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No Really, the Kids are Alright

By Dr. Pisaster | Posted Under Pajiba Dirty Talk | Comments (33)



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A couple of weeks ago a study on teenage sexual behavior and school performance was presented at the American Sociological Association’s annual meeting. The goal of the study, titled Sex and School: Adolescent Sexual Intercourse and Education, was to determine whether the context in which teenagers engaged in sex — i.e. whether they were in a romantic relationship or having sex outside of a relationship — had an effect on whether sexual activity impacted their academic performance. The authors hypothesized that sex in the context of a relationship would be less likely to affect teenager’s academics than sex in more casual contexts.

Previous studies have found a negative correlation between teenage sexual activity and success in school (it should go without saying, but of course correlation does not equal causation). It’s been found that teenagers who have sex are more likely to clash with teachers, be suspended, and drop out of school than kids who abstain from sex. The natural conclusion drawn from these studies by policy makers has been that we need to stop teenagers from having sex at all costs (as opposed to determining why they’re acting out and addressing underlying issues that may lead to risky sexual behavior, because of course sex outside of marriage is wrong and the root of all problems). The argument for why having sex may affect teenager’s behavior in school is that teens who have sex are obsessed with it, to the exclusion of all else … unlike all those asexual teenage virgins, who never spend any time thinking about the sex they’re not having, I guess. The more likely (to my way of thinking, anyway), explanations for the correlation is that the forces which lead certain kids to have early sexual behavior also negatively impact their ability to do well in school. Sexual intercourse among teens has been linked to low self control, emotional turmoil, and emotional detachment for example. All of those factors could be contributors to both risky sexual behavior and poor school performance, rather than symptoms of sexual activity. Still, the correlation exists, and the current study was designed to determine if it held for all students having sex or just those having casual sex.

The study used data from the 1st and 2nd waves of the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health and educational transcripts from a follow up study, the Adolescent Achievement Study. The sample size varied with measure as some data was not available from the follow up study and some individuals had to be excluded for various reasons. The authors looked at a number of measures of academic success, specifically school attachment (a measure of how happy students were overall at their school, sample size 10,714), GPA (sample size 4,653), college aspiration (11,339), college expectations (11,331), general school problems (10,675), truancy (10,695), school sanctions, such as suspensions and expulsions (10,766), and drop-outs (11,545). Students who engaged in sexual intercourse were divided into three categories, those who had sex only in the context of romantic relationships (8% of female students, 8% of male students), those who had only had sex outside of romantic relationships (6% of female students, 15% of male students), and those who had sex in both contexts (9% of female students, 12% of male students).

The results for all groups combined mirrored earlier research, showing a net negative correlation between sex and school performance. However, the data becomes more nuanced when the students are broken down into the above groups. Compared with abstainers, female students who had sex in a relationship were more likely to be truant (increased by 60%) or drop out (increased by 300%), but otherwise showed no significant differences from abstainers. Male students who had only had sex in a relationship were also more likely than abstainers to be truant (increased by 55%) or drop out (increased by 160%), and also had lower college aspirations (the authors note that while the drop-out data appears disturbing, the actual number of drop-outs in all groups was very low). Female students who had sex both in and outside of relationships had weaker school attachment (by .15 points on a scale of 0 to 1), lower GPAs (by .21 points), 30% lower college aspirations, 55% more truancy, and higher odds of dropping out (increased by 300%). Males in this group had lower school attachment (by 0.11 points), lower GPAs (by 0.25 points), 40% lower college aspirations, twice the odds of school sanctions, more truancy (increased by 120%), higher drop-out rates (increased by 270%), and lower college aspirations (decreased by 50%). For the final group, students who had sex only outside of relationships, female students had weaker school attachment (by 0.15 points), lower GPAs (by 0.16 points), lower college aspirations (decreased by 25 %), slightly more problems in school, twice the truancy rates, and were 96% more likely to receive school sanctions. Males who had sex outside of relationships ad weaker school attachment (by 0.14 points), lower GPAs (by 0.30 points), 30% lower college aspirations and expectations, higher sanctions (increased by 200%), higher truancy (increased by 90%), and higher drop-out rates (increased by 130%).

The take home message is that having sex won’t necessarily ruin a teenager’s life. While having sex outside of a relationship appears to correlate with negative consequences, students who had sex in a relationship weren’t that much different from students who abstained from sex. No surprise there for most of us, but the potential of such research to impact policy is important. Studies like this one highlight the importance of acknowledging the sexuality of teens. As a culture we need to allow for the possibility that they can express it in a healthy way, rather than relying on scare tactics to prevent teenagers from doing something as natural (and fun) as having sex. Of course, the correlation/causation aspect of teenage sexual behavior and school performance is still not settled by this study. As the authors of the study note, context is very important when considering sexual activity. Our culture looks more positively on sex within a romantic relationship than casual sex (and frankly, the researchers seem to have a bias in this direction themselves). Teenagers certainly internalize this attitude, and teenagers who are emotionally stable and relatively mature (and therefore more likely to do well in school) may choose to relieve their raging libidos in romantic relationships, while kids who are already troubled may be more likely to engage in casual sex.

Dr. Pisaster has a doctorate in biophysics, not actually anything sexy. She does however enjoy having sex, reading about sex, and talking about sex. Especially when she’s had a little whiskey.









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Comments

I made straight A's in love AND calculus. Hence, I am the supreme being.

Posted by: penelope at August 31, 2010 4:26 PM

As a dork who didn't get laid till college, I refuse to believe that anyone else did either. They're all lying, every damn one of 'em!

Posted by: the_wakeful at August 31, 2010 4:44 PM

It's good to see some actual science applied to this to subject, but anyone who's been in high school (and doesn't have their head up their arse) knows all of it. We've all lived it.

And, penelope, you may have just had a very thankful Calculus teacher.

Posted by: RobP at August 31, 2010 4:45 PM

I can't wait for the exploding heads of the abstinence crowd. Stupid scientific studies, making it seem like it's okay for teenagers to have sex (the way they always have...).

My grades got better when I started having sex, because my boyfriend lived a train ride away and I wasn't allowed to go visit him for the weekend if my grades dropped, so I worked to pad my scores wherever possible.

Posted by: Reba at August 31, 2010 4:56 PM

...or I would multitask by reading about limits during romantic liaisons.

Posted by: penelope at August 31, 2010 5:06 PM

I think you're really grasping to try to explain away this correlation.

Posted by: Thing1 at August 31, 2010 5:06 PM

"The natural conclusion drawn from these studies by policy makers has been that we need to stop teenagers from having sex at all costs"

I think you're being over-general here. Certainly there are states where the very conservative abstinence stance prevails but in many states (and at the CDC), the policy makers accept teenage sex as a reality and try to put programs in place that will mitigate some of the consequences (birth control programs, HPV vaccine, HIV awareness, etc.).

Posted by: PaddyDog at August 31, 2010 5:11 PM

I know for a fact that my grades would have been way better if I had only managed to land a guy in early high school. I was mooning right the hell around all boycrazy all the damn time and had zero focus. Once I finally got a guy to kiss me at age 18, I balanced out my grades. Satisfaction makes room for getting down to business, at least in my case.

Posted by: replica at August 31, 2010 5:11 PM

And for those people who seem to confuse correlation and causation...

http://www.floatingsheep.org/2010/07/obesity-beer-and-christianity-or.html

Posted by: Phaeolus at August 31, 2010 5:24 PM

I'm less worried about my grades suffering if I start gettin' it on, and more about the fact that, as a pubescent teenage male, I have absolutely no libido. Oh well.

Posted by: Nonanonymous at August 31, 2010 5:27 PM

I'm 17. Let me just get this out.
I waste a lot more time procrasturbatin' than I would if I had some occasional sex. Damn this virginity.

Posted by: A-schaef at August 31, 2010 5:32 PM

Phaeolus, if it were biologically plausible, I would have that second graph's babies.

Dr. Pisaster, I'm vaguely recollecting that socio-economic status and college attendance end up accounting for huge chunks of the variance here, yes?

Posted by: ZombieScientist at August 31, 2010 5:53 PM

Did these studies specify ages of the teenagers and significant others involved? I've read that most teenage girls who get pregnant get pregnant by adult men, not teenage boys. Conversely, I'm betting most of the teenage boys were involved with other teenagers (ie, not adult women).

Posted by: Slash at August 31, 2010 6:17 PM

To clarify my above point further, I'm guessing that if a teenage girl is boinking an adult, she probably doesn't have the kind of parental supervision that might also be careful about making sure she does her homework, goes to school, uses birth control, etc. It should be easier (I would think) to keep your teenage daughter away from adult men who want to sex her up than keeping her away from a school full of teenage boys.

Not saying that every teenage girl who has sex or gets pregnant has neglectful parents, just sayin', maybe that's a correlation or causation or whatever right there.

Posted by: Slash at August 31, 2010 6:22 PM

Any 17 year old who can utilise words like "procrasturbatin'" deserves to get laid. Go out there and get some, A-schaef!

As for correlation between teen sex and bad grades, social and economic factors that lead to sexually active teens are also likely to be factors that cause said teens' studies to suffer.

These sorts of studies always like to draw neat little lines of cause and effect from one outcome to another outcome, without focusing on the root causes.

I went to a Catholic school, and so of course was surrounded by teen sex. I have to say, most of the dumbest people at my school, were good little virgins. Of course, I can't lie, a lot of the smartest people were also, perhaps at the cost of all other aspects of their lives. But the kids who had a lifestyle that often included sex, had a more well rounded character and life in general. Now again, I'm not saying that sex made them like that or that being like that automatically led to sex. But perhaps there was some root cause which put those two outcomes in common.

Posted by: DarthBrookes at August 31, 2010 6:28 PM

What? I thought standard policy was to show some vaguely scientific video with shocking full-frontal birthing to scare the freshman out of having sex until they were old enough to drop out of school. Is that not effective anymore? It's been a mainstay of the New Jersey education system for as long as VCRs have been cheap enough to shove in every classroom. I believe it is called the "not our problem" policy, codename: Health Class.

Posted by: Robert at August 31, 2010 7:59 PM

teens who have sex are obsessed with it, to the exclusion of all else

I'm still like that. I think it's because I didn't get any in high school.

Posted by: Jen K. at August 31, 2010 8:20 PM

I had dropped out of school, become a criminal, taken up cigarette smoking, drinking and other habits and become a vagrant before I had sex. It may have been that this early aberrant behaviour was a gateway to, or at least a warning that sex was to come.

In these studies, does anyone take into account who may be honest about sex in or out of a relationship versus who might not be. maybe the good kids who do well in school just lie about abstaining from sex?

Posted by: idleprimate at August 31, 2010 8:29 PM

I really want to echo what someone else mentioned up there: socio-economic status. I think the socio-economic status of your parents/guardians have far more to do with your college aspirations/expectations/actual attendance than almost anything else, including sex.

The kids who were having sex in a relationship obviously had higher truancy rates because they were skipping school to get it on.

Not that I would know about that.

Posted by: Snuggiepants at August 31, 2010 8:36 PM

Thing1, I ain't arguing the correlation doesn't exist, only that it means the sex is the underlying cause of poor school performance. As other's have pointed out, other factors could contribute to both variables, making them correlate even if one doesn't cause the other. The conflation of correlation with causation is a well-known issue in studies like these.
ZombieScientist, as far as I can tell they only asked if the kids were having sex, not the age of their sexual partners.
Robert, don't forget the terrifying pictures of STIs. And never ever mention that sex feels good or that masturbation is an option (at least, not to the girls, I don't know what they told you boys). Gotta keep those teenager's minds clean!

I believe the authors of this particular study did try to control for factors like socioeconomic status, but when you're dealing with human subjects there's no way to control for all possible variables.

Posted by: dr. pisaster at August 31, 2010 8:47 PM

dr. pisaster, Jersey covers the miracle of life and STIs in high school; it's not abstinence only education, though they do express that abstinence is the only fool-proof birth control. That's it for any sex ed. Everything else is drugs, alcohol, and a cursory statement about diet and exercise.

I did have a radical nurse in elementary school who explained masturbation to fourth graders her first year on the job. She...didn't even finish out the school year. Then again, she also told us size does matter and if we didn't have at least 4 inches, we couldn't make babies. That was a fun conservation with Mom and Dad, let me tell you.

Posted by: Robert at August 31, 2010 9:15 PM

Snuggiepants, another factor that is frequently strong in similar studies, independent of socioeconomic status is maternal education level.

Educated moms tend to have smarter, safer, better grounded kids, regardless of how much money they're pulling down.

Robert, I don't know if I'm a lot older or a lot younger than you (I'm guessing older), but my sex ed in NJ was actually pretty good. Way better than I've heard from most of my friends from elsewhere. Or maybe it's more dependent on the local school board than the state.

Dr. P, I think it was Slash that was interested in partner ages. Most data I've seen indicates that teenagers are sexing other teenagers for the most part, but self report is always a minefield.

Posted by: ZombieScientist at August 31, 2010 9:53 PM

I'd like to believe that if I'd had just the slightest bit of any closely resembling sexual intercourse the following would have never occurred.

One night me and couple of guys I work with decided we'd try our luck at a little roulette in a small casino about an hour away from Ramstein Air Base in Germany on the recommendation of our Supervisor from the Ariel Port we worked at. Also we were told that all drinks were free. So really we go there with the hopes of consuming as much alcohol as humanly possible before being thrown out on our inebriated asses, especially considering the fact not a one of us knew anything about roulette. But oddly enough we start winning. The more we drink, the more we win, till eventually the 30 Euro we came in with has grown to 100, 200, 300 Euro. So now rich on newly acquired money and drink, my friends decide the fact that a 20 year old boy who hasn't had his dick engulfed in anything aside from the tight confines of his own hairy fist and the occasional tube sock is in the act of committing a truly hell worthy trespass, and that even though giving yourself the old two knuckle shuffle while listening to the rhythmic incantations of moans and bouncing bed springs coming from the next room is convenient, nothing beats the real thing. So my cohorts decide to put their new found wealth to good use and take me to a whore house. Now usually I would be against this idea, seeing as how it's sad enough to be unable to get a woman on your own merit let alone finding out that the only way such an occurrence is possible is paying for it, but not that night. Oh no, for I am Chateau Shitfaced, so I yell "To the whore house" in a volume far exceeding normal standards of speech next to couple of old, now frightened German woman, and off we go.

So we soon find ourselves at the "Four Floors of Whores", and don't let the name full you, it is in fact an old four story hotel filled with whores. The whores each have their own room and as long as the door too said room isn't closed, then you may pick you out one (or more) whores who you can usually find in some various stage of undress. Now my buddies being the ones paying for this excursion decide they get to pick my whore, which frightens me to no end, but they do me a solid and manage to find me a truly beautiful specimen, the aptly named Brazilian Whore. So they push me into her room, give her the money, and escort her down stairs to her pimp to finalize the transaction leaving me alone in the room. She returns tells me in her best English to get comfortable and she'll be right back. Bad choice of words cause I am as far from being comfortable as I've ever been, but I'm sure from my extensive years watching late night films on Miramax that get comfortable is slang for get bare ass. So I begin to undress but can't bring myself to remove my boxers cause I am certain that somewhere my grandparents are shaking their heads in shame and that my mother has strategically placed a nanny cam somewhere in the room, knowing that one day I'd be there in that very room, at that very time, halfway around the fucking world about to do the herpes dance and she'd have all the proof to chastise me for the rest of my life.

Now the way the friends tell it, Brazilian Whore came down stairs with them, gave the mistress of the house the money and returned upstairs, only to return a second time to grab a towel, lube, condoms, and any other necessary implements needed to get me off, and then returns back upstairs again. Not a minute goes by when Brazilian Whore comes running down the stairs a third and final time straight to her mistress and becomes involved in a lengthy argument.

What happened is this. Brazilian Whore returned to the room carrying the towel, condoms and lube to find me still in my boxers. The now slightly frustrated Brazilian Whore strips naked, pushes me onto the bed, and rips by boxers asunder. She immediately begins to kiss me all over, rubbing me down in an attempt to petrify my wood, which takes no time at all. Then she sits up takes a condom wrapper and rips it open and sticks the condom in her mouth. Now at that moment, I can't for the life of me understand why she did that and I'm trying to wrap my head around that concept when she decides to to exactly that very thing her mouth. And that was all that was written. She bobs a couple of times but she knows something is different. So she pulls away and looks down at my penis, and then at me, and back down to my penis and this quizzical almost confused look crosses her face as if premature ejaculation is the most obscure and unanticipated occurrence in her line of work, which if I am not mistaking is getting guys to fucking EJACULATE. And then she utters the only two words that entire night that come out coherent and clear, as if God himself is dictating his shock and utter disappointment through this beautiful woman at that very moment, "REALLY? REALLY?". And I can't help it, I begin to cry, and apologize to this whore, this tart, this lady of the evening. But it's while she's watching tears stream down my face, that this strumpet, this cortizan, this woman whose profession has been around since the dawn of time who not a second ago was shaming me tries to become something bigger than herself, god bless her she tries to be A FUCKING SAINT. She hops off the bed, still naked, and runs out the room, deaf to my desperate cries of NOOOOO! She runs down the stairs, straight to her mistress, and this Mother Fucking Teresa of the Fellatic Arts demands a refund for my friends. RIGHT FUCKING IN FRONT OF THEM. I can hear four floors up, my friends laughing, for what feels like hours, god only knows what the other occupants were thinking. Finally after fighting back the tears of shear joy, my friends tell the mistress that no refund is nessasary because hearing a prostitute demand a refund after attempting to have sex with me is more than they could have ever dreamed of, and well worth their combined 80 Euro.

This story has managed to preceed me to every base I've ever been to. People know me, before they ever get to know me. And it really doesn't help that this is the stories my friends use at bars to break the ice when in the company of women.

FUCK MY LIFE...

Posted by: pastor of muppets at August 31, 2010 11:27 PM

Once I finally got a guy to kiss me at age 18, I balanced out my grades. Satisfaction makes room for getting down to business, at least in my case.
Posted by: replica at August 31, 2010 5:11 PM

I call bullshit Rep. You're way too hot. Either the guys in your school were fucking retards...or you were too damn picky. I'm just saying, because I would have made out with you in a heartbeat.

Posted by: DeistBrawler at September 1, 2010 12:14 AM

I don't know if my grades have ever been high enough to justify all the sex I don't have.

And thank you for sharing that, pastor of muppets. I smiled, but not to laugh at you. I just love stories, and you told it well.

Posted by: coryo at September 1, 2010 2:39 AM

Pastor,

That, right there, is the greatest story ever told.

Love your handle, BTW.
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Dr. Pisaster,

This all reminds me of nothing so much as those cookie studies they've done with little kids. You know the ones, where a little kid is given a cookie and told he/she can eat it at any time, but if he/she can wait 15 minutes to eat it, he/she can have TWO cookies.

The upshot seems to be that kids who find techniques to delay gratification and are rewarded with two cookies tend to get better grades, go to college more blah blah blah.

Replace "cookies" with "cock" and "pussy" and you have exactly the same study.

And in that case I'd wait for the two "cookies" too, if you get my drift.

Posted by: , at September 1, 2010 10:03 AM

Thank you :, , I'm glad you enjoyed it. Although I just realized I butchered the fuck out of the opener. Don't know what the fuck happened there.

Posted by: pastor of muppets at September 1, 2010 10:12 AM

Teens fuckin' and hookers? In the same thread?

Bro, it's just like our old dorm room...

Posted by: your roommate at September 1, 2010 10:46 AM

RE pastor of muppets: Sounds like the pro gave up way too easy. Seems like she could have given you a few minutes to reload, so to speak, and given you your friends' money worth. Not to mention, she really didn't need to humiliate you like that. Bad service.

Customer service really is a lost art, it seems.

Posted by: Slash at September 1, 2010 10:51 AM

Another fantastic read from the good doctor. Also, if you're out there in the cosmic skies of Pajiba writers, could you look up information on...the...um...tightness of ladybits, and lemme know when it...untightens a little, I guess. I blushed just having to type that.

Posted by: Brittany at September 1, 2010 6:04 PM

Nice blog. I learned something and got some ideas. thanks for posting.
"You could go to the adult store and check out 10 adult DVDS and listen to them, just to the soundtrack. You don't even have to watch -- just listen to how these professional ladies of the night perform the real act of seduction. It's not with their mouth on his manhood, but out of their mouth - the words they say, how they say them, and when."

Posted by: Dirty Talk Ideas at September 21, 2010 9:47 AM

I don't think I have seen this said in such a way before. You really have cleared this up for me. Thanks!

Posted by: Blake Pauza at December 16, 2010 5:59 AM

adult, she probably doesn't have the kind of parental supervision that might also be careful about making sure she does her homework, goes to school, uses birth control, etc. It should be easier (I would think) to keep your teenage daughter away from adult men who want to sex her up than keeping her away from a school full of teenage boys.

Not saying that every teenage girl who has sex or gets pregnant has neglectful parents, just sayin', maybe that's a correlation or

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