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The Cad List is...meh. Especially since it's lacking Uber-cad Patrick Bateman.

Cad Line: "You're dating Louis and he's in Arizona. You're fucking me and we don't have plans tonight. What could you possibly be doing?".

I mean, that kinda says it all.

Ahhh! See? There's nothing unfeminist about not wanting a wimpy-ass man. It's practically science.

You just don't know PB (as his friends call him) like I do, Mikki. Once you see his softer side....well, he'll gut you probably, but it's really nice to see before you makes you all dead-ey.

I've always loved sensitive men - I think it takes more courage to be sensitive than to be your typical macho dude. My husband is tall, athletic, and handsome, but can sniff out my mood within seconds of my arrival home. Love him, love him, love him.

They didn't seriously leave James Spader as Steff in Pretty in Pink off the list, did they?

OK, I want to know why I was lured here by Christian Bale, when he's not mentioned anywhere. Did he play a cad? Is he just there for the eye candy? Did I totally miss something and now sound like an idiot? We'll just go with the candy theory. Mmmmmmm...Christian Bale.

See, the problem is that that guy doesn't have a badass car. Guys don't cry if they have a badass car, cause then there would be sodium deposits on the leather upholstery and that would be wrong :)

And Litelysalted, absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting a wimpy man. I just think I have an old and outdated view of feminism, where the term brings to mind man hating women who want nothing to do with the male species unless they're in the kitchen or the laundry room. That's mostly though because I like to believe (though I know it's probably wrong - I'm looking at you, cast of Laguna Beach and Real Housewives of Orange County) that most women today have a sense of female empowerment, and so reserve the term for the radicals out there. Mainly any of the women that are actually turned on by that porn for women book haha.

You guys are hilarious. But in 100% total seriousness? I prefer a relationship where nobody wears the pants. Literally and figuratively... Okay I guess that wasn't very serious, after all.

As for the ex, I still adore him. He has since joined the navy and I send him care packages. Pretty sure he's still a pansy, though.

I hate you for letting me know something as awful as that "Bum Hand" thing exists.

But all this Christian Bale talk has forced me to forgive you.

I'm really surprised at the lack of acceptance here for guys who cry. They do it, okay? Some more than others, and it's not exactly someone's proudest moment, but if you're not going to be understanding and be there for them, and accept who they are, then you're much worse than a guy who cries sometimes.
There's no less sexism to critisizing guys who cry then there is to critisizing women who want to be CEOs, or firefighters, or any other traditionally male job. In fact, it doesn't even mean a guy is that much more sensitive. Some people just cry easily, even when they're not very upset.

Don't know if you'll read this, Samantha T - but, I must say you're a lucky woman. Does your husband have a brother - perhaps an exclusive club of that type of man? Hey, gotta look out for the other single ladies who frequent the site.

Please, someone, review Flannel Pajamas.