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Because a Girl's Weight is All That Matters

By Cindy Davis | Posted Under Trade News | Comments (43)



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Mamas, don’t let your girl babies grow up to be even slightly overweight. Because, it will be mentioned. It will be noticed. It will be commented upon.

I started reading the official description of this movie that just cast Kristen Bell and I kept getting stuck at the same point: The “script centers on an ambitious, slightly overweight ballerina…” Well there you have it, that’s the information that is important - she’s slightly overweight. The frack? Now we’re not talking about an obese girl trying to become a ballerina and her weight is the one barrier, so she has to either lose the weight or overcome the stereotype to be what she wants to be. We don’t get film descriptions of the slightly overweight boy who wants to be a dancer. And don’t give me that crap about ballerinas having a certain image, because that just feeds into this whole bullshit that women have to be whatever perfect aesthetic some 2000 year old bitch at whatever magazine decided upon. She’s in cahoots with the men who make all the commercials with the perky blonde housewives married to the decidedly older doofuses who spend their lives watching football, ignoring their children and surviving solely on buffalo wings and beer. I have two young daughters in ballet and I have seen many “slightly overweight” ballerinas who were just as wonderful and lovely to watch as their slightly underweight counterparts. So kiss off with your insulting and stereotypical character descriptions, Evan Greenberg (Scriptwriter and director).

Producers Daniel Dubiecki (Up in the Air, Juno) and Joel Michaely (The Quiet) are looking for an unknown to play the poor creature in this black comedy about the girl with a cliched overbearing mother and they hope the addition of Bell (blonde, pretty and presumably not overweight) will help get financing. So mamas, please line up your slightly overweight, desperate daughters to be mocked.









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Comments

I swear to Xenu, if I see another commercial with a skinny lady who is married to some schlubby, nasty dude...It's just infuriating (and gross). At least we have places to put it when we gain weight!

Posted by: jzhz at August 16, 2010 5:07 PM

It's sad, but that is the state of dance in the world. Carrying a little extra weight can be the difference between a callback and "not what we're looking for" at company auditions. The belief is that extra weight negatively impacts the lines of the dance and detracts from the uniformity of ensemble work.

In other words, total bullshit. Total, unavoidable bullshit.

Posted by: Robert at August 16, 2010 5:13 PM

The belief is that extra weight negatively impacts the lines of the dance and detracts from the uniformity of ensemble work.

Fuck that noise.
Gimmee Ashley Graham in a unitard any day.
Why, today would be a good day. Hell, EVERY day would be a good day.

Posted by: Rykker at August 16, 2010 5:22 PM

Ans since fucking WHEN is Kristen Bell even slightly overweight??

Posted by: Rykker at August 16, 2010 5:24 PM

I was under the impression that the professional dancing/ballerina world was INSANELY competitive...so I could see how being a little overweight could be a really big deal. However, I don't think a movie should be made about it. Not everyone (mainly I'm thinking of the kiddies) are going to understand that context/circumstance.

Posted by: gee. ay. at August 16, 2010 5:24 PM

At 119 pounds, I was told I was way too fat for ballet. So honestly in this particular instance, it's kind of based in reality.

Posted by: Courtney at August 16, 2010 5:37 PM

Kristen Bell wouldn't be "slightly overweight" if she stuffed a frozen Butterball Turkey down her pants.

Posted by: bleujayone at August 16, 2010 5:46 PM

*promptly climbs into deep freezer*

Posted by: admin at August 16, 2010 5:49 PM

It's ok Admin, you can dance for me whenever you want honey.

Posted by: Ian at August 16, 2010 6:14 PM

Ah yes. This is familiar! As a child I was a ballerina and I was mocked by not only my fellow dancers but my grandparents as well for being the "slightly overweight" one. I now carry around a rack of 34DD boobies and wear a size 6 to 8. That's what those bitches will never have! Boobies. Unless they are glued on... that those don't count.

Posted by: ssarah at August 16, 2010 6:16 PM

Yeah. I believe the stats show that after jockeys (horse not disc), ballerinas are the most anorexic profession because of the weight requirements. I'm sure that you may have seen some lovely, talented but chubby girls at your daughter's dance recitals but if you weigh much more than 100lbs at 5'6 no way are you doing ballet professionally.

Posted by: PaddyDog at August 16, 2010 6:17 PM

Why is Cindy so angry?

To 95% of the world ballet is like WWF Pro westling.

Posted by: Dangerous Dave at August 16, 2010 6:24 PM

Cindy your comments should be directed at whitey because he’s the one the likes his women to be nothing but skin and bones. Now the brothers, the brothers, they likes them thick and healthy. The brothers want to be able to hold on to what he’s tapping. There’s nothing more disgusting that hitting it from the back and you look down to admire your work and a pronounced vertebrate is staring up back at you.

Posted by: Pookie at August 16, 2010 6:28 PM

I guess I should be glad that I only have sons since they can lard up with relative impunity.

As for the commercials, my husband is excessively annoyed at the fact that the men are invariably stupid and the women wise, much like modern sitcoms. I think I agree though I don't want to go back to I Love Lucy days when it was the woman who was a ninny (though that is a bit more like my own marriage).

Posted by: pickled tink at August 16, 2010 6:30 PM

Hey Pajibans complaining about Bell being cast as overweight, if you read the press release you'll see that she's being cast as the mother of the slightly overweight dancer. So, regardless of everything else, at least one can hope that the film won't promote the stereotype about malnourished starlets being "slightly overweight".

Posted by: OtherYossarian at August 16, 2010 6:35 PM

Other Yossarian?

Posted by: Yossarian at August 16, 2010 6:49 PM

Kristen Bell wouldn't be "slightly overweight" if she stuffed a frozen Butterball Turkey down her pants.

I am ... intrigued.

Posted by: BierceAmbrose at August 16, 2010 6:52 PM

Well, to be fair, "slightly overweight" in ballet probably means the girl weighs 95 pounds. Ballet is a very unhealthy occupation.

I've always loved ballet but when I was young and dancing my mother pulled me out when the instructor told her I was "overweight." At the time I weighed 101, was anemic and needed iron pills and liver. I think things would have turned out badly if I had continued so, thanks Mama!!

I have a tough time watching a ballet performance these days because the girls look so awful (flat chest, skinny legs) so I switched to Opera to get my culture fix.

Posted by: mslewis at August 16, 2010 6:52 PM

So considering Kristen Bell is 30, assuming the story isn't going to have her become a mother at 14 or having her made up to be much older than she actually is, it may be extrapolated that the age of the girl to be playing the dancer would have to be under 10 years of age.

Really? We're going there, are we? We're going to make a child in her single digits feel like shit about her appearance? Classy. Nevermind that children at that age really shouldn't be thinking about counting calories or body fat percentage, that's going to be hard enough to face in social circles as one gets older. Now there's going to be a movie made that goes after a child for being "slightly overweight"...but hey all the fat jokes and "aww po' baby" moments will all be forgiven when the 'lil porkchop in a tutu nails her pirouette in the end. All to show that fat children are "...just like normal kids."

Christ who's going to play this poor kid's father, Angus Bethune?

Posted by: bleujayone at August 16, 2010 7:09 PM

Pookie, you mean if I take the average black man and ask him that, she's gotta have much back?

As for this, it's disappointing more than anything. Playing and using tired and stereotypical tropes and selling it as being new and different and edgy because they acknowledge the stereotype.

Posted by: Fredo at August 16, 2010 7:13 PM

This is no different than Abigail Breslin playing the chubby nontraditional individualist pageant contestant in Little Miss Sunshine. I fail to see why it garners so many WTF responses. It's more worthy of an eye roll.

Posted by: Yossarian at August 16, 2010 7:23 PM

When I was at my peak of ballerina-dom, I weighed 97lbs at 5'4, and I was still "not what we're looking for" because my DDs and ghetto booty would. not. budge. no matter how much weight I dropped. I see pics of myself back then and cringe. Turns out you can be too thin.

Posted by: ceejeemcbeegee at August 16, 2010 7:25 PM

Fredo, Hollywood and the media have bombarded society with images that says a woman has to be 5’3 109lbs to be considered the holy grail. Then you have young women killing themselves to lose weight just to get noticed and I hate it. Concerning my comments about the brothers, well that’s just Pookie being Pookie.

Posted by: Pookie at August 16, 2010 7:31 PM

What about a story about a ballerina who is cut from the program because she's too tall? And no amount of dedication, or the precision of her arabesque penchées' or a perfect execution of 32 continuous fouettés will save her. And all she wants to do is dance! IT'S IN HER HEART! And she weeps inconsolably in the dark dance studio. Her tears streaming onto her pointe shoes. All because she's too tall! Don't they understand?! She was born to dance!! Damn her tall genes!

Ahem.

Posted by: Scully at August 16, 2010 7:32 PM

Damn. Yossarian just beat me to it.

Just because a child is playing overweight doesn't mean that child will have a complex. I bet they put the kid in a fat suit ala Breslin.

No. For a child actor, that complex develops after being told for years they are too fat to play any character they audition for. It doesn't make a difference if no one outside of an audition room would consider the child overweight; the damage is done pretty quickly. For example, I almost always think people are making fun of me if they say I look good in an outfit. If I'm in an audition state of mind, I'm anticipating some "cattle calls aren't literal" barb and can't take a compliment about my appearance. Gotta love a self-esteem shattering industry that's highly addictive.

Posted by: Robert at August 16, 2010 7:38 PM

i dropped out of ballet when the teacher, upon measuring for costumes, remarked at how fat i was getting. i was eight. cue eating disorder.

so, if they do this the right way, it could be an important story. but they probably won't.

it's worth remembering what The New Yorker said when Bill T. Jones came out with "Still / Here" - that because an overweight dancer was in the production, the critic refused to even see it.

Posted by: kristin at August 16, 2010 7:51 PM

Well, I am a bit of a thick chick, and I have been SHOCKED to discover that in direct contradiction to all that I had been led to believe, GROWN MEN seem to like my size 12, 5'8", 36DD, bod. Now, this doesn't stop me from wanting it to be a size 10, and it may well be again soon, but I have decided that if you don't like *all of this* then you can keep on truckin' buddy!
And when I starved myself down to 110lbs 17 years ago, all I saw was FAT anyway, even though EVERY bone in my body was visible. So I know it is bullshit thinking anyway.

Posted by: Lindsey with an 'e' at August 16, 2010 8:02 PM

Let me just make a little clarification - I never wrote that Kristen Bell was the slightly overweight girl.

...are looking for an unknown to play the poor creature in this black comedy...

The thing that really pissed me off is that the slightly overweight girl who is yet to be cast is a 10 to 12 year old. Kids aren't even allowed to be kids anymore, they are already being weight classified.

Posted by: Cindy at August 16, 2010 8:26 PM

Pookie, those are lyrics from Sir Mix-A-Lot's opus "Baby Got Back". Nothing meant by it.

I'm often amazed how these kind of projects are aimed primarily at women and made by women writers, producers and directors. And I love how they try to sell them as "unique and different".

Posted by: Fredo at August 16, 2010 8:35 PM

Not that I want to break up the self-righteousness parade, but as far as I can understand it professional and perhaps amateur ballerinas are constrained by a system that requires them to be at weights which for many of them are unhealthy. This is sad. Similarly, however, both professional jockeys as well as wrestlers at levels ranging from high-school to the Olympics are similarly constrained. This is the price of admission.

So essentially, yes the ballet requires its dancers to fit a narrow physical profile, and yes, this is offensive to women who wish that were not the case. But it is, sorry.

Posted by: T at August 16, 2010 8:37 PM

I hate to break it to you but little girls are judged by weight long before they get to 10 years old. That peer group can be viscous, along with some horrible parents and whatever passes for culture these days (Bratz or Toddlers & Tiaras).

You're taking offense at a few adjectives in a synopsis but I think your anger is misplaced. At least this film is trying to present a feel-good-be-yourself message. Sure it is going to be lame and ineffectual and cloying and shallow, but at least it doesn't opt for the subtle and much more damaging practice of banishing chubby girls entirely as if they don't even exist.

Posted by: yossarian at August 16, 2010 9:04 PM

damn you spellchecker, you know that's not what I meant.

Posted by: yossarian at August 16, 2010 9:07 PM

Thank you, yossarian.

I don't get the hullaballoo about this half-sentence blurb. Firstly, the "slightly overweight" one is not Kristen Bell. And secondly, it's freakin' ballet! It may as well have been about "a slightly retarded girl decided she wants to make it big at the Shanghai Math Olympiad."

To be a professional ballerina, don't you have to be disgustingly strong, thin, and flexible?

Posted by: Vince Noir at August 16, 2010 9:21 PM

Fredo, dude, Sir Mix-A-Lot? Really dude? Sir Mix-A-Lot? That guy is probably using his social security checks to buy pain medication to help him recuperate from hip replacement surgery.

Posted by: Pookie at August 16, 2010 9:25 PM

I think this movie is sending a dangerous message to women out there, especially those women that are pursuing professional ballerina careers. Women that are interested in dance and may have weight problems are now able to pursue dance careers that are very lucrative and they can even match or surpass the money that professional ballerinas make. With tips and a select clientele what smart dance professional wouldn’t want to leave all that stress and hassle behind?

Posted by: Pookie at August 16, 2010 9:43 PM

Overreact much, Cindy?

Posted by: Uriah Creep at August 17, 2010 6:31 AM

I know we’ve been in a sort of news drought for awhile but lately there seems to be an aggressive push to be overly contrary on this site, attacking or dismissing things at the slightest provocation, like inexplicably dissing the trailer for Love and Other Drugs yesterday. Granted, the trailer flies low and the tagline is awful, pandering to general rom-com fans, but I thought all the other recent rom-com trailers looked much worse and seemed to draw less flack. Now, this is a post condemning a movie based on one sentence from a short description, a description of something grounded in reality, to boot. We don’t even know how the movie will structure itself around that concept. It doesn’t sound like something I’d see to find out, but I can’t see why people are surprised about the content or getting bent out of shape about it.

Posted by: Harry Coverts at August 17, 2010 8:22 AM

I think that even though it seems trivial, and like people are picking apart one line in a synopsis, you have to understand that the rage comes from a culmination of years of being told you have to look a certain way to be pretty, and typically the way you are told to look is unattainable. For some people, with a lot of self confidence, it doesn't matter. For other people, seeing stuff like this stings, because it seems to forecast that your daughters will be subjected to the same scrutiny and pain you went through, except at an even younger age. It's a rage at the overall atmosphere of the times, of which this blurb is just one example. Or maybe I just sympathize with Cindy because I can't think of one day where I didn't, at 5'2" and 118 lbs feel fat, inadequate, unattractive what have you. Just when I start to feel good about myself, I turn on tv and there is some ad about some celeb's latest diet, or such and such low fat food etc. You can't escape it, and it sucks.

Posted by: ninetwenteetoo at August 17, 2010 8:52 AM

Let me offer you a different perspective on this. I have an eight-year-old niece who is horribly obese. She lives in a country (Ireland) where childhood obesity is not YET the norm. She sticks out terribly in her school, she had to have a dress made for her First Communion because nothing in the shops came close to fitting. She has become withdrawn and sulky because of her appearance. Yet my sister, her mother (who caused the problem), refuses to do anything about it "in case she gives her daughter a complex". I don't think there would be anything wrong with getting the child into a good exercise and diet program with an incentive about how nice she would look in a new smaller dress. Otherwise, this poor child is looking at a lifetime of being the enormous left-out obese woman with all the attendant health problems.

Posted by: PaddyDog at August 17, 2010 9:20 AM

Paddy, I truly sympathize with your niece and I agree that the mother should find a way to help her daughter - I know I would. I specifically mentioned that the film description discussed a slightly overweight girl as opposed to obese.

I do think some of my ire stems from having to search for pants for one of my daughters. Even for a toddler wearing a diaper, I would have problems finding pants that would fit her (and diapers do add to one's waistline). It is completely ludicrous to me that if a small child isn't a lanky stick, one has to search the corners of the universe for pants. Even more insane is that the stores stock Plus sizes for small children. My kids are all healthy weights, and yet for two of them (and one is a boy) I've had to search high and low to find un-skinny pants. I do resent that and I resent that children are being classified at such young ages. They'll have plenty of time to obsess over how imperfect they are as adults, I'd like them to just be able to enjoy being kids a while.

Posted by: Cindy at August 17, 2010 9:42 AM

Not to get too practical but doesn't the ballerina have to be light so the gay guy can pick her up? So they should lay off the Ben & Jerrys.

There I think I've insulted everyone!

Posted by: logan at August 17, 2010 10:09 AM

All I have to say is

"Baby, put away that salad; have a steak!"

Posted by: Patrick the Bunny at August 17, 2010 10:53 AM

We don’t get film descriptions of the slightly overweight boy who wants to be a dancer.

Maybe not, but if you read a description of a film about a scrawny boy who wanted to play football, or perhaps about a 5'2" boy who wanted to play basketball, you wouldn't bat an eye.

This is not sexism. This is ballet.

(Also, please note that I resisted the temptation to put a period after every word of that last sentence, a la 300.)

Posted by: Wonkey The Monkey at August 17, 2010 12:16 PM