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The Mysteries of Female Ejaculation Explained

By Dr. Pisaster | Posted Under Pajiba Dirty Talk | Comments (37)



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Two things before I get to the meat (heh) of this week’s column. First of all, I’d like to thank you all for being so civil and thoughtful in the comments to these posts, last week’s especially. Secondly, for those of you who can’t get enough sex talk, I’ve started a twitter account where I can link to and comment on all the random bits of sex-related news out there that I don’t have time to write about here. You should check it out - if nothing else I promise it’s worth it for the seriously awesome background image. Now back to the fun stuff.

Several of you have expressed curiosity about the phenomenon of female ejaculation - what is it, where does it come from, and why do only some women seem to experience it? The answer to all those questions turns out to be: nobody’s sure, but a number of studies have been done that give us some clues. (My primary sources are here, here, and here, although these are just a sampling of the studies out there.) You would think from all the attention it receives and how little is known about it that female ejaculation is a recently discovered curiosity, one that’s experienced by relatively few women, but in fact it has been recognized (and considered perfectly normal) throughout history — the first known written mention of it is in the 16th century Indian erotic text Ananga Ranga. Medical investigation of the subject isn’t new either. Around 380 BC, the Greek anatomist Herophilos described the existence of a prostate-like organ surrounding the urethra in women which the ejaculate is thought to come from, and in 1672 a Dutch physiologist named Regnier de Graaf coined the term ‘female prostate,’ to describe the organ. The tissue is also known medically as Skene’s glands, after the 19th century Scottish gynecologist Alexander Skene, who identified glands homologous to the male prostate that surround the female urethra.

It has not been conclusively established, but these glands seem to be the most probable source of female ejaculation. They may also be responsible for the famous G-spot, a small sensitive spot on the front wall of the vagina that becomes pronounced during arousal, since they rest against the front of the vagina and are surrounded by tissue that swells upon arousal. In one study, as many as 79 person of women who identified as having a sensitive spot analogous to the G-spot experienced ejaculation. The glands themselves, like most parts of women’s sexual bits, are highly variable, and in some cases appear to be absent, which may explain why not all women experience ejaculation (or have an easily identifiable G-spot). Various studies using ultrasound and x-ray technology have found the glands in 66-80 percent of women. No studies that I’ve been able to find were able to directly link these glands with ejaculatory fluid, but given their location and homology with the male prostate (they derive from the same embryonic structures) they seem to be the most likely candidate.

The make-up of the ejaculate itself is less uncertain. The definition of ejaculation (both male and female) is the expulsion of fluid from the urethra during orgasm. In the past female ejaculation has been mistaken for urinary incontinence, however, samples from women who ejaculate show that although it comes from the urethra, it is not urine. In several studies the levels of urine compounds urea and creatinine are lower in female ejaculatory fluid that in urine, and unlike urine the fluid often contains high levels of the prostate protein, prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP) and prostate specific antigen (PSA) (alliteration in a column about female ejaculation - how often do you see that?). Indeed, the fluid is actually very similar to male ejaculate, minus the sperm. Studies indicate that anywhere from 10-69 percent of women identify as experiencing ejaculation, however the actual number may be much higher than that. High PSA levels have been found in women’s urine after intercourse and orgasm, leading to speculation that most women ejaculate to some extent during orgasm, but that for many women the ejaculate is directed into the bladder rather than outward (Maybe that’s why I always have to pee right after sex…). It’s also possible that the amount of fluid released is low and that women mistake it for vaginal lubrication. Complicating the matter is that the fluid varies in consistency and color from woman to woman and at different times in a woman’s cycle. It doesn’t necessarily come out as a thin, squirted stream that’s easily identifiable as something distinct from other sexual fluids (although, obviously for some women it does). It’s also not uncommon for women to mistake the fluid for urine and assume that they are experiencing incontinence during sex. Such women are more likely to hold back orgasms for fear of urinating. Which is a shame, since some studies indicate that women who ejaculate are more likely to experience multiple orgasms. Ejaculatory orgasms are also described as more intense than non-ejaculatory ones by women who experience them. So don’t hold it in girls, and hopefully this goes without saying, but boys, don’t get weirded out by large quantities of fluid coming from your female partner, it probably means you’re rocking her world.

As a general side note, some feminists find the terminology of female ejaculation/female prostate troubling because it frames the female sexual response and anatomy in masculine terms. While it’s obvious that male and female sexuality are very different, there’s also a lot of similarity that we should be more willing to acknowledge. The truth is that the sexual organs of both sexes derive from the same anatomical structures in the embryo. Nearly all sexual structures have homologues in the opposite sex; the penis=the clitoris, the labia majora= the scrotum, etc (there’s a complete list here if you’re interested). Consequently, some aspects of the sexual responses of both sexes will be the same - the clitoris becomes engorged with blood during arousal just as the penis does, for example. The typical use of these terms (by scientists anyway) are not meant to make female sexuality sound the same as male sexuality, but to acknowledge physiological similarities where they exist. And they definitely exist in the case of female ejaculation, as evidenced by the make-up of the fluid and the glands that it appears to flow from.

While some of the details still haven’t been worked out by scientists, it’s clear at this point that female ejaculation is real and probably more common than you think. It doesn’t necessarily look like it does in pornos, though, so don’t be disappointed if you (or your partner) don’t gush with every orgasm.

Dr. Pisaster has a doctorate in biophysics, not actually anything sexy. She does however enjoy having sex, reading about sex, and talking about sex. Especially when she’s had a little whiskey.









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Comments

It is real and it is SPECTACULAR. Like winning a gold medal at sex. Does tend to turn the "wet spot" into a lake though.

Nice article.

Posted by: TylerDFC at August 10, 2010 4:20 PM

These had to be the greatest studies in the history of medical science. I bet the researchers fucking skipped to work everyday. Also, it represents on the of the few times a person could list "janitor in adult bookstore" under Relevant Work Experience on a job application.

Posted by: Tracer Bullet at August 10, 2010 4:24 PM

It’s also not uncommon for women to mistake the fluid for urine and assume that they are experiencing incontinence during sex. Such women are more likely to hold back orgasms for fear of urinating.

I think this happens quite a bit and I would like to see it stop. Let the flood gates open and ride the wave.

Posted by: admin at August 10, 2010 4:34 PM

Had a girlfriend in college. She would tremble uncontrollably when she was cumming. If she was on her back, the spot was on the mattress and it was large. If she was on top, I could always feel it running down my dude parts. Really warm. And yes i felt good about it. Yes, I thought I was rocking her world.

(First time it happened I did think she peed, but shit, even if she had, WTF would I care. We were already exchanging other fluids, and I'm not so uptight that I wouldn't have understood if she had. People's bodies react in all kinds of different ways to various stimuli.)

Posted by: Not My Normal Handle at August 10, 2010 4:37 PM

This is where women get the non-shit end of the stick...literally. To massage your Skene's Glands (what would have been your prostate)...a finger in the asshole is not necessary.

Posted by: PissBoy at August 10, 2010 4:42 PM

I'd like to say something suggestive and somewhat dirty, but I've got nothing except a better understanding of this subject. Thanks.

-Frob

Posted by: frobme at August 10, 2010 4:59 PM

/adds to list of "times I need to remember to put my cell phone on high ground".

Posted by: Ian at August 10, 2010 5:05 PM

Ammendment to previous comment...

But ladies, sadly, you do end up with the shit-end of the finger.

Posted by: PissBoy at August 10, 2010 5:08 PM

Yeah, yeah, yeah. What I want to know is this - can it be used as an alternative fuel source, thereby lowering our dependency on foreign oil?

Posted by: Skitz at August 10, 2010 5:09 PM

Ya know for a movie review site, Pajiba has one of the best damn sex ed columns on the interwebs. I know it doesn't sound like I'm setting the bar high, but really this column alone should sell many, many ads.

Posted by: Mrcreosote at August 10, 2010 5:11 PM

As a female, I don't ejaculate during orgasm, but I do squirt fluid from one of my breasts. I had a lump removed on one side, and ever since then that particular breast will squirt a clear salty liquid when I cum. I think it grossed hubby out the first time it happened into his mouth. BWA-HAHAHAHA. Payback's a bitch, buddy.

Posted by: BWeaves at August 10, 2010 5:15 PM

I agree, Dr. P's stuff is excellent. Though, I really wish she would have some how tied today's column in with Empire Records some how, because that movie just isn't getting enough love lately.

Posted by: Forbiddendonut at August 10, 2010 5:15 PM

I loved this column. I have held back from reading any other Pajiba DirtyTalk previously because I was really unsure about what kind of dirty shenanigans would be going on in the comments/column itself but I'm so pleased to find that it's been nothing but respectful and informative. I should've known eh?
Also, thank you Dr.P for giving all of us a little insight and information on the subject (which, as a woman, has always fascinated me in particular).
Now I'm off to read the other Pajiba Dirty Talk columns.

Posted by: Wormer at August 10, 2010 5:52 PM

Dr. P. I love you, and if it weren't for Mrs. Nedra I would totally be hitting on you right now.

"some studies indicate that women who ejaculate are more likely to experience multiple orgasms. Ejaculatory orgasms are also described as more intense than non-ejaculatory ones by women who experience them."

So we figured out that Mrs. Nedra had this capability about 7 years into our marriage. This is possible by manual (or oral) stimulation of the clitoris. Why I did not figure this out any way sooner is beyond me, but we also discovered like Dr. P. said that given the proper conditions not only do we get female ejaculation... we also get multiple orgasms!

Now I get to wear a crown in our bedroom.

Posted by: Nedra at August 10, 2010 6:10 PM

BWeaves, your anecdote is fantastic. I did laugh out loud.

Back when I could have sex that wasn't painful and felt like I was fucking a cheese grater... I would also leave a great lake's worth of lady jizz on the bed. I learned to embrace that long ago and was pretty popular for that in my group of friends. Men gossip so frequently.

On another note. I believe an article on chronic pelvic pain is needed! I have to go to physical therapy to fix my lady parts problem... alas I cannot afford much on minimum wage.

Posted by: ssarah at August 10, 2010 6:13 PM

A woman shooting that stuff out of her is nothing but the devil’s work.

Posted by: Pookie at August 10, 2010 7:41 PM

But the Devil is awesome in this particular situation and gets two thumbs up from me.

Dated several women that had this ability, one hated when it happened (so, naturally, I did it when I wanted to piss her off) the other was all for it.

My opinion? It's awesome. Sexy. Great. A masterpiece of work. It's also the greatest compliment one can get.

Posted by: Zerath at August 10, 2010 7:47 PM

A woman shooting that stuff out of her is nothing but the devil’s work.

The devil's greatest trick was installing the G-Spot, after-market.

And An Awesome Time Was Had By All.

Posted by: Rykker at August 10, 2010 8:04 PM

Agree with everyone! The lake after, assuming a towel was not placed, is just a fun after effect :-p

Posted by: Luke at August 10, 2010 8:04 PM

I have only had one guy be grossed out or think I peed when this happened. Needless to say he has not been welcomed back to Casa de Lume.

It makes me very sad to think that there are women out there who actually try to prevent this wonderful phenomenon. Really, ladies, it is 100% worth the extra sheet and towel laundry.

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And Spambot finally makes a post that's on topic.

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Posted by: hormel at August 10, 2010 10:48 PM

"As a general side note, some feminists find the terminology of female ejaculation/female prostate troubling because it frames the female sexual response and anatomy in masculine terms."

While I understand the "female" caveat of that, it is still ejaculation.
Would that not be a gender neutral term on it's own?
Perhaps a better word would be "ejillulation"?

Posted by: Odnon. at August 11, 2010 12:05 AM

Rowles, please put a stop to this column. Pleasures between two people should be kept private, pajiba is slowing turning into a pit of Sodom and Gomorrah. Wanton jezebels and witches will burn in the lake of fire if they continue to foul their sweet nature milk.

Posted by: Pookie at August 11, 2010 12:40 AM

this is a great column, dr. p! i want to have sex with it. and then make it squirt.

i recently found out i'm one of the (lucky?) few. go figure. it only took 35 years.

i think it has something to do with my pituitary tumor making my hormones go all wonky.

i have to say though, gentlemen, if you find a women who does squirt, i know you're going to get all excited and start high fiving yourself and looking at yourself in the mirror while you're puuuumpin', pump pumpin' it up, but a word of advice: don't just keep jammin' it in there willy nilly (::rimshot::) trying to make it happen over and over.

after a while, it does get tiresome. a LONG while, but still. i don't want to feel like i've been out ridin' fences the next day. oh you're a hard one, all right. but i know that you've got your reasons. these things that are pleasing you (over and over and over and oh my god WTF FTW seven seven seven SEVEN) will hurt you somehow.

god, i hate the fucking eagles.

in conclusion, to borrow a phrase from ms. carly simon:

LEEEEET THE RIVER RUUUUUUUNNNNN!!!!!!

Posted by: stopthemadness at August 11, 2010 1:44 AM

Seriously, thanks for this post - it took me years to find out I wasn't embarrassing myseld incontinence-wise.Keep the infos coming! (pun unintentional but apt nonetheless)

Posted by: cinekat at August 11, 2010 5:34 AM

Now that I think back on it, I did used to get wetter when I had an orgasm. Not pools or rivers, but definitely wetter. I just thought it was because I was more excited right when I came. Now, I'm drier than the desert.

Posted by: BWeaves at August 11, 2010 8:58 AM

BWeaves,

The ,house sympathizes.

Lots of KY Warming Liquid, honey. LOTS. Let it puddle until it forms its own wet spot.

Posted by: , at August 11, 2010 10:09 AM

Thank you for the Friends reference, stopthemadness.

I showed the hubs the header pic, and he just smiled and said, "It's the greatest compliment you ever give me", and then he winked.

True love means appreciating someone's fluids.

Posted by: Patty O'Green at August 11, 2010 11:49 AM

thank you for getting it, patty!

i love that episode. :)

Posted by: stopthemadness at August 11, 2010 8:19 PM

I will second ssarah's request for a column on chronic pelvic (and/or vulvar) pain. My girlfriend struggles with it daily.

Posted by: Brenton at August 12, 2010 4:38 PM

Now, my gal is a squirter. The other day we were attempting an act located somewhere betwixt 68 and 70.... She ejaculated, it went in my nose and I coughed,choked. She asked what happened and I asked if Dick Cheney was in the room cause I think I was just water boarded. You can't make this stuff up!

Posted by: Joe at August 15, 2010 10:26 AM

I had a similare experience to Joe above, in my twenties. At the time I thought it was fantastic and thought I was the world's best cunninglingist. Then years later I read that female ejaculation wasn't real and that it was just urine. So my memories of my old GF became twisted as I thought she had pist all over me. But now you tell me she hasn't so I'm happy again!

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Posted by: JoJo at September 11, 2010 6:25 PM

Fist of all: All women can ejaculate
secondly: it can via g spot OR clitoral stimulation
the secret is pushing down, don

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