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When Life Gives You Lemons

By Sarah Carlson | Posted Under Think Pieces | Comments (29)



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Everyone I know is getting married and popping out babies. Everyone. Even you. I tweeted as much about a month ago and I got some interesting replies. “When do you go from bachelor to Clooney-status?,” one guy asked. But wait — is there even a female equivalent to “Clooney-status”? I wanted to know. He suggested Liz Lemon, which I went with because, as I tweeted, “I’m already Liz Lemon. It works.”

If the neurotic heroine of NBC’s “30 Rock” really is the paragon of bacheloretteness, though, I fear I’m in trouble. I and others have felt a kinship to her (and therefore Tina Fey) for years, but as the comedy finished its fifth season this year, my appreciation began to wear as thin as my patience. No, without even changing the dial, I’d go with another single lady as my idol: Leslie Knope, of “Parks and Recreation.”

I’d not only rather emulate Leslie, played by the glorious Amy Poehler, I’d often rather watch her fictional world unfold in “Parks and Rec” than tune into the shenanigans of “30 Rock.” Hell, I’d rather live in Leslie’s fictional Pawnee, Ind., than be forced to slug it out at an “SNL”-type show in New York. Because as silly as the storylines can be involving the employees of the Pawnee Parks Department, there’s a sweetness and a realness to the show that “30 Rock” has never had. While Leslie and her vehicle are evolving, Liz is, along with her show, standing still at best.

Liz is lovable in her own way, from her self-deprecating humor to her knowledge of Star Wars and use of a Princess Leia costume to try to get out of jury duty. She’s loyal to her friends and co-workers — mostly — although she can play the martyr. But it’s her work situation that has her trapped, sacrificing her well-being and happiness for a TV show, “The Girlie Show,” that’s barely successful or even good. Its star, Tracy Jordan (Tracy Morgan), was AWOL for a piece of Season Five, which put “TGS” and Liz’s career in jeopardy. She fought to get him back, even though she realizes he’s holding her back. She flees to the Hamptons to escape for the summer break, only to have him as a neighbor. She finds a way to get community service picking up garbage around New York, only to run into Tracy again.

Liz is stuck. Even her relationships are all duds. The bright spot was when she was with the sweet Floyd, but that was only until the show’s writers made him out to be a jerk. Fey has said she gravitates to the more negative, if you will, side of comedy when it comes to Liz; she likes the jokes that flow once Liz is at the bottom. But how long can viewers stay down there with her? I don’t want to take refuge picking up garbage.

Season Three of “Parks and Rec” ended with Leslie realizing she has big choices to make regarding work and love. Leslie is just as hard-working as Liz, but she’s more productive — It takes talent to stay up all night making mosaic-tile portraits of all your friends for Galentine’s Day. She’s got a drive and passion Liz doesn’t have, and lately, she’s been successful at work. The Harvest Festival went great. The memorial to Lil’ Sebastian was moving. Local leaders even want her to consider running for office. And, she’s in a blossoming and adorable relationship with a co-worker, Ben (Adam Scott), even though that presents its own obstacle considering boss Chris Traeger’s (Rob Lowe) no-dating policy among government employees.

But she’ll find success somehow because, most importantly, Leslie is loved by her co-workers, even if they can’t always understand her enthusiasm for public service and don’t appreciate her signing them up for an all-night telethon. But they show up anyway; letting her down isn’t an option. They’re a family — even Jerry! — and one viewers want to be a part of. In fact, Jerry’s (Jim O’Heir) infamous painting of Leslie, depicting her as a well-endowed centaur, was fitting. Leslie is a powerful and unique woman, and her friends know it. She can be just as over-the-top as Liz, but somehow not as pitiable.

In her new book, Bossypants, Fey devotes numerous pages to her longtime friend, Poehler, heaping praise on the comedienne who hasn’t garnered quite the same amount of attention in pop culture. In one anecdote, Poehler shuts down Jimmy Fallon as he pretends to react squeamishly to her off-color joke. “My friend is here! My friend is here!” Fey thought, and weirdly, I tend to think the same thing when it comes to Poehler’s Leslie. At least, I want her to be my friend.

And that’s the difference: Liz reminds me of who I am — a writer and editor who can go a day with only eating donuts and who takes her bra off at her desk — while Leslie is more of who I want to be. Both are quirky, but they’re moving in different directions. The “Knope-status” is what we should be after, ladies. We can’t stay Lemons forever.

Sarah Carlson has a front-row seat to the decline of the newspaper industry and lives in Alabama with her overly excitable Pembroke Welsh Corgi.









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Comments

What a lovely tribute to Leslie Knope.

Posted by: samantha t at May 24, 2011 2:37 PM

This is FREAKY. I've recently come to realize the exact same things. I used to identify with Liz Lemon but now I want to be Leslie Knope.

You worded my thoughts perfectly.

Posted by: Dominique at May 24, 2011 2:45 PM

I love Leslie Knope (except for the Ben thing: work relationships are never a good idea) because she genuinely does love what she does and when problems arise, she finds adorable ways of dealing with them, and she has a life that doesn't depend on external validation for her happiness.

I've never felt a kinship with Liz Lemon because for all that is funny about 30 Rock that whole "I'm fat (yeah, right), I need a man to make me happy" schtick is really offensive to me. She has a job people would kill for and all she does is complain. The show has great one-liners but I really hate the Liz character.

Posted by: PaddyDog at May 24, 2011 2:50 PM

On Saturday, when a friend asked me what I was doing, and I replied "Just chillin' in my day jams", I felt very Lemon-y for a moment. It seemed like something she would say.

Day jams are daytime pajamas, in case that was not sadly clear.

Posted by: Lauren at May 24, 2011 2:55 PM

I just barely started watching Parks & Rec from the beginning the other day. I'm 3 seasons in on 30 Rock on Netflix. I've already heard that P&C gets much better and I keep hearing that 30 Rock will start going downhill soon. That's weird because where I'm at in both it's the opposite.

Posted by: Paultera at May 24, 2011 2:57 PM

But...that would mean relinquishing my soul crushingly harsh judgment and criticism. And I'm pretty sure I need that in order to live.

Plus I'm not particularly keen on lady pant suits and would probably kill anyone who genuinely expressed greater excitement over a mural than a trip abroad.

I guess I've got too much Lemon in my blood to strive to be more Knope-y.

Posted by: beet salad at May 24, 2011 3:06 PM

"In one anecdote, Poehler shuts down Jimmy Fallon as he pretends to react squeamishly to her off-color joke. “My friend is here! My friend is here!” Fey thought."

I'm sorry, I don't understand this at all- what happened?

Posted by: Clambone at May 24, 2011 3:16 PM

@Clambone -

If I remember correctly Amy was telling a raunchy joke and Jimmy Fallon pretended to be offended by it. Amy turned to him, said, "I don't give a fuck what you think," and just kept going. I'm pretty sure this was when she was relatively new and Jimmy was the "star" of SNL.

Posted by: beckster at May 24, 2011 3:45 PM

I was wondering who Fey was referencing!

Posted by: beet salad at May 24, 2011 3:47 PM

When life gives you lemons ...

Juice them, then blend with vodka and crushed ice! Alcoholic smoothies!

Posted by: The Wanderer at May 24, 2011 4:20 PM

Yeah Paultera, 30 Rock was great there for awhile. Liz and Jack were developing one of the most classic friendships in sitcom history for about a season and a half. Then the writers got lazy, Liz became an old maid/crazy cat-lady sterotype (albeit without the cats), and Jack became a Fox News neocon stereotype. What once were nuances to their personalities became the whole picture. It used to be Kenneth was the only character consistently drawn in broad strokes but now all the characters are cartoonish and unhuman. I don't care about any of them anymore.
P&C is just hitting its stride. Only gripe with P&C is the Office-style docu-format, although, it really seems like April is the only character to acknowledge it anymore. If that aspect of the show disappeared I don't think anyone would notice. By the way, with that last ep., I got the impression Aziz Ansari was leaving the show. Say it isn't so!

Posted by: dagnabbit at May 24, 2011 4:36 PM

Nothing against Leslie, but a real-life girl Clooney would be Marisa Tomei. Still hot, still working (albeit maybe not as profitably as Clooney), still pretty cool ...

Posted by: Slash at May 24, 2011 7:21 PM

Parks reminds me of my more successful friends who, strangely enough, found work outside the city in government-supported art galleries and are living the life.

In the meantime I'll still be here, workin' on my night cheese.

Posted by: seed at May 24, 2011 8:01 PM

I love Leslie Knope. As a public servant, I want nothing more than to emulate her in my career and to maintain half her grace and passion. She's an awesome role model for single women and attached women alike. I absolutely love her and I loved this article.

But she's no female George Clooney, and I'm not really sure who actually is - maybe Marisa Tomei. Maybe Kate Hudson (she slings men around with the best of them).

Not to totally derail the conversation, but this is what disappoints me about Jennifer Aniston. She should be the female equivalent of Clooney. She's hot, rich, older, single, and clearly doesn't want to settle down (if she really wanted to, she would). Yet she makes her money off of this woe-is-single-me crap and by faking romantic entanglements with her co-stars. If she gave one interview about how she dodged a bullet when Brad Pitt met Angelina Jolie, I'd be sold.

Posted by: Tits McGee at May 24, 2011 10:27 PM

Fantastic article. It hit me hard in the mind grapes and in the heart--because I just adore Leslie Knope. I haven't known her for very long, but the wonderful thing about the character is that you want to know her for your entire life. I want her to be real. And it's a testament to Poehler's genius that the character gets to you so much. She's possibly one of my favorite TV characters ever, let alone female characters.

I want her to be so happy. I want Beslie to happen.

"When life gives you lemons...you make...lemonade. I read that once. On a can of lemonade. I like to think it applies to life."

Posted by: Figgy at May 24, 2011 11:10 PM

When life gives you lemons, throw a lemon party!

Posted by: The Mutt at May 24, 2011 11:41 PM

I'm a (gay) man, and I emulate Leslie Knope. She's not just a role model for the ladies!

In real life and in fiction, I have always tended to look up to bright, driven, insanely cheerful-so-uncool-they're-cool type girls. Just yesterday, in fact, I was convincing a friend that he should watch Parks by telling him that I strive to be more like Leslie. Leslie is just...fantastic.

And as much as I enjoy 30 Rock (though I agree the show and Liz are kind of standing still), Leslie Knope's character has resonated with me in a way that Liz Lemon never has.

Posted by: Vince Noir at May 25, 2011 4:04 AM

Team Lemon

I just love the silly

Posted by: kirbyjay at May 25, 2011 6:12 AM


Aw, everyone hates Lemon now? I still love her, although I agree that making Floyd an asshole was a serious misstep. The Floyd Liz relationship was one of the sweetest things about the show.

Posted by: Anna at May 25, 2011 8:20 AM

I am also a gay man and when I started watching parks and rec. I felt a weird kinship with Leslie Knope, she has this insane positive energy that I absolutely adore she is the kind of person that I strive to be.

Posted by: Simon at May 25, 2011 9:13 AM

"In real life and in fiction, I have always tended to look up to bright, driven, insanely cheerful-so-uncool-they're-cool type girls."

Wait a minute, wait a minute....I'm starting to understand my kinship with gay men!

Posted by: samantha t at May 25, 2011 10:11 AM

I think Liz Lemon's character is hilarious...but I don't really like or respect her. Am I supposed to?

Posted by: samantha t at May 25, 2011 10:21 AM

"She's hot, rich, older, single, and clearly doesn't want to settle down (if she really wanted to, she would)."

Aniston isn't as pretty as Clooney and has 1/100th his charm and charisma. I think that's why.

Posted by: samantha t at May 25, 2011 10:25 AM

Speaking as a straight man, I also use Leslie Knope as a barometer of awesomeness. Why wouldn't you, no matter your gender? I also know I'm a total Lemon, with some Lutz and Frank thrown in. But maybe one day, when I'm a real girl, I can be Knope with a little Swanson and Andy, isntead.

That's a long road, though...

Posted by: RobP at May 25, 2011 11:52 AM

Knope is great, but Liz Lemon microwaves her doughnuts. Win.

Posted by: Amandahugandkiss at May 25, 2011 3:25 PM

Emotional Sitcom =/= Straight Comedy. OBVIOUSLY Leslie Knope is supposed to be likable, and OBVIOUSLY Lemon isn't supposed to change ! :)

Posted by: Alex at May 25, 2011 5:31 PM

I've yet to come across a fictional character half so awesome as me and though many have tried, it all gets lost in the pixels. Aspire to be a television character or feel a kinship with one? Why? Did any of them write 'No Country For Fat Chicks'? No.

Posted by: Jo 'Mama' Besser at May 25, 2011 6:57 PM

So, thanks to this article, I went out and watched every Parks and Recreation episode I could find (between Netflix and Hulu Plus, I think I found them all) because I could not stop watching and rooting for Leslie. There are not many movies or television shows that portray women as both very capable AND likable or shows a woman unapologetically married to her career without her having to be a failure in another part of her life in order to have it. So I'm now totally Team Knope.

Posted by: TheHobo at May 31, 2011 2:27 PM

I spent several months absolutely addicted to 30 Rock. Whenever I wanted to watch something while I worked, I would re-watch 30 Rock. Then I got into Parks & Rec. I still like 30 Rock, but it now has the same satisfaction as eating sugar. Parks & Rec is like eating a full coarse dinner at a good restaurant.

Posted by: Carolyn at June 1, 2011 12:04 AM