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Pajiba Dirty Talk: Teens Know the Internet is Full of Lies, Damn Lies

By Dr. Pisaster | Posted Under Pajiba Dirty Talk | Comments (20)



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Last week the Guttmacher Institute released the results of a study on where teenagers get their information on contraceptives and sexual health. The not-so-surprising finding is that teens know that the internet is full of sources of misinformation and outright lies about sex. Previous studies have shown that at least 25% of teens and young adults have used the internet to look up information about sex (I would guess that number is an underestimate), but theses studies didn’t focus on whether these young people trusted that information. The purpose of the Guttmacher study was to gauge not whether teens used the web (of course they do), but whether they believed what they read on it.

This was done by conducting in depth interviews of 58 high school juniors and seniors from 3 different schools with different sex education programs and environments. That number is pretty small - par for the course for quantitative studies like this one, but something to take into account when interpreting these results. The researchers did make an effort to include a diverse group of students (rather than the usual all white middle class subject pool). Students came from either a large public high school in Indiana in which sex education consisted of two weeks of health class in combination with topics such as drug use (Drugs are bad! Sex is bad! Get it kids?); a small public high school in New York City which had no formal sex education but did have class group discussions of sexual health topics; or a large public high school in New York City that had a semester long comprehensive sex education program. Both New York schools also had condoms available for students and contraceptive posters displayed in the halls. All of the schools had ethnically diverse populations and the researchers made a point to include students of different races. A total of 18 white (9 male, 9 female), 13 black (8 female 5 make), 14 Hispanic (9 female, 5 male), and 13 Asian (7 female 6 male) students were interviewed. Students were asked where they got their information about birth control, condoms, and safe sex - school, friends, family, the internet and other media, health care professionals, religious groups - and how much they trusted each source of information. Students were not asked directly about their own sexual experiences, though most did bring it up themselves.

The students at the larger New York school, which had comprehensive sex education, were not surprisingly the most well informed about methods of birth control and safe sex. Students at the other two schools had a more superficial understanding of birth control methods. Several of these students expressed frustration at not being given more detailed information. Interestingly, all but two of the students said they trusted the information given to them at school, even if they did feel it was incomplete. Most of the students interviewed had also had discussions about safe sex with their parents. Girls were more likely to have had discussions about hormonal birth control with their family members, while boys were mostly just told to use condoms. The boys indicated that their safe sex discussion at home were mostly in the form of “safe sex sound bytes,” whereas the girls generally got more in depth discussion, usually from their mothers. The only ethnic difference here that the researchers report is a lower level of familial discussion among Asian students. As with schools, most of the students trusted the information they were given by family members.

Naturally, most of the teens had discussed sex with their friends. Boys were likely to discuss - and even advocate - condom use, going so far as to help friends obtain condoms. Girls discussed various forms of birth control with friends, and again the generally feeling among the teens seemed to be that such precautions are a good idea. Teens were, however, more skeptical of information from peers. Teens in relationships indicated that they had talked about contraceptives with their significant others, even when they weren’t yet sexually active. The teens also indicated that they trusted information from books and magazines. Interestingly, while more than one third of the teens had been exposed to information about safe sex and contraceptives, only one indicated that it was a primary source for her. For the most part students were more wary of internet information, although they trusted sites ending in edu or gov and health care websites more than general sites.

The sample size is too small to make any definitive conclusions, and the face-to-face interviewing style may have lead students to tell the interviewing adults what they thought they wanted to hear rather than the absolute truth, but the findings of the study ring fairly true to me. My own experience sounds pretty similar to the kids studied: I learned the health basics at school, misleading information from my friends (Not that I remember anything specific from high school, but my friend Heather in first grade told me that men and women made a baby by mixing their pee together), and my mother was open about birth control and willing to help me get a prescription for it when I was ready to start having sex (I don’t remember any very specific talks about sex with my mom, but she laughed at me when I told her as an adolescent that sex should only be for procreation, so I sort of indirectly learned that sex would be fun from her.) Students look to school and family as sources of authority and knowledge, while friends and the internet are interesting, but not necessarily trustworthy. It’s only partially reassuring, however, to know that students trust those authority sources, since parents, and )thanks to the pushing of abstinence only education) schools may not give kids fully factual information either, and even when they do it usually comes with an agenda of preventing teens from having sex. As a rational person reading this study, I’d say that it shows that high schools need to provide comprehensive sex ed to all students. I suspect, however, it will just encourage the people who for some reason think that if you tell teenagers not to do something they won’t do it to take advantage of students’ trust by giving them misleading and incomplete information.

Dr. Pisaster has a doctorate in biophysics, not actually anything sexy. She does however enjoy having sex, reading about sex, and talking about sex. Especially when she’s had a little whiskey.









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Comments

Interestingly, while more than one third of the teens had been exposed to information about safe sex and contraceptives, only one indicated that it was a primary source for her.

I think this might be missing a word or two. This refers to the Internet?

Posted by: Todd at March 30, 2011 5:13 PM

The only sex talk I ever had with a family member was-

Dad:You know about condoms, right?

Me:Yeah.

Dad:OK.

Posted by: Paultera at March 30, 2011 5:19 PM

Paultera, that's almost exactly the same talk I had with my mother.
"You know you should always use a condom if you ever have sex right?"
"Yes mom." [insert napoleon dynamite "sheesh" or something similar here]
"Okay, just wanted to make sure."

This was right after everyone found out that a girl in my class had become pregnant (small town).

I guess the fact that I actually didn't even have an Internet connection at that point really shows my age.

Posted by: JohnnyBee at March 30, 2011 5:27 PM

I want that header picture to spank me.

What were we talking about?

Posted by: BWeaves at March 30, 2011 5:28 PM

My mom gave me a talk when I was about 12 that featured an electrical plug and a wall socket and a warning that she would not be raising ANY grandbabies. {so far so good} She asked ME for some condoms when I was about 19 and she began dating again several years post divorce. I seem to recall they were Lifestyles multi-color. I believe she probably had to suck it up and go buy her own rubbers, the red/yellow/blue ones were just undignified for a woman in her 40's. Now, a GOOD daughter would have gone shopping with her.

Posted by: Lindsey with an 'e' at March 30, 2011 5:44 PM

See, I actually think this is disheartening. From what I know about parents and teachers they typically aren't much better than your peers at providing good and accurate information on sexual health. My jr high health teacher had posters from "Focus on the Family" hanging in the classroom. He was also an idiot and the gym teacher. Parents, teachers, and social workers are fallible, biased, error-prone, untrustworthy, and flawed. If schools can't impart basic literacy, math, science, or civics information to kids god help them if that's the source for sex ed.

The internet, on the other hand, is a pretty good resource as long as you know where to look and have some basic critical thinking skills (ah, there's the rub). Yahoo Answers, social networking and message boards are not good resources but Planned Parenthood and several other organizations provide a lot of really great information. The internet is probably the best and most accessible resource for accurate, detailed, and in depth information on sexual health. Cosmo, department of Health posters, and school curricula are a poor substitute.

Posted by: Yossarian at March 30, 2011 5:47 PM

I don't have time to read this until I get home, but Dirty Talk plus sexy pic of Hugh Laurie? THANK YOU!

Posted by: Patty O'Green at March 30, 2011 5:52 PM

My experience is similar to yours (health basics at school, misleading information from friends/peers). Regarding Asian ethnicity, I'm nineteen and Asian. My parents were open about subjects like sex when I was growing up when I asked, and still are. I don't want to speak for all, but for my Asian peers, I think there was this silent understanding that even relationships -- let alone non-marital sex -- were unacceptable at our age. It worries me when my friends have these myths about sex, so I have a greater trust in the internet and, of course, your articles.

Posted by: KP at March 30, 2011 5:56 PM

I got a perfunctory talk when my father found out I was living with my girlfriend over a summer during college. I think it may have just been "You better be careful". It certainly wasn't much more. The internet didn't exist at the time. As a parent I try to augment and correct whatever my daughter looks up, but the sheer volume of what's available now is pretty staggering.

Posted by: mrcreosote at March 30, 2011 6:23 PM

I went to a fairly health proactive school in New Zealand that had its own health centre where you could obtain (free) condoms, arrange family planning with a nurse and also meet with a doctor who came in twice a week. Plus a sex ed by a young gay man. We'd sit in a circle and everything we talked about was confidential. We tittered (14 yr olds) but every matter (not just sex but gender roles) was discussed in respect.
I also remember a travelling sex ed theatre group that performed at school which included how anal sex was normal.
Nobody from my class got pregnant or made someone pregnant during highschool as far as I know while I knew few of them were doing it quite a bit. So yay for good sex ed at school?

Posted by: kittennz at March 30, 2011 6:27 PM

Sounds like a qualitative study to me...

Posted by: good ol' smokey at March 30, 2011 7:02 PM

For what it's worth, my highschool (small, rural) gave us wrong information (pretty much just lies) about birth control. I specifically remember them telling us that a condom wouldn't protect you from stds because they could be contracted from skin to skin contact alone. My mother was pissed.

Posted by: The_wakeful at March 30, 2011 7:13 PM

I've always been very proud of my mom for her openness regarding sexual topics. I got the "how babies are made" when I was seven, with the help of an anatomically correct pop-up book (yes, there was a page in which an erect penis popped up. The next page had a 3-D uterus, fallopian tubes and ovaries. The next page had the penis in the vagina, and so on).

I was not sexually active in high school, but my health class had a lot of very good information - even more surprising because it was a private Catholic school.

Later, when I had a serious boyfriend, my mom made the point of making sure I was healthy, not taking any risks and making sure my partners were STI-free. I also sought out a lot of my own information a human sexuality class in college.

Posted by: Lexie at March 30, 2011 9:50 PM

Yossarian What's wrong with doctors and/or nurses?

Posted by: Snuggiepants at March 30, 2011 10:07 PM

I don't remember any specific sex talk since there was always openness about sex at my house (I knew way more than I wanted to about my parents' sex life), but before I went to college, which was 3,000 miles away from home, my mother gave me a talk which boiled down to, if you get pregnant, you have a family who loves and supports you and you're not on your own when/if you are faced with anything you're unready for.

It freaked me out way more than any talk about preventing STDs ever did. She may have inadvertently put off getting grandkids via me for quite a while. Then again, whenever I get a cold, she suggests I double up on birth control. I'm starting to suspect my mother doesn't want me to reproduce.

Posted by: leuce7 at March 30, 2011 11:11 PM

I attended a private, Southern Baptist school in North Carolina up through 8th grade, so let's just say my sex education in school was a bit lacking. Since the school's official stance was that having sex before marriage condemns a person to eternal hell-fire (along with believing in evolution and voting Democrat), administrators felt it was best to avoid educating teenagers about sex in any capacity.

My mom taught me about sex via random, alcohol-inspired anecdotes ("Honey, the best sex I've ever had has been with myself.") and books. Lots and lots of books.

Posted by: Dingles at March 31, 2011 6:50 AM

my mom had me at 15 so all i ever heard was DO NOT GET PREGNANT. I found out what sex was in the first grade from a girl named Alexis and couldnt wait to share this new found information with my mother. Who I think told me the truth. My mother was very proactive about putting me on birth control at 16 even though I WASN"T having sex.

Posted by: blacksred at March 31, 2011 8:42 AM

A condom on a banana at school and a tacit understanding at home that I wasn't a moron were all I ever got in the way of advice about the sexing.

Posted by: zeke the pig at March 31, 2011 8:56 AM

The internet was still kind of a novelty in my mid-teens, so I just went around trying to poke my weiner into everything and seeing what would happen. My cat hated me.

Actually, my mother gave me a book titled, "A Young Man's Guide to Sex" or something when I was 12 or 13. I've always loved reading and I hated talking to my mother at the time, so it was the perfect solution.

Posted by: Kballs at March 31, 2011 9:09 AM

I've already told you my story, but here it is again because I'm old, and old folks repeat stories.

When I was 7 or 8 my Mom brought home a book from the British National Heath called "Peter and Caroline, A Child's Guide To Sex." It was a cartoon book with very factual information that was just right for someone just learning to read. (I still have it.) She told me that if I had any questions I should come ask her and she'll go get me a bigger book.

Someone here at Pajiba made the comment that it's not about the size but the quality of the writing. I enjoyed that comment.

Posted by: BWeaves at March 31, 2011 9:47 AM