A couple of readers weigh in on torture porn (Tear It Down) and the blunt satisfaction of Fantasia (LiveJournal).
Kiefer collects his DUI badge, in which he will likely face little to no repercussions — because he’s a celebrity, so why the bloody hell would he? (Celebslam)
Adrianne Curry — a.k.a Peter Brady’s mouthbreathing Top Model wife — thinks, that while it does “suck some major balls” that African-Americans used to be slaves, it is now “time to move the fuck on.” When pressed for comment, Peter Brady buried his head into the ground like an ostrich. (IDLYITW)
In uh, related news — Bill O’Reilly is amazed that restaurants in Harlem are just like regular old white people restaurants. And commence Vermillion’s head exploding… now! (Media Matters)
I realize that my opinions may not necessarily reflect Pajiba as a whole — but, pleeeeease Al Gore run for President? Pretty please with kisses and cherries on top? (Slate)
So then I totally heard Sienna Miller said that Kate Moss had a flat chest and Kate was all like, well I heard your mom shops at K-Mart, and Sienna was all whatever, this girl in my math class told me she totally saw Kate making out with that weird kid who eats his boogers. True story. (Yeeeah!)
Well, this guy is clearly full of shit, because I know for a fact that turkeys only attack when provoked. (QuizLaw)
I’m gonna class it up with today’s clip — by bringing you this old SNL sketch featuring a Will Ferrell character who finally reaches his yoga “goal.” Enjoy it while it’s still not a 90-minute feature!
I don't know what's worse--the actual blog entry by That Chick On That VH1 Show Who Has A Wonky Eye And Married Peter Brady And Also Is A Model Of Some Sort, or the fact that so many people gave her kudos. Right--let's get the fuck over racism by boycotting BET, because, like, seriously, slavery and segregation was, like, soooooooo LAST SEASON! Does she have a new show coming out? Because seriously, I just think she needed to feel relevant again--and what better way to feel relevant than blogging on your MySpace?
Posted by: em at September 25, 2007 3:54 PM
I'd love to summon up the energy to be offended by Lockjaw Curry's comments, but... wait... why are you famous again?
Because you were arbitrarily picked to win a worthless, culturally bankrupt TV show that focuses solely on your ability to smile and show the most bare skin and throw temper tantrums?
Or was it because you had a equally culturally bankrupt TV show about your marriage to Peter Motherfucking Brady?
Or was it because in a desperate plea for attention that apparently wasn't satisfied by the preceding items, you shed your clothes and showed the world your bony, built-like-a-10-year-old ass in Playboy, the world's most irrelevant magazine?
Which was it again?
OK. So while it's not worth getting offended by her comments, I must say, that felt kind of good. Stupid, insipid, worthless cow.
Ahhh, thank you, TK. You took the words out of my mouth.
Posted by: Brie at September 25, 2007 5:07 PM
I just want to thank you guys for including my LJ link AND the 'shrooms picture. I feel like I've won some sort of contest, like one of those crappy TV shows where the adoring fans get to sing with their teen pop idols.
Actually, I don't know if any shows like that actually exist. I got the idea from an episode of Hannah Montana (I was babysitting!).
Posted by: Diana at September 25, 2007 5:54 PM
My college roommate used to say, "Better to not speak and be thought stupid, than to speak and remove all doubt."
I guess getting on television, marrying a has been and posing naked didn't get her noticed. Perhaps spouting non-sense will get her some attention she desperately needs.
"What? O'Reilly said...what now? How the...whta the...aaaaaaaaaaaaauuuuuughhhhhhh" *BOOM!*
I also want to accept this new designation as Pajiba's unofficial black correspondent. I hope I can be half as good as Larry Wilmore. Heck, I might even save you the trouble of reviewing the next Tyler Perry movie. By the way, how much does this pay? What? You mean I do this crap for nothing? AAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGHHHH..."BOOM!"
Adrienne Curry lost any kind of credibility her little post would have had if she hadn't tried to justify it by saying she LOVED (her emphasis) the comedians on BET. Sorry lady, but the comedians on BET suck hard. They basically tell the same old ass jokes with as many bleeps as possible. So, considering I don't even watch BET, not a big deal on that one.
But the Black History Month thing is a bit ridiculous. Then again, if I had to listen to Tyra calling me all times of the night in February screaming about how fierce she was on the cover of Sports Illustrated and how it changed the world, I might wanna boycott that too.
O'Reilly...what can I say? The man finally put a toe into the 21st century. Now if we could just get the rest of him over, there might be some progress. My brain literally hurt reading that. I really could not understand how someone could be so amazed that, oh my goodness, all that bad stuff you see on TV isn't actually TRUE! Ugh.
Posted by: Vermillion at September 25, 2007 6:12 PM
Does O'Reilly really think that's the first black-owned, black-run restaurant he's been to? What a jackass.
Posted by: Samantha T at September 25, 2007 6:15 PM
but, pleeeeease Al Gore run for President? Pretty please with kisses and cherries on top?
You realize Gore is being set up to run by the Democrat machine. He got an Oscar and an Emmy for things he had about as much to do with as Kennedy did with The Profiles in Courage which was ghostwritten for him but the machine decided to give give Kennedy a Pulitzer prize anyway.
Hillary and Obama are just rallying the party but at the convention the Hillary/Obama split will be healed with a big old helping of Gore-tex. He might even make a Nixonian comeback and get elected providing of course that he never dances in public again. The fact that he spends more on polluting via his electric bill than the average American spends on housing is more than negated by the Oscar/Emmy thing.
Posted by: OscarTamerz at September 25, 2007 8:51 PM
Is that Tobey Maguire as the yoga coach?
Posted by: Somebody at September 25, 2007 9:09 PM
I was listening to O'Reilly when he made the remarks. At the time he was talking to Juan Williams, a black author, about the crudeness, vulgarity, and misogyny prevelant in hip-hop, the most popular and profitable component of black culture today. His comments were to lament that much of America and the world sees this believing it is the best that African-Americans can do when it is indeed untrue. Williams, having just written a book on the societal effects of low morality, agreed.
Amazing what a little context can do, no?
Posted by: Renn at September 25, 2007 10:59 PM
Amazing what a little context can do, no?
No.
The article does make it quite clear the context of the remarks. Still doesn't make them any less condescending. O'Reilly sounded like he honestly thought that what he saw in rap culture was an accurate representation, until he had the fortune of going to a black restaurant. What, he didn't believe such establishments could possibly be as nice as he describes until he saw one with his own two eyes? Was it that difficult for him to separate the images on BET et. al. from the entirety of the black race? Was it really necessary for him to express that black patrons don't curse or demand tea in such a way?
He may have had good intentions...you know what? I can't even give him that much credit. Yeah, he had the black author on and there was a quite worthwhile topic to discuss, but the fact he even connected a night at a restaurant with the vulgarity in hip-hop is silly at best. Quite frankly, he is one of the last people who needs to complain about "black culture", considering how skewed his view of said idea is.
Posted by: Vermillion at September 25, 2007 11:15 PM
aaahhh, Bill O'Reilly. it's almost too easy. and Vermillion? while you're awesome, no question, Larry Wilmore is AWESOME. TOTALLY awesome. but you're young!!
Posted by: gilly at September 26, 2007 12:01 AM
"Lockjaw Curry"
Hee. TK that's perfect. Teeth clenching rictus is never an attractive expression....
I read the Bill O'Rielly comments, I must say that most of the thoughts it stirred up were along the lines of "Good God, what a fucking idiot. How does this man perform complicated actions such as breathing and walking simultaneously?" and then it was mostly just "Whuh?"
Should I know who he is by the way?
Posted by: Alex the Odd at September 26, 2007 4:51 AM
completely off topic here, but since when has Pajiba started advertising sex-chat sites?
twice now in the last week i have come to the page and been greeted by an ad banner down the left side that features 3 short looping webcam captures of scantily-clad "amateur college girls" (Lisa, 21; Jenny, 20; etc.) asking if i wanna chat. wtf?
when i reload the page the ad is replaced by a different ad, but still...
wtf?
Posted by: causaubon at September 26, 2007 7:53 AM
Posted by: Alex the Odd at September 26, 2007 8:25 AM
Should I know who he is by the way?
You're really better off not knowing.
Posted by: twig at September 26, 2007 8:47 AM
Alex the Odd:
ah. it all becomes clear.
(i will refrain from pointing out that i saw the ads before this article went up which probably means that it was something i was doing that made them pop-up. but i'll just pretend that didn't happen and let Pajiba take one for the team.)
Posted by: causaubon at September 26, 2007 9:31 AM
Vermillion, I determined the context from the source not a second-party highlighting a few lines selected from an extensive conversation. You should try it sometime!
Short of pasting a transcript here, allow me to summarize the exchange between O'Reilly and Williams; the root of racism is fear which in turn is rooted in ignorance. Hip-hop and its values are the strongest representation of African-Americans in our pop culture. It is a shame, and dangerous, that all races have this to base African-American identity upon.
Ahhh....but there I go, staying on issue when ad hominen attacks are so much more fun!
Posted by: Renn at September 26, 2007 11:03 AM
Wow ATO, I am so envious that you've never had to know Bill O'Reilly is. I would love to erase him from my knowledge bank, but that wouldn't be good enough. He needs to go from everyone's existence.
Posted by: katy at September 26, 2007 12:49 PM
As I recall, Renn, not only did the site include the very transcript you claim to not want to paste here, but they also linked to a video of said interview. So despite the (ahem) liberal use of bold font, one with an ounce of brainpower can see the 'context' these comments were made in.
I never said I did not understand what the topic was about. In fact, I said that the issue of hiphop and black culture was indeed a worthwhile one. I simply said I did not understnad why O'Reilly felt he had to bring up his delightful restaurant experience as part of it. And really though, is that the best defense you can come up with? That somehow his comments were valid becasue he happened to be talking to a black man about how terrible hip hop is? How does that make his comments any less insulting? Again I ask: did he really think, previous to this experience, that all black-owend and patroned restaurants were filled with boisterous, rude, and/or inconsiderate people?
And at what time were any ad hominem attacks were made, I ask? I directly addressed his words before even bringing his character into question. And 'ad hominem' is only called in when the personal aspect being brought up has nothing to do with the argument. He admits he has very little exposure to black culture beyond what he sees from hip hop. Therefore, if he wishes to address issues pertaining to said esposure, then I have the right to call him out on it.
As for your summary, how is that any better than the article above? You simply picked out the parts you deemed fit to relate to others, instead of linking to or copying your source. And the best part is, you do so, right after you state how the comments needed "context" instead of being highlighted on without the rest of the conversation. So bolding words in a transcript is misleading, but a three-sentence summary does the issue true justice.
I don't appreciate the tone you seem to be picking up in your posts, either. You assume that a person who has a problem with those comments simply did not pay attention or only looked at the bold font. I assure you I did much more, and I rarely if ever address such issues with only cursory information. I can accept that you may disagree, but I do not accept this tone of condescension. If you wish to debate the issue, that is fine. But respect your opponent enough to assume some comprehension of the topic until proven otherwise. I did it for you, afford me the same.
Posted by: Vermillion at September 26, 2007 1:52 PM
"Better to not speak and be thought stupid, than to speak and remove all doubt."
Wait, your roommate was Mark Twain?
Posted by: socalledonlycousins at September 26, 2007 2:31 PM
Oh, Adrienne. The problem with your rant was that, though you began with a valid desire for equality, you chose the wrong examples of racial "separation" to deride.
Black History Month exists because of the decades-long tendency to focus on white history in schools. BHM seeks to reconcile that by bringing attention to the importance of black history.
BET? It's a joke. It certainly doesn't speak for many blacks these days. It probably should be abolished - not because it's racist, but because it's stupid.
Oh, and you better believe that the Jews are still the littlest bit bitter about the injustices that they have endured. That only weakens your argument.
But can I disagree with you about your underlying argument? Not really, in all fairness. At some point in time or another, almost everyone has endured some kind of hardship. The blacks had a horrible time in the US, certainly, and I'm sure racism in many forms still exists. But you pointed out that there still is an inherent separation of skin color that we all allow by teaching white history in schools and then "fixing" it with a month for black history. We really should all be able to find a balance where we can teach history fairly, including the history of every ethnicity and culture to the best of our abilities - without having to call it "Black History" or "White History" or "Hispanic History", etc.
You also pointed out that universities, while aiming to assist "disadvantaged" students financially (in addition to offering them admissions), "disadvantaged" has essentially become a proxy for black, or hispanic, or not white - when there are plenty of whites who are in fact disadvantaged.
Basically? You failed your debate class. You've got too many little logical fallacies in your argument. But if you handed it over to someone with more of a perspective and more of a brain, they might have something there.
Posted by: Jennifer at September 26, 2007 3:00 PM
Oh, Vermillion. I may have just fallen in love with you a little bit.
I'm a sucker for a guy who uses logical terminology correctly.
Posted by: Alex the Odd at September 26, 2007 3:22 PM
Cue Vermillion's head exploding. For reals this time.
Good grief! Is this Bill O'Reilly thing REALLY that complicated? The man was simply trying to make a point.
The media depicts black people as ignorant, foul-mouthed, greedy, "thugs" who call each other the "n" word and run around talking about "bitches," money, gold chains (a.k.a. BLING,) guns and drugs. Watch MTV, BET, or take a look at anything relative to hip-hop culture and that's the image that's portrayed.
ALL HE WAS TRYING TO SAY is that in reality MOST black people don't act that way at all. The patrons of the restaurant illustrated his point that the majority of black people DO NOT behave like this, and his remarks were addressing our culture's stereotype of black people versus the reality of black communities.
Mr. O'Reilly certainly isn't ignorant to the fact that not all African-Americans carry guns and shout profanity, so you have to take that into consideration when he says he was AMAZED that Sylvia's restaurant was no different than one in New York.
In fact, assume it was the other way around and someone walked into a prodominantly white restaurant in, let's say, Kentucky. (Everyone knows that the unpleasant stereotype for KY is that the people are uneducated, barefoot, and incestuous.) If someone were to come out of the restaurant and say, "Wow, everyone was wearing shoes, speaking proper grammar, and no one was being inappropriate with family members!" that would be a good thing, right? Given the stereotype, it WOULD BE amazing to see that. I'm from KY and I'd be thrilled for someone to point out that not everyone here is a barefoot redneck. In a way, all O'Reilly said was that it was a surprise that the people in the restaurant didn't fit the stereotype. What's wrong with that? Nothing.
Posted by: Mary at September 26, 2007 5:09 PM
His trip to the restaurant, Vermillion, was brought up to illustrate the disconnect between the perception held up of African-Americans and the reality of everyday folk. This context is more constructive I believe than that of O'Reilly "finally put(ting) a toe into the 21st century." I dare say if he was an African-American making the same comments it wouldn't be added to a list of "provocative statements regarding race" as Media Matters calls them, hence my ad hominem remark. But I guess with less than an "ounce of brainpower" I'm blind to skin color when it comes judging the quality of one's argument.
As far as my tone goes, I know that I'm a square peg trying to negotiate a round hole, politically speaking, on this site. I enjoy the diversity of opinions regarding films, but tire of the seemingly lock-step view of the world outside.
Posted by: Renn at September 26, 2007 5:23 PM
Given the stereotype, it WOULD BE amazing to see that. I'm from KY and I'd be thrilled for someone to point out that not everyone here is a barefoot redneck.
Funnily enough, I never really heard that sort of stereotype in relation to that state. Tennessee yes, Alabama quite often, and especially Virginia. Even my own home state of Georgia has been victim to such slander (not to mention countless Deliverance jokes). But I can't say Kentucky was one of those states I have heard associated with such a stereotype.
My thing is this: why would you be happy with that? You already know such a gross characterization is wrong, so why would you be thrilled when someone who already accepted the stereotype sight-unseen finally realized that prejudging an entire state is wrong? Why couldn't they believe that maybe, just maybe, not everything they hear about Kentucky is true, especially negative stereotypes that are purposefully magnified my the media in order to garner ratings by playing to base ignorance? Are you honestly saying that it is okay to hold an opinion based on such blatantly erroneous information until such time as it is proven wrong? Maybe you are more forgiving than I am. Or maybe it would be a lot more difficult if you couldn't hide that you were Kentuckian.
His trip to the restaurant, Vermillion, was brought up to illustrate the disconnect between the perception held up of African-Americans and the reality of everyday folk. This context is more constructive I believe than that of O'Reilly "finally put(ting) a toe into the 21st century."
So you are arguing that he could not discover that until he went to the restaurant? That neither he nor his audience could see past the gaudiness on display in hip hop until he stepped into Harlem? If so, then that is disappointing, because such an argument would render his statement moot, since the only thing anyone will believe about black people is what is being handed to them on a silver platter. No one would bother exploring such contrasting images if they can just take the word of the guy on TV.
I dare say if he was an African-American making the same comments it wouldn't be added to a list of "provocative statements regarding race" as Media Matters calls them, hence my ad hominem remark.
So, you believe Media Matters used the ad hominem remark. You just did not make such indication clear. If that is the case, fine. But I must also say that words like those are unacceptable regardless of who says them or whom they are about. If he was black, but said that he was surprised, after attending a Chinese restaurant, that he was surprised that he could not detect any taste of canine meat, he would be just as wrong. Both are outrageous and cruel stereotypes. There are quite a few black people who hold really offensive stereotypes about other races (the Holocaust did not happen, all white people smell like dogs when wet, the VT shootings was a terrorist attack), and I tear into them just as much. In fact, my first big break here on Pajiba was against a black man who wished for a race war and for blacks to kill white people over the remarks made by Michael Richards. So I would like to consider my outrage to be quite diplomatic in some areas.
But I guess with less than an "ounce of brainpower" I'm blind to skin color when it comes judging the quality of one's argument.
See, now you are taking MY words out of context. I said that in response to your claim that the article did not include the words in the context of the interview. It was to illustrate that the writers did their best to ally the very doubt you stated. Your argument was that they failed to make the context clear; I simply expressed (through a bit of hyperbole I admit) that the context was included. I never related any such thing to your position.
And skin color must make a difference in your judgment, otherwise why even state that the response would be different if he were black? Or why even have an opinion at all, since the very issue is his perception of an entire race? You have to take in account O'Reilly's race in this instance, because HE is doing so as part of his argument. He stated the comparisons, not based on location or economic status or anything else, but on skin color.
As far as my tone goes, I know that I'm a square peg trying to negotiate a round hole, politically speaking, on this site. I enjoy the diversity of opinions regarding films, but tire of the seemingly lock-step view of the world outside.
And as I said, you can disagree, and I would not think any less of you. But you came here insinuating that anyone who did not agree with your viewpoint had not taken the time to understand the context. That is different than picking an opposing stance: you automatically assumed that you had better comprehension of the matter and posted in order to 'enlighten' us. I say again that I got the message just fine, I just don't agree with it.
Unless, of course, you are trying to argue that O'Reilly does have quite limited exposure to black culture of any kind beyond what he sees on TV as being popular. If so, then doesn't that make his 'revelation' a bit disingenuous? Is he really the kind of person you want commenting on race relations, seeing how he has yet to relate to other races?
Posted by: Vermillion at September 26, 2007 9:53 PM
Vermillion, earlier in the broadcast O'Reilly spoke about his grandmother who hated African-Americans (I got that from the unedited stream at his website). He believed this to be because she had never known any, only saw them on TV being arrested. Hard as it is to imagine, I believe this condition still exists today. About 12% - 15% of Americans are black. Most of these citizens live in concentrated pockets around a few major metro areas. But nearly everyone has a TV. So most of what the rest of the population knows about them, or any other racial faction, is transmitted through pop culture including entertainment and news media. Not to mention the black kid living in a depressed inner city, with an absent father and a single mother working two jobs, who is looking for an identity. As a news media figure O'Reilly has used his position to illuminate that not all, in fact few, successful black people carry on like gangsta rappers (e.g. insular, anti-social, chauvanistic).
Maybe I'm being redundant here (I hope just clearer), but it is frustrating that some choose to focus on a racially divisive aspect of this situation rather than a more progressive one.
As I've said there are a lot of smart people who support this site and I particularly appreciate your time and energy. I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree.
Posted by: Renn at September 27, 2007 11:41 AM
I can't believe this is still going on and on and on...
You already know such a gross characterization is wrong, so why would you be thrilled when someone who already accepted the stereotype sight-unseen finally realized that prejudging an entire state is wrong?
Well, for starters, I'll add you to the short list of people who aren't aware of the "barefoot redneck" stereotype of Kentuckians. Perhaps, things are changing after all!
Second, why would I be happy about that? Oh, I don't know. Maybe because it would be nice for someone to finally say on national television that the stereotype is untrue, instead of having to hear the comments made about people marrying their cousins and sleeping with their siblings, see the misrepresentation of my home state on sitcoms, and tolerate the embarrassing jokes made by Jeff Foxworthy who routinely uses KY as an example in his act. All the while not having the power on my own to do anything about it, other than wear shoes, marry outside of my family, and go to college. In fact, I find it quite inoffensive that someone would point out an error in popular opinion and replace it with actuality.
Anyway, O'Reilly is not a racist. That's the bottom line. No matter what you think of his statement. No matter what you feel about his trip to the restaurant. He's simply NOT RACIST. A racist would not stand up for the rights of members of another race, just as he's doing in the Jena 6 case. He has said that the white students who displayed the noose at the school were ignorant, and I doubt he'd say that if he agreed with what they did! In fact, he admitted that the hanging of the noose was a provacation of the black students. He wouldn't admit that the white student provoked them, if he were racist!
A racist would not call members of his own race PINHEADS, just as he's done with Sean Penn, Kevin Spacey, and that politician who got caught in the bathroom looking for some gay luvin'...I can't recall his name but I'm positive that he's WHITE.
A racist would not allow a black man to report on a story and have his opinions made available to the millions of viewers who watch his show, just as he's done with Al Sharpton. Oh, and he certainly wouldn't buy Al Sharpton dinner in Harlem, if he were racist.
So, RENN...right on! Vermillion, open your eyes and ears, tune in The Factor and give Mr. O'Reilly the benefit of the doubt. He's only interested in making things better for EVERYONE! Being conservative does not make him the devil. Being open about the misrepresentation of a culture within our society does not make him a racist. In fact, at least he's got the guts to point it out, rather than act as if it doesn't exist, which is what it seems you would prefer.
Posted by: Mary at September 27, 2007 1:47 PM
Renn: Fair enough. Agree to disagree.
Mary: As I said, maybe you are more forgiving than I am when it comes to such things. But when folks would rather believe the ramblings a mediocre comedian or a music video featuring a silly-looking buffoon than what they encounter in reality, I tend to get a little miffed.
I never said O'Reilly was racist. I said he wasn't someone whose opinion I would accept without question when it came to race relations. The same goes for Sharpton as well. I don't see where an honestly unbiased opinion can come from either man when it comes to this topic. So while your exuberance is appreciated, it is quite unnecessary.
And calling members of your own race names isn't indicative of absence of racism. It is just that you don't like those particular people. To be accurate, your examples do prove he isn't racist by definition, but does nothing to prove that he isn't bigoted, prejudiced, or discriminatory. That is pretty much saying "well, he doesn't burn a cross on your yard or wear a white sheet on his head, so technically he is in the clear".
I personally think O'Reilly is quite media-savvy, and mainly says things (like above) to instigate such reactions in the audience. Do I think he honestly believes some of the things he says? Not really. But if he is going to say them, he should be able to accept criticism of such remarks, and so should his supporters.
Posted by: Vermillion at September 27, 2007 4:32 PM
By the way, I wanted to ask: While O'Reilly has some support here, how come no one is defending Adrienne Curry's remarks? Where is the line that keeps him protected, but leaves her open for derision?
Posted by: Vermillion at September 27, 2007 4:36 PM
Uhh, O'Reilly has credibility (highly educated including Harvard, thirty years in broadcasting, host of the most watched news program in the country) whereas Miss Curry (won a beauty contest, posed in Playboy, married "Bobby Brady") uhh...doesn't? She's barely a celebrity, and while entitled to her opinion...who cares? Now if she wants to tell me about picking out lingerie...hmmm, maybe.
Posted by: Renn at September 27, 2007 8:58 PM
So are you saying that if the lines were reversed, and O'Reilly said the same thing Curry said and vice versa, then you would support said viewpoint with as much vehemence as you do now? Or better yet, if Curry had a Harvard degree and a popular TV show, would that make her more credible by default?
See, that would be an ad hominem attack. It isn't that you disagree with her statements; you just don't like who she is. You based your judgment of her words on aspects of her character that had nothing to do with the argument she made instead of addressing her points.
So I guess the question should have been: do you agree with Curry's statements, and does that decision hinge more on her words, or on who she is?
Posted by: Vermillion at September 27, 2007 11:17 PM
Vermillion, since you and I agree that TV imagery is in no way a safe bet for forming opinions, here's what I've encountered in reality. These are a few unpleasant personal experiences of mine. (1)I was raped by a black man when I was 17. (2)Black friends of mine in high school sold drugs and carried guns. (3)A black man I went to college with killed a white woman. (4)I went with a black girlfriend of mine to a house, and she had sex with the guy for cocaine. (5)My father's best man, who happens to be black, had a son that I was close with who committed armed robbery when he was 20 years old. (6)Nearly every black girl in my class has a baby, or babies, with a man who is not in her or her child's life.
That's not just something I've seen on the news. However, most of these stories DID make it onto the news and into the paper, and they were viewed in one way or another by probably every white person in this area. So, unless approximately 85% of the population can spend quality time with the remaining 15% of the population and see for themselves that there's not a lot to worry about, the majority has nothing other than what they see and hear to base their opinions on. Most people trust the news. They expect to get the whole story. But wait, what if someone that they trust were to say, "Hey, I did this and everything was fine and I had a good time,"? (Hint, hint.)
Now, here's what didn't make it onto the news.
I known a black man who sponsors and helps organize charities in my commmunity. I've worked with a black man who runs a youth center to keep kids out of trouble. I know black people serving as police officers and firemen. These are people I know personally. I feel priviledged to know these people. I've been lucky enough to have experiences that have allowed me to form a well rounded perspective. Not everyone has this opportunitity for whatever reason. If I DID NOT know these outstanding black people, and all I had to base my opinion of black people on was the previously mentioned unpleasant experiences, I'd probably be crossing the street to avoid a black person approaching me. (If you read what I wrote and you think I'm being racist by saying that, then forget it. I'm wasting my fingertips.)
Overall, I feel that white people are in a way forced to believe what they see and hear because they aren't as exposed to black people in their personal lives. The news, TV shows, and hip-hop/rap don't exactly cover the good things that black people do in our society, and they certainly don't characterize black people as model citizens. Therefore, I hope that white people will become aware of the prejudice that can be formed, whether it is knowingly or unknowingly, by only basing opinions of black people on what they see on TV and hear on the news. Our society has a long way to go when it comes to breaking down stereotypes and ridding ourselves of prejudices, but if more people, like Mr. O'Reilly, put it out there and try to prove that these views are based on misinformation then maybe we'll start to move in the right direction.
Posted by: Mary at September 27, 2007 11:25 PM
Wow Vermillion, you are really into concepts. Okay, I'll play. Curry, from what I can tell, is hardly an expert on much. I know who she is from what I stated earlier (junk culture is a guilty pleasure of mine). I don't really care about her. I dislike her inasmuch as she just appears to be yet another quasi-celebrity attempting to justify his/her existence by commenting on a serious subject without much background. O'Reilly is a student of History and Public Administration, someone from whom I can learn something. Put another way, if I want my house painted I'll hire a painter, not someone pretending to be a painter.
But since you've perused her words of wisdom, I gave them a second look. Curry's comments reflect many people's opinion about race relations in America, I think. But they're insensitive due to ignorance. History has shown that society must pay for its sins. The Golden Age of Egypt dissolved. Nazism nearly destroyed Germany. And the Colonial slave trade in America is a wound slow to heal. Black History month is a time to focus on millions ignored and oppressed for hundreds of years. As a gesture the best it can do is remind us as a nation where we came from, where we are now, and where we are going regarding African-Americans. The worst it can do is reinforce division, intolerance, and hatred based on race; Curry is mildly guilty of these charges. If I may be so bold, I think O'Reilly would agree with me. And if the quotes were reversed, as you suggest, my stance would remain the same, personal details aside. I think that O'Reilly is being treated unfairly. I've paid attention to him for a few years now and believe he is fair, reasonable, and responsible. But such is the state of the news media in America today. Too many times sound bites are used as propaganda diverting attention and energy away from real problems.
Posted by: Renn at September 28, 2007 3:15 AM
Mary: No I do not think you are racist, I think you are human. I don't think anyone could go through such things and not react in such a way. Indeed, if someone were to think you were racist because of those lines, I would be the first to shut them down. I take it someone has accused you of such repeatedly, and they would be wrong.
And as I said before, I don't believe O'Reilly really believes a lot of the more controversial stuff that he presents on his show. He is very experienced in such matters, as you so helpfully mentioned. In the interviews I have seen of him away from his show, he comes off much less in-your-face and much more reasonable that he does on his various Factor shows.
But the idea of him mentioning a restaurant being surprisingly caricature-free somehow does more for race relations than the work so many people have done, such as the men you mentioned (since they are not considered newsworthy) is offensive. Maybe I would feel different if he indeed focused on such men, but the whole meeting with Sharpton thing feels too much like a setup. And as I said before, Sharpton is just as responsible. That is the root of my issue with it: it never seems genuine. And that layer of manufactured reality does more damage than good.
But hey, maybe there is someone who did benefit from the interview and do see blacks in a slightly more positive light. If so, good for them.
Renn: Yes, indeed, concepts are fun. I find they keep the brain awake.
As far as Curry, yes, she is quite.... unaware in some aspects. But she (apparently) does have an audience, and I am fairly sure the laws of probability state there has to be at least one person who actually thinks she has a point, even taking into account her lack of experience. That is why I asked.
Plus, I have met many a person who has had a lot more wisdom and knowledge than many a degree-holder, and they many not have even graduated high school. And some of the smartest people in the world can be pretty stupid. So it seems a bit unfair to base my judgment of said comments on their relative education, instead of the quality of the arguments themselves.
But what do I know? I am just a random guy on the internet. And we all know how credible they are.
Posted by: Vermillion at September 28, 2007 8:50 AM
On the contrary Vermillion, you ask questions and look at issues from more than one angle making you credible in my estimation. You're right about knowledge not always equating wisdom in people we may meet. But I believe that those privileged enough to have a forum even as (ahem)large as Ms. Curry's should be held to a standard. So if maybe one person who reads what she wrote stops to think about it and delves deeper into the matter on their own I guess I'd HAVE to give her due credit. And, she absolutely looks hotter in panties than O'Reilly ever would.
Thanks for the lively back-and-forth, man. Maybe we'll bump into each other again.
Peace.
Posted by: Renn at September 28, 2007 10:47 AM
And, she absolutely looks hotter in panties than O'Reilly ever would.
Ah, something we can both agree on.
Thanks and peace to you as well.
Posted by: Vermillion at September 28, 2007 4:44 PM
I don't know what's worse--the actual blog entry by That Chick On That VH1 Show Who Has A Wonky Eye And Married Peter Brady And Also Is A Model Of Some Sort, or the fact that so many people gave her kudos. Right--let's get the fuck over racism by boycotting BET, because, like, seriously, slavery and segregation was, like, soooooooo LAST SEASON! Does she have a new show coming out? Because seriously, I just think she needed to feel relevant again--and what better way to feel relevant than blogging on your MySpace?