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I Am the Warrior

The Wrestler / Brian Prisco

Film Reviews | December 30, 2008 | Comments (37)


Wrestling isn’t fake. It’s certainly staged, it’s undoubtedly scripted, but it’s all too real. Like a testosterone-laden, homoerotic soap opera, carefully crafted characters clash and co-mingle in relationships as torrid and dramatic as any musical. Only instead of breaking into song, they smash folding chairs over each other’s heads. With the wealth of real-life tragedy and legend that has surrounded the world of professional wrestling, it’s something of a small miracle that the first project to seriously plumb the pathos is not some exploitative bio-pic dredging up Owen Hart or Chris Benoit. Instead, thankfully, Darren Aronofsky gives us the messy and marvelous tale of a professional wrestler trying to gain glory one last time. Despite a few whiffs, The Wrestler manages to finish strong, earning well-deserved praise for its champion.

Around this time of year, the Oscars always shake loose some sort of existentialist fable of one man’s life in a preening attempt to gain golden accolades. Some A-lister spends most of a film recovering from a life-altering hardship, ultimately coming to terms with life and all its foibles after taking up 85 percent of a two-hour film. Normally, movies like About Schmidt or Cast Away give me the howling fantods, but The Wrestler manages to supercede the typical banality. The plot is exceedingly simple: Randy “The Ram” Robinson, a superstar of the 80’s WWF circuit, barely ekes out a living while trying to latch on to his last vestiges of fame. It’s a character study of an incredibly pathetic life, an athlete well past his prime still trying to stay in the game. Through health risks, near poverty, and numerous humiliations, Randy clings desperately to wrestling since it’s the only thing he knows.

The Wrestler lives and dies by the performance of Mickey Rourke, and it is something to behold. Robert D. Siegel’s script at times feels like an allegory for Rourke’s own less-than-glorious career. Randy is a hideous mess of a man, a sagging giant with peroxide-bleached Vince Neil hair and a turkey-basted tan. Mickey’s plastic-surgery ravaged pout, craggy face, and world-weary body add a depth to the character that no cinema star’s makeup-laden smile could have ever captured. Randy hasn’t so much lived the life of a wrestler as survived it. The young up-and-comers revere him as one who was in the show, the rabid fans adore him, and Randy’s managed to parlay 20-year old fame into a comfortable rut. What money he manages to scrape together from thrashing around in backwater civic centers and church halls, he spends on steroids, strippers, and maintaining his 80’s Jersey sheen instead of on his trailer rent, so he sleeps in his van.

Like modern-day aging rock stars who haven’t put out an album in years, Randy finds himself taking increasingly horrifying measures to draw the attention he so desperately craves. Randy has fallen to a third tier sideshow for hormonally deranged jackals in fatigues and Dragonball-Z button downs screeching for blood. True to the nature of the sport itself, Randy has to get crazier to make money. He ends up going through a hardcore match with a bespectacled redneck who stapleguns dollar bills to his own forehead. Aronofsky adeptly cuts between the match itself — with the slavering baboons chanting “Holy Shit” and “Kick His Ass” as the two men smash each other with lamps and barbed wire — and the backstage aftermath where EMTs tweeze tacks and shards of debris from the bleeding, wincing warriors.

While one would assume the most uncomfortable part of the film would be watching grown men in spandex hurl each other around in a clumsy ballet, it’s the moments when we watch Randy’s “real” life that are the most difficult to watch. The rest of the movie is spent with him sifting through the shards of his completely bottomed-out life, trying to fix what’s long been broken. Literally every aspect of his life falls apart. The characters surrounding Randy act mostly as the paraphernalia in the hardcore matches. While they enhance the hell out of the movie with their appearance — like a ladder and a table covered with barbed wire — they really have little less function than as devices with which Randy can destroy himself.

But, oh how they wound. Todd Barry is deliciously evil as the manager of the grocery store where Randy earns money during the week. He’s a snide balding douche, mocking the hell out of the big dumb galoot who slaves for him at the deli counter. Evan Rachel Wood shines as the daughter who wants no part of the man who wasn’t there for her growing up. Her role’s as cliched as a choke-slam, but she smashes the hell out of it for all it’s worth. Marisa Tomei is terrific as the aging stripper-mom who dotes on Randy because he’s one of the few guys still paying to see her sagging tits and crayon-inspired tattoos. One of the saddest moments in the movie comes when Randy spends what you know is rent money on lap dances so he can retell his old wrestling matches to her. He cares less about the ass in his face than what he used to be.

The Wrestler is a blisteringly uncomfortable film to watch, because it’s the story of a man who doesn’t know how to be anything else. Randy tries to abandon The Ram, but it’s all he ever was. What makes it so powerful of a performance is that you can see how he eagerly tries to be a normal guy, with a daughter, a girlfriend, and a steady job. But wrestling is something he can never escape. Wrestling was the one thing that kept him afloat, and even when it’s practically killing him to continue, he does. It’s the only thing in his life that matters and, by proxy, makes him matter. The final sequence is agonizing to watch, because you genuinely care about this affable loser. Rumor had it that Nicolas Cage was attached to be Randy the Ram, but this is Mickey Rourke’s film, both figuratively and spiritually. Rourke is a fallen star, a man who mauled himself in the name of drugs and craft, who keeps lumbering through projects like a lost bear. When Randy the Ram dons the tights to recapture glory, you feel a little like Mickey Rourke’s getting his last moment to shine as well.

Brian Prisco is a burger whisperer from the hills and valleys of North Hollywood, by way of the fiery streets of Philadelphia. When not casting his slings and arrows of outrageous fortune in an attempt to make sense of this crazy little thing called love, he can be found with his nose in a book in an attempt to make a grown woman cry when he beats her in the Cannonball Read. You can pick a fight with him via email at .com or decipher his crazy ramblings at The Gospel According to Prisco. Hail Discordia!


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Comments

Thanks for the awesome review, Prisco. I've been dying to see this. Mickey Rourke is a friggin' loon, but the cat knows how to act.

Posted by: Skitz at December 23, 2008 11:26 AM

Definitely going to brave the cold to check this one out. Another great role for Rourke, like his part as Marv in Sin City. Thanks, Prisco.

Posted by: branded at December 23, 2008 11:34 AM

Boo-yah, I'm with Skitz - I've been dying to see this since the first rumour. I've been a Mickey fan for years (even when it wasn't popular to be), and I'm psyched to see him finally get some credit (and get his shit together). Thanks Prisco, that was well written.

Posted by: Xtreme at December 23, 2008 11:40 AM

I haven't seen the movie yet, and I'm sure it's good, but I'm kind of interested in the broader issue here, which is our obsession with the assumption that certain lives must be hollow and meaningless. Prostitution, pro wrestling, to some degree acting (particularly pornographic), probably others that aren't coming to mind right now. For some reason we have a societal need to conclude that even the people who seem happy doing these things go home and cry themselves to sleep at night.

I think it comes from a combination of things. One is a nugget of truth that all of the careers I listed are based on the attention of others, and I'm sure it leaves an empty place when the public no longer pays attention, but everybody has a career and everybody retires from it when they won't or can't do it anymore and everybody misses things about it. Maybe the fact that these people are/were in the public eye and when life does turn bad for them we end up hearing about it in ways we don't when Sam from the bakery descends into a self-destructive spiral because he can't hack it anymore and he misses the smell of the yeast and baking bread. There are well-adjusted and mal-adjusted people in every walk of life, and I think it's a shame that some of the well-adjusted have to deal with a bunch of people who assume that they're losers hanging on by a thread to a dire existence.

Posted by: Eep at December 23, 2008 11:41 AM

A big Rourke fan and believer in his comeback, I had the pleasure of sitting in the crowd along the entrance ramp for the last scene of the film. I have my Randy the Ram t-shirt and will proudly wear it when I make the trek to the theater.

So pleased to read this review.

Posted by: Courtney at December 23, 2008 11:44 AM

Good to see Marisa Tomei is getting good parts. I adore her.

Posted by: SofĂ­a at December 23, 2008 11:53 AM

This was a great review Prisco. Having been a fan of wrestling in my younger days, I was really surprised to learn about some of the hardships professional wrestlers go through.

Hopefully this is also the first is a series of good films for Rourke as I have long been a fan.

Posted by: admin at December 23, 2008 11:53 AM

I love Mickey Rourke and I cannot wait to see this one.

Posted by: Cindy at December 23, 2008 11:55 AM

Sofia, Marisa Tomei has had great parts for a quite a while now. I too have always adored her parts. Yup, great parts.

Posted by: Xtreme at December 23, 2008 11:57 AM

You know, in spite of my hatred for inspiriationalism, I really wanted to see this when I heard about it. I'm glad to get to see Rourke in a role with some teeth.

Posted by: Smokin at December 23, 2008 12:01 PM

To continue your thought Eep, I think the porn industry is especially indicative of what you're talking about. Sex performers sell one of the most intimate acts two people can engage in, and not only that, but they sell a much idealized interpretation. I think for them, when it all comes to an end (and for the most part, that's pretty quickly...the average life cycle of the porn star is about 5 years), the two types you mention react in 2 different ways. You've got the types that take it for what it is, and pack up their life lessons and move on to greener, more clothed pastures. Then you've got the ones that move into progressively more extreme acts, trying to hold on to a last few shreds of that 'former glory'.

I think our need to feel like people in these lines of work are filled with self-loathing stems from our fascination with what social norms deem taboo. We watch, and judge, because we're raised to think that prostitution is wrong, that porn stars are degenerate, and actors are immoral. It's the same reason that we have a backlash against marriage equality, because people were raised to find homosexuality repugnant. It's much harder to stray from your upbringing than most people are willing to admit.

Posted by: Smokin at December 23, 2008 12:16 PM

Toddy Barry is in it? Fucking hell yes! I have to see it now. Is his timing still gay?

Posted by: Lucas at December 23, 2008 12:32 PM

I can see where you're coming from Eep and Smokin, and the movie heightens the violence of tv wrestling to make it more taboo, so I hear the truth in what you're saying. But, on the other hand, aren't most movies to some extent about how all "lives must be hollow and meaningless" and the attempt to give life meaning? Not just mal-adjusted people, even boring people. Neo was just Mr. Anderson, wearing a suit and tie in a cube before Trinity and Morpheus showed up. All those movies where the nerd with the glasses and ponytail changes her look and changes her life. Movies kind of assume all of our lives are hollow and meaningless and. Then the transformative event happens to your hero or your everyman or your wreck, creating meaning where there was none.

Posted by: phquaryn at December 23, 2008 2:39 PM

Is the problem with these professions or with these performers? Performing of all kinds attracts a certain type of narcissist, but this sounds more like the story of a man who's a mess because he can't let go, not necessarily because he was a performer. Maybe this kind of spiral unique to professional sports and porn because those are fields based in physicality. Eventually, we all lose physical ability and those who make a living with that ability will no doubt suffer more trauma when that goes away. Some can handle that, some can't. Is The Ram any less pathetic than Michael Jordan with the Wizards or Jerry Rice with the Broncos?

Posted by: Tracer Bullet at December 23, 2008 2:46 PM

I think you might be on to something here Tracer...you can throw models into the mix as well. Any profession with an unequivocable physical requirement has the inherent capability of ruining those who could once do it but no longer can. So much of our identity these days is wrapped up in what we do, that I think it's very difficult for some people to separate themselves. This is especially true of these 'physical' professions. Some manage to parlay their careers in to other aspects of their field, be it sportscasting, directing or producing porn, whatever, but how many really make it in that respect. Only the best, or most intelligent, or most popular can make it after their initial involvement in the field is ended.

Posted by: Smokin at December 23, 2008 3:05 PM

Tracer and Smokin have nailed it, I think. Pro sports is the best analogy, as they require extremes in the physical sense, whereas actors can prolong their careers into perpetuity (Clint Eastwood, anyone?), even without taking up directing or producing.

Posted by: Xtreme at December 23, 2008 4:41 PM

This is a very interesting discussion, and I kinda had something to add in semi-agreement, and semi-contradiction to Tracer's point.

It seems more and more like the particular professions you all mentioned have something else in common besides physicality: they all depend in some shape or form on attracting as much attention to the performer as possible. Even with sports, the goal is essentially to put asses in the seats. Nobody likes to watch losers, after all (well, except ice-addled minds in certain cities).

So while a particular form of narcissist might be attracted to such a profession, it could be said that the job itself requires a modicum of narcissism from the participant. Every morning, this person has to get up, look in the mirror, and tell themselves "I am worth it. I am worth millions of people spending their hard-earned money to witness me doing something. I have to be the best, because they won't settle for anything else." They have to this constantly, regardless of how many times they are rejected or mocked or abused.

After time, and especially after some rocket-fast stardom, it can be hard for someone to let go of that mentality. Which often leads to lashing out and hitting several rock bottoms in a desperate need to continue to validate themselves. It is a wonder there aren't MORE deaths in Hollywood.

I would go further, but then I will be doing my bitching about the paps and gossip rags and such, and that is quite tangential to the point.

P.S. I also want to say that I will see this movie as soon as possible, and Naked Marisa Tomei is proof that I am just a simple man with simple tastes and a good and just Godtopus exists. Thank you.

Posted by: Vermillion at December 23, 2008 5:36 PM

Dammit Vermillion, I was going to slag on you hard for the diss about hockey at the end of the 2nd paragraph, but then you went and said Naked Maris Tomei, and my anger just melted.

Now go back to watching your rhythmic gymnastics...

Posted by: Xtreme at December 23, 2008 5:57 PM

Oh, now this is getting good...

Alright, let's reapply Eep's original question to the conclusions we've reached. Why do we believe these people to be unfulfilled or unsatisfied, even ashamed and self-flagellating? Is it because we can detect their narcissism (which, by the way V, is dead on)and we disapprove of/envy that level of self aggrandizement? Is it that that the eventual degradation satisfies our need to believe that karma punishes us for a life of moral terpitude? Or is it because we're raised to adhere to societal norms, and when the people Eep originally referenced come into our world view, we deem them socially unacceptable and thus 'unable' to achieve happiness? And which of these, or any other answer, is evinced by the depictions filmmakers create to relate them to the masses?

And can I just say, I love you guys...I never get to do this.

Posted by: Smokin at December 23, 2008 6:01 PM

Good points all around. I have lurked here for many, many moons, but have never posted before. "The Wrestler" is the one movie I've been anxiously awaiting ever since I first heard that it was being filmed. I'm a wrestling fan to the point of it being a religion, though I know that admitting it here could be a huge mistake (Thanks, Gob.). Not so much of the WWE, but other companies like TNA, Ring of Honor, lots of other independent companies, and the Japanese and Mexican talent.

In any case, I'm curious to see the responses of non-wrestling fans to this film as opposed to fans. Not because one group is more easily pleased than the other or less intellectually demanding, but because expectations will be different. The Ring of Honor promotion featured in the film is one of the main indy promotions in the US, and most of the guys involved are real wrestlers. Any director willing to go that far for authenticity gets my vote.

Posted by: Drowgoddess at December 23, 2008 6:02 PM

Sorry, forgot something in the last post. Here it is: "a" this seems to have fallen off of Marisa's name, I just found it on my desk.

Posted by: Xtreme at December 23, 2008 6:09 PM

Let's not forget that Ms. Tomei is hot as hell as a stripper in this and she actually gets nekkid. Were those stunt nips?

For 40-ish hotness, forget about Jen Aniston's GQ airbrushed bullshit--Tomei is the real deal in this.

Posted by: icecreamang at December 23, 2008 7:23 PM

Can't wait for this.

Vermillion: Your post reminds me of something I read the other day: Before every game Rickey Henderson played, he would stand fully naked in front of a clubhouse mirror and recite: "Rickey is the greatest. Rickey is the greatest." He was still playing and still trying to get back in the majors when he was nearly 50.

Also: I second and third the Tomei love. For those who may have missed it, she gets nekkid AND banged hard in that movie with PSH whose title escapes me, "Devil" something.

Yowza.

Posted by: bucdaddy at December 23, 2008 9:30 PM

DON'T MESS WITH THE WARRIOR!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTngBI51gJc

Posted by: Irina at December 24, 2008 12:27 AM

And some (I can't believe I'm saying this) props to Prisco for the apropos Pat Benatar title.

I had no idea you were such a fan.

Posted by: admin at December 24, 2008 3:55 AM

The title isn't from a Pat Benatar song -- it's from Scandal (Patty Smyth's group).

The wife and I happened to catch Mickey Rourke on Letterman last night and were both impressed at what a good interview he was. Even though he looks like a botoxed train wreck, he came across as a thoughtful, intelligent man. Now we really want to see this movie.

Posted by: JH at December 24, 2008 8:44 AM

Dammit JH you're right! Ah well, at 2:55am and after about 13 "fingers" of whiskey I can't really be expected to know what I'm talking about. I'm actually surprised I could type legibly.

Posted by: admin at December 24, 2008 10:00 AM

Arofonsky makes way uncomfortable films in general, but I do thoroghly enjoy them as long as I only watch them once. This looks great because Mickey Rourke is so perfectly cast that it would be hard to keep me away. I also like Marisa Tomei, she's cute and just grows on me with each movie she does, even though sometimes I find her a little annoying. But judging from the preview I feel like it will work.

Posted by: ph at December 24, 2008 4:40 PM

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Posted by: Sam at December 28, 2008 3:20 PM

'the howling fantods'...David Foster Wallace lives...I look forward to this - I just hope they don't overplay the romance aspect...

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Posted by: RANAE at January 5, 2009 7:49 PM

this movie has inspired a torrent of profound philosophizing which is quite a tribute to the review since almost noone has actually seen it. i expect there will be many more comments when the distribution catches up with the hype. considering the 98% approval at rotten tomatos, it will be interesting to see how many pajibians jump on the bandwagon.

Posted by: snake at January 9, 2009 11:25 PM

A tribute to the movie and the review, the most thoughtful stream of comments I've yet read on Pajiba. Let me throw in another thought re: narcissism, which is that most creative people are more-or-less bipolar; there is a word for a stable artist; it's "hack". Entertainment exploits the "Up" phase, but Economics has little patience with the "Down".

Posted by: George D. at January 12, 2009 10:47 PM

Just saw Wrestler. It's a heartrending piece of work. The last scene reminded me of the end of McBride's Breathless or the 1971 version of Vanishing Point.

Posted by: snap1066 at January 18, 2009 6:11 PM

Mickey Rourke plays Notourious B I G how did they get him to look so fat and black?


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Posted by: Fuckyall at January 19, 2009 3:16 PM

Yes, this movie would not have been the same w/ Nic Cage in latex and hair extensions. Rourke/Ram is a mess of a man, and watching him shamble thru the film profoundly unsettling. Real pro wrestlers have said the film is the real deal. Roddy Piper is rumored to have cried following a screening.

Posted by: stryker1121 at January 25, 2009 5:37 PM

so i just saw this last night. yeah yeah rourke rocked but aside from that, i have to say i found it terribly overrated. i will bet the majority of you loving it now, will be the ones starting the backlash next year, just like you did with Juno. by the way, how did marisa tomei get nominated? she was good, but by no means was it in the top five supporting parts this year. my favorite scene? totally bought rourke as the deli counter guy.

Posted by: Scott at January 28, 2009 10:37 AM