty Francis admits to ex-husband Don Draper that in her new life, “things aren’t perfect.” She has finally left the house that was once the Draper residence, moving the children and husband Henry from Ossining to Rye, New York. But she knows the move — just as her divorce from Don and marriage to Henry — won’t solve her problems. “So, you’ll move again,” Don says, a cool assertion, though not said cruelly, that does more to belittle Betty than calm her anxiety. He might as well be talking about himself. Don is the constant chameleon, the ever-changing everyman who picks up and moves on when so forced. He can always find a way around his problems by creating new ones instead, and the enigma of his character — “Who is Don Draper?” is the question that opened Season Four — is what keeps us watching. But after four seasons, the fourth concluding Sunday with Episode 13, “Tomorrowland,” the joke is on the viewers. We know all about Draper’s past as Dick Whitman, and about all his indiscretions, fears and secrets. But we still can’t predict what he’ll do next, and last night’s jaw-dropping developments were incredible even for him. But for all we know, he’ll just pack up in Season Five and move again.

Don has a sick feeling in his stomach as “Tomorrowland” opens, which Faye attributes to nerves he has for meeting with the American Cancer Society board. Its members were intrigued by the stunt he pulled when Lucky Strike company American Tobacco ended its business with Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce — running a full-page ad in The New York Times declaring the agency would not longer work with tobacco companies, adding that he was tired of working with them anyway. It’s early in the morning, and Faye is leaving Don’s apartment to catch an early flight. He’s heading to California with his kids later, and she says she’ll call him when he gets back. Don says that he’ll miss her. At the big meeting, ACC board members tell Don that they believe strongly in preventing lung cancer by getting people to stop smoking, but they admit that targeting adults can be a lost cause. Don suggests they form a campaign to target teenagers, who like rebellion and adulthood, yes, but who also have sentimental sides. “They’re mourning for their childhood more than they’re anticipating their future,” he says, “because they don’t know it yet, but they don’t want to die.”

This meeting lands Don and the agency a second meeting. After Don and Pete tell Roger and Ken the news, they all turn to Ken and ask him to use his future father-in-law’s connection to one of the ACC board members to help the agency land Dow Chemical. Ken isn’t game, though, admitting he isn’t like Pete in how far he’ll go for work. Pete, in classic form, agrees that Ken isn’t like him, but Ken is firm in his stance that he won’t do anything to jeopardize his impending marriage. That’s his life; this is just work, he says, which Don considers. The agency is desperate for new business now that Lucky Strike is gone and other clients are dropping out. Money is tight, which means that even though Joan has been promoted to Director of Agency Operations, Lane tells her, the raise comes only in title, not in pay. “Well, it’s almost an honor,” Joan says as she goes back to pushing the mail cart.

Sally’s recent playdates with Glen prompted Betty to agree to move the family away from Ossining, and the house is almost all packed when Glen stops by to see Sally. Carla doesn’t think it wise at first, but then agrees to let Glen tell his friend goodbye. In Sally’s room, the two discuss visiting each other once Glen can drive, and Sally says she could write him letters. They hug goodbye. But as Glen heads out, Betty arrives and yells at him. Glen doesn’t run away like he did last time she confronted him, instead saying, “Just ‘cause you’re sad doesn’t mean everybody has to be.” Betty turns on Carla for letting Glen see Sally. “When did you decide that you’re her mother?” Betty asks her. “It was a mistake,” Carla says. “There’s no need for that talk.” Betty then feeds Carla the line that she’s considered about the traveling distance from where Carla lives to where the Francis’ are moving, and she thinks it’s best they find another housekeeper/nanny. She continues to be obnoxious to the point that Carla says, “You best stop talking now.” Betty doesn’t let Carla tell the children goodbye, and soon calls Don to tell him about the ordeal and that Carla won’t be able to travel with him and the children to California.

(Side note: Betty is still wearing those plaid pants and house dresses, looking more like a ’50s housewife than one in the mid-’60s. She once represented the height of fashion, but now she appears stuck in her old habits as the younger women of the day embrace trends of shorter dresses and skirts, as well as bolder makeup and hair-dos. Betty is outdated.)

Megan, Don’s secretary, is tasked with finding sitters who can help out Don while he’s in California, which he lets people think is a business trip mixed with vacation but is really a trip for him to settle his affairs with the (real) Draper estate now that Anna has died. Finding the potential solutions too complicated, Don invites Megan to join them instead. Thus begins a series of sun-kissed images of the beautiful (and 25) Megan tending to Sally, Bobby and Gene at the pool and in the hotel room, even teaching them songs to sing in French. “You said you didn’t have any experience,” Don tells her, “and you’re like Maria von Trapp.” Don takes Sally and Bobby with him to Anna Draper’s empty house so he can sign papers with Anna’s niece, Stephanie. Sally notices the tag on the wall where Don wrote “Dick + Anna ‘64.” She asks who Dick is, and after a pause Don says that he is Dick — “that’s my nickname sometimes.” When the children are out of earshot, Stephanie hands Don the engagement ring Anna received from the real Don Draper. Anna wanted him to have it, Stephanie insists. The three return to find Megan in the pool with Gene, and after first saying he wasn’t up for swimming, Don returns to the pool to offer a cannonball and play around. In the room later, he discusses Disneyland plans with the kids, circling places to visit on a park map. Megan stops by with a college friend to see if they need anything before they head out to dinner. Don watches her as he leaves, an almost sad look on his face. “What about Tomorrowland?” Bobby asks the others, still focusing on the map. “I don’t want to ride an elephant; I want to fly a jet.”

Henry is furious at Betty for firing Carla without consulting him. He learned about the incident because Carla called him, also informing him that Betty refused to write her a letter of recommendation. Betty had used the kids needing stability as her excuse for not moving for so long, Henry says to her. What kind of stability does it provide when she fires the nanny they have had since they were born? Betty says she wanted a fresh start. “There is no fresh start,” Henry says. “Lives carry on.” (Ah, an adult.) “Jesus, Henry, just once could you take my side?” Betty yells back. “No one’s ever on your side, Betty,” he answers.

In California, Don hears Megan return to her room and visits her under the pretense of going over the plans for the Disneyland visit. She’s no fool and invites him in, and looking at the stars from the balcony, they kiss. Megan wonders if their romance is a good idea, but they continue anyway. In bed early the next morning, Don appears lovestruck and Megan admits she had thought about this scenario immediately after Don suggested she travel with the family. She doesn’t know anything about him, he says, but she disagrees. “I know you have a good heart,” she says. “I know you’re always trying to be better.” “We all try,” he says. “We don’t always make it.” He wants reassurance, and receives it, that whatever their relationship is, it’s more than just a hook-up. The next day, Don looks almost startled to see Megan and his kids eating at a restaurant, looking like a family. Sally and Bobby quibble about something and Sally accidentally knocks over her milkshake. Don immediately yells “Great!” and his temper flares, but Megan is calm as she wipes up the spill and asks for more napkins. No use getting upset, she says, and Don looks amazed.

He’s still amazed that next morning, back in New York. He’s dressed and sitting on the edge of his bed as Megan sleeps, and when she wakes he tells her he couldn’t sleep because he kept thinking about her. “I don’t know what it is about you,” he says, “but I feel like myself when I’m with you, but the way I’ve always wanted to feel. Because I’m in love with you, Megan, and I think I have been for awhile.” Don pulls out Anna’s engagement ring. “When I saw you sleeping there, I thought, I couldn’t imagine not seeing you sleeping there every morning. Will you marry me?”

I’ll give you a moment to process that last part.

Megan is shocked and says it’s all happening so fast, but she soon says yes. “You have a ring — how long have you been thinking about this?” she asks excitedly as he slips it on her finger. Don says the ring has been in his family, then is a tad more truthful by saying it belonged to someone he cared about (someone who knew who he really is). Thinking about how much Megan doesn’t know about Don’s life hurts my head; most people are in the dark, and with Anna now gone, only Betty and Faye know that Don is actually Dick (though Pete knows part of the story). Don is all smiles at the office, though, as he tells his partners of his engagement. Roger doesn’t recognize Megan’s last name, but Joan smiles and lets the men know Don is referring to Megan. They offer their congratulations and invite Megan inside the office as they applaud.

Only Peggy shows shock as she and Ken stop by with account news. Throughout Don’s dalliances in California, Peggy has been working to land an account with Topaz pantyhose she learned about through Joyce and Joyce’s model friend, Carolyn. Carolyn was fired from a photo shoot for Topaz, as was the agency behind the campaign, and Peggy, Ken and Harry worked to secure a meeting with Topaz representatives. Peggy started throwing ideas out and immediately grabbed the reps’ attention, and they agreed to come on board — a $250,000-a-year boost for the struggling agency, and the first deal made since Lucky Strike left. Don is happy at the news, but Peggy steals a moment to shut his door and ask him about the engagement. Don tells her not to worry, that the relationship has been going on awhile. “She reminds me of you, she’s got the same spark,” Don tells Peggy. “I know she admires you just as much as I do.”

Peggy heads to Joan’s office and knocks on the already open door. “Whatever could be on your mind?” a smiling Joan says sarcastically, and the two discuss the ridiculousness of the situation. “He’ll probably make her a copywriter,” Joan says. “He won’t want to be married to his secretary.” Peggy wonders if that was what Don meant when he said Megan admires her, and then she goes on to complain that even though she just brought in the first account since Lucky Strike, it still doesn’t merit the excitement of getting married. Joan commiserates by telling Peggy she received a raise by title only. “If they poured champagne, it must have been while I was pushing the mail cart,” she says dryly, adding she learned a long time ago not to derive all her satisfaction from her job. “That’s bullshit,” Peggy says, and the two laugh.

Now it’s time for Don to tell Faye. He calls and says they need to talk, and he suggests getting coffee, but Faye says she’d rather just hear what it is now without going through the forced niceties of a coffee date. Don tells her he’s met someone else … and now they are engaged. “Are you kidding me?” she asks, already teary. Then, “Who is she?” “What’s the difference?” Don says. “I fell in love. I didn’t mean for this to happen, and you’ve been very important to me.” “So you’re not gonna put an ad in the New York Times saying you never liked me?” Faye responds. (Love her.) “Well,” she continues, “I hope you’re very happy. And I hope she knows you only like the beginnings of things.”

“And he’s smiling like a fool like he’s the first man who’s ever married his secretary,” a laughing Joan tells her husband, Greg, on the phone in Vietnam. Greg wants to know when Joan will share with her coworkers her own news — she’s pregnant. Ruh roh. I’m assuming she didn’t go through with the abortion after her tryst with Roger after all, and she’s telling Greg that the baby is his. Greg wants to see her growing belly, wondering why she isn’t showing in the pictures she sent. She would be if the baby were his and she’d gotten pregnant months earlier than she did. What’s Roger going to do and say when he finds out?

Don stops by the old house in Ossining to meet a realtor, and Betty is there with one last box. Don finds a bottle of wine he had hidden in a cupboard above the refrigerator, and the two share sips as they discuss their past in the house. This is when Betty reveals that her new life isn’t so perfect, and Don’s answer is simply that they can move again if they need another change. He tells her he’s engaged, and though shocked, Betty says she is happy for him. “It’s OK, Betty,” he says. “I don’t know why I’m surprised,” she replies. “Is she your secretary? I know she watched the kids in California.” Correct guess, Betty. She hands him her key and heads out the back of the house as he goes toward the front to meet the realtor. The bottle of wine and plastic cup they used remain on the kitchen counter. That night, as Megan sleeps alongside him, Don stares out the window at the night sky.

This season has been outstanding for its consistency of story and amped drama as well as comedy — 13 episodes that each made the viewer care for the characters. “Tomorrowland” was a fitting finale, albeit a confusing one, that ended almost two years from where Season Three left off. Where that season’s “Shut the Door. Have a Seat” showed many changes in the characters lives, those events were natural outcomes of choices made. Don’s engagement to Megan seems to defy comprehension at first. It happens so quickly and with a character I never suspected him to end up with that my hands were in the air and I wondered if the entire proposal were a dream sequence.

The rash decision makes sense considering Don’s tendency (and this episode’s theme) of jumping for a fresh start once his previous one shows signs of growing stale. What negates this proposition is how he clung to his marriage to Betty and moved on only when forced, and even then he took his sweet time crawling out from the hole he’d dug for himself. But now, so quickly moving from Faye to Megan — from the woman who can be his partner, who calls him on his shit, who truly knows him, to a much-younger woman he barely knows — he’s turning into the man he once brutally criticized for doing the same thing: Roger. Roger dumped his wife, Mona, to be with his young secretary, Jane, having fallen in love. Now, Don is repeating the trend, and while he was busy in California, Peggy was working on a holiday in New York and doing her best to save the company. And as a friend pointed out to me, she’s now becoming Don, the hardworking, go-to talent the agency can’t survive without. This season has all along played with the notions of the new guard replacing the old, and now that appears to be coming to fruition. Even Don can’t avoid the cycle of becoming just like his predecessors.

Perhaps Don feels trapped. If most of us really are destined to turn into our parents or mentors — to lose the ideals of youth and conform to society through age, not to mention being replaced in society by younger and hipper models of ourselves — and if there’s no such thing as a fresh start, why not just do what we like and hope for the best? Creator Matthew Weiner doesn’t seem to have left his characters many options. There’s middle ground out there, the “lives carry on” bit Henry mentioned. Don grew as the season developed — so close to actually carrying on with his life. I didn’t expect him to change course and turn into a clone of Roger. The ascension of Peggy is glorious, but is it now time for the fall of Don?

So, is Don really in love? Will his and Megan’s relationship last? Or, as my friend hoped, did Megan hit her head in the hotel pool and thus dream the entire engagement scenario? And what about Faye — she knows who Don is, about his desertion from the Army and stolen identity. She has the power to make his life miserable, not to mention she also has a “two-bit gangster” for a father. I don’t think we’ve seen the end of her. As for Henry, the longer he’s with Betty the more he seems to realize the mess he has gotten himself into by marrying her. Perhaps he’s learned there’s more to love in someone than a pretty face, but will he ever leave her? Or is he too honorable to turn his back on the new family? Will Glen make it out to Rye to visit Sally, and what will happen with Sally in general now that her mother continues to make her life miserable?

In his pitch to the American Cancer Society board, Don recommends they target teenagers and create images that put cigarettes in between them and their parents. But they hate their parents, a board member says, but Don replies that that is beside the point. They won’t be thinking about their parents; they’ll be thinking about themselves. It’s what they do. Don always knows how to target an audience, and an anti-smoking campaign (created by a smoker) aimed at teenagers is no exception. He’s just like them — always thinking of himself and longing for the innocence of childhood. He’s aware of his own mortality, though, but he’s either not ready or unable to grow up. He’ll leave that to do tomorrow.

Sarah Carlson has a front-row seat to the decline of the newspaper industry and lives in Alabama with her overly excitable Pembroke Welsh Corgi.









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Comments

While I agree that much of it felt like a dream (how does Don Draper who never pays any attention to his children suddenly morph into super fun Dad), I don't think his engagement to Megan is unexpected or incomprehensible. She's a young pretty woman who thinks he's wonderful. She doesn't know about any of his shit and she is sweet to the children. That's what Don wants. He doesn't want some woman who'll be his equal or actually challenge him on anything.

Posted by: PaddyDog at October 18, 2010 1:14 PM

I think the real turning point for Don with Megan was the milkshake incident. He wasn't getting upset with the kids for spilling the milkshake because he gives a shit about the milkshake; Don can get angry with his kids when they're irresponsible or do something nutty like any parent, but he's not the sort to freak out over a simple accident on his own.

That was Don being ready for what he expected, namely the standard Betty explosion as her children yet again failed to be one hundred percent perfect little angels. When Megan acted like a human being, Don suddenly realized "hey, there's another way someone can be a mother without going totally bitchcakes all the time," and that was what sealed the deal for him.

Posted by: mightygodking at October 18, 2010 1:17 PM

When Joan's bump was visible in the scene with Lane, I thought, "So that's why she was on the bus. She was going to see her husband to pretend to get pregnant." It didn't make sense that she was on a bus and not a commuter train at the end of the abortion episode.

Don has been turning into Roger for a while now: sleeping with his secretary, kissing Joan at the Cleos, an ever greater sense of entitlement at the firm. I wasn't one bit surprised about the engagement to Megan. It was a foregone conclusion once she was nice to Sally. The engagement ring was blatant foreshadwoing. I think Don chose the easy way out for himself emotionally and really the best way out for his children; She will be a great stepmother. I also think that in his own way, he was moving forward with is life. He closed down the real Mrs. Draper's house and moved on. I thought the cannon ball into the pool showed his choice to simply be happy. Misguided, but well-intentioned. How bizarre was it to see him so genuinely happy? He was glowing.

I was thinking of PaddyDog's (it is you right?) annoyance with Peggy when she was complaining about she "saved the agency". Annoying? Yes, but it did fit in thematically with the season.

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at October 18, 2010 1:19 PM

From the moment Megan comforted Sally, I had a feeling that this was going to happen. Faye was just too competent for Don. But, I think he underestimates Megan, and she's going to turn out to be more than a Maria von Trapp/Betty Redux he can stick out in the suburbs. He wants to catch interesting women and then turn them into June Cleaver. Doomed doomed doomed to failure.

I'm loving Henry. He really is one of the few adults on this show.

Posted by: Wednesday at October 18, 2010 1:22 PM

Perhaps Don feels trapped.

I think they've gone beyond trapped (as you made the point, rightly, that the Don becomes Roger just as Peggy is becoming Don) and moved on to condemned. And I loved the "Groundhog Day" echo of using "I Got You, Babe" at the end of the episode.

Thanks for the great recaps, Sarah!

Posted by: sansho1 at October 18, 2010 1:24 PM

Thank you Sarah for getting the recap up so quickly and all your work this season.

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at October 18, 2010 1:24 PM

Art direction sidebar: I know they have tried to show that Don might be a little dated, or falling behind the youth culture, but although he may not be hip he still looks insanely cool. When they show him smoking, I turn to my beloved Mr. Julien and quote Chandler Bing, "Smoking is cool and you know it."

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at October 18, 2010 1:31 PM

Yes, Mrs. Julien: I am the head of the Peggy Hate Club. I actually don't mind her in small doses like last night's ep. But when she dominates the storyline, I want to kill her.

I'm torn about Henry. He is clearly the only grown up on the show, but he rushed into marriage with a woman based solely on her looks and his image of what she should be. Now he's reaping the rewards.

Posted by: PaddyDog at October 18, 2010 1:32 PM

When Don's lawyer said the thing about "don't you want to come home to a steak on the table one of these days?", I think Don got to thinkin'.
And mightygodking is spot on that Don was prepared for a Betty style outburst and Megan's calm sealed the deal. I can't wait for next season when Sally inevitably begs to live with Megan and Don. Betty's gonna have a fit!

Also, I loved that Don seemed to genuinely appreciate Peggy's concern about his engagement. She's actually his friend and, because it's platonic, will probably be the only one of his relationship that will last throughout the series.

Posted by: king at October 18, 2010 1:40 PM

I still like Henry, but I'm not sure how much longer he'll stick around. You've got to love Betty going to curl up on a child's bed. Poor Betty. She's one of those people who is so wounded that she can't get out of her own way and alienates everyone around her.

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at October 18, 2010 1:40 PM

Sarah, I just wanted to say that your recaps have been great this season and I'll miss them. Really well done.

Posted by: jM at October 18, 2010 1:48 PM

BY the way, for those of you who have thought throughout the season that I see negatives in Peggy that aren't there, based on this interview in today's NYT, the guy who created her agrees with me that she's self-righteous and full of herself.

http://artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/10/17/matthew-weiner-closes-the-books-on-season-4-of-mad-men/

And yes, thanks Sarah for giving us a forum to discuss this show. I can't stand the comment section at TWOP (it's full of show sycophants). It's much more enjoyable to get into real discussions.

Posted by: PaddyDog at October 18, 2010 1:59 PM

1. Remember at the beginning of this season that Faye predicted Don would be married within in a year?

2. Poor Megan. I think she was actually trying to sleep her way to a better job, because she thought that's what Peggy did. However, I think she'll take whatever she can get, because marriage to Don could be rich, like Jane (Roger's 2nd wife). I feel sorry for her. Don only really likes it when it's forbidden. He'll tire of her as soon as he's married and start cheating.

3. Poor Faye. She's no good with kids, and Megan is. Megan is younger and not Don's equal, so he can have more power with her.

4. Faye may know about Dick Whitman, but so does Pete, and Cooper and Sterling, and Don's lawyer.

5. So Don gives Megan the real Don Draper's ring? What a Dick. Well, Don always did think with his Dick.

6. I like Henry. Unfortunately, he was thinking with his Dick, too, when he married Betty.

7. I've been thinking that Joan's been looking a bit thick in the belly for a few episodes. I can't decide if the baby is Roger's or her husband's. Then again, I think Joan really wants respectibility. She doesn't want to be the girl who slept her way to the top. She wants a real husband and family and job.

8. Pete "Miss. Manners" Campbell telling Roger that you don't congratulate the bride, you say, "Best Wishes." What?

9. I'm not sure Don sees himself as doing what Roger did when Roger dumped Mona for Jane. However, it's exactly the same. Betty dumped Don because he was sleeping around. It wasn't with Megan, but I don't think that matters. He's still marrying his secretary after a whirlwind romance.

10. Megan may be great with the kids now, but just wait until she has to discipline them. "You're not my mother!"

11. Glen's getting less creepy. I think he should be getting more creepy.

12. I'm wondering if Peggy is jealous that Don didn't go after her.

Posted by: BWeaves at October 18, 2010 2:05 PM

Posted by: Jo 'Mama' Besser at October 18, 2010 2:16 PM

BWeaves:

I agree 100% with point #10. A weekend in the sun with someone else's kids is not the same as a long-term relationship with them. Don, of course, only saw what he wanted to see. That being said, at least Megan will be able to type out Sally's copy when she writes her best seller "Mommie Dearest" in a few year's time.

Anyone else find it a little far-fetched that a toddler would have been so comfortable with two complete strangers (he barely knows his father) for such a long weekend? Most children I've known of that age would be feeling a lot of separation anxiety by day 2.......then again, his mother is Betty Draper.

I was astounded to read Weiner say he doesn't think of her as a bad person because he writes her as a complete ogress.

Posted by: PaddyDog at October 18, 2010 2:16 PM

@BWeaves

1. I thought that too.

4. Roger knows?

8. I congratulated the bride at the first wedding I ever attended; she chided me that you don't congratulate the bride you say best wishes. I was about 9 years old. No, the bride was not Betty Draper.

12. I think Peggy was indeed jealous.

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at October 18, 2010 2:23 PM

I love this show.

I was never a fan of Faye. As the season progressed I thought her to be quite self absorbed, and the episode when Don had to deal with Sallys Tantrum at work and giving her back to Betty all she could think of to do was make it all about her and her feeling like a a failure. I also thought she was rude to Peggy when Peggy tried to part amicably with her and she basically blew her off. Faye was always forcing affection with Don in a way. Putting his arms around her.. walking up to him in his office and kissing him. It just seemed a little one sided and desperate. I like Megan a lot. I think she is a hell of a lot more mature than Betty and is obviously great with the kids and seems modern and I like the way she handles Don. It is so scary to me that she is jumping into a marriage with a man she know NOTHING about. I will be sad to see if it doesnt work out between them - although not surprised.

Baby Sterling with red hair and one liners? IWANTONE.

Posted by: dinka at October 18, 2010 2:23 PM

@PaddyDog - Yes indeed on the toddler being remarkably sanguine for someone away from his parents so long and in a strange place. I love how in movies and TV children are only inconvenient or present as plot devices; otherwise, a small child can simply disappear and not require constant work and attention.

Posted by: Mrs. Julien at October 18, 2010 2:25 PM

Mrs. Julien: I think Roger knows what Cooper knows, but I could be wrong on that. Roger is always a "Don't tell me, I don't want to know" kind of guy.

Paddydog: I also wondered about the baby being so comfortable with a father he barely knows and his secretary who he really doesn't know, and unfamiliar surroundings. I was expecting a screaming fit for the entire vacation, although that would have prevented Don from proposing, so I guess it wouldn't have worked for the plot line.

Posted by: BWeaves at October 18, 2010 2:32 PM

"She once represented the height of fashion, but now she appears stuck in her old habits as the younger women of the day embrace trends of shorter dresses and skirts, as well as bolder makeup and hair-dos. Betty is outdated."

Not really. I am a woman who grew up not unlike Sally, in that era. Betty was dressed to be the exec's fashion-forward wife when she was married to Don. She married a guy in politics, and politician's wives play it safe, mostly for effect. Jackie Kennedy influenced many women of the day, but once she was widowed, she didn't seem to be a fashion role-model again until she married Onassis. My mom, a suburban "housewife" dressed very much the way Betty is dressed for 1965.

Posted by: nat at October 18, 2010 2:35 PM

Wednesday: "He wants to catch interesting women and then turn them into June Cleaver."

Speaking of which, RIP Barbara Billingsley.

Posted by: BWeaves at October 18, 2010 2:37 PM

My circa 1965 Barbie had coats exactly like Betty wore in this episode. I still have them, cough.

Posted by: BWeaves at October 18, 2010 2:39 PM

Whenever I see the women in their 60's clothes, I get a little snippet of the theme from "Valley Of The Dolls" running through my head. Is it just me?

Posted by: nat at October 18, 2010 3:16 PM

I like to think that the only way to conclude Don's story arc is for him to reinvent himself. We already know he reinvented himself from Dick Whitman into Don Draper. At the end of the series, Don will reinvent himself into something new.

I'm sure that Matthew Weiner will give us an ambiguous ending, with only a hint of Don's reinvention. But, it's kinda fun to speculate what that might be. Personally, I think that Don will move to California, become a Hollywood agent, and spend the 70s doing epic quantities of cocaine.

Posted by: Mr Wasserstoff at October 18, 2010 4:11 PM

It seemed like the entire episode was the struggle between Anna and Faye over Don. Basically, Mad Men is about Dick Whitman trying to live the life of someone else. While that could be interpreted as an authentic life, in its own right, this season was about how the changes at Sterling Cooper and the end of his first marriage demonstrated the costs of being a self-made man.

The idea of a serious relationship with Faye made Don look at himself with some of Faye's clinical detachment. One of the last things Faye suggests to Don is that it might be a good idea to let the world know he IS Dick Whitman. Don seemed persuaded that she was right.

On the other hand, Anna's wedding ring seemed something like a bequest, a request for Don to move on with his own life, continue what he started, and thus - he married Megan. Megan herself is the superior model of Betty: self-assured, sophisticated, classier, etc., and a much better mother than Betty ever was.

But most importantly, like Betty, Megan is completely ignorant of Don's secret. When Don reminds her that she doesn't really know him, Megan insists in that typically female logic that she knows him as he is.

Once Don broke the news to Faye that he proposed to another woman, she proved herself to be the opposite of Megan by saying: "You only like the beginnings of things." That meant Don is a shallow person, but a person that Anna wanted to continue, move on, and live in Tomorrowland.

Posted by: oroboros at October 18, 2010 4:22 PM

Anyone know the girl group song playing when Don returns to jump in the pool? I'm losing my mind trying to figure it out.

Posted by: J.D. at October 18, 2010 5:03 PM

At the end of the series, Don will reinvent himself into something new.

I'd say more that "BY the end of the series, Don will have reinvented himself into something new." This whole season has been about that, and while he has only taken small steps toward it so far (like telling Sally he sometimes goes by Dick, and correcting himself when he said the ring was a family heirloom), I think it will continue.

I thought things might be headed for what happened in this episode. I like Megan and she's a nice person. I didn't dislike Faye, and I don't think she deserved to get screwed over like that. At the same time, I never felt like Don was in love with her, and it seems now like maybe we were never supposed to believe he was. I do feel like he's in love with Megan, or at least is very infatuated with her. That can be a fine line, but I'm not about to go predicting that they can't possibly be happy together. I hope they can be, because someone besides Peggy and Pete needs to be happy on this show. I definitely don't think Don's just looking for a "nanny/whore" as I read on another site. (Does this show turn its audience cynical, or attract those who already were?)

Peggy was a little full of herself for landing one minor account. And I hope they eventually explore just what turned Harry into such a douchebag.

Posted by: Todd at October 18, 2010 5:10 PM

I really don't see how Don and Megan can work out. I think Megan is a very smart girl who was looking to get ahead by sleeping with the boss, not trying to snag a rich husband. But since snagging rich husband was on offer she went with it. I don't think she loves Don, and even if she does, she certainly doesn't know him. On the other hand, her not loving him might save her some heartache when he starts cheating again.

Speaking of bad marriages, I feel really sorry for Henry. I agree that he fell in love with his eyes, but I also think their was a damsel in distress element involved. Henry thought the thing that made Betty unhappy was Don so Henry rescued Betty from Don, only to find out the person making Betty unhappy is Betty.

Posted by: Morgan Lefai at October 18, 2010 5:56 PM

Only YOU can prevent inner turmoil. And gooey ducks. Those reverse beach dongs give me the heebie-jeebies. Actually, a fair amount of the spoils of the conquered sea make me wish for some kind of Purell cocktail--'For The Eyes And The Mind'. Well, I guess that's just what alcohol is, but seeing as how I can't drink alcohol anymore (dumb-bum life-saving medicine forbids it as well as the sunlight), I'm out in the cold with nothing but my constant lucidity to keep me warm...and the phantasms of the conquered sea. Tortures of the damned, why are underwater creatures with 'ray' comprising any part of their names even known to me? Giant eyes and waves of Hokusai tentacling their paths through my briny sleep. Jumping sheep never grant me sleep and I'll be that some seahorse is why.

Nature: RUN!!!


Anyway, Carla For Something-dent! Whatever, now Betty can raise her own lame-ass kids for a minute between maids. Any kid who would befriend that Alfred Molina-bovine hybrid Glen isn't right in the head. I'd say that I'm intrested in how the long con on Sally is going to play out, but I'm not.

Posted by: Jo 'Mama' Besser at October 18, 2010 10:51 PM

comprising of. Continue not reading.

Posted by: Jo 'Mama' Besser at October 18, 2010 10:54 PM

I only want to say that I HATE Glenn. I hate hate hate him. His acting is truly horrendous, and he makes every scene he's in so much worse. No way would he ever have been cast if he wasn't Weiner's son.

Posted by: Thijs at October 19, 2010 5:58 AM

Or Glen. Whatever. HATE.

Posted by: Thijs at October 19, 2010 6:01 AM

"Any kid who would befriend that Alfred Molina-bovine hybrid Glen isn't right in the head."
I almost chocked on my juice reading this one...

And I'm also of the opinion Megan was not in it for love or marriage, but the career and/ or hot man.
Also, Betty is a maniac and a bit psycho, but there's no way we can make judgement of how great a mom Megan would be based on her 5 minutes with the kids. That remains to be seen...
I'm glad Faye didn't last, but Don really was a Dick, and will regret this proposal soon. That's where I'm betting my money. ;)

Posted by: Mariazinha at October 19, 2010 9:59 AM

Ohh.. plus, I don't think the actress who plays Megan is very good.

And her teeth are a bit on the big side (even though she's gorgeous)... I wonder if the girl just goes to read her script one day, and the writer says she has weird teeth. (Because I like to discuss what's relevant.)

Posted by: Mariazinha at October 19, 2010 10:12 AM

Mariazinha: Jessica Pare actually is self-conscious about her teeth, and apparently Matt Weiner asked her if she was okay with the dialogue. Being a professional, she said she was.

Posted by: Todd at October 19, 2010 10:43 AM

What's wrong with her teeth? Isn't it nice to see someone who doesn't actually look like a generic Hollywood pod person with that one nose and one set of teeth and one color blonde hair that just about everybody has in that town?

Posted by: PaddyDog at October 19, 2010 11:12 AM

She does have large teeth and a pronounced overbite. Oddly, once I learned her character was French, I was better able to process her unusual look. Is that wrong?

Posted by: sansho1 at October 19, 2010 1:57 PM

"Ohh.. plus, I don't think the actress who plays Megan is very good."

Amen. Talk about generic. Also, I really can't stand when men get all gooey when a woman is nice to their kids when they're basically babysitting them. Try a woman who is nice to your kids for no good goddamn reason before you decide she's so perfect. Megan's 25 and sweet and perky; Faye's in her 30s and no fun (apparently). I'm sure Betty was sweet and perky at one point, too (at least in Don's eyes). Megan isn't going to put up with his philandering for two seconds. And, if the new twist is that Megan has changed Don? I will seriously quit this bitch if Weiner does that.

Moving on from what I see as a lazy, far-fetched plotline that will get tired in about three seconds:

1. Loved, loved when Ken dissed the crew to preserve his marriage and family. "I'm not Pete. Sorry." Perfect.

2. I was kind of back-and-forth about the BFF exchange between Joan and Peggy (which, on its face, was very natural) given how Joan froze Peggy out just a few episodes back. I was thinking that maybe, off-camera, Peggy confronted Joan and they worked things out. It just seemed out of place given that they appeared to have very little solidarity before last night.

3. One thing I love about the show is how Joan's husband raped her a couple of seasons back and now is, to my mind, one of the best husbands on the show. Stop making my brain hurt! They have a very natural, loving repartee (sexy-time with Roger notwithstanding) and it seems like Joan really confides in him. I LOVED how she was trash-talking Don. You really never see much beyond Don-worship on the show and it was hilarious to see her basically pointing out how pathetic his latest move is.

Posted by: samantha t at October 19, 2010 4:32 PM

"Don immediately yells “Great!” and his temper flares, but Megan is calm as she wipes up the spill and asks for more napkins. No use getting upset, she says, and Don looks amazed."

I think this is the crux of my problem. I will admit that last week my daughter spilled her cereal bowl on the floor and I yelled (not at her, but I did yell). You want to know what I yelled? "Jesus Christ. Every GODDAMNED morning." You know why? BECAUSE THE SHIT HAPPENS EVERY GODDAMNED MORNING because she's my child and she lives with me. It is a hell of a lot easier to be the calm, always-nice aunt/babysitter/etc. when you don't live with stuff like that day in, day out.

Now, of course, Don does have the kids infrequently, but he's their father and the frustration level is just that much higher when you have to live with and deal with the little whelps.

Posted by: samantha t at October 19, 2010 4:52 PM

Nothing wrong with her having big teeth at all! I think overall this show makes a nice job not choosing only generic hollywood types! (Don't get me wrong. Mostly, people are still better looking than us, commom folks, just not in the way we've come to expect).
And I must add I too am always amazed at how cool and sexy and great Don looks sometimes. Once in a while there'll be a simple shot of him smoking, or walking by or just turning his head or somehting and my jaw drops for a few seconds... Obviously it's because Jon Hamm is awesome, but it sure as hell is on purpose, so kudos to whomever is responsible for that!

Posted by: Mariazinha at October 20, 2010 3:19 AM

"And I must add I too am always amazed at how cool and sexy and great Don looks sometimes."

I think he looks least attractive, at least on the show, when he smiles. This last episode was full of grinnin' Don and it detracted.

Posted by: samantha t at October 20, 2010 9:53 AM

Henry an adult? What about the incident with Don's boxes?

Posted by: Sean at October 20, 2010 3:27 PM

Awesome recap!
Don is trying to be a better version of himself, and Faye knows too much about the old Don Draper (not just the Dick Whitman part). Megan likes - because I don't think she is in love with him, but what girl in the mid 1960s was going to turn down a marriage proposal from someon like Don?!? - the Don he is trying to be. Time will tell if that's enough for either of them.
His actions just confirm that you should never make big decisions while on vacation - the sun and surf does something weird to your brain.

Posted by: candigirl1968 at October 22, 2010 10:56 AM

The rash decision makes sense considering Don’s tendency (and this episode’s theme) of jumping for a fresh start once his previous one shows signs of growing stale. What negates this proposition is how he clung to his marriage to Betty and moved on only when forced, and even then he took his sweet time crawling out from the hole he’d dug for himself. But now, so quickly moving from Faye to Megan — from the woman who can be his partner, who calls him on his shit, who truly knows him, to a much-younger woman he barely knows — he’s turning into the man he once brutally criticized for doing the same thing: Roger. Roger dumped his wife, Mona, to be with his young secretary, Jane, having fallen in love. Now, Don is repeating the trend

May I point out, what you wrote makes no sense? You note that Don clung to his marriage (in fact, Betty only forced a divorce through blackmail), but compare him to Roger, who dumped his wife he'd been with for a quarter century, and daughter, to marry a girl the same age as said daughter?

And this is the same because he dumped Faye, whom he'd known for less than a year, while they were both dating others, and to whom he'd never made any commitment, much less gotten engaged to? When Don's daughter asked him, "Are you going to marry Faye?" he said no. "Is she your girlfriend?" again, no. Where do you come off making this comparison?

Faye was good to Don, and he was lucky to have her advice and friendship, but come on. He was never all that crazy about her, apart from the sex, and some of her notions and actions struck a false note. Also, how was he going to give her a ring? She was already wearing one, letting everyone she worked with think she was married. Her Chinese Wall, if you will.

Posted by: Tom B at January 11, 2011 10:29 PM