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I cannot imagine — on a site where the Coen brothers, Wes Anderson, geek culture, “Arrested Development,” and Joss Whedon reign supreme — that this admission could possibly go over well, but my two favorite directors of all time, unabashedly, unashamedly, and unapologetically, are Billy Wilder and Cameron Crowe. And while Wilder still carries a certain amount of historical cachet thanks, in part, to his role in popularizing noir, Crowe — who refused to embrace what passes for cool these days, namely sardonic wit, post-irony irony, and the effervescent whimsy ushered in by Garden State, hipsteria Hollywood and a Comic-Con driven box-office — has more or less slowly faded into obscurity, either in an effort to regroup after the (massive) failure of Elizabethtown or because he’s realized that his brand of cynicism-free filmmaking has no more place in today’s pop-culture landscape than Lloyd Dobbler has in a restraining-order happy dating world.

Nevertheless, today I submit as the latest entry into our Pajiba Blockbusters series, not the best Crowe film (Say Anything), the most influential (Fast Times at Ridgemont High), the biggest box-office and awards recipient (Jerry Maguire), or even my favorite (Almost Famous), but perhaps the least appreciated, and the least talked about of all his films: Singles, a charming ode to dating in your 20s and an incredible love letter to Seattle. And the reason I chose Singles is simple: It is the antithesis to the modern, mainstream romantic comedy, where every Ashton, McConaughey, Heigl, and Dempsey tries to win over the love of his or her life by beating him or her over the head with a flailing, chicken-headed epic romantic gesture. Singles, and Crowe’s other films to a lesser extent (see, e.g., Lloyd Dobler walking Diane Court around broken glass), are about the small gestures that blossom into a relationship. Any jackass can chase down a woman in an airport or unload two (or is it three?) months’ salary on a diamond ring and bend down on one knee in a crowded public place. But relationships are made when she pulls open the lock on your car door or he simply wishes you good health when you sneeze. You want to know if you’re meant to be? Don’t wait for a marriage proposal, just ask yourself this: Is her leg still pressed up against you in the morning? Does he walk on the side of you closest to traffic? Or, after all these years, do you still hold hands when the lights go down in a theater? If so, you’ve found true love — Cameron Crowe love.

For what it’s worth, Singles was also one of the, if not the first real Gen X film — predating (it’s production, at least) Slacker, and eventually giving rise to other, lesser and greater imitations like Reality Bites, High Fidelity and — for better or worse — the television sitcom, “Friends.” (Fun Fact: “Friends” was a second iteration of a planned television show based on “Singles” that Cameron Crowe vetoed). It’s also worth noting that Crowe — the all-time youngest contributor to Rolling Stone — was well ahead of the pop-culture curve here; production of “Singles” was actually completed before “Smells Like Teen Spirit” was even released. Singles, initially, was a small film that revolved around the Seattle music scene (e.g., Mudhoney), and featured cameos from Chris Cornell, Alice in Chains, and all four members of Pearl Jam (all of whom, during filming, were obscure outside of Seattle — I’m not even sure the term “grunge” had been coined yet). Prescient as hell, by the time Singles was released two years later (the studio had no idea how to market it), grunge was in full-bloom, which is why the movie was largely overshadowed by its soundtrack (if you were over the age of 12 in 1992, you almost certainly owned it and you’ve probably had the relentlessly catchy “Dyslexic Heart” stuck in your head the second you saw what film was being reviewed here); it’s also why the style of the film’s characters was so oddly mixed between 80s fashion (see, e.g., the bangs on both Bridget Fonda and Sheila Kelley) and grunge (to wit: the attire of Matt Dillon or the soul patch on Jim True-Frost, or Mr. Pryzbylewski to fans of “The Wire.”) And, like Dazed and Confused, released a year later, Singles had a lot of faces in it that wouldn’t have meant anything to you at the time, but who are jarringly recognizable if you watch it today (in addition to Jim True-Frost, there is also a very young Christopher Masterson, Victor Garber, Paul Giamatti, and Jeremy Piven (pre-hairpiece)). Even Tim Burton made a small, but memorable cameo as the next Martin Score-sees.

The film deals, mostly anecdotally, with five characters — Janet Livermore (Bridget Fonda) is an insecure 23-year-old infatuated with one of her neighbors, Cliff Poncier (Matt Dillon), the self-absorbed, talent-deprived lead singer of Citizen Dick, a role that Kevin Dillon’s character in “Entourage” must have pulled a lot from. Janet’s insecurities led her briefly to consider a boob job to satisfy Cliff’s hourglass syndrome. Debbie Hunt (Sheila Kelly) is looking for the perfect man via a video dating service (“Come to where the flavor is, come to Debbie country”). And then there is Campbell Scott, the twenty-something, less idiosyncratic version of Lloyd Dobbler, a traffic engineer trying to build a Supertrain in Seattle (“you give the people coffee and great music, they will park and ride”). He falls for Linda (Kyra Sedwick), an environmentalist with trust issues, and the two spend most of the film completely sabotaging their relationship. It’s beautiful.

There’s not really much of an overarching narrative in Singles; mostly, Crowe uses his characters to explore how small, isolated moments can affect a relationship. There’s a certain sitcomy feel to the movie, but in the best kind of way — it’s lightweight, but deceptively substantive, a thousand different pop songs distilled into an hour and a half. (It’s also the perfect Hangover Theater flick if you fell in love with someone the night before.) But what I appreciate most about Singles is that the big, dramatic speech never works, nor does the name written out in rose petals — and in real life these gestures never do (desperation, after all, is the “world’s worst cologne.”) Instead, it’s the small things — a single broken plate or a sneeze — that brings couples together.

Everything else is just an act.

Dustin Rowles is the publisher of Pajiba. He lives with his wife and son in Ithaca, New York. You may email him, or leave a comment below.









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Comments

I've never liked Singles. In fact, I'm not a big Crowe fan. I like that he makes movies that try to take people seriously, regardless of what age they may be. I don't like that the results are so dull.

Oh, and once again, Bridget Fonda is miscast.

Posted by: KateNonymous at May 29, 2008 2:50 PM

This movie shaped the way that I looked at romance from the moment I watched it. Screw Lloyd Dobbler, Steve Dunne was the perfect man. I dreamed of someone saying to me, "I was just no where near your neighborhood."

Posted by: Melanie at May 29, 2008 2:54 PM

I have somehow never seen this movie, I've always been pretty ambivalent about it. And I love Cameron Crowe, EVEN Jerry Maguire.

Posted by: Julie at May 29, 2008 2:55 PM

"That's a very nice hat your wearing, and I don't mean that in any Eddie Haskel kind of way."

"When my dad left home he said to me, 'Have fun, stay single.' I was EIGHT."

I can quote this movie all day. Thank you, thank you, thank you for including this in the Pajiba Blockbuster list. The soundtrack alone is reason enough to watch this film.

I actually didn't realize the "Video dating director" was Tim Burton! I actually thought it was someone trying to look like Tim Burton, haha.

Posted by: Haggis at May 29, 2008 2:58 PM

I saw Singles when it came out, but I was only 14 and I just have vague memories of it. I don't remember disliking it, but I never felt compelled to watch it again. Perhaps I should give it another chance, but...my apathy is powerful.

Posted by: Sarina at May 29, 2008 3:01 PM

I am not a Crowe fan either. I was dragged to this movie by some friends and spent the entire running time waiting for it to end, and wishing that they had chosen better music for the soundtrack.

Posted by: Adam C at May 29, 2008 3:05 PM

This always felt like one of those movies I should see and should like, but never really felt like watching. I was also only about 13 or so when it came out, so much of its appeal would have been lost on me then. But now that the end of my own 20's is nigh, your review makes me want to run out and check it out right away. Well done Dustin.

Posted by: Bistro at May 29, 2008 3:06 PM

Uhhhh isn't Elizabethtown desperately mimicking "the effervescent whimsy ushered in by Garden State," straight down to the very plot and characters of the film, except somehow even blander and more unsympathetic than Braff's self-aggrandizing fake lovefest?

I like Crowe, but at least concede on the fact that Elizabethtown proved even he's no saint in the mainstream movie market.

Posted by: vinniedelpino at May 29, 2008 3:10 PM

"I was just - nowhere near your neighborhood."

I love this flick.

Posted by: TK at May 29, 2008 3:11 PM

One of my favorite movies of all time, and absolutely my favorite soundtrack. Awesome pick. I didn't realize it was so obscure---i was so "into" the Seattle music genre in those years, I was the perfect age (18 in 1992). I still think that all the good music was made before 1995.

Posted by: michelle at May 29, 2008 3:12 PM

Boo, everyone here's just dissing it!

They were showing this in a TV Classics channel here in Copenhagen, right between The Birds and Tootsie. Weird.

Posted by: Ina at May 29, 2008 3:12 PM

I really like this movie, and watch it whenever I see it come up on the Channel Guide. I disagree that Bridget Fonda was miscast. I think she does "sweet" really well. And sweet in the good sense, as in gentle and pleasing, not cloying and sticky.

Crowe has a true fondness for young people, and it comes through well in his movies. They're never Ashton-Kutcher-morons and even those that are trying to appear cynical and sophisticated still always have a hopeful edge that can be trodden down but not crushed.

Posted by: Wednesday at May 29, 2008 3:16 PM

I'd always watch Singles after a major breakup, it always made me feel better knowing that the struggle to find someone wasn't mine alone.

Posted by: Melina at May 29, 2008 3:22 PM

Any of you other oldies out there remember the Vaselines? Good lord, my wardrobe in those days consisted almost entirely of gigantic tee's, flannels, ripped jeans, and black combat boots. Oh, and a sheet of acid.

Posted by: michelle at May 29, 2008 3:23 PM

This is one of those movies that I can watch over and over and never be sick of, and it never seems dated to me. I wore flannel shirts and had the Bangs of Doom in high school; my sister has recently discovered Pearl Jam (don't ask, she's 28) and was thrilled that I have most of the CDs. I gave them to her, because I was always more of a Nirvana girl. I still think Chris Cornell is hot. And I get frustrated in the scene where the answering machine eats the tape! Every time!

Posted by: Nicole at May 29, 2008 3:24 PM

Thank you Dustin! I was in my early twenties when this came out and I related to Bridget Fonda's character SO much at the time, because I also wanted a rocker boyfriend. This movie is fantastic - haven't seen it in years, but it was my first introduction to Campbell & Kyra (and maybe Bridget too) and I have been fans of theirs ever since.

Posted by: SCG at May 29, 2008 3:29 PM

I vividly remember watching this when it came out at age 13 and thinking it was achingly romantic. Yes, like Say Anything, this helped shape my perception of what romance is. Small gestures and miscommunication, dammit.

And, yes, I hear Dyslexic Heart now. Also, Would? by Alice in Chains. Ahh, 13. What a great year.

Posted by: Sharon at May 29, 2008 3:32 PM

Braff's self-aggrandizing fake lovefest?

"You have 'balls' written on your face."

Yeah he sure was cool in that movie.

I will put this one on the queue. The queue which is somewhere around 270 movies, I think. We're on the one-at-a-time plan. I should be good until death.

Posted by: twig at May 29, 2008 3:33 PM

"We're real big in Belgium"

I LOVE this film. I suspect from the comments above that there's a 30+ and under 30 age gap here. It's so funny and so real. The scene in the club where Campbell Scott calls Kyra Sedgewick in a drunken impulse and tries to make himself heard over the club music while people badger him to get off the phone? So well done, who hasn't been there and damn haven't cell phones taken the romance out of being drunk and in love?

About six years ago we found ourselves diverted to Brussels from London due to weather and decided to spend the night looking for clubs playing all the local bands that claim to be "real big" in samll Euro countries. I do agree Fonda was mis-cast (but since I don't believe she can act I think she's mis-cast in everything).

However, I absolutely hate Jerry Maguire. Partly because of Renee squishy face and partly because it does have the big gesture in it. Blech.

Posted by: PaddyDog at May 29, 2008 3:34 PM

"I was just having many beers...and I uh..."

Love this film. Crowe lets the characters unfold the story. The film feels unforced.

Posted by: slouchmonkey at May 29, 2008 3:34 PM

Good lord, my wardrobe in those days consisted almost entirely of gigantic tee's, flannels, ripped jeans, and black combat boots.

I'm a pudgy CHUD. For the first time in the history of ever, I was fashionable. I wept when it ended.

Posted by: twig at May 29, 2008 3:35 PM

It ended? uh-oh...

Posted by: Bistro at May 29, 2008 3:39 PM

I can quote this movie all day. Thank you, thank you, thank you for including this in the Pajiba Blockbuster list.

Boy Howdy! First saw it when it came out as I was about to turn 17 and was kinda mystified that it came and went in the theaters after I'd been reading about it for ages.

"This weekend...we ROCK Portland"

"We're throwin down on Aloha Street!" ("PEACE! PEACE PEACE!!")

"This is NOT the bathroom!"

"What are you talking about?" "I don't know"

And on and on and on. Another of the My sister and I and Nobody Else movies. Bravo, Dustin.

Just recently I called someone a Mr. Sensitive Ponytail Man on here (not someone here) and I wondered if it would be comprehended. Also, Dustin, you DO have the book of Cameron interviewing Billy, right? It'd be an amazing coincidence if you didn't, but I'm just checking.

It wasn't until I bought the remastered "Blue Train" by John Coltrane that I got the auditory joke used in this movie. I excitedly called my sister to inform her, a good ten years after its release. Love, love, love this movie.

Posted by: Jay at May 29, 2008 3:39 PM

Who the hell is Josh Whedon?

Love this movie, though I haven't seen it in a LONG time. I didn't even know it was Cameron Crowe, probably because I had no idea who that was back then. Appearances by True-Frost and Garber are certainly a good enough reason to revisit it.

And between this movie, Little Buddha, and The Professional, my love for Bridget Fonda will never die. (Bite me, La Femme Nikita fanatics.)

Posted by: Todd at May 29, 2008 3:40 PM

Todd:

Consider yourself bitten.

Posted by: PaddyDog at May 29, 2008 3:43 PM

I love Elizabethtown. It's a comfort movie to me. I'll never understand why it's considered a failure.

(It's entirely possible my love for the movie has to do with losing my own father unexpectedly . . . and my love of road trips . . . and Orlando Bloom ain't ugly none . . . but that's beside the point. It makes me feel good.)

Posted by: minorblue at May 29, 2008 3:46 PM

I'm a proud Cameron Crowe AND Billy WIlder fan. As an aspiring screenwriter, I feel both of them - along with James L. Brooks - are some of the few writers who can actually capture real life in a scene, and the descriptions in their screenplays are as captivating as the story we get to see on the screen.

See, reading my own comment makes me feel ashamed of myself. I can't get away with saying shit like "they can capture real life in a scene" 'cause I ain't Crowe, Wilder or Brooks.

Posted by: Sofía at May 29, 2008 3:46 PM

i saw this movie when it came out and haven't thought of it until today! this review makes me want to watch it again. i think i'll like it more now that i'm older and have actually had a relationship. and i do have the "na na na na na na na na na" in my head.

Posted by: kelley at May 29, 2008 3:50 PM

I was 16 when this came out, a full-on grunge princess with plaid galore and combat boots that I wore with jeans and dresses alike. Everyone in my clique went to go see this movie (LOVED IT) and we played the hell out of the soundtrack for the last two years of high school. Screaming Trees, anyone?
Seriously, this was one of the defining movies of my high school career (Dazed and Confused gets a special nod too)and will always have a special place in my heart. Shoot, I may have to rewatch it this weekend....

Posted by: maylai at May 29, 2008 3:56 PM

This is still one of my all time most quoted movies as well. Jay, I too, still refer to people as sensitive ponytail men, not to mention say "This weekend, we rock Portland!" every time I got out on a Friday night, and sometimes I'll get real close up to my fiance's face and say "There is so much life in you...and so much...emotional larceny in all these others." I amuse myself to no end.

Elizabethtown and Jerry Maguire notwithstanding, I love me some Crowe, and this one is my favorite. What can I say, I was a young teen during the grunge era, and Eddie Vedder saw right into my soul.

Posted by: MG at May 29, 2008 3:59 PM

Todd, you do realize that Bridget Fonda wasn't in the Professional right? She was in Point of No Return.

Posted by: cmoody at May 29, 2008 4:01 PM

Good lord, my wardrobe in those days consisted almost entirely of gigantic tee's, flannels, ripped jeans, and black combat boots.

I was 11 and was the grunge kid at school. Flannel, ratty jeans, combat boots (not Docs), and the long straight hair. I am going to be listening to Alice In Chains now. I never saw this movie, but Almost Famous is a personal favorite. I can recite half of that movie.

Dazed and Confused was my movie from this time frame. Young McConaug-Hey, Affleck, and nasal Joey Lauren Adams.

Posted by: Melody at May 29, 2008 4:01 PM

maylai, you're damn right Screaming Trees. If you havent already, check out Lanegan performing with Greg Dulli as the Gutter Twins. It's truly dirty hot.

Posted by: MG at May 29, 2008 4:06 PM

"But relationships are made when she pulls open the lock on your car door..."
AH! i LOVE a Bronx Tale. I had an ex who did the locked door test on me and I passed with flying colors. That was before I saw the film, proving my superb girlfriend skills.

Posted by: julia at May 29, 2008 4:08 PM

"Are my breasts too small for you?" - Fonda
"Sometimes." - Dillon

Great choice. We just picked this up on DVD and pondered why there is no super-duper-we-did-it-for-Armageddon-for-fuck's-sake-Criterion-Edition of Singles. That ending shot of the city with the many, many conversations all overlapped pretty much sums up my view of what it was like to be single right there. I was in college when it came out and, yeah, that movie was fucking gigantic on my campus. I STILL have the poster and the soundtrack.

Posted by: Rob at May 29, 2008 4:11 PM

I spent just three years in Seattle, during college, and while I call anther big city home now, I watch 'Singles' when I need a Seattle fix. And for the awesomeness that is the small romantic gesture - those acts really do show how a person feels, and who they are.

Thank you for adding this to Pajiba Blockbusters!

Posted by: Lollygagger at May 29, 2008 4:27 PM

I love Vanilla Sky. There, I said it. I love it.

Posted by: Kevin Longrie at May 29, 2008 4:35 PM

Todd - I am with you - I love Little Buddha and Point of No Return also!!!!

Posted by: SCG at May 29, 2008 4:41 PM

I think Crowe wrote Fast Times but Amy Heckerling directed it.

I like this movie, but I detested "Almost Famous." I thought "Singles" got it right and was far less fantasy-based.

Posted by: samantha t at May 29, 2008 4:45 PM

Oh hells yes the Screaming Trees.

I used to spend SOOO much time in the used CD store finding all the Sub Pop babies. ((weirdo in the town i live in, the guy can't stop collecting cds/records/tapes)).

Heart was great on that soundtrack also. And as a lover of Mother Love Bone (still) I'd nearly cry at any reference to Andrew Wood/MLB/Pre-Pearl Jam stuff. He was unbelievably beautiful. I thought the film was a nice tribute to him also.

I'm dating a 53 year old man, who absolutely cannot understand my love for this music---

And no, Melody, I coudn't afford Doc Martens either. Heck, at the time I was living on a $5/week budget (ramen noodles and a dozen eggs, anyone?). I was lucky to have money for Cisco.

Posted by: michelle at May 29, 2008 4:47 PM

Almost Famous is my favorite movie. Zooey Deschanel can't act her way out of a wet paper bag, but when she looked into my eyes and told me that someday I would be cool,well...

I'll never stop believing again.

And the chicks are great. And some money would be nice.

P.S. High Fidelity is the perfect breakup movie. Perfect. Hands down.

Posted by: that bees chick at May 29, 2008 4:54 PM

Careful, Michelle, CAREFUL!

Not everyone knows about the dangers of Cisco and may rush in where angels fear to tread, but I tried to warn them with my experiences with a bottle of Red in Ted's Hangover Levels column.

Posted by: Jay at May 29, 2008 4:59 PM

Cisco

Michelle, I am going to have to ask why you brought that evil Satan water up. That remains the foundations of the worst hangover I have ever had in my entire life. Coincidentally, it was also the cheapest drunk of my life.

I am having flashbacks now.

Posted by: Melody at May 29, 2008 4:59 PM

This movie rocks.

Posted by: DarthCorleone at May 29, 2008 5:12 PM

Ha. You guys.

Cisco was an integral part of this time period for me. As was blotter acid, and if we managed to donate plasma that week, Evan Williams. Can't think of one without the other.

OK, DISCLAIMER:

Kids, don't ever approach a bottle of Cisco. It may appear friendly, even fruity, but it will turn on you in a minute if you let your guard down!

Stick to Boone's Farm. Or Mickey's Big Mouth. *urgh* Talk about legendary hangovers...

Posted by: michelle at May 29, 2008 5:22 PM

I didn't know what Cisco even was, and I had to look it up. It sounds digsusting. I'm pretty sure I don't believe in it.

Posted by: Sarina at May 29, 2008 5:25 PM

No need to apologize for being a Cameron Crowe fan! Even Elizabethtown had a good soundtrack. This is the only one of his movies I haven't seen, but, given this review and how much I've adored Campbell Scott since "Roger Dodger," I'll have to check it out.

ps. Aren't we getting close to the grunge look coming back into fashion? It feels like we've already cycled through the 80s. Plus, it was so comfortable.

Posted by: LB at May 29, 2008 5:26 PM

I'd like to make another shout-out to Screaming Trees, who I stopped to put on before reading this review. Seems to me that Paddydog got it right about age having something to do with how people feel about this movie. Its release coincided with the start of my adventures in adulthood. (Why don't I own it?)

Thanks for the review!

Posted by: digger at May 29, 2008 5:38 PM

Sarina, you would not believe in it. It tastes like Robtussin cough syrup. It is about $5 a bottle, best I remember. It is created in the fifth circle of hell and is guaranteed to make you think that you are living there in the days after imbibing.

I was unable to unlock my own apartment door after a night with that stuff.

Posted by: Melody at May 29, 2008 5:48 PM

Is it worse than Southern Comfort?

Posted by: Sarina at May 29, 2008 5:51 PM

I've never so much as seen this movie, but for almost ten years I couldn't avoid the soundtrack. I got it in the heady days of 1993, it was the third or fourth CD I ever owned. From then on, no matter what else happened, from stuff getting stolen, lost or just plain disappearing, the soundtrack to Singles would somehow, magically, make it back into my collection.

I was heartily sick of it (I had, at one time, three copies of it... despite only ever buying that one initial purchase...)... but now? I sort of miss it, not even having MP3's of it to remind me of all the awesome music that was on it...

But I suppose that I SHOULD at least make the attempt to see the movie, seeing as how I wound up in the Pacific Northwest in the end.

Posted by: Spike at May 29, 2008 5:51 PM

Like others here, I saw this when I was 13 or 14. My best friend and I rented it for a sleepover and we SWOONED. I was convinced this movie was just exactly the way being a single 20-something would be when I grew up.

'Singles' is also pretty much where all of my Matt Dillon love comes from. He's damn funny in this.

But you missed Eric Stoltz as the talkative mime! Great cameo (although a little unrecognizable under the white makeup).

Posted by: Lizzie (greeneyed fem) at May 29, 2008 6:20 PM

Lizzie>>

"Let me tell you about love. Love disappears, baby!"

Posted by: DarthCorleone at May 29, 2008 6:37 PM

my sister and i still quote Jeremy Piven's part in the movie: "you are the KIIING! you MUST be there!"
"Of course you may be busy."

LOVE. people who diss it are just too young.

Posted by: robin at May 29, 2008 6:38 PM

Nothin's funny 'bout- PEACEPEACEPEACE- peace love and under- PEACEPEACEPEACE

End dork/

Posted by: robin at May 29, 2008 6:42 PM

The Soundtrack is still one of my all time favorites: Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, Paul Westerberg, Smashing Pumpkins... The Screaming Trees song is probably my favorite.

Did not enjoy this movie as much as Almost Famous. That movie was perfect in almost every way. Phillip Seymour Hoffman as Lester Bangs was brilliant. Frances McDormand as the mother was spot on. Fucking Jason Lee! And is it okay that I developed a crush for what was probabaly then an underage Ana Paquin? The scene with them singing Tiny Dancer. And the scene of (I think) Billy Crudup at a high school party was very authentic. So were the concert scenes. What a collection of talent.
Anyway, Singles seemed a bit self-absorbed to me. I just could not muscle up the energy to give a shit about those people whereas in Almost Famous you got the feeling something special was happening. I rooted for the kid and all the other characters in A.F., but (to borrow a more recently ubiquitous term) thought of the Singles folks as douches.

Posted by: JP at May 29, 2008 6:57 PM

JP, the difference is, with Singles, we were those people. Keep in mind that at the time, it was actually kind of different. We hadn't been over-Tarantino'd with blase-yet-terribly-clever dialogue.

I always liked the scene in the movie when Eddie Vedder et al were watching the documentary on bees. They look too wasted to be a put-on.

Melody, my boyfriend (at the time, natch) actually tried to punch through a cop's winshield on a Cisco bender. What a winner he was.

Posted by: michelle at May 29, 2008 7:08 PM

I loved this movie so, so, so much. I was probably about 14 when it came out, and I wanted to be in that exact space that all of the characters inhabited so bad.

And, oh jesus, "Dyslexic Heart"! It was my introduction to the non-Replacements Paul Westerberg.

@Michelle - the bees scene was the. Best. Well, next to the scene in the diner where they're reading reviews of their show.

Posted by: layla at May 29, 2008 7:38 PM

Darth! YES. It does.

Robin -- I personally thank you for the Jeremy Piven dorkout. I hope they play that clip at his funeral. And can I also express love for the scene where Matt Dillon blows all the windows out of Bridget Fonda's car while trying to win her back? LOVE.

Posted by: Lizzie (greeneyed fem) at May 29, 2008 8:07 PM

Lizzie, love is not so much the unlocking of a door, but the installing of a new.car.stereo.

Posted by: michelle at May 29, 2008 8:16 PM

Thank you - I am now huming a tune I actually don't mind having stuck in head (nanananananananananananananananana - not sure how to break that up properly). Love this movie

Posted by: Brian at May 29, 2008 8:26 PM

Dustin Rowles, you are just beautiful.

Brian I SO have that very song running through my head on a loop RIGHT NOW.

Posted by: Az at May 29, 2008 8:52 PM

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Posted by: Jay at May 29, 2008 10:30 PM

Yes, to Billy Wilder, Cameron Crowe, and most definitely the flannel-shirtin' early nineties. God, I miss my Chuck Taylors....

The nice thing about my hubby growing up in a sheltered hole where his musical knowledge has a huge gap between 1979 and 1997 (he grew up with Zeppelin and Hendrix, but not Pearl Jam) is that I get to introduce him to all the music I loved from age 12-17. He would have been so much cooler if we had known each other in middle school....

Posted by: Tammy at May 29, 2008 11:25 PM

I LOVE this movie, my absolute favourite. I was 18 when it came out. I have the soundtrack on tape and CD, and I have the video. I am old. However, since seeing this I have seen everything Campbell Scott ever made. Plus, Ally Walker and Peter Horton? The Profiler trading chores with Debbie for the thirtysomething guy? I still use "Mr. Sensitive Ponytail Man." Ok, gushing over, but thank you for including it!

Posted by: llp at May 30, 2008 12:22 AM

God, how could I have forgotten about this movie? I must have watched it once a week when I was in high school; it's one of the few rom-coms I like. Old CW: screw the big romantic gestures, fall in love with someone who actually gets me. New CW: no one is ever gonna get me, settle for lots of flowers. Send back every other bouquet just to be mysterious.

Posted by: Kris at May 30, 2008 1:00 AM

OH! AND . . . Debbie's dream man who notices her earrings is . . . Daddy Bristow from 'Alias'! Man, this movie is great.

Posted by: Lizzie (greeneyed fem) at May 30, 2008 1:05 AM

I loved Singles the very minute I saw it. Years later I met a girl that could finish all the quotes I started to cite while feeling dizzy: she was beautiful and we were in something like a love daze. She said she hated her birthdays, because the day she was turning eleven her parents got divorced. I bought a VHS tape of Singles and gave it to her the next week, wishing her a happy 11th. birthday, even though we were months away from her actual birthday. Corny, I know, but Crowe-like, right? Like that postcard, "Kiss at the hotel DuVille"? Anyway, three days later everything went to hell: she treated me badly and left me wondering whatever happened. Some time later I found out she did things like that to many people, teasing them, flirting until they fell in love with her.
I now see Singles like something that was somehow tainted, ruined. But, hey! That´s what love can be like, right?
Please forgive my english if there´s any mistakes: I´m from Argentina and never really learned to speak english, oficially...
Oh! A bonus track for you.
Crazy movie link: at the end of the movie, when the camera zooms out and we hear many people proving that "our heroes" are not alone in the dating game, there´s a man howling like a wolf, something that actually happens in "Queens Logic", a movie with similar intensions, but less talent(s).

Posted by: Pablo at May 30, 2008 1:15 AM

Pablo - that chick was a cow of the highest order. I HATE when someone fizzles my happy joy time.

I recently got dismissed on my "life on mars" love with a 'found it only mildly entertaining and the characters were pathetic' at a dinner party. I only mention that example because of the shiny-new and not afraid to be really real type of feeling Crowe is pretty good at without trying to squeeze the juice out of it. Plus, raw enthusiasm saves everything. Even tap dancing. Sorry for the off-topic meander...

Posted by: replica at May 30, 2008 3:23 AM

"We will ALWAYS go out dancing!"

"I'm going to put it to you like this and then I'm going to thank you for your time: my answer is... no."

"You're a doctor, man. Many, many babes are into that!"

And how can it be that no one has mentioned: "Janet, you rock my world"?

Singles is one of my all-time favorite movies. I always get chills when the Matt Dillon character is walking down the street while the Smashing Pumpkins song starts... Don't know why, just a lovely moment.

Posted by: zebulon at May 30, 2008 4:24 AM

One of my all-time favorites. It's just a perfect slice of delicious nostalgia for me -- from a time period that I'll always hold dear.

Posted by: Chez at May 30, 2008 10:08 AM

An all-time personal favorite, and not just because it united several of my personal Great Loves (the city of Seattle, the music of the era, and Bridget Fonda). As the review says, it captures the importance of the small moments, as well as the joy and humor of dating.

When I first saw it, I felt a wonderful sense of confusion. The outcomes of the stories, when summarized, seem obvious, but upon first viewing, they don't seem at all inevitable. Crowe put in enough loose ends and realistic moments that in my first viewing, I actually wondered who would end up with whom. Imagine that in a regular romantic comedy.

During my sojourn in Seattle as a young single man, I kept a postcard of Robert Doisneau's "Kiss at the Hotel de Ville" on my wall.

Posted by: Soulless Merchant of Fear at May 30, 2008 10:10 AM

GOD. This review totally made me order this off of Amazon.

I remember in high school being totally obsessed with Eddie Vedder and therefore this film. I saw it in the theatre and was bummed that there wasn't more Pearl Jam. That didn't stop me memorizing all these great quotes. Jeremy Piven was the absolute BEST in this film. Can't wait to watch it again.

Posted by: amanda at May 30, 2008 11:17 AM

Also - how come no one has mentioned Mr. SensitivePonytailMan??

Posted by: amanda at May 30, 2008 11:18 AM

Todd, you do realize that Bridget Fonda wasn't in the Professional right? She was in Point of No Return.

And I even checked her IMDB page to make sure I got it right, just before getting it completely wrong. Nice going, genius.

Posted by: Todd at May 30, 2008 11:24 AM

A 53 year old man? Please tell me you are somehow 53 also...

Posted by: I Laugh At You at May 30, 2008 12:32 PM

I loved this movie then AND now-I can't believe how many people are bagging on it? It's one of my favorite 'anytime' flicks.

"A compliment for US-is a compliment for YOU"

Posted by: meg at May 30, 2008 12:57 PM

I have an unhappy baby screaming in my ear but I have to stop and post my love for Singles. I was 13 when it came out and I worshipped this movie. I still listen to the soundtrack quite often on my iPod.

Michelle, I had a Vaseline's album (yes, an LP from subpop) and I have an undying love for Mother Love Bone.

I think Pearl Jam's State of Love and Trust is one of their best songs ever. Drown, at the end of the album is one of my all time Smashing Pumpkin faves too.

Posted by: Jodeci at May 30, 2008 1:21 PM

And just a few weeks after this movie came out, Dustin got his period. Ahhh, memories.

Posted by: I Laugh At You at May 30, 2008 1:29 PM

Old person here----they shot this movie only 3 blocks away from where I was living in Seattle when I was in my 20's!

Gorgeous movie, and I love it's mostly true take on Seattle in that place and time.

Yes, everyone I knew who lived in that area of the city dressed like that, in thrift store clothes, a 2nd hand leather jacket (if you could afford it), and for the women, black leggings that you wore with everything everywhere (cringe). (Except of course no one wore actual Doc Martins because they were way too expensive. And if you showed up wearing actual Docs you'd get shunned---it was a giveaway that you were a trust fund baby from the 'burbs and so uncool.)

Also of course, the characters in the movie would no way have been able to afford to live in either the very nice apartment building with the central courtyard (which was actually inhabited mostly by wealthy gay lawyers) and certainly not Kyra's huge house!

We actually lived in crumbling rat-infested tenements with the doors kicked in, homeless people passed out in the lobby, and fights in the hallway at least once a week. One night someone was actually stabbed to death in the alley outside my building. But oh well, I guess that would have been too unattractive for a movie.

Posted by: mad cartoonist at May 30, 2008 1:29 PM

MG - noted! Will do!

I also had to add that the summer after this movie came out, I made my parents take me to Seattle and we spent two days driving around looking for that Mother Love Bone wall. We didn't find "it" but we did find another wall painted with the band's name, of which I still have a picture to this day.

Love love love. God bless grunge! :-)

Posted by: maylai at May 30, 2008 1:48 PM

Me, I always thought the live "Birth Ritual" was a lot better than the studio version. Why put an effect on the Cornell? He is the effect.

The good thing in the long term is that you can keep wearing the Martens to work for the rest of your life (I also have the wingtips for more formal occasions).

I did really like the long cutoffs though, shape-showcasing like jeans, but revealing with the knee and calf. Not "exciting", but it is. Too bad it was a trend and faded.

As for older men, I can't speak for everybody, but I used to always grouse about girls being with these older guys (everyone I ever met seemed to have a story about "that 30 year old guy") and then, suddenly, in my late 20s, I noticed that the women who were single were younger than me. Like the Outfield, I'd liked girls a little bit older, but I saw what was going on. "Damn, I'm that guy now, by default. This is who's around". Still, I'll be around when the first marriage goes bust. "'member me? Let's stop playing games, Cookie".

Posted by: Jay at May 30, 2008 1:50 PM

@Jodeci: Cool! I wonder how much common knowledge it is how badly Nirvana borrowed from their songbook.

@I laugh at you: Nope, I'm 34. He has HUGE junk and buys me stuff.

Posted by: michelle at May 30, 2008 1:51 PM

meg: hahaha! I love it when Matt Dillon asks to only hear the good stuff, and the other band members skim, skim, look up at him, skim, skim . . . HA!

God, do I have to watch this again RIGHT NOW? Maybe.

Posted by: Lizzie (greeneyed fem) at May 30, 2008 1:56 PM

He has HUGE junk and buys me stuff.

Well, hell, I'd better get to work. I don't know how far past 40 charm and wit's gonna carry me!

Posted by: Jay at May 30, 2008 1:58 PM

oddly enough, i was going to middle school across the street from the apartments when this was shot. I always found it interesting how you never see the huge play field and school basically next door to the coryell court apartments in the film. Weird to have a childhood landmark in film. It always bugged me that the movie made it like the complex was only 4 big apartments-it's really around 8.

Posted by: vena at May 30, 2008 3:35 PM

Girls can't get over big black connects. At least that's what Howard Stern and porno taught me.

Posted by: Lil Wayne at May 30, 2008 7:54 PM

Love this movie. Several of my favorite moments have already been mentioned (my absolute favorite being "Of course, you may be busy" after Jeremy Piven sees Steve purchasing every pregnancy test in the store). Another favorite is when Steve asks Linda for his blue t-shirt back, and she claims not to have it. Cut to the next scene when she is cleaning the toilet with it.

"I don't need to be your girlfriend. I just want to know you again."

Posted by: jules at May 30, 2008 8:59 PM

"Is her leg still pressed up against you in the morning? Does he walk on the side of you closest to traffic? Or, after all these years, do you still hold hands when the lights go down in a theater? If so, you've found true love -- Cameron Crowe love."

Thank you, Dustin. You've just affirmed my ten year relationship for me. :)

Posted by: ofthrees at May 31, 2008 5:11 PM

God damn it, my generation really needs some movies like this. Juno just doesn't cut it, it's far too cute and twee.

I don't want the irony-- my life is too ironic already. Irony and sarcasm are defense mechanisms that I don't want to have to use anymore. I just want a simple movie to which I can relate, and that makes me feel like it'll be okay.

I think this is what pisses me off even more than the failure of Hollywood to do justice to things like Narnia. Huge, epic movies like that can take a lot of damage, because they're huge and epic and have a lot of cinematic inertia. Smaller, softer films can be destroyed by such little things, and it's like no one is willing to take a chance on something so delicate.

God damn it, now I'm this weird combination of pissed off and depressed and tired.

Posted by: That Girl at June 1, 2008 10:41 AM

you and I have so much in common, Dustin.


Wilder and Crowe are my loves.

Posted by: Beth at June 2, 2008 2:06 AM

Long time lurker, first time poster.

Had to be this film (or Airplane!, my unapologetic all time fav - both of them) that would lure this ageing headbanger out into the open.

Was 18 at the time and already well into grunge so seeing a film with all my favourites featuring so prominently both on the soundtrack (this was basically my fav soundtrack bar none until the Tarantino ones came out a few years later) and on screen was already a complete geekgasm. Plus the film turned out to be not half bad either!

"When the shirtless Cliff starts to sing..."
"Wait a minute, man. I don't want to hear anything negative. Go on"
"other than that, He was ably backed by Stone and Jeff......and drummer Eddie Vedder."

Love it.

Posted by: BayC at June 2, 2008 8:02 AM

The best came in the movie:

Tad!

Posted by: Ben at June 2, 2008 11:49 PM

Cameo. Dammit.

Posted by: Ben at June 2, 2008 11:49 PM

I adore this film (if only because I wish Chris Cornell would come and watch me unloading my truck) and even though it's deeply flawed, it's still a happy place for me.

Posted by: embertine at June 10, 2008 9:15 AM



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