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An Afternoon Comment Diversion / Dustin Rowles

Comment Diversions | May 28, 2008 | Comments (149)


Today’s diversion suggestion comes by way of Todd, who suggests that it’s all about music that makes you think of a particular thing, or a thing that makes you think of particular music. And it’s got to be personal, the kind of thing you have to explain because no one else will get it otherwise. Todd, for instance, offered up Holes’ “Live Through This,” which he listened to whenever he played the Tomb Raider video game back in the ’90s so that, now, whenever he hears Hole, he automatically associates it with Tomb Raider and vice-versa.

As for me, my strangest musical association is a song that is apparently linked to a clogged or repressed memory of mine, buried deep into my subconscious.. For reasons that I cannot quite fathom, whenever I hear ABBA’s “Dancing Queen” — a song that I do not particularly like — I inexplicably well up. I get involuntarily verklempt the same way I would, say, if I discovered a lost videotape featuring my late father holding my little brother when he was still an infant. I don’t know why this happens, but it really needs to stop. Now that the Mamma Mia trailer is playing before half the movies I see, I oddly find myself near tears before the feature movie even begins. I see therapy in my future.

Now your turn.


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Comments

I was listening to Counting Crows' "August and Everything After" when I read The Hitchhiker's Guide series. But I think I have mild synesthesia anyway, so this sort of shit cross-references in my mind all the time.

Posted by: AM at May 28, 2008 2:51 PM

similarly, i think of the game super ghouls and ghosts for super nintendo when i listen to weezer's pinkerton. i'm not sure there is much to explain; i'm a dweeb.

Posted by: wilderness at May 28, 2008 2:52 PM

I went on a week long Robyn binge back in April, and the same week, I went to a club for my first time and met Matthew Rush, who was a really sweet guy. Coincidentally, I can no longer listen to Robyn without getting wood.

Posted by: Jeremy at May 28, 2008 2:54 PM

One summer every time my mom drive us to the pool the song "One Headlight" by the Wallflowers came on. The pool had a gravel parking lot, so now, whenever I see a gravel parking light that song plays in my head, and vice versa.

Posted by: Carrie at May 28, 2008 2:54 PM

I had a class about these Terry Pratchett books and I always listened to the Muse CD Black Holes and Revelations right before that class. So now every time i listen to a song from that album I get images of Discworld in my head and the giant turtle swimming through space.

Posted by: NotBlonde at May 28, 2008 2:57 PM

Rufus Wainwrights' "Imaginary Love" always makes me think of an ex-boyfriend because it happened to start playing as soon as I got into my car the night I drove home from the party where I sort of started to realize that he liked me but he didn't want to say anything 'cause I was going away to college in a month. But I wasn't sure, so the "imaginary" part always felt really appropriate.

Posted by: s. pisaster at May 28, 2008 2:57 PM

also, this isn't a song, but Grand theft Auto and Clerks are associated in my mind because of the enormous number of guy friends I had who would play the game on their computers while the movie was playing in the background while we hung out (Does any one else use Clerks as background noise or was this my particular group of friends?)

Posted by: s. pisaster at May 28, 2008 3:00 PM

I spent one summer working in my mum's blinds shop (of the venetian, roman, vertical and roller type - we were NOT trafficking in blind people) and she insisted on playing one of those horrifically repetitive radio stations the whole time and I principally remember the endless looping of More Than Words, which I just googled to discover was by Extreme. Dreadful song, so perhaps fittingly associated with lugging dusty twelve foot blinds down distressing dark corridors in a sixteen year old, shaved head type fug. And now, admittedly at a disturbingly late period in my life, I'm learning to drive and my instructor listens to retro stations who insist on playing just that track rather too many times and sooooo - I have a nasty feeling that I'm now going to have a double association with that wretched song, which, inevitably, will NEVER GO AWAY.

Sorry, I went on a bit there. I really hate driving. And I really hate that song. And the blinds shop was no bag of laughs either.

Posted by: littlejohnforest at May 28, 2008 3:01 PM

Everytime I hear the song "I'll be Missing You" by Puff Daddy and Sting I think of one of my high school friends having a heart attack. He had a heart attack and went into a coma the summer before our junior year and as I was rushing to the hospital to see him the song came on the radio. I burst into tears and continued crying the whole way there. My friend made a full recovery, but I still think of him everytime I hear that song.

Posted by: Jordan at May 28, 2008 3:02 PM

There is an Abba song - called The Piper. Any time I hear it, I get an incredibly vivid mental image of the living room in my childhood home. Not sure why, but I can practically smell the house, and see the sunshine on the coffee table, complete with tactile memory of my mother's african violets.

And Gloria Gaynor's "I Will Surive" makes me think of a particular waterfall near my childhood best friend's house. She sang it to me there to cheer me up after my very first breakup.

Posted by: Pea at May 28, 2008 3:02 PM

I have associations between entire albums and semesters of design studios, as we would either blast a CD on repeat until the wee hours of the morning, or forget the CD was on repeat with our headphones in until the sun rose the next day

therefore Weezer's Blue Album reminds me of second year second semester, Rufus Wainwright's Brushfire Failytales is third year first semester and Jimmy Eat World's album is second year first semester

those are the ones that stayed with me the most at any rate

Posted by: Bethy at May 28, 2008 3:02 PM

Every time I hear Snoop Dogg "Gin and Juice", I think of my mother. When we were youngins, our mother let us put whatever station we wanted on the radio in her van. We would often bounce between Y100 and Q102. She would leave it on the station as she ran errands.

One night, I'm sitting in our living room, and I hear my mom humming a familiar strain. I look up. There's my tiny little mom, in her nightgown, filling the dishwasher, singing, "Rolling down the street...drinking my juice!"

I was incredulous.
"Mom, are you singing Snoop Dogg?"
"What? I don't know. Rolling down the street..drinking my juice!"
"No, Mom. It goes, rolling down the street, smokin', tokin, drinking my GIN and juice."
She pauses. "Whatever. I don't know. Drinking my juice!"

That's a much better story than how "Here Comes the Sun" makes me want to strangle a puppy because of ex-girlfriend.

Posted by: insertclevernamehere at May 28, 2008 3:05 PM

oh! and there are certain songs that played CONSTANTLY on loop when I worked at Marshalls that always revert me back to a time where I was paid minimal wages to get yelled at by customers

for obvious reasons I have pushed the names of the songs far far back in my memory

Posted by: Bethy at May 28, 2008 3:05 PM

I listened to Regina Spektor, Begin to Hope a lot in the middle of dating this guy last year. For some reason the song "Better" always made me think of him. So whenever I hear it now I think "bastard."

Posted by: Erin at May 28, 2008 3:06 PM

...and "Kissing You" from the Romeo & Juliet soundtrack (just googled to find it's by Des'ree) has a powerful bittersweet memory. It's the song my highschool boyfriend played as he broke up with me. Despite the fact that the relationship was never meant to last, the song can still bring tears to my eyes. Even thinking about it is choking me up a little. Beautiful song. Sad memory.

Posted by: Pea at May 28, 2008 3:07 PM

I was in a relationship where the sex was mostly about light bondage and sadism. That particular girlfriend was also waaaay into semi-cheesy Britpop of the era, so now on those rare occasions when I hear "Pure" by the Lightning Seeds, I automatically think about getting pegged with a candlestick.

Posted by: Mohaski at May 28, 2008 3:09 PM

Man, I have sooo many song associations. Some that come to mind:

1."Clubbed to Death" by Rob D makes me simultaneously happy and depressed, because I listened to it on repeat while reading the first 2 Harry Potter books back in 2000, which was a great time, but the books were also an escape from the news of my parents' separation, which was not so fun.

2. The song "Blue and Yellow" by The Used makes me think of the drive home after hearing that my good friend Mike was killed in a car crash. It also makes me appreciate tissues, because I didn't have any in the car and I ended up wiping my eyes and nose with a t-shirt I had in the backseat.

3. God help me I technically hate this song but "What's Up" by the Four Non Blondes reminds me of senior week at the Jersey shore. Me and my good friend Dawn both started singing it at the same time apropos of nothing, so to this day if we hear it on the radio we will leave a recording of it on each other's voice mail.

4. "Grey Street" by the Dave Matthews Band makes me weep like a bitch and I can't pinpoint why...it reminds me of summers in between college semesters, of some friends I no longer have, the lyrics remind me of my relationship with my father. All those things are possible...I always tear up.

Posted by: Julie at May 28, 2008 3:09 PM

I don't have a song connection thank goodness, but thanks to AM's first post I now have the theme music to The Hitchhikers Guide To The Galaxy (TV show) running through my head, and the visual of a spaceman falling through a giant letter (can't remember which one).

Posted by: BWeaves at May 28, 2008 3:09 PM

My daughter, who was born about 15 years too late to really be associated with this song, reminds me of Fall's "Littlest Rebel" every time I see her dancing and playing and stuff. And when I hear that song, I think of her.

No earthly idea why.

Posted by: hater from siloam springs at May 28, 2008 3:10 PM

One summer on a loooong road trip with my family to the beach no matter what station we changed it to the song "Too Close" by Next would come on the radio. I was in 8th grade at the time and probably shouldn't have known the meaning of that song, but after hearing it that many times we figured it out.

Also, pretty much anything by Elton John reminds me of my years peddling lotion at bath & body works. No matter what there were always at least 3 elton john songs on every mix CD they gave us to play in there.

Posted by: jmurae at May 28, 2008 3:11 PM

My musical associations lean more towards certain groups/artists than songs in particular. For instance, I noticed that whenever I skipped school I would usually get busted whenever I had listened to Aerosmith that day, so the association became "Never listen to Aerosmith when I'm doing something wrong."
In my 20's, when I could get in infinitely more trouble, Lynyrd Skynyrd and Steely Dan were added to the list after a DUI and two illicit affairs were accompanied by 'background music' from these groups when I got nailed.
A few hard-earned lessons later, I avoid listening to these groups even when I'm thinking of doing something naughty anymore.

Posted by: TMax at May 28, 2008 3:12 PM

"Surfin Bird" will forever and always be the Marines shooting up Hue City after "Full Metal Jacket". I hear and see the tank fire during the breakdown.

Also, I bought Juliana Hatfield's "Hey Babe" when it was new in the summer of 1992. When I visited my friends in south Florida a few weeks later (having moved away the previous year) my friend's boombox got stolen at a party when no one was looking and said cd was in it. I didn't buy it again for a while after that, and when I did I discovered that it is inescapably that month I first had it, with all the long-distance friends/vague relationship melancholia of the time. The album's kinda like that to begin with so it's not something I run to pep up with now.

Posted by: Jay at May 28, 2008 3:13 PM

"It's a marshmallow world in the winter" makes me remember folding and carrying jeans (which are quite heavy after about four pairs) at Buckle during the christmas season, and thus inspires homicidal rage in me.

Posted by: ellipsis at May 28, 2008 3:14 PM

The Turtles - So Happy Together

I always think about me and my moms when I hear this song. I guess I am a momma's boy so when I hear this song I always think back to the summer's of years past when mom was on her teachers' vacation and I could spend time with her during the cool summer days.

Posted by: Jordan at May 28, 2008 3:17 PM

I was once stuck at the Amsterdam airport for 36 hours over New Year's after spending Christmas in Dublin with my family. At that airport, once you check in for the flight you can't leave the gate area, so we were stuck there in the gate for a day and a half. I had the flu so I had a horrible fever and kept having to crawl to the bathroom to throw up. There was a girl with a portable stereo, and she had the song Crimson & Clover on repeat. For a day and a half.

I never liked that godawful song to being with, but now I cannot listen to it without wanting to kill everyone within arm's reach. It reminds me so much of being hideously ill and uncomfortably confined that it quite literally makes me queasy whenever I hear it.

Posted by: Sarina at May 28, 2008 3:17 PM

Oh shit, here's how old I am. When I was a freshman in college many years ago (let's just say before anyone had a home computer and you could still buy a betamax machine at radio shack) My roommate and I spent a summer in our first ever apartment on our own. Unfortunately rent and ramen noodles were all we could afford so for entertainment we would read the Anne Rice vampire chronicles(sp) out loud to each other while listening to the chess soundtrack. Now every time I hear a song off that cassette tape I think of Anne Rice and cheap white zinfandel. Good times. No, greeeeeaaaaaaaaat times.

Posted by: Phat girl at May 28, 2008 3:17 PM

I've too many of these, but the strongest association seems to be about sex. Phil Collins "Do You Know Do You Care?" always snaps me right back to a particular person, place and some of the most mind-blowing sex I've ever had. Yowza.

Posted by: Cindy at May 28, 2008 3:19 PM

Semisonic's "Closing Time" and Shakespeare in Love. I went on a date with this guy I was totally in love with, we saw the movie, and while he was driving me home, it came on the radio. The fact that this was our ONLY date - and that I pined for him for the next year - cemented that connection for me. *Sniff* Of course, I'm totally over him now. :)

Posted by: Ariel at May 28, 2008 3:22 PM

I listened to Damien Rice's O all the time when I first bought it. Including the weekly 3-hour trips up to the hospital to see my Mom who was struggling with brain cancer and most of the time in a semi-comatose state. Consequently, now I can't listen to Cold Water or The Blower's Daughter without completly falling apart. Damien Rice is kind of heartbreaking in the best of circumstances, add a dying Mom in the mix and forget about it...

Posted by: Megan at May 28, 2008 3:23 PM

The Beatles's "Thank you girl" reminds me of the movie "War and remembrance".

and Puff Daddy's "come with me" makes me think of Angelina Jolie.

Posted by: goldend at May 28, 2008 3:26 PM

Aerosmith, Steely Dan, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Skipping school, DUI, and getting in trouble.... T-Max, is your real name Frank and are you my husband?

And, if it is you then WHY THE HELL AREN'T YOU AT WORK ON A WEDNESDAY AFTERNOON, DAMNIT!

Posted by: Phat girl at May 28, 2008 3:28 PM

I first heard the White Stripes when I had a horrible summer desk job. Getting ready at dawn, I would put on VH1 to hear the Top Ten Countdown and eat a box of Smart Start cereal. All that summer, White Stripes' "7 Nation Army" was the big song. Now, whenever I hear it, I taste cinnamon-y granola cereal. Delicious!

Posted by: julia at May 28, 2008 3:28 PM

I ain't got much for this one. About all I can think of is Garth Brooks' "Friends in Low Places," which always instantly takes me back to 7th grade school dances. It's a good thing I don't hear that song much any more.

Posted by: Bistro at May 28, 2008 3:30 PM

When I was 14 my mom ran a small greeting card company. I would work in the warehouse for her during the summer and so forth. I used to always do the dance to Stop by the Spice Girls, one day My mom and her boss caught me doing the dance. I was sooo embarassed. To this day, when I hear that song I'm always brought back to that time.

Oh, and my ex completely ruined The Tragically Hip for me, not that I was a big fan or anything, but now I really can't stand to hear them!

Posted by: Jax at May 28, 2008 3:31 PM

Oh I almost forgot...I have a friend with the same inexplicable crying reaction to a song as Dustin..except hers is whenever we watch Team America and they sing "Pearl Harbor Sucks". We have no clue why this happens, but it is a favorite party trick of ours to play it and make fun of her.

Posted by: jmurae at May 28, 2008 3:31 PM

Wow, Y100. Those were the days. Q was still bearable.

Anyway, Counting Crows' "Long December." I was a freshman in college, home on break, when my best friend called me two days after Christmas to tell me a HS classmate/friend had been killed in a car accident that morning. I remember staring at my Christmas tree and the video was on MTV in the living room.

I also cannot listen to Mazzy Star's "Fade Into You" due to its being played at a vigil for a friend who was killed violently in high school. Everytime I hear it I get sick to my stomach.

Posted by: Nicole at May 28, 2008 3:35 PM

I have so many of these. There's a constant soundtrack playing in my head. Some of the best: Carouselambra by Led Zepplin brings a great desire for sex; Float On by Modest Mouse makes me instantly happy; Into the Mystic by Van Morrison makes me think of a wonderful vacation with my kids, all of us singing at the top of our lungs; Hot Stuff by Donna Summer makes me think of the scene in The Full Monty when they are standing in the unemployment line and start dancing...I always do the hip thing; anything sad, sappy, broken hearted or angry reminds me of my most recent (and most painful) breakup. There just isn't enough room to list them all.

Posted by: MissNev at May 28, 2008 3:38 PM

hearing Steely Dan makes me think of driving thru Indiana at dusk. Every year we made the summer trip from upstate NY to southeastern Iowa and driving through Indiana as the sun was going down was always my favorite time. For one it got to be a lot less hot in the back seat of our non-a/c 1982 Plymouth K-wagon with the windows that didn't go down in the back at all. Ugh. I don't even know if my parents even had Steely Dan on at that time, but that's what's stuck in my head so I guess it's real now

Posted by: Nerf at May 28, 2008 3:41 PM

I had a period back in high school where I would always listen to the Dave Matthews Band album Crash while playing Carmaggeddon on my computer.
I haven't played Carmaggeddon in a really, really long time, but whenever I hear that album I definitely have vivid mental flashes of trying to run over cartoon pedestrians or waste another drivers' car.

Posted by: Eva at May 28, 2008 3:41 PM

OMFG, Phat girl, we're the same age! Every time I hear "I Know Him So Well" I think of my college boyfriend with the '85 Fiero. "One Night in Bangkok" and white zin (Sutter Home)? Maybe we went to school together...

Posted by: Amy at May 28, 2008 3:42 PM

Anything Slick Rick:

Bedouin in Egypt glaring at me with AK's in hand. Blasted his discography on a police escorted trip through the Sahara for five hours after my freshman year of college.

"This ain't funny so don't ya dare laugh..."

Posted by: FourKings at May 28, 2008 3:42 PM

Wow, Y100. Those were the days.

Hee, right? I remember tuning to it in my apartment in Manayunk a few years ago and hearing smooth jazz or something. I was devastated.

Death Cab for Cutie's "Heart is an Empty Room" reminds me of Neil Gaiman's Neverwhere, I learned to love that song while reading that book.

Posted by: Julie at May 28, 2008 3:43 PM

I listened to Coldplay X&Y nonstop the summer that War of the Worlds came out, and now I have an odd association.

On a nerdier note, I listened to a compilation of Beethoven pieces, including the Für Elise, while reading Edgar Allan Poe one depressed teenage summer, and that has paired perfectly in my mind ever since.

Posted by: Lindzee at May 28, 2008 3:49 PM

Three songs will always remind me of the longest crush I ever had..."Ghost of Corporate Future," by Regina Spektor, "Aeroplane over the Sea" by Neutral Milk Hotel, and "Beat It" by MJ. For serious. The reasons are complicated and strange, but it will always be those three songs.

Posted by: Costello at May 28, 2008 3:50 PM

Every time I listen to any Keane song (from their first album) I have flashes of Paris in my mind. It was the only cd I brought when I went there so I must have listened to it about 25 times in 3 days.

Posted by: Sarah at May 28, 2008 3:50 PM

Three songs will always remind me of the longest crush I ever had..."Ghost of Corporate Future," by Regina Spektor, "Aeroplane over the Sea" by Neutral Milk Hotel, and "Beat It" by MJ. For serious. The reasons are complicated and strange, but it will always be those three songs.

Posted by: Costello at May 28, 2008 3:52 PM

This one time, I played one of my brothers' Star Wars computer games while I listened to the Backstreet Boys. Now, whenever I hear any part of the Star Wars score that was on the game, I think of "Backstreet's Back". I'm so ashamed.

Posted by: LB at May 28, 2008 3:54 PM

Whenever I hear the song "Fake Plastic Trees" by Radiohead, it brings tears to my eyes and takes me back to the night when I realized the girl I really liked and had been pining over forever was dating someone else. Sniff.

Posted by: idleideals at May 28, 2008 3:55 PM

Got a couple of older ones:

When I was in Jr. High, some kid managed to play War's "Low Rider" over the school's intercom system one morning. To this day when I hear it, I think about my English class and the book Lost Horizon, which is what we were working on that day.

I was 13 when Hotel California and living in SoCal came out and it was impossible to avoid. No matter what you did, you heard it at least twice a day for months and months. When, in early '77 we moved to Tehran, I was sure I'd finally manages to escape it. But nooooo...turns out the Iranians loved it too and so now I tend to associate it with taxis in Iran.

Posted by: telesilla at May 28, 2008 3:58 PM

Für Elise

"and also--whoops!--and also fries....."

Posted by: Jay at May 28, 2008 4:01 PM

I have so many but this is by far the most strange because on top of it being the most random song ever, the association pretty much takes me out of commission because I get so freaked out. I was listening to Merril Bainbridge: "Mouth" (well, actually the whole CD, but mostly this one song), while reading a children's book about a girl named Clementine who climbs down a cliff. Now I can't even remember the name of the book, but when I hear this song, which is thankfully infrequently, I find myself as terrified as if I myself were stranded in a cliffside cave in a hurricane. It's really disconcerting, and really scary. and sucks, because that song was awesome.

Posted by: J at May 28, 2008 4:04 PM

Two songs off the top of my head:

1. "Panama" by Van Halen always makes me think of the 1980s and wanting nothing more than to drive my own KITT.

2. "Bullet with Butterfly Wings" by Smashing Pumpkins always makes me think of my college dorm room freshman year and the old radio my roommate had.

Posted by: BFFredo at May 28, 2008 4:04 PM

"Superheroes" by Esthero. I remember listening to it in the summer of 1999, wishing desperately that the girl I was sleeping with would stop acting like an idiot and realize that she liked me. I would sit and sing along, feeling that the following lyrics were especially poignant:
What would it take for you to see
What I have got?
I've got more than you know
Open your eyes, I cannot be - what I am not

By the end of the summer, we had broken up (she ditched me) and I was over her. As soon as I decided I never wanted to see her again, she showed up in my driveway and declared her love for me. We've been together almost 9 years.

Here's the musical association: That summer I made lots of banana bread and it always smelled like cut grass outside. So whenever I smell either of those things, I feel a little melancholy and lovelorn and am suddenly thrown back to being 20 years old. Sometimes I expect to look out the window and see the street I grew up on, or smell the perfume I wore then. It's very confusing.

Posted by: Sharon at May 28, 2008 4:08 PM

"Superheroes" by Esthero. I remember listening to it in the summer of 1999, wishing desperately that the girl I was sleeping with would stop acting like an idiot and realize that she liked me. I would sit and sing along, feeling that the following lyrics were especially poignant:
What would it take for you to see
What I have got?
I've got more than you know
Open your eyes, I cannot be - what I am not

By the end of the summer, we had broken up (she ditched me) and I was over her. As soon as I decided I never wanted to see her again, she showed up in my driveway and declared her love for me. We've been together almost 9 years.

Here's the musical association: That summer I made lots of banana bread and it always smelled like cut grass outside. So whenever I smell either of those things, I feel a little melancholy and lovelorn and am suddenly thrown back to being 20 years old. Sometimes I expect to look out the window and see the street I grew up on, or smell the perfume I wore then. It's very confusing.

Posted by: Sharon at May 28, 2008 4:09 PM

wow, sorry for the double post!

Posted by: Sharon at May 28, 2008 4:09 PM

My Dad taught my mother to drive stick shift by driving her to a parking lot, giving her the keys and putting Air Supply in the tape player. I can't ever hear "making love out of nothing at all" without hearing my dad yell "give it gas! give it gas!"

Posted by: Laura at May 28, 2008 4:11 PM

I never actually listened to Hole WHILE playing Tomb Raider. I never do that, even if the in-game music sucks, which TR's assuredly did not. It was more of an interspersal-type thing -- play the game, listen to the CD, play the game, etc.

When I first got Soundgarden's "Superunknown" I was listening to it (with headphones) while someone in the same room was watching this Dolph Lundgren movie Hidden Assassin (a.k.a. The Shooter, because why have one meaning-free title when you can have MORE than one?). When the song "Head Down" came on, Dolph and his partner were tailing this woman and followed her into a club. They watched her dancing, and somehow her dancing seemed to go perfectly with the song that only I was listening to. Every time I hear that song now (which continues to be fairly often, love that freakin' album) I can see that actress dancing.

Posted by: Todd at May 28, 2008 4:20 PM

The first time I heard REM's "Everybody Hurts" I was driving home from a friend's after attending a wedding (different friend) and I drove around the block a few times so I could hear the song to the end.

So that song always makes me think of nighttime and quiet suburban streets and my dad's big truck, long since sold, and the melancholy that comes when all your friends are moving on in their lives and you're not.

Posted by: minorblue at May 28, 2008 4:21 PM

Every time I mow the lawn, "Mean Green Mother From Outer Space" runs through my head because in the spring, all the closed dandelion heads remind me of Audrey II.

...mean, green, BAD!!!!!

Posted by: Three-nineteen at May 28, 2008 4:22 PM

Oh hell, I almost forgot one of my favorite musical associations:
I was 18 years old, and although I wasn't a virgin, I'd never really had great down & dirty sex. My uncle Bub corrected that when he took me to my first hooker at a trucker's motel off Hwy 85 in NC - Now THAT was a good time!
The song playing from a cheap radio on the nightstand? 'With A Little Luck' by Paul & Wings.
I kid thee not.

Posted by: TMax at May 28, 2008 4:25 PM

that is awesome Three-nineteen.

Posted by: s. pisaster at May 28, 2008 4:26 PM

On a long flight home from overseas, I was reading Beowulf and flipping through the onboard audio channels (this was in the days before iPods). Somehow I came to settle on the samba and bossa nova channel. As a result, when I read Beowulf nowadays, I see all the action in my head - but with hundreds of sweaty, scantily-clad Brazilians dancing joyously in the background. On top of this, the song "Coisinha do Pai" is now forever linked to Grendel's mother.

Posted by: jeem at May 28, 2008 4:27 PM

When I was younger, my parents listened to this radio stationed that must have used a tape or something because the exact same Red Hot Chili Peppers song would come on at about ten minutes to 4pm every day. Now, Under the Bridge is permanently linked with going to the pool in my mind since we were always heading to the afterschool swim program at that time.

Posted by: JTate at May 28, 2008 4:28 PM

I always appreciated Coldplay, but my first semester at college my friends and I listened to Sparks and Parachutes non stop. Seriously. all. the. time.
I moved to Washington DC with my two best friends from high school so eager to be somewhere new as a trio, so fucking determined to conquer the world. There was one particular night when we ordered out from tgi fridays and sat in a park to eat. My two friends started arguing something political (a la dc) and I was listening and signing "Yellow" at the top of my lungs while spinning and starting at the sky.

Ironically... because we were in downtown Washington, we couldn't see a goddamn star.

Still one of the cutest fucking memories I have.

Posted by: soto at May 28, 2008 4:31 PM

Jay!!! Now I know that someone else shares the feeling of that damned Mickey D's commercial tainting one of Beethoven's most beautiful compositions forever. Now whenever I hear Fur Elise, instead of having my spirit moved or what have you, all that happens is my mouth waters because I crave fries. Salty salty fries.

Posted by: Melissa at May 28, 2008 4:31 PM

I've got a rotten musical association: When I was dumped the first time,(long story) the song that was playing on the loud speakers was Your Song by Elton John, how ironic.
And for reasons, I can't listen to Feeling Good by Nina Simone without thinking about hot and sweaty sex. I'm still not sure why.

Posted by: Kamikaze Feminist at May 28, 2008 4:32 PM

The song Hold Me, Thrill Me, Kiss Me, Kill Me, by U2 makes me think of being in Europe. On a trip in 1995 the Mr. and I took a ferry from Belgium to England and they were showing Batman & Robin in the ship's theater. I only stumbled in to see the end credits where this song is played. I know everyone loves to talk about how crappy Batman & Robin was, but it has a free pass for me because of this.

I would love to give you no end of crap for your very strange Abba affliction Dustin, but on this same trip I acquired my own. We had rolled into the Stockholm train station at 6:00 in the morning and needed to sleep for a few more hours in order to function for the day. We found two benches in the train station that happened to be under a couple of TV's mounted about 10 feet off the ground. A short time later the TV's started to play a looped recording that included the trailer to Muriel's Wedding, which has the song Waterloo in it. I probably heard that song in my sleep about 50 times before I woke up, permanently burning it into my brain. And I've loved Abba ever since.

Posted by: katy at May 28, 2008 4:36 PM

Whenever I hear the song "Dammit" by Blink-182 (which isn't often), I immediately think of band camp. More specifically, the Friday night "end of camp" dance where I managed to touch a boob for the first time.

/nerd

Also the song "The World At Large" by Modest Mouse reminds me of biking home after work on a warm early-summer evening in Minneapolis, the sound of crickets and the incredible smell of a Minnesota summer night. One of the best periods of my life.

Posted by: Snath at May 28, 2008 4:40 PM

James Blunt's "You're Beautiful" was playing on the radio when the woman driving the SUV behind me smashed into my car and knocked my head into my steering wheel.

I now get extremely nervous if I so much as hear that douchebag's voice.

Posted by: Roads at May 28, 2008 4:45 PM

It is 1974, I was riding with my parents (divorced shortly after this) in my dad's 1973 maroon Monte Carlo. On the radio blared Hooked on a Feeling, by Blue Swede. For those that do not know this little ditty, it starts with primal chants of Uga Chuga (repetitively).

I remember it b/c it was the last true happy memory that I had with my parents together. My father would crash that car the next Spring and would never walk again. Soon after that my parents would divorce.

Posted by: richmac at May 28, 2008 4:46 PM

David Allen Coe "You don't have to call me" will forever be associated with hanging out with some of my favorite people in college. They were members of the "rednecked" frat, the hunters and men who drove trucks. You could go hang out with them wearing track pants and tee shirt and it never mattered.

Van Morrison's "Brown-eyed Girl" makes me think of a good friend/ex-boyfriend who always sang this around me. Garbage's "Special" reminds me of the idiot that dumped me one week before my senior prom.

Smashing Pumpkins "Disarm" reminds me of a friend who was never quite what I wanted him to be.

Posted by: Melody at May 28, 2008 4:49 PM

they might be giants' "ana ng" reminds me of driving back and forth from VB to radford during my college years.

Posted by: kelley at May 28, 2008 4:50 PM

Counting Crows "Colorblind" is also for the same guy who wasn't what I wanted him to be.

Posted by: Melody at May 28, 2008 4:50 PM

my friend and i used to play copious amounts of goldeneye on her N64 (i think?) while listening to all saints, who even though i still sort of secretly love and have on my ipod, were basically the poor man's [canadian] spice girls. to this day i cannot hear their cover of "under the bridge" without thinking about the time her character killed mine by slapping me to death.

Posted by: tamara at May 28, 2008 4:52 PM

Raindrops Keep Fallin' on my Head: When I lived in England as a child, my nanny had a small, square, black, sort of scratchy radio. Her bedroom was painted bright butter yellow and was right next to mine at the top of the stairs. Whenever I hear this song, I am 6 years old again and I can see her yellow walls and smell the cold air and windex (she was always cleaning and leaving windows open to air the house out) and feel the rough beige carpet under my toes. I told her this once and she had no recollection of this song, so maybe it was just popular on the radio that year.

Puff Daddy's (or whatever his name is now) I'll Be Missing You: I performed this in 10th grade at a school talent show with a guy I was sure I was going to marry because OMG THIS WAS TRUE LOVE. I didn't marry him and in fact have no idea where he is now, but this song makes me think of his teal Ford truck and the black turtleneck I wore all the time because I thought it made me look hip and angstful (He was an artist. I felt I needed to up my angst to win him.)

And any Loreena McKennit (which I don't hear much of now, thank goodness) brings me immediately back to my first, sucky mall job in high school. *shiver*

Posted by: Catherine at May 28, 2008 4:58 PM

In high school, some friends of mine and I played car crash victims (It was supposed to be partially an anti-drunk driving thing.) in a Halloween haunted house. In between our gigs as gore-soaked corpses, we joked and sang songs and tried to have fun whilst sitting in a stinky junked car. As the night wore on, our attempts got absurd, and at some point, we started singing "The Wheels on the Bus" over and over and over.

Now as a mother to a toddler, I sing that song pretty frequently and whenever I do, I cannot help to be filled with memories of being covered in cold, sticky kayo syrup. Good times.

Posted by: Alabamapink at May 28, 2008 4:58 PM

This is a great diversion.

My first association involves the Red Hot Chili Peppers. Anyone that's ever rowed knows the hell that is the winter indoor season (that is, unless you were lucky enough to row in warmer climates). We would erg (the rowing machine) what seemed to be nonstop my freshman year of college. During our 6k erg tests (think going as hard as you can for roughly 20 minutes and thirty seconds), our coach would always put on this Red Hot Chili Peppers megamix. Everyone hated it, but no one ever said anything, and to this day, everytime I hear the Red Hot Chili Peppers, my legs start to pulse as though they're prepping for the destructive flow of lactic acid.

The next is the Yeah Yeah Yeahs "Maps". Well, first it's that just the most beautiful song ever anyway. But I took a boyfriend to see the Yeah Yeah Yeahs play in New York. Up until that point, I'd never been one to publicly display affection, not because I think PDA is gross (which I do), but because I was afraid of it, so I guess just very uncomfortable with myself. Well, I don't know what came over me THAT night, but when Karen O started wailing, "They don't love you like I love you," I reached out and grabbed his hand and held it for the rest of the show, as we walked out of the theater, and all the way back to my apartment. Everytime I hear "Maps", I think of that night, which I consider part of my personal liberation and a big "fuck you" to anyone and anything that had instilled the fear in the first place.

Posted by: David at May 28, 2008 5:00 PM

1. The Depeche Mode "Violator" album in its entirety reminds me of a terrible car accident I got into just after graduating high school. It had just come out that week and I was so excited about it.

2. Hall and Oates's "Private Eyes" reminds me of this Yankee Homecoming or some such event in a super-WASPy beach town near where I grew up. I remember looking at all the blonde girls and wishing I was rich. Little did I know I'd meet those same girls in college...except they'd be anorexic and dating douchebag lacrosse players (I kid, I kid).

3. Stevie Wonder's "Sir Duke" reminds me of an aunt I seriously haven't seen since I was about four. No explanation.


4. Rufus Wainwright's "Not Ready to Love" reminds me of my daughter and I well up every time I hear it.

Posted by: samantha t at May 28, 2008 5:02 PM

I purchased the collected works of HP Lovecraft on the same bookstore trip where I netted a Dar Williams album "End of the Summer." So I associate the song "Are You Out There" with Cthulhu.

Posted by: Jeff at May 28, 2008 5:03 PM

Whenever I really need to pee, I get "Sweet Child O' Mine" stuck in my head. I think it is because Axl Rose's snake dance looks a lot like how small children kind of dance around when they are really in need of a bathroom.
Also, whenever I am doing something really monotonous and there is no music in the background, I inexplicably start to hum the Mario Bros theme.

Posted by: Ami at May 28, 2008 5:08 PM

From the time I was 12 through college, I worked at my dad's beer distributor during the summer and during breaks from school. For those not from Pennsylvania, a beer distributor is a store, usually warehouse-ish, selling only cases of beer (no six-packs), soda, snacks, cigs, and lotto tickets (no liquor). The radio providing background music was always tuned to easy listening (B101 for fellow Philly-ites) and they played more or less the exact same songs at the exact same times of day, every day. They would slowly rotate new songs in over time, but the core songs, especially 9-5, stayed the same. During the years I worked there in college, I was actually able to tell time, to within about 5-10 minutes, by what song was being played.

"You Were Meant For Me" by Jewel was played daily within 10 minutes +/- of noon. Needless to say, that song now always makes me hungry, particularly for a hoagie eaten while sitting on a stack of beer cases.

Posted by: MC Peepants at May 28, 2008 5:17 PM

Same here Bethy. Whole albums that remind me of designing on a computer until my brain melts are MIA, Fiest, Queens of the Stone Age, Foo Fighters, Sublime, and the Red Hot Chili Peppers. The last two especially remind me of my old roommate (also a designer that never sleeps) who played those bands all the time. I even start to smell spray mount when I hear their music.

There was about a six month stretch that whenever me and my friend Maxine where in a car together, we would hear an Alicia Keys song. Everytime.

After once working in a mall during the Christmas season (which at this rate probably starts in August now), I can't hear holiday music without having the urge to go a little pyro. Mariah Carey holiday songs make me wanna shiv a panda.

jmurae, I used to sing that song at the top of my lungs all the time with my parents in the car. One day, right at the end of the chorus when they sing, "...your making it hard for me!", I got what the song was about. My mother looked over at me and said, "Finally, now you know how we feel."

Posted by: jM at May 28, 2008 5:23 PM

I totally can't listen to Tom Petty's American Girl without thinking about that time I got shoved into the back of a van and held captive in a hole in the ground by this freak who wanted to make a shirt out of my skin. I used to really like that song.

Posted by: MG at May 28, 2008 5:23 PM

The London Philharmonic did an album of REM covers, and I listened to it on a road trip through Utah while I read all the Ender's Game books. So on the rare occasion that I listen to that album, I think of battle rooms and children soldiers. And when I reread the books, the songs are playing in my head like a soundtrack.

Posted by: Annie at May 28, 2008 5:27 PM

Oh, MC, I feel for you. I think when I die and go to hell, B101 will be playing nonstop.

I have a non-maudlin one - Chili Peppers' "Scar Tissue" always takes me back to a rented, falling down shorehouse (it was condemned after Labor Day weekend) that a bunch of us had in North Wildwood for the summer of 1999.

Posted by: Nicole at May 28, 2008 5:28 PM

Every time I hear that Kiss song "I wanna rock and roll all night (and party every day)" I expect someone to shove a sparkler in my hand. My friends The New Duncan Imperials used that song as their intro and would hand out sparklers (unlit--safety first: let the drunks light their own fireworks) as they ran for the stage.

Posted by: Brigette at May 28, 2008 5:29 PM

When I was little (aged 3 years), I used to ride back and forth West Texas with my father in the cab of his pickup truck. There would be a cooler of juice boxes and pepsis (it was a couple hundred mile trip), a bag of bananas (supplied by my mother) and a package of Little Debbie oatmeal cakes (smuggled in by my father, about which I was sworn to secrecy). We would sing repeatedly with the radio or tape American Pie. My classic rock father did not do kiddie music, I don't think he knew it existed. A few years later my father took me to a Don McLean concert (I was 7 by this point) and we once again smuggled in Little Debbie oatmeal cakes. Whenever I hear that song, I want to sneak a Little Debbie cake.

When Backstreet's Back came out and was on the radio constantly, it used to crack my best friend and I up in that secretly love it/love to hate it, guilty pleasure way. We'd blast it and sing it at the top of the radio. More often than not, we'd be so goofy, we'd miss our turn or exit of the highway. This happened multiple times a week (commuting to summer jobs). Now when I hear that song, I instinctively check to see if I'm going the right way, even when not in a car, which garners me some strange looks as my head whips around.

Posted by: libraryliz at May 28, 2008 5:32 PM

1. Hearing Thom Yorke's already sad Harrowdown Hill on the day my kitty died sent me into a major sob-fest, and ever since then the song makes me think of her.

2. As for inexplicable tear-jerkers, I can't listen to Fiddler's Green by the Tragically Hip. It's not a cheery song or anything, but there's no real reason for it to sent me around the bend.

3. I don't recall the exact track, but I got into a minor car accident listing to Ron Sexsmith's Other Songs; now I find myself a little hyper-vigilant any time I play the album while driving.

Posted by: MO at May 28, 2008 5:35 PM

Every time I hear Pat Benetar's "Hit Me With Your Best Shot" it brings back memories of a funny story. I had a lady friend who borrowed some money from me and she was unable to pay if off, so I told her she could pay me back in other ways. To make a long story short she was servicing me and some of my man juice got in her eye, she began crying and she flipped out. I told her to stop crying and go clean up. She got up and ran to the bathroom. I turned on the T.V. and VH1 were are playing Benetar's "Hit Me With Your Best Shot."

Posted by: Pookie at May 28, 2008 5:36 PM

For those not from Pennsylvania, a beer distributor is a store, usually warehouse-ish, selling only cases of beer (no six-packs), soda, snacks, cigs, and lotto tickets (no liquor).

:grumbles, stupid ass backward PA liquor laws, grumble:

Posted by: Julie at May 28, 2008 5:38 PM

What IS up with PA liquor laws? I can get beer, wine and hard liquor in my grocery store (except on Sunday which is equally stupid).

Posted by: Brigette at May 28, 2008 5:42 PM

I was at a college summer study program with very few CDs, but one was U2's Zooropa, which was totally unnecessary because it was all over the radio. One day, I found myself singing along to a radio version - just fine with my little soprano voice. I realized I was really singing along, instead of the usual low whisper to match Bono's tone, because the station was playing the song too fast. I called in to explain this discrepancy in pitch & wondered aloud to the station if that's how they played "more songs per hour"... Of course, nuances of pitch, tone, CD spin speed were kind of lost on that afternoon DJ & I hung up feeling kind of retarded.

Permanent musical associations: Whenever I hear U2 (1) pay-for-play and a deep abiding dislike of commercial radio (2) the constant exhange of notes on paper towels with the guy I dated that summer who worked on the university maintenance crew. I still have some of the paper towels. Maybe that's sweet or weird.

Posted by: staramour at May 28, 2008 5:44 PM

MG i just skipped over "american girl" on my iPod earlier today for that exact reason. "are you about a size 14?" shiver

Posted by: kelley at May 28, 2008 5:46 PM

I have a few.
1) "It's No Good" by Depeche Mode makes me want to throw up every time I hear it. My ex-boyfriend used his computer's soundsystem as an alarm clock, and for some God-forsaken reason decided to set "It's No Good"--with the bass turned WAY up--to be his wakeup song. Every time it started I'd literally LEAP out of bed. Horrible. Now whenever I hear it I associate it with my alarm going off...ugh.
2) I was in a pretty gnarly car accident while "Deceptacon" by Le Tigre was playing...it took me awhile to be able to listen to that one again.
3) "1979" and "Today" by the Smashing Pumpkins remind me of being 13, causing mischief all over town on summer nights.
4) And, for the strangest one of all, "Here, There and Everywhere" by the Beatles reminds me of the flower scene in Disney's version of "Alice in Wonderland", though I have no idea why.
So many more, but I won't bore you...

Posted by: asha lee at May 28, 2008 5:53 PM

My mom went through a Jewel craze at the same time I started tromping through the original Doom videogame. She would play it loud enough to fill the entire house, so in was inescapable.

Having said that, one can only imagine the irrational caged-animal reaction I have whenever I hear "You Were Meant For Me."

Posted by: marty at May 28, 2008 6:00 PM

U2's Zooropa makes me think of a summer I spent watching Showjumping (must have been Summer Olympic time) - and there was a particular rider who used to ride her horse over these incredibly technical jumps with a hackamore ( a kind of bitless bridle) --- for anyone who's ever ridden horses, can you imagine how difficult that would be? anyway, she won a few shows, and whenever i hear Zooropa, I get slow motion images of her horse jumping over a double oxer.

Posted by: Stella at May 28, 2008 6:47 PM

After my junior year of high school I went to stay in rural Michigan with my Aunt while my parents went on an extended Italian cruise (those bitches). Not terribly exciting, but I did take a train from four states away. Cue to me clutching my portable CD player whilst listening to the Nick Drake compilation Way To Blue on repeat.
Beautiful, sad, utterly perfect train music, and especially so for staring at the soft green expanses of the midwest.

Yellow Submarine (the movie soundtrack or the movie, interchangeably) makes me think of my childhood cat. I was forced to stay behind while he was put down; my dad attempted to distract me with an acid-nightmare of a Beatles flick.

On a happier (and tangentially related) note, Plastic Operator's Folder will always evoke my first experience with mushrooms at a local forest preserve.

Andrew Bird's Opposite Day with the entirety of my freshman year of college.

Ooh, I've got a nice random one: Traffic's The Low Spark of High-Heeled Boys is forever associated with Easter Sunday, and accordingly scalloped potatoes.
Interpret that as you will.

Posted by: serena at May 28, 2008 7:44 PM

My dad (who passed away last yeat) had a very bad accident on his job back in 2003. He was loading some cargo onto the back oh his truck and it fell on him. He was rushed to a hospital very far away from where we lived, so we had to drive like 2 hours to go see him. So, it was very late while we were driving back home and my brother put a mix cd he had made on and one of the songs was

Posted by: B. at May 28, 2008 7:50 PM

I was dating a girl named Robin in high school. I had kind of fallen for her. We went to a party one night and she told me she was leaving with another guy. Worse, she told me she had gone to the party with me so she would have a ride so she could meet this dude and leave with him. It was really cold that night. I went home, alone of course, and listened to The Rain Song by Zeppelin (the live version). The windows were open and it was breezy and cold in the room.
Everytime I hear that song I still flash back to that melancholy night and a little chill creeps up my back.

Posted by: Tony at May 28, 2008 7:50 PM

Ah, sorry I accidently pressed the post comment button before I was finished.

Anyhoo, the song that was playing was Lil Jon's "Get Low". Up until that point I had thought that song was so stupid. But there were were driving in a storm singing along to it. Even my mom! So whenever there is a storm, I always think of that song.

Posted by: B. at May 28, 2008 7:52 PM

This happens a lot for me, but the one I remember right now is Nena's - 99 Red Balloons. I used to have it on constantly while playing Quake 3 and Counter-Strike, and when I hear it, I think fondly of killing people on fantastical virtual maps. Yea... I might be crazy.

Posted by: E at May 28, 2008 8:18 PM

Oh, this is a sweet sweet diversion.

1. Blind melon's "No Rain" reminds me of the first boy I ever liked inviting me into the bathroom while he was showering. It wasn't playing, but lord did he look like Shannon Hoon.

2. "what's new, Pussycat" is college. We had one, super shady, no windows bar that never let underagers in and around 2am they would play this song and the place would go mad like it was "like a prayer" by madonna. No idea why.

whoaaa ooo oooah ooo ooooah oooooohhhhh...

Posted by: patchfire at May 28, 2008 8:30 PM

I'll start with the sad one, when my friend died way before his time in a freak hiking accident a couple years ago, they played "Spirit in the Sky" after the service and let 50+ balloons float off into the horizon. The pastor told us to pick a balloon, attach a memory to it an let it go. I watched it until it was just a tiny little speck, because I didn't want to let him or my memory go. I still tear up when I hear that song.

Happy memory, because of Sufjan Steven's christmas album, all of his songs remind me of Christmas.

Posted by: Agente Provocatrice at May 28, 2008 8:41 PM

I can't think of any events in my life that don't have a soundtrack. Synthesia is a great thing - songs are instant jolts to my memory. Sometimes that can be a great thing (like the evil grin that I get when I hear Phil Collins I Don't Care Anymore).

And there are benefits - I answered this question on an online blog years ago and it got me a guest shot on Oprah. No pressure singing in public for the first time to an audience of twenty million, so sir...

Posted by: funtime42 at May 28, 2008 8:48 PM

I have synesthesia so I already am forced to associate music with colors, BUT besides that oddity, I discovered my love for Christian Bale while listening to "Return of the Phantom Stranger" by Rob Zombie, and now I cannot listen to that song without seeing Christian Bale. This may explain why I listen to that song so much even 7 or 8 years later...

Posted by: lux at May 28, 2008 8:58 PM

just want to see how is this going...

Posted by: forcasualfun at May 28, 2008 8:59 PM

I grew up overseas in Okinawa in the 80's, watching a lot of AFRTS (Armed Forces Radio and Television Service) programming. There was just one G.I. channel, and since there were no commercials, A LOT of between-programming time to fill. So between episodes of "Clutch Cargo" and "Crusader Rabbit" or "M*A*S*H" and "CHiPs," they would play miscellaneous PSAs about OPSEC (Operation Security) and such or run a calendar of base events over music. But in '87, they began running a "music video" of Van Halen's "Dreams"--my favorite song to this day--over video of the Navy's Blue Angels performing. As an Air Force daughter I always wished it was the Thunderbirds, but I still see the kick-ass flight maneuvers in my mind whenever I hear the song on the radio. I don't even know what the real VH video looks like. And I don't want to.

Posted by: pamela at May 28, 2008 9:03 PM

I'm not a country music fan (no sane person with any taste is)...but I do like "I Hope you Dance" by Leann Womack.

I heard it driving home from the beach, after picking up my father's ashes- he had died suddenly surrounded by family on the coast.

My mom also heard the song on her way home- yet she was in a different car and had left several hours before me. I like to think it was some kind of message my dad was trying to send us, and I always think of the beach, and driving through the coastal pass, and that sad sad trip home, when I hear that song

Wish I had a funny or random song association but that's really the only one :-)

Posted by: Be Adequite! at May 28, 2008 9:27 PM

No that's the regular video actually, pamela. Very end of the A-4's life with them I think.

Meanwhile, I've bonded it to Stephen Colbert's "Dance Party!" at the 2004 Democratic convention.

Posted by: Jay at May 28, 2008 9:35 PM

This is strange, but Sugar Ray's "When It's Over" makes me think of 9-11, because I was watching that video on VH1 when a news report about the world trade center came on.

Also, "Inside Out" by Eve 6 makes me think of the time I played pool with the people from the Wood County History Museum where I interned one summer, and "I Want You to Want Me" by Cheap Trick was playing at Fricker's one night when I was out with my B&N co-workers.
Barnes and Noble plays lots of CDs that I associate with working moments. Barry Mailow makes me think of being tired and wanting to murder someone- nobody liked him, in fact we can take CDs home after we finish playing them, and noone wanted Barry. "Pretty Amazing Grace" by Neil Diamond is a recent song, and kind of makes me think of a guy I like.

Posted by: Cait at May 28, 2008 9:43 PM

When I was a kid, I went through a phase where I listened to the album "Fragile" by Yes all the time. It happened to correspond with the period when I was playing the video game Myst. Now I can't hear any music from that album without being transported back in time to 1994, playing Myst in my Dad's study.

Posted by: Wonkey the Monkey at May 28, 2008 9:45 PM

No wonder.

Thanks Jay (embarassed)....youtubing it right now.

**sigh**

Posted by: pamela at May 28, 2008 10:09 PM

Actually, mine is with the original Tomb Raider game, too. I listened to Fiona Apple's "Tidal" religiously during that period and now I have femrock-flashbacks of backflips onto mossy walls whenever I hear "Sullen Girl."

Posted by: Tanya at May 28, 2008 10:22 PM

The year that Frank Sinatra died, I was working at a Saks Fifth Ave, in the jewelry department. They played his songs for a month straight. Now, whenever I hear a song from Old Blue Eyes, I'm taken back to those days when I was flirting my ass off with the cute boy toy in security while I put the jewelry away for the night. He was cute, nine years younger than me and surprisingly good in the rack. Good times.

Posted by: Lori at May 28, 2008 10:30 PM

Whenever I hear NIN's "The Hand That Feeds", I can't help but think about strippers. I don't know why.

Posted by: Jessika at May 28, 2008 10:30 PM

That Marcy Playground song, "Sex and Candy," was big when I was a senior in high school. I grew up in a very tiny, very rural town, with very protective parents. Twice a week, I had a karate class in the evenings, and would always steal a half hour afterward to drive, drive, drive. There really was no where interesting to go within that half hour, and I was always (and ever will be!) a social retard, so no friends to hit up for that short time frame. So, it was just me and the setting sun. That song always makes me think of the smell of the '79 Ford pickup I drove (good, but indescribable), the soft green glow of its AM/FM push-button radio, and rolling wheat fields and pine trees at dusk. A beautiful moment of carefree happiness, pre-adult life horseshit.

Posted by: OhRosieMyGirl at May 28, 2008 11:35 PM

I'm finally back in action after months of madness. Yay on that. Whenever I hear Paul Simon's 'The Obvious Child' I get this fierce desire to be back in my buddy's neighbor's car with my only high school friends and first boyfriend, grinding the damn thing into turf as we 'off roaded' in all the traffic calmed, massively speed bumped back alleys of Vancouver, and through Stanley Park and along the beaches and up to UBC. The scenery on those routes deserve lavishly expensive real film to capture in their own right. Good times, and longing, longing, longing...

Posted by: replica at May 29, 2008 1:42 AM

Whenever I played Sonic Spinball (Sega Genesis) and reached the the last level, for some reason I started thinking of a neighbourhood girl, who was a bit mentally challenged. She liked 2 Unlimited a lot, hence whenever I hear "Jump for Joy" or the like at 4 a.m. I have immediate flashbacks to that silly pinball game (it was way too short).

Pavement's "Date with IKEA" and Brian Eno's "Slipping Away" are both car accidents songs. I drive extra careful now when I put in "Brighten The Corners", and I don't play Eno anymore in the car.

Primus' "Frizzle Fry" and Morphine's "Radar" take me back too my deceased uncle, dancing in his housecoat and slippers, sipping whiskey. I miss him.

Stardust's "Music Sounds Better With You" I associate with an obnoxious girl in university, of whom I once stole her batch of hashish. She never knew it was me.

And Fleetwood Mac's "Go Your Own Way" gives me urges to take a bath. It played on the radio after I got home from the first and only time I cheated on my the g/f, and I felt very dirty.

Posted by: Adere at May 29, 2008 3:46 AM

1. The first association is less mine than my mother's. The night before she went into labor with me, she couldn't get the song "Little Girls" out of her head from Annie. Granted, there is no better example of the woman that I'd become than Ms. Hannigan.

2. "The Scientist" by Coldplay will forever and always be my bestfriend. We listened to it on repeat as we moved her out of the lovely Brooklyn apartment she shared with her long-time love and into her first solo Manhattan closet. Driving over the Brooklyn Bridge with the windows down at sunset with the last of her stuff in my car, we practically took out the speakers blasting it. I remember wishing the wind could blow away the melancholy as I certainly couldn't do anything for her. But then something about the song seemed to lift her. Since then, every time I hear it, if she's not around something is distinctly missing.

Posted by: Nicknameless at May 29, 2008 4:28 AM

I read The Bride Stripped Bare while listening to Weather With You by Crowded House, on a continuous loop (I can't explain why). The goddamn book pissed me off no end, and now I associate my favourite song by my favourite band with pissy, selfish, pseudo feminists. Great...

Posted by: whenindoubt at May 29, 2008 5:09 AM

One of the last things I did before my parents moved back to South Africa was go see Ladysmith Black Mambazo. So, inevitably, their song "Homeless" makes me an absolute wreck.

Posted by: TK at May 29, 2008 7:19 AM

This is a complete and total downer but that stupid Vitamin C "Graduation Song" will forever be imprinted in my memory. It was playing in my apartment(the day after my college graduation) while my friend and I were making celebratory Strawberry Margaritas when I got the call to come home because my dad had been in a motorcycle accident.

Posted by: Melina at May 29, 2008 8:11 AM

What a good idea for a diversion! A lot of my memories are tied to songs, but of course I'm drawing a blank on most of them off hand. Here's a couple that come to mind.

"Life is a Highway" by Joe Cocker
Was on constantly the summer of '92 and I was interning at Disney World so I always think of that absolutely kick-ass summer whenever this song comes on the radio.

"Cheap Seats" by Alabama
Another summer internship, this time in '94. This song was played constantly at this country bar we used to frequent (because it was the only club in town) during an internship in Missouri at a golf resort.

"Music Box Dancer" by ?
I had to have a series of shots when I was 6 and every week on the way to the appointment this song was on the radio. So it makes me think of needles which is not so fun.

Posted by: Rob at May 29, 2008 8:47 AM

I love this! I could probably think of a million of these, but the one that springs instantly to mind is Pink Floyd's "Another Brick In The Wall". Some genius at my high school thought it would be excellent to provide us with a jukebox in the cafe(teria), so of course EVERYBODY played that fucking song over and over and over. The teachers wanted to murder us and whoever had the bright idea in the first place. Then my friend's brother smashed the jukebox with a baseball bat on a dare and the glorious era was over. But whenever I hear that song (and my husband and father both insist on oldies in the car...so I hear it a lot) I'm instantly transported to sophomore year in the cafe.

Posted by: Cara at May 29, 2008 8:48 AM

I will always associate the song "Lover Lay Down" with my first love. It was the summer after high school and he & I had been playing cat-and-mouse for months. But ultimately, it culminated in that song playing on a jukebox in a bar (we lived in Louisiana, so you could be in a bar at 18) and we slow-danced to it. The relationship lasted into the first few months of college (we went to separate schools in separate states) and we broke up/got back together several more times over the next 5 years. It was never meant to be.

Eventually, I got married to another wonderful man who loves Dave Matthews. For some reason, I always feel a little guilty when this song comes on because I always think of my first love.

The second song association I have is "My girl" which plays at every single wedding, but is extremely difficult for me to listen to. It reminds me of my baby girl who passed away at 4 months old last August. I used to sing it to her every day. The song kills me to hear it now.

Posted by: legib at May 29, 2008 8:53 AM

To those who mentioned "American Girl" -- I've actually got two memories for that song. Besides the obvious one, I went to a Tom Petty concert with my sisters once. The younger sister had a friend in college who would play "American Girl" on the jukebox every time they went to the bar, so my sister developed a fondness for it. She told us this, and the whole concert we were waiting for that song. He finally played it in the encore, and I recognized it an instant before my sisters. So I always think of psychopathic killers AND a great concert when I hear that one.

Posted by: Todd at May 29, 2008 9:43 AM

My thing is actually extremely recent, as in last Sunday.

I went to a concert where Drowning Pool was playing, and during the concert, someone threw a sucker up on stage. Ryan McCombs grabbed it, put it in his mouth, and then went "Why does this sucker taste like weed?"

Then they went in to "Bodies" and I got the crap kicked out of me because I was on the edge of a mosh pit.

So now everytime since then that I've heard "Bodies" (which is basically only twice) I've thought of weed suckers.

Posted by: Jaci at May 29, 2008 10:13 AM

During spring finals at school it was miserably hot and our dorm had no a/c so a good friend and I made a midnight milkshake run in my car which also had no a/c. On the way home, we get stuck at a red light when Radiohead's "Creep" came on and we were singing along at the top of our lungs with the windows down and the sun roof open about how we're weird and don't belong when this Suzuki with what we're pretty sure was Satan driving with three of his equally creepy friends/minions. He looked over at us and sneered and then revved his engine. Being two 19 year old girls we freaked, turned off the stereo and stared straight ahead. As soon as the light changed we went and rolled up the windows. We figured dying of heat stroke was safer than this man reaching into the car or whatever we thought he was going to do. We proceeded to catch 7 red lights with this car with four incredibly creepy people staring at us. We were sure they were after us.

So now, I can't hear "Creep" without thinking of the Suzuki of Death, as it has become known as, and our being inexplicably freaked by it's presence.

Posted by: elc at May 29, 2008 10:41 AM

My thing is actually extremely recent, as in last Sunday.

I went to a concert where Drowning Pool was playing, and during the concert, someone threw a sucker up on stage. Ryan McCombs grabbed it, put it in his mouth, and then went "Why does this sucker taste like weed?"

Then they went in to "Bodies" and I got the crap kicked out of me because I was on the edge of a mosh pit.

So now everytime since then that I've heard "Bodies" (which is basically only twice) I've thought of weed suckers.

Posted by: Jaci at May 29, 2008 10:59 AM

When my beloved NHL team, the Jets, moved to Phoenix (wtf?) a huge farewell party was held at our local arena. I managed to hold in my anguish until they played Stompin' Tom Connors' The Hockey Song. Now that cursed song makes me cry every time I hear it.
So, I am old AND a dweeb.

Posted by: raindog at May 29, 2008 11:09 AM

"Clocks" by Coldplay will always be driving across the Chesapeake Bay Bridge from Annapolis on our way to Chincoteague Island. The song lasts almost as long as driving across the bridge, and it is the perfect accompaniment to the beauty of the water and the boats and the birds.....says summer to me, everytime.

And, I always change the lyrics to "Rock and Roll, Part 2" to "Doctor WHO-O-O, Doctor Who, Doctor WHO-O-O, the Tardis." Don't have any idea who did that years ago, but that song will always be the Doctor Who song to me.

Posted by: dammitjanet at May 29, 2008 11:16 AM

oh my.
whenever i hear kid rock's "only god knows why" i am instantly 13 again, standing in my junior high gym, wishing a boy would ask me to slow-dance (didnt happen, by the way)
"one thing" by finger eleven was inescapable the weekend my boyfriends best friend died, and when i hear it now im sitting in his car, holding his hand as we drive to the funeral home.
..and one more for the road..whenever i hear 'my favorite things' from the sound of music i become filled with all-consuming dread and terror. i dont know what exactly the association is, but for as long as i can remember that song has scared the shit out of me.

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Posted by: Judy at May 29, 2008 11:45 AM

When I first found out my mom had cancer (she's fine now, it was long ago) the song that played on radio while I was driving to the hospital was the maudlin modern-rock boohoo-fest "A Long December" by Counting Crows. And it WAS December. And there's that line about the smell of hospitals in winter and oh, how I cried and thought the song was JUST FOR ME.

Now, ten years later, whenever I hear that stupid song I well up with unshed tears and think about calling my mother and then become annoyed that a crappy "sad" song actually made me sad.

Posted by: ironypants at May 29, 2008 11:45 AM

Oh, the one that makes me cry is "What Might Have Been" by Little Texas. I don't normally listen to country, but this song is EXACTLY the story of me and the one that got away, who is still my friend and the great love of my life. I cannot listen to it, ever, because I freakin' lose it. Damn.....

And I don't know if anybody mentioned Sia's Breathe Me......if you did, you know why....

Posted by: dammitjanet at May 29, 2008 11:51 AM

I live in New Orleans, and after Katrina I had to move to Houston for 6 months...everytime I heard Nada Surf's "Do It Again" I would start crying knowing that it would eventually get to the "Maybe this weight is a girt, like I had to see what I could lift..." line. So still today, I well up every time I hear it and I think about drinving dumbass Houston freeways. Still one of my favorite songs.

Posted by: jamiepants at May 29, 2008 11:57 AM

In first year of University, my boyfriend and I would have crazy, awkward, 19 year old sex in his dorm room when his roomate wasn't there. He felt that the longer he lasted, the better it was for me (wrong). Anyways, he liked to put his computer playlist on shuffle while we got busy, and I kid you not, the Fraggle Rock theme song came on right in the heat of the moment. Fraggle Rock, my friends. Can't hear that song without thinking "how much longer is this going to last?"

Posted by: Kelsophecles at May 29, 2008 1:27 PM

dammitjanet:And, I always change the lyrics to "Rock and Roll, Part 2" to "Doctor WHO-O-O, Doctor Who, Doctor WHO-O-O, the Tardis." Don't have any idea who did that years ago, but that song will always be the Doctor Who song to me.

I knew I wasn't the only one!

Posted by: Adere at May 29, 2008 1:27 PM

and i.fuctup: It's "Spinning Away" by Brian Eno, which I also associate with Pizza Hut.

Posted by: Adere at May 29, 2008 1:31 PM

I went to journalism camp the summer after my sophomore year in high school. The opportunity to go came unexpectedly and I didn't have a lot of time to prepare or pack. My best friend was going as well, but we didn't know if we would be rooming together. The last thing she grabbed was her boom box as we were getting out of her parent's car. Turns out we ended up in the same room, but neither of us had packed any tapes. We figured that at least we had the radio, but then she found a cassingle (!) of The Police's "Roxanne" in her purse. Since that is what we had, we played it over and over (and over and over and over...). I can't hear that song without thinking about that week. I don't remember much about the actual journalism part, though I did write an article about Tammy Faye. I do remember the giant anarchy sign we made in the window out of masking tape, but not where we got the roll of tape in the first place, or why we thought it was a good idea. I think every time I hear it, I remember something different about that week.

Posted by: lunabelle at May 29, 2008 1:51 PM

that song will always be the Doctor Who song to me.

That's "Doctorin' the TARDIS" by The Timelords, aka The KLF. I thought it was the song, and in my memory it had been around forever but I think it was 1989 actually. But being misinformed I'd get confused, like when a college marching band played it at a game on TV, or when I'd hear Gary Glitter himself, like in the beginning of "Reality Bites": "where's the lyrics? Is this some instrumental edit?" Don't know how I'd missed the exposure to the original, but there you have it. Fitting I suppose since I love the show now.

Posted by: Jay at May 29, 2008 1:54 PM

Tonight, Tonight by The Smashing Pumpkins reminds me of my first girlfriend.

And various songs connect to various movies because of trailers and by extention the emotional parts of the movie. See: Children of Men, The Life Aquatic, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, etc.

Posted by: Kevin Longrie at May 29, 2008 3:03 PM

1. Tom Petty will always cause me a brief moment of rage--a bunch of us were tailgating before a Dave Matthews Band concert a few years ago (this is a serious business--we'd usually arrive around 2 in the afternoon or so) and the people a couple parking spots over from us played the same 8-song Tom Petty CD on repeat for HOURS. I still do like Tom Petty, but that was a bit much. We responded with Sex and Beer by Pat McCurdy, among other things.

2. One of the strongest associations I have is between the Reality Bites soundtrack, Alice in Chain's Jar of Flies and SimCity. I played a lot of SimCity on an old PowerMac that summer.

I'm also with Jay and Melissa on the Fur Elise thing.

Posted by: Julia at May 29, 2008 8:43 PM

When I was fifteen or sixteen, I worked as a hostess at a Montana's. It's a country and western-themed restaurant, so they'd always be playing dopey 'shot mah dawg, killed mah paw' country music. One day we started out slow and some of the prep cooks had put on their own music. We ended up getting rushed off our feet, and nobody thought to change the music once tons of diners started pouring in.

I only realized it when my (very pretentious) art teacher came in to dine, and when I went over to see how her meal was going, she commented on the music not quite fitting the decor and menu choices. I tuned into it for the first time - keep in mind this is supposed to be a family restaurant - and then could only hear blaring from the speakers, "X GON' GIVE IT TO YA! GON' DELIVER TO YA! MAKE IT NIGGA SAID FREEZE BUT WON'T BE THE ONE ENDIN' UP ON HIS KNEES! BITCH! PLEASE! STAY OUTTA MY WAY, MOTHERFUCKER!' and there were all these families with young children looking really confused.

So even though I should be thinking 'country and western = DMX' instead the connection is such that whenever I notice snobby pseudo-intellectuals drooling over Duchamp or Piss Christ (at a liberal arts university, I notice this a lot) I want to rage and do martial arts and smash cars over their heads while screaming 'X GONNA GIVE IT TO YA!'

It's a double curse because I think that song featured in an action film with DMX and Jet Li. Hence the over the top violence.

Posted by: Lola at May 29, 2008 9:59 PM

Well, my ex-boyfriend lived in a house with a lot of roommates, and he used to blast Nirvana's Nevermind during sex. One night, he decided to tell me we should break up right after, during "Smells Like Teen Spirit." Everytime I hear that song I feel young and anxious and stupid. Also, Michael Buble and the Braveheart soundtrack were the favourites an ex-boyfriend who was killed in a car accident. I cleaned out his apartment on my 25th birthday. I have the cd's still, but have never played them - that music just stops my heart. In brighter diversions, Black Box's "Ride on Time" reminds me of getting ready for the club right after I got my first fake ID and Public Enemy reminds me of reading Sassy as a teenager.

Posted by: llp at May 30, 2008 12:39 AM

As I read these comments, I remembered a lot of associations I have. The entire album of Simon and Garfunkle's Greatest Hits is my childhood. I'll Be Here Awhile by 311 is my first heartbreak, and Crosstown Traffic by Hendrix is dancing in the kitchen whilst simmering tomatoes... I really have too many to post! What a great diversion.

Posted by: electricdaisy at May 30, 2008 12:53 AM

When I was in college, I got a mix CD from one of my oldest, most laid back friends who never listens to anything harder than Enya or Weird Al. His ex-girlfriend helped him make it, and it's full of bizarre shit he would never have chosen on his own, including Cartman's 'Firestarter' mashup.

This is now his theme song. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmo-dx5uvEU

Posted by: Kris at May 30, 2008 1:14 AM

"We've Only Just Begun" by the Carpenters I believe, will always and forever give me chills . . . courtesy of the movie 1408.

Posted by: Angie at May 30, 2008 9:14 AM

a few years ago, after a long summer day of boozing, my friend Ty and I stopped at a convenience store. "Amber" by 311 was on the radio at the store, and we sang along with the chorus ("oo-ooh, amber is the color of your energy") as we stood in the checkout line. From there we went to a park where I proceeded to puke behind a truck in the parking lot. That song still always makes me think of Ty and puking.

Posted by: Carrie at June 2, 2008 5:29 PM