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An Evening Comment Diversion / Dustin Rowles

Comment Diversions | August 12, 2009 | Comments (126)


I rarely watch a movie twice. There are two reasons: 1) Why watch the same movie two or three times when there is so much I haven’t seen, and 2) I’m often afraid I won’t love it as much as I once did. That, perhaps, I will fall out of love with it. It’s the single biggest reason I can’t bring myself to re-watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. I don’t want to pick up on any imperfections. I don’t want find fault in it. I want my memory of it to remain just as it was when I walked out of the theater years ago.

But there are movies that I once loved, that I’ve either grown indifferent toward, or completely fallen out of love with. That’s the topic of tonight’s diversion. What movies have you fallen out of love with?

Probably tops on my list would be Napoleon Dynamite, a movie I thought I loved when I left the theater. Now, I can’t even sit through more than a few scenes. It grates on me. Everything feels forced. And obnoxious. And painful to watch. Napoleon Dynamite is the ex-girlfriend I’m embarrassed to admit I ever dated.

How about y’all? What movie have you fallen out of love with?



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Comments

I remember really loving Practical Magic when I saw it in the theatre. Hell, I even have the soundtrack. So, a few year's back, I asked for it for my birthday. I waited until my sister came to visit so we could watch it together. Totally disappointing. Really, I'm not even sure I want it on my shelf. I can't imagine ever watching it again.

Posted by: tamatha at August 12, 2009 9:15 PM

Tim Burton's Batman

Posted by: BarbadoSlim at August 12, 2009 9:16 PM

she-devil

*hides in shame*

Posted by: gp at August 12, 2009 9:17 PM

I was kind of surprised by how unmoved I was by the Indiana Jones trilogy the second time around.

But before anybody jumps on me I still like them alot.

Posted by: Eep at August 12, 2009 9:18 PM

I admit I sort of loved You've Got Mail when I first saw it. I was in my uber-angsty teen phase that loved everything romantic and silly, and this one was sort of perfect. But I watched it again a few years later and just haaaated everything about it. It was grating and cheesy, and Meg Ryan's self righteous annoying little character just made me want to punch her. It was sad.

Posted by: figgy at August 12, 2009 9:18 PM

Star Wars - A New Hope

I loved it so much when I saw it in the theater that I felt transformed in some way.
Trying to watch it now is painful because, as DR said, it's hard not to pick it apart or wince at some of the wooden performances. Even the special effects (which were SO freakin' cool at the time) seem a bit amateurish.
There are times when I wish I had never seen it
a second time.
a second time.

Posted by: Spender at August 12, 2009 9:18 PM

Oh, Spender. You made my heart sob.

Posted by: figgy at August 12, 2009 9:20 PM

and thanks for givin' them outsourcers what-fer, dustin. my hardee's ad is gone.

Posted by: gp at August 12, 2009 9:21 PM

Interesting choice of picture, btw... I knew that thing sucked balls the first time around.

Posted by: Eep at August 12, 2009 9:24 PM

Oh geez. Juno, definitely. Agree on Napoleon Dynamite too.

Posted by: Kiddo at August 12, 2009 9:25 PM

.
*shudders*
I lived in D.C., and saw it in theaters on the 4th of July weekend. The cheering from the crowd influenced my opinion of the movie greatly when I was a kid...looking back, I really feel like a schmuck.
When I get home, I'm going to re-watch Eternal Sunshine. For some reason, I can watch it over and over...
*shrug* different strokes...

Posted by: Jim Doggie at August 12, 2009 9:25 PM

Awwwwwwww, figgy. It hurt to admit it.
It was so magical and incredibly perfect for it's time that seeing it again decades later (and completely jaded by modern cgi) took away a lot of the magic. That's why I wish I hadn't watched it again. I will always remember how I felt after that first time, though.

Posted by: Spender at August 12, 2009 9:25 PM

Y'know. I have a hard time watching any of the Stars Wars movies now. Knowing what they became.

Posted by: Kiddo at August 12, 2009 9:28 PM

Um, American Beauty.

I was a sophomore in high school when I first saw it and I cried like a baby at the end because it was just OMG THE BEST MOVIE EVER. Out of curiosity, I watched it again and again to see if it would continue to make me cry (and I loved it so much the first time around). I downloaded the '70s tunes that Lester listens to.

I don't outright hate the movie now, but I feel some sort of secret shame when I see it on TV or something because I remember how much I used to revere it.

Posted by: Manda at August 12, 2009 9:28 PM

I liked Dogma more when I saw it initially than I do now. There are parts that really drag, and it just doesn't really do it for me.

Posted by: Mrcreosote at August 12, 2009 9:30 PM

I'd have to add The Lord of the Rings trilogy, but I think it was just from a complete overload. I watched them OBSESSIVELY for years and years, and eventually it just all became too much. Now I can barely watch The Two Towers without cringing. It's a good lesson to learn...don't watch ANY movie too much. You'll just start seeing the imperfections and it'll all become too damn much.

Posted by: figgy at August 12, 2009 9:31 PM

Apocalypse Now.

Posted by: Drew Morton at August 12, 2009 9:33 PM

Ooh figgy, yes I forgot about those. I watched those obsessively for ages and ages. Now I have no desire. Total LOTR overload.

Posted by: Kiddo at August 12, 2009 9:35 PM

I love the original She-Devil from acros the pond (The Life and Loves of a She-Devil). I saw it as a mini-series on PBS.

Not so much I can't stand it but it is not the same as the first time I saw it movie, Logan's Run. Scared the hell out of me when I first saw it, saw it again a few weeks ago and was like "ehh...this is cheesy..."

Posted by: shake at August 12, 2009 9:36 PM

The Graduate

I saw it for the first time in the middle of my Junior year at college. And may Godtopus strike me down if that movie didn't speak to me on levels I didn't know existed.

Now it's almost 10 years later, and I watched the movie again for only the second time ever a few months ago. I still recognize the quality of the film, but boy howdy it's no longer a movie aimed at me. I kinda got bored with it.

I still think it's a good movie, but I don't know that I'll be putting on my DVD player for another good decade.

Posted by: Bistro at August 12, 2009 9:42 PM

I have to echo The Lord of the Rings. It wasn't really from overload, as I haven't seen them nearly as many times as I have, say, Jaws. But little problems with the films just got bigger and bigger to where I can't really watch them anymore without cringing in certain parts. The spectacularly bad tactics of the heroes, for example, ruin the formerly awe-inspiring battle scenes for me.

Also, as a history nerd, Braveheart has become entirely unwatchable for me.

Posted by: Todd at August 12, 2009 9:45 PM

Interesting diversion, Dustin. I think movies have some parallel to music in that there are popular favorites and critical favorites -- as well as cult favorites that sometimes suffer backlash when they get "too popular" (that's where I would slot Napoleon Dynamite).

I'm not averse to rewatching a movie, although I rarely do it on my own -- usually it's at someone else's behest (or when I'm introducing a favorite to a person who hasn't seen it before). I'm hard-pressed to think of a movie I've "fallen out of love with". I've seen It's A Wonderful Life dozens of times and I never tire of it. Same thing with Ferris Bueller's Day Off (thanks, TBS!). I'd say there's probably a greater danger that I'd find something I liked in a movie that I'd previously dismissed than vice versa. But I tend to dislike popular favorites out of hand, so maybe I'm just less susceptible to this phenomenon.

Posted by: Che Grovera at August 12, 2009 9:46 PM

Didn't you used to be Dustin Rowles? Or did you change your name to Whinypants McGee?

Seriously? You rarely watch a movie twice? Let me ask you this: when you see a painting you've never seen or listen to a song you've never heard for the first time...

Do you only look or listen once?

Movies take months and years of technical work and brainpower and creativity from so many and from the sound of it the only thing you bother to focus on is how it makes you feel when leaving the theater?

Maybe you all can only see the bad in these movies upon a second viewing because all the movies you all are mentioning weren't that good to begin with?

The hallmark of a good film/filmmaker should be that you always see something new every time you watch. Not just the first.

Posted by: Some Guy at August 12, 2009 9:49 PM

Apocalypse Now.

Posted by: Drew Morton at August 12, 2009 9:33 PM

Please elaborate.

Posted by: Che Grovera at August 12, 2009 9:50 PM

Return of the Jedi.

Posted by: Lucas at August 12, 2009 9:51 PM

That would be Tank Girl. I was so into loving it I didn't realize that it treated me pretty awfully.

Posted by: replica at August 12, 2009 9:52 PM

American Beauty and Dogma are both interesting titles that have been mentioned. Frankly, I never understood the adulation over AB -- so nothing to fall out of love with there. As for Dogma, I have the DVD and occasionally break it out -- but it's more for specific scenes since it's actually fairly crappy as a story/movie (kind of like buying an album for one song!).

Posted by: Che Grovera at August 12, 2009 9:58 PM

I can't watch any Wes Anderson movies a second time. Sometimes I can make it through TRT's, but Rushmore the second time was ghastly.

I've fallen way out of love with the original Star Wars trilogy, too. Took too much effort to be a fan boy, and frankly none of the movies were really all that good, even the its-not-as-bad-as-the-others-so-it-must-be-good "The Empire Strikes Back".

Posted by: ahamos at August 12, 2009 9:59 PM

Hell, I didn't like Napoleon Dynamite the first time.

Repeat viewings are much like the leap of faith you take in any love affair. Yes, there's a risk, but when you still find a film so worthy of your love, that makes the love all the more rewarding. That's one of my primary tests for what makes a truly great film: does it hold up to repeat viewings?

No film is going to be completely unassailable, of course, but there are those select few that you can watch over and over and still find almost that same buzz. (Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind is in fact one of those for me.) To complete the analogy, they are most akin to those friends and family in our lives that have our unconditional love.

Posted by: DarthCorleone at August 12, 2009 9:59 PM

Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium made me cry both times I saw it. I really expected to hate it the second time.

I fell out of love with Blazing Saddles. It just doesn't do it for me anymore.

Posted by: Bucko at August 12, 2009 10:00 PM

Man, what a downer dirv topic. I'm going to go watch "The Princess Bride," play with some puppies, and try to recapture some of my youthful naivete.

Posted by: DawnDraper at August 12, 2009 10:01 PM

And, of course, Dustin there are some movies to which you won't even give that first chance for love. Peter O'Toole and David Lean are waiting by the phone for you to call!

Posted by: DarthCorleone at August 12, 2009 10:02 PM

Ang Lee's Sense and Sensibility. I still think it rocks, but I've seen it so many times the excitement is gone. It's like the only movie my Mom watches, though, so I just shut my trap and watch whenever I visit.

I'm a little over the LOTR movies, as well.

Posted by: Empress of All the Russias at August 12, 2009 10:02 PM

That, perhaps, I will fall out of love with it. It’s the single biggest reason I can’t bring myself to re-watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

Dustin, this is a MISTAKE! I cannot tell you how many cool new things I've discovered about Eternal Sunshine by watching it over and over again. Each time I see it, I fall deeper in love with Kate Winslet and hate Jim Carrey a little less. I also just always end up in complete awe of the whole concept of the film. Pretty pretty please with a cherry on top take my advice and SEE IT AGAIN or you will DEPRIVE YOURSELF.

Hoo, that was really fucking intense. Apologies. As for movies that I've fallen out of love with... Hm. I used to LOVE Garden State. I don't really hate it so much as I nothing it.

Posted by: DontStopNow at August 12, 2009 10:07 PM

Dead Poet's Society.
I'm just too cynical to enjoy it now.

Posted by: oaklandcat at August 12, 2009 10:07 PM

Stargate SG-1 and Sliders.

I loved the shows, but that was when I only got to see it once a week or so (no cable). So I got the first three seasons of each on DVD for a gift.

For Stargate, I started watching them, and I became increasingly annoyed with Samantha Carter's tendency to fall prey to the "dumb bitch" syndrome, the increasing simple-ness of the planets (anyone notice that they dropped the other planet speak something other than English about midway thru the first season).

The "dumb bitch" scenario is also easily discernible in Sliders thru Wade Welles.
Then John Rhys Davies got fired and I quit watching all together.

It's why I'm afraid to go back and watch The Pretender.

Posted by: alphawhiskey at August 12, 2009 10:08 PM

The first Austin Powers movie. I haven't seen it in ages. Once I thought it was cute, but now Mike Myers just bugs me.

Posted by: MelBivDevoe at August 12, 2009 10:09 PM

I will not let people say that the original Star Wars movies weren't that good, sure, they're nitpicky if you take them as the sum of the parts, but as a whole, the films are brilliant.

There are a ton of films from my childhood that if I watched now, I know I'd hate, the Pokémon movies being the most obvious example, but of the good films, that hasn't happened yet, since I hated Napoleon Dynamite the first time I saw it, I actually walked out of it.

However, I have noticed that some films are better on the second viewing than the first, the most notable one for me at least was The Matrix, the original, the sequels can go rimjob themselves.

Posted by: George at August 12, 2009 10:09 PM

Amen, Some Guy. Not every movie's worth a second viewing, but ones that hold up a second time are worth it. Some movies are even better a second time around, when you can look at a lot of the technical stuff you missed the first time.

Movies I've fallen out of love with? Just Like Heaven. I don't know why I thought it was so funny the first time, but now it's just an embarrassment on my DVD shelf. Mark Ruffalo I still love you.

Posted by: kelsy at August 12, 2009 10:09 PM

Since it has been brought up today, Boondock Saints.

I fell for it the first go-round or so, and I let my love of Dafoe well...Dafoeing it up blind me just a bit further, but Eep expressed the problem exactly.

It's a papier-mâché version of the genre; it has visual style and violence but it's empty and lifeless on the inside. It's like what you would get if a talentless hack bartender calling himself a musician watched a bunch of really good movies and then tried to write something just like them. The problem is that he could comprehend and regurgitate was violence, suits, a duplo-block version of morality, and tough guy talk.

It was a shadow of what could have been a better film. Really, the actors made it more appealing than it really was.

And only now do I realize that Rorschach from Wathcmen, right down to the Kitty Genovese reference. Only Moore did it markedly better.

Posted by: Vermillion at August 12, 2009 10:12 PM

I'll second American Beauty -- what I thought to be profound ten years ago now seems like nothing more than a paean to self-absorption. It's for people who can't believe they're not properly appreciated, a trait I used to lug along with me like Navin dragging Shithead but have since tried to leave behind. Maybe I just don't like being reminded of my smug, hipster past.

Posted by: sansho1 at August 12, 2009 10:13 PM

I'd say Star Wars 4,5,6 survive repeat viewings. But I refuse to rewatch it until I can find the un-altered versin on DVD. You know, from before the time Lucas took it upon himself to go back and CGI up the whole affair, and change a bunch of shit (like the extra sequence with Solo and Jabba on Tattoine, or changing the musical sequence and adding the weird lipped monster thing at Jabba's palace).

Posted by: alphawhiskey at August 12, 2009 10:14 PM

Sorry, that should be "I realize that the brothers were aping Rorschach from Wathcmen,"

Also, The Neverending Story. I played the hell out of it as a kid. It was practically the only film I would watch. But after some time away to grow up, I caught it on cable and couldn't make it through. It saddened me.

Posted by: Vermillion at August 12, 2009 10:21 PM

I think my feelings are similar to Che's - and if I really loved a movie in the first place, I don't fall out of love with it. The only thing I can think of is an old TV movie version of Cinderella. I tracked it down for my girls to watch because I had fond memories, but it really wasn't so great after they'd already seen Enchanted.

Posted by: Cindy at August 12, 2009 10:22 PM

Pretty much any Christopher Guest movie (and, yeah, I'm lumping Spinal Tap in there too). I went through a phase where I would watch them over and over and over, and would use them all (but especially Waiting for Guffman) as friend gauges, but now I'm so ridiculously indifferent to all of them.

I couldn't even muster up any enthusiasm for For Your Consideration and I still have yet to see it. Sigh. And that's why you don't watch the same four movies a dozen times each.

Posted by: Tori at August 12, 2009 10:25 PM

I agree with oaklandcat on Dead Poet's. I loved that movie very hard, but now I just can't make it all the way through.


I fell out of love with Blazing Saddles. It just doesn't do it for me anymore.

Bucko, please don't take this the wrong way when I say vendetta! VENDETTA!

Posted by: branded at August 12, 2009 10:29 PM

Empress of all Russias (looooove your name, btw), Sense and Sensibility is one that I keep waiting to fall out of love with, but after something like 200 viewings it hasn't happened.

Posted by: figgy at August 12, 2009 10:30 PM

I used to love Mallrats. I defended it tooth and nail since college. Now I realize that I was just being contrary... It's just not a good movie. Sorry Mr. Smith. Now Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back... that's a movie that gets better and better.

Posted by: logar at August 12, 2009 10:34 PM

Tales From the Crypt presents: Demon Knight. I fucking loved that movie when it came out on DVD. Billy Zane was still highly bangable. Jada Pinkett had no Smith. Thomas Haden Church hadn't fought with Emo Spidey yet.

That movie cracked my shit up while also having lots of blood, demons, and William Sadler. It took me forever to get it on DVD and I was so excited. Excited until I realized that I was no longer in love with this movie that I had once adored. We had grown apart and I didn't see any future for us. I've asked Demon Knight to be friends and it agreed. I think it only agreed because of how hard it is to find premium shelf space in my neighborhood.

Who knows, maybe one night I'll have a little too much to drink. Maybe I'll pick Demon Knight up off the shelf and slide it into my player. I'll push all of the right buttons and then settle back for some action. Perhaps our love can be rekindled, if only for 90 short minutes. I hope it can.

Posted by: Pinky McLadybits (aka Dangle McGee) at August 12, 2009 10:38 PM

Awww, I feel ya Vermillion, I can't sit through an entire showing of Neverending Story either. I mean, I always got upset when the horse died and fast forwarded through that part anyway, but I tried to watch it recently and gave up. A little piece of me died inside. And then I got all angry that I still don't know what fucking name Sebastian yells out at the end.

I second Juno, I can't even watch it now without wanting to rip her little ponytail out and screaming "Talk like regular people, dammit!!"

I would still like to see a diversion where people list movies they only liked after repeat viewings. That intrigues me, and I have a few of my own.

Posted by: myysharona (formerly Sharon) at August 12, 2009 10:38 PM

I would still like to see a diversion where people list movies they only liked after repeat viewings. That intrigues me, and I have a few of my own.

Unbreakable. I hated it so much that I cursed loudly as we left the theater. I cussed all the way home. Then, my Mom bought it when it came out on DVD and I decided to watch it again. I don't love it, but I do like it now.

Anchorman was another that I hated in the theater and LOVE now. Oh, Mr. Burgandy! I'm so sorry that I didn't understand you when we first met!

Posted by: Pinky McLadybits (aka Dangle McGee) at August 12, 2009 10:42 PM

Apocalypse Now.

Posted by: Drew Morton at August 12, 2009 9:33 PM

Please elaborate.

Che,

I just find it overlong and once you get the idea that war allows men to give into their darker instincts, comes off as trite. I don't hate it, I just think it's overrated and I'm more amazed with the scope of sequences (the helicopter attack) than the film as a whole. Hell, the making of Apocalypse Now (as seen in Hearts of Darkness) is more interesting than "AP."

Posted by: Drew Morton at August 12, 2009 10:52 PM

The only film I can think of that I fell out of love with was "Sweeney Todd". Saw it with friends in theaters and had a wonderful experience. Bought it as soon as it came out on DVD, watched it again, it was kind of fun, but altogether dull in places. Now my teeny bopper sister adores it and I can no longer stand it.
I agree with many of the people on here that I do not fall out of love with many movies. Well, rarely at least.

Posted by: Kamikaze Feminist at August 12, 2009 10:58 PM

I liked Chicago and American Beauty a LOT more after repeated viewings.

Posted by: figgy at August 12, 2009 11:00 PM

Chasing Amy.

I looooved that movie for a good 2 years. Then when I got a bit more of the origin of this story (Kevin Smith's inability to cope with a girlfriend (Joey Lauren Adams) who'd had a lot more life (and sexual of course) experience than him), I started to think: Why the hell didn't he make THAT movie? Why'd she have to be a lesbian? I never understood the need that he had to use that lame, oh so lame, plot device. If Chasing Amy was about a guy falling in love, then having a hard time dealing with, a girl that's far more experienced than him, I'd see it again. Now, meh.

Also, Memento: brilliant movie, but because of its particular structure, it's very hard to see it twice with the same "BANG" it had the first time around.

Posted by: jpguy13 at August 12, 2009 11:00 PM

One rather unwelcome recent development occurred while rewatching season 2 of Mad Men -- Jon Hamm's sendup of Don Draper on SNL had the unfortunate effect of souring me on all those bolt-from-the-blue advertising soliloquies where everyone got real still and quiet while Draper expounded on the consumer id. Suddenly they all seemed like setups for punch lines which never came. I'm still looking forward to season 3, but I fear much unintentional hilarity, which isn't how I want to watch the show.

Posted by: sansho1 at August 12, 2009 11:01 PM

Adaptation blew my mind on first watch, to the point that I rewatched it countless times to initiate various friends, but there came a point when it started to feel pointlessly meta.

Posted by: Max at August 12, 2009 11:08 PM

Damnit, Tamatha stole my choice.

Practical Magic was a movie I adored first off: The adorable Sandra Bullock, and witches. Must see, right?

Not exactly.

They keep airing it on TNT/TBS and I just realized how stupid it is. Bullock gets over her dead hubby in about 5 minutes for some guy with weird eyes. And is it wrong that I want the police to arrest them? I mean, they kinda murdered someone.

Bad movie. And I loved the soundtrack, too. Fleetwood fucking Mac.

Posted by: Brie at August 12, 2009 11:13 PM

Another vote for American Beauty and Garden State, both movies I loved when they came out and now find almost unwatchable. I also recently re-watched Clerks and could barely make it through, especially knowing what's become of Kevin Smith.

Posted by: meshell at August 12, 2009 11:16 PM

Unbreakable. I hated it so much that I cursed loudly as we left the theater. I cussed all the way home. Then, my Mom bought it when it came out on DVD and I decided to watch it again. I don't love it, but I do like it now.

Oooh, that is one of the "liked it at first" movies for me. bought the special edition DVD and everything. Loved it, and really considered it a fine followup to The Sixth Sense (another contender for this diversion). But it didn't much longer, and I realized that I was more in love with the IDEA of the movie than I was with the actual product.

I would still like to see a diversion where people list movies they only liked after repeat viewings. That intrigues me, and I have a few of my own.

I nominate EVERYTHING MILLA JOVOVICH HAS EVER BEEN IN. Especially The Fifth Element and, to a lesser extent, Ultraviolet (don't hit me!). The woman is just flat-out entertaining. Oh and the near-constant nakedness didn't hurt either.

Posted by: Vermillion at August 12, 2009 11:16 PM

tamatha,

I cannot watch Practical Magic, but for different reasons. I loved its quirkiness and the idea that filming it would have been fun, pretty silly as a story, but it was an all in good fun watch. It introduced me to Lime in 'da Coconut, so I can't hate on it.

However, I have short hair now. The sisters' hair in that movie is the reason I grew mine long and kept it that way for YEARS. I'm trying to resist the urge to go back, for at least a little while longer...

Posted by: Kate at August 12, 2009 11:17 PM

The Matrix. It did something to me the first time I watched it. A computer nerd was the chosen one, and Carrie-Anne Moss was in it (I'm probably the only person on earth who watched Models, Inc. Loved her in it).

Then they made the sequels. I gave them the benefit of the doubt after the first one. This can work out, I thought. They will tie this up. I'm still buying all this because it will be the BEST TRILOGY EVER.

I can't watch The Matrix anymore. The computer techno geek in me died. Or perhaps I should say, was murdered after having her eyes gouged out by a non-existent spoon and a weird Frenchman.

Posted by: leuce7 at August 12, 2009 11:36 PM

Unbreakable. I hated it so much that I cursed loudly as we left the theater. I cussed all the way home. Then, my Mom bought it when it came out on DVD and I decided to watch it again. I don't love it, but I do like it now.

Posted by: Pinky McLadybits (aka Dangle McGee) at August 12, 2009 10:42 PM

Unbreakable is the only one of M. Night's movies that I own. It's much more "rewatchable" than Sixth Sense. More of a crush than outright love, though.

Posted by: Che Grovera at August 12, 2009 11:37 PM

I nominate EVERYTHING MILLA JOVOVICH HAS EVER BEEN IN. Especially The Fifth Element and, to a lesser extent, Ultraviolet (don't hit me!). The woman is just flat-out entertaining. Oh and the near-constant nakedness didn't hurt either.

Yes. Oh, yes.

And Practical Magic - Nicole Kidman as a hottie bad girl. Still works for me.

I used to LOVE Corpse Bride. Not feeling it any more. The Depp character is too consumptive and the musical numbers are not that good and it's just boring. Now. Then, I had the poster on the wall.

Posted by: Meander at August 12, 2009 11:42 PM

I just find it overlong and once you get the idea that war allows men to give into their darker instincts, comes off as trite. I don't hate it, I just think it's overrated and I'm more amazed with the scope of sequences (the helicopter attack) than the film as a whole. Hell, the making of Apocalypse Now (as seen in Hearts of Darkness) is more interesting than "AP."

Posted by: Drew Morton at August 12, 2009 10:52 PM

I can live with that explanation. It isn't well-paced, and it certainly isn't the most accessible film -- which can also be said about the source material (not that that's an effective argument to a Conrad junkie).

Posted by: Che Grovera at August 12, 2009 11:44 PM

I really loved Down with Love when I saw it in theaters and thought it was cheeky and funny and delightful. I tried to watch it again and couldn't get through the whole thing. Damn you, Zellweger!

In recent memory, Slumdog Millionaire was near-great when I watched it first and I'd now call it good-not-great.

Posted by: whatBENwatches at August 12, 2009 11:48 PM

I used to love Nightmare Before Christmas, and now I'm just "meh."
I never liked Corpse Bride. I think I'm pretty burnt out on Burton altogether. I don't know WHAT to think of the new Alice in Wonderland movie.

Also, I used to LOVE love love PCU, but I haven't seen it in a while. I wonder if I'll still like it. It has George Clinton in it, I'll definitely still like that part.

Posted by: myysharona (formerly Sharon) at August 12, 2009 11:48 PM

Easy now, Jovovich was in Dazed and Confused...


Vermillion if you haven't already, you should read the book of The Neverending Story. The movie (which I liked at the time too) is the warmed-over cliffnotes of the book.

Posted by: Eep at August 12, 2009 11:49 PM

2001 a Space Odyssey, I convinced myself that I "got" it in high school and it was magnificent. I watched it last year post-undergraduate and was pissed off. Love affair over.

Also just picked up Flight of the Concords Season 1 and got bored about 6 episodes in. It's all downhill after the David Bowie episode.

Posted by: Agente Provocatrice at August 12, 2009 11:49 PM

I can't hate American Beauty. I lost my virginity the night I saw that movie in theaters.

It's generally indifference that keeps me from re-watching most of the movies I only see once, not dislike or, conversely, love. Movies I love I watch over and over and they don't get old.

Posted by: Major Etiquette at August 12, 2009 11:51 PM

leuce7, you are most definitely not the only person who watched Models, Inc. and loved Carrie Moss even back then. Some people that I know *cough*me*cough* may even check sometimes to see if it's coming out on DVD because they really enjoyed that show during its first season.

Ahem, anyway, my big movie that I fell out of love with is Grease. I loved that movie as a kid (like many other people), but I watched it so many times, that I can't imagine ever watching it again.

Posted by: tbean at August 12, 2009 11:51 PM

myysharona I've seen PCU several times and it has held up for me (in the sense that it is a solid though not perfect movie with a few flaws but a message I love).

Posted by: Eep at August 12, 2009 11:53 PM

I watched Blazing Saddles (and all Mel Brooks movies) at least a million times when I was growing up. Maybe even a million and one. Ah. We were so in love with our betamax.

I still have lines from those movies come to mind at odd times. When I'm with my sister one of us will say the line and we'll hoot and howl.

So we tried to watch it again last year. OMG Made it through about 20 minutes. I know it's all one big spoof, but I still couldn't watch it without cringing so much it hurt my face.

Maybe I'll try High Anxiety. I have fond memories of nurse Deisel's boobs.

Posted by: gwen at August 12, 2009 11:54 PM

On the flip side, the first time I saw Keeping the Faith I thought it was so formulaic and utterly boring. And the second time I found it really endearing. Maybe I have become more formulaic and boring, too.

Posted by: Gwen at August 12, 2009 11:57 PM

mysharona, according to the interwebs, Bastion yells out Moon Child at the end of Neverending Story. I had always wondered what he yelled out myself, and now I feel a little differently about the ending of the movie. I hadn't imagined a name like Moon Child at all.

Posted by: Major Etiquette at August 13, 2009 12:01 AM

There will be Blood. Watched it once and loved it, have never watched it all the way through again.

To go the opposite way,
http://www.givememyremote.com/remote/watch-nathan-fillion-in-pg-porn/

I could honestly watch this on a loop forever.

Posted by: Braski at August 13, 2009 12:08 AM

Che,

I don't mind it being inaccessible, but I'd watch "The Conversation" any day over "Apocalypse Now." Or, if I wanted my madness in the jungle kick, "Aguirre, The Wrath of God."

Posted by: Drew Morton at August 13, 2009 12:23 AM

Major Etiquette
I'm not buying Moon Child. No way. That is just too stupid and besides, I thought he used his mother's name.
I refuse to believe this and I'm now ignoring any possibility that it might be so.

Posted by: myysharona (formerly Sharon) at August 13, 2009 12:36 AM

Off-topic, but Woot is running a UA movies special, 12 movies, $24.95. They aren't all great, but there's some keepers there.

Posted by: Drake at August 13, 2009 1:07 AM

This is highly embarrassing, but when I was in high school (circa-2000) I was obsessed with the movie "Down to You". It was kind of like a second rate "10 Things I Hate About You", including Julia Stiles and the late 90's early 00's second-rate romantic teen comedy go-to, Freddie Prinze, Jr. I must have watched that movie once a week, every week, for months. I don't know what it was about that movie... has anyone else even ever seen this piece is crap?

ANYway, I tried to watch it in college and cringed my face off. I couldn't even get through the thing. Another reason why all the huge blockbuster movies suck -- teenagers are stupid.

Posted by: Cruise at August 13, 2009 1:35 AM

I know I'm going to get pilloried for this, but I loved Monty Python and the Holy Grail in college, and then a couple of years ago had a disastrous date in which the woman kept quoting it all night long. It was then that I had an epiphany - Holy Grail was funny in college, but I didn't want to spend the rest of my life viewing that as the zenith of humor. Needless to say, things ended badly (both the date and my feelings for the film).

Posted by: Ken at August 13, 2009 1:42 AM

Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves. I loved it in middle school but oh, you guys. it's SO BAD.
SO. BAD. Except for Alan Rickman. He totally owns the whole film.

Posted by: ironypants at August 13, 2009 1:46 AM

Some Guy: AMEN!

I've lost a little of my love for Pajiba knowing that there are people here who only watch a movie once and then toss it away. That's the best part about a good movie, that it improves upon multiple viewings (even crappy movies do this).

Old movies you love are like comfort food. Not adventurous, not new, not anything to write home about but wonderful all the same. A new movie can disappoint and on those days where you just can't take another disappointment there's nothing better than some mashed potatoes and a copy of Ferris Bueller or Blazing Saddles.

on top of that, how is one ever to pick up on all the wonderful movie quotes that the young kids like to bandy about willy nilly with only one viewing?

start watching the ones you love more than once. Cuz after all, you don't bang your lady once and never return. You come back for seconds. Good movies, good food, and good sex always deserve a repeat performance.

movies I have lost my love for: Shakespeare in Love. It's just so damn stupid now that I've got a legit education under my belt.

Posted by: Avery at August 13, 2009 2:03 AM

"Pride and Prejudice" (the newer version.) I remember after the first time I watched it I was so totally enamored. The love story and cinematography combined rocked my world.

But then, after actually READING "Pride and Prejudice", as well as taking a film class that picked apart cinematography, I realized the film was pretty freaking terrible. Just the number of zooms is enough to make me laugh as I'm watching it. Guh. No good.

Posted by: Sapphiar at August 13, 2009 2:04 AM

City of Angels

But I'd just called off my wedding and wanted anyone blissfully in love to get hit by a mack truck, so there you have it.

Posted by: ceejeemcbeegee at August 13, 2009 2:10 AM

Fucking Dirty Dancing my sister and my mom wore the fuck out of me with that movie. Fuck staying home all summer with women. At least that you are related to.

Posted by: Deistbrawler at August 13, 2009 2:11 AM

I loved Dances with wolves when it first came out. I was 16 and I remember crying when I left the cinema. So beautiful...so profound..
Now I recognize it for what it really is: Kevin Coster masturbating to a picture of himself for three hours.

Posted by: AlwaysConfused at August 13, 2009 2:21 AM

Ooh, good subject. I think mine would have to be the Lord of the Rings trilogy also, but I got to agree with Dustin: Napoleon Dynamite is insufferable now. Hm...I really wonder how that film will be seen decades from now through the eyes of historians.

Of course, I could also talk about how much I loved Joel Schumacher's Batman and Robin back when I was 9 in 1997, but winced in agony when I saw bits of it again in 2006, but I won't. Nope, you'll never know.

Wait...

Posted by: vic at August 13, 2009 3:41 AM

I found a great dating site_____W e a l t h y D a t e r. C O M_____. .where you have the opportunity dreaming about dating a millionaire and make it true! u dont have to be a millionaire.but u can meet one. I thought everyone needed to meet some miracle after all the terrible stuff in the news and the economy .-----------------------------------------------

Posted by: k.lucy61 at August 13, 2009 3:48 AM

I found a great dating site_____W e a l t h y D a t e r. C O M_____. .where you have the opportunity dreaming about dating a millionaire and make it true! u dont have to be a millionaire.but u can meet one. I thought everyone needed to meet some miracle after all the terrible stuff in the news and the economy .-----------------------------------------------

Posted by: k.lucy61 at August 13, 2009 3:49 AM

I think this diversion should be renamed

"Movies you thought you loved until you found out everyone else had discovered them too"

I understand that we mature, and we sometimes see holes in things when we reconsider, but I hate the whole 'cult' thing. Napoleon Dynamite was freaking funny, who cares if it's forced- all 'cult' films are made that way. No quirky film ever turned out that way by accident, they are all written for a cult audience, and the minute the merchandise ends up in Hot Topic or Forbidden Planet, all of a sudden the film was "trying too hard" and made for posers.

Truth is, Napoleon Dynamite was forced and unsubtle but it was funny, and I laugh every time. Donnie Darko was flawed but a cut above the rest. American Beauty was pretentious, but moving.

Unless someone doesn't realise that the camera is rolling, they're *trying* to do whatever they're doing. It's all pretentious cause it's all written, staged and filmed. And the second time you watch it, it's exactly the same film, you're just more of a self-righteous arsehole this time round.

In the privacy of your own room, regardless of whatever you want to tell your friends about how much you're over last year's cult darling, you can hold no pretensions and just enjoy films for what they are.

Where is the loyalty, people?!

Wow. My third ever post = RANT

Posted by: mj88 at August 13, 2009 5:09 AM

Since all of Kevin Smith's "classic" movies (Clerks, Mallrats, Chasing Amy, Dogma) have been listed, can we all agree that he is, and always has been, complete horse shit?

Posted by: Ching Chong Chang at August 13, 2009 5:21 AM

I've lost a little of my love for Pajiba knowing that there are people here who only watch a movie once and then toss it away.

I lost a little of my love when I realized there were people who still equate one man' experience as somehow a general policy or something.

Where is the loyalty, people?!

That seems to be the problem, if I a reading these other posts correctly. Many of these comments revolve around the same thing: time and/or multiple viewings eventually spoil a film.

It just seems like you fellas who are so ready to decry the comment diversion are too focused on the first line, and not really paying attention. After reading these comments, I kinda see where Dustin is coming from. Quite a few folks have worn their favorites out, or had bad experiences with them, or just grew out (not outgrew) of the movie. The movie didn't change, we did. So yes, there is the possibility that it just doesn't feel like it used to. The chance of this happening increase with every viewing, so Dustin simply averts this in his own way.

The idea is moderation. Not that you have to go all "movie aesthetic" and restrict yourself, but just hold off on watching the movie every single time it is on. Some films are just not built that way. It isn't that they are fundamentally bad, just not something that should be rigidly adhered.

PS. Another film for consideration: Serenity. It is still great, but I have had some lackluster experiences involving getting family members/friends to watch it (especially with my sister, who complained about the Operative haircut) which has cast a pall over it. I manage to find myself in the mood for it every once in a while, but I just can't pop it in constantly anymore.

Posted by: Vermillion at August 13, 2009 5:51 AM

re: Vermillion's post

I totally get where you're coming from, and I understand that people do grow up and change, so I can forgive some of the older films being rethought.

In fairness, I *had* read the comments on here, and found that 'Lord of the Rings', 'Napoleon Dynamite' etc were basically canned because people 'got over the hype'.

I suppose it's as much a problem when people join the hype as when they abandon their new 'favourite film'.

Oh and on Serenity, don't let the non-believers taint your love for that masterpiece! It's near-on perfect and its few flaws, I like to think, are just Joss "aiming to misbehave".

Posted by: mj88 at August 13, 2009 6:05 AM

By the way, who would ever consider American Beauty comfort food? That has to be one fucked up life to lead, where a person is like "I need a pick-me-up. I know, American Beauty!"

Posted by: Vermillion at August 13, 2009 6:20 AM

Henry and June.
I went through this phase of my life where I spent hours skipping class and just pouring through everything Henry Miller and Anais Nin ever wrote, and then the movie came out. I watched it once & found it daring, thrilling, brilliant. Almost 20 years later I saw it in a reduced price bin, bought it, watched it, and cringed just about the entire time.
Fred Ward's still hot, though.

Posted by: AdaHaze at August 13, 2009 6:44 AM

Yeah, American Beauty is a really good call. It just feels so forced and cliche these days, despite all the zingers in the script and some fine acting by everyone. I'd also have to pick - er - Pretty Woman, which I loved when I was 11. And Bowling For Columbine and Elizabeth and Forrest Gump. There must be some others.

I haven't read all the comments, so perhaps someone's already suggested doing this the other way round - films that you realise were good and that you were profoundly wrong about. I'd have to nominate - shamefully - The Big Lebowski.

Posted by: Caspar at August 13, 2009 6:48 AM

I exposed some friends to "Dog Soldiers" and they were not near as gaga over it as I was. This didn't really change my opinion of the movie, it still rocks ass and I'll take werewolf costumes over CGI any day of the week and twice on Sunday.

There are 2 movies that I loved in the theater but have since fallen out of favor. The first is Die Hard 2: Die Harder. With a packed opening night house that movie absolutely rocked, after repeat viewings it just doens't hold up. McClane is a dick, the plot doesn't really make sense, and it is more abrasive then fun. Some of the action scenes are still solid but that's it.

The other one is "The Ring". I still think it is a good movie, but it just really loses something after that first time through.

But I have to agree if you are not watching your so-called favorite movies more than once you are missing out. For really good movies, it is impossible to get everything the first time through, especially the little details. Sure, the experience may not be the same, but that is because YOU are not the same, if that is not too trite. For example, Eternal Sunshine is a VASTLY different film experience depending on where you are in your life. Not bad, just different.

It's those little details that make the re-watch so rewarding because you likely forgot them since the first viewing. Like the final scene in "Magnolia" where Claudia looks up directly at the camera and smiles as Aimee Mann's "Save Me" hits the chorus and the screen cuts to credits. Or on the flip side the last scene in "Spider-Man 2", which doesn't end with Spidey happily web-slinging through the city, but on Mary Jane as she watches him go, and her smile slowly fades away as the screen fades to black. As a movie lover, you are really cheating yourself by not re-visiting your faves.

As for movies I didn't like but now love: "LA Confidential". Just didn't get it at first, now it's one of my favorites.

Posted by: TylerDFC at August 13, 2009 7:09 AM

The Big Leb?! . . . Stone her! Stone the witch!

Posted by: Tracer Bullet at August 13, 2009 7:24 AM

Maybe I'll try High Anxiety. I have fond memories of nurse Deisel's boobs.

Don't. This was one I had fond memories of, but I happened upon it this weekend and, boy, was it not funny. There is a whole Mel Brooks as lounge singer scene that is painful and even the Birds bit has lost its humor for me. There may be good parts still (Nurse Diesel still kills) but you'll be disappointed overall.

Best rewatchable movies that I never tire of no matter how often I watch them:

Ferris Bueller
Goodfellas
Godfather I & II
Pulp Fiction
Young Frankenstein
It's a Wonderful Life
My Cousin Vinnie
Empire Strikes Back
Hoosiers
Boogie Nights
The Princess Bride

Posted by: ed newman at August 13, 2009 8:53 AM

you're just more of a self-righteous arsehole this time round.

Sometimes, sometimes not. It can be the loss of self-righteous arsehole-ness that leads you to wonder what you saw in a movie in the first place. What ruined American Beauty for me was that I suddenly found Lester Burnham's actions deplorable -- it's not heroic to declare yourself superior to a situation of your own making. It isn't necessarily moralizing to recognize that a moral question is being asked of Lester, and that Alan Ball comes down fairly resolutely on the untenable side.

Posted by: sansho1 at August 13, 2009 8:57 AM

Easy Rider.

Posted by: Mickey at August 13, 2009 9:31 AM

I rarely watch a movie twice.

This is so the opposite of me. Some movies I watch over and over again because they're the cinematic equivalent of comfort food (bonus if I have actual comfort food to go along with them). Sometimes I want to be able to appreciate the technical elements or other aspects once I know the plot/story and don't have to follow that as closely. If it's a series, sometimes it's interesting to see the first films, knowing what happened later, putting together the threads that run through them all. Other times I'm seeking the experience of viewing the movie at another age or in another frame of mind, even if there's a risk that I'll no longer like something I once loved. That's the nature of life, right? Recently I've been re-watching some "classics" with my fourteen-year-old son (e.g., Stripes), and it's interesting seeing them through his eyes.

Posted by: appwitch at August 13, 2009 9:42 AM

I tend to fall out of but then back in love with films. I completely abandoned Kevin Smith for 3 or 4 years, but then came back. Turns out I just needed a break to go and fuck other movies.

However, I would agree with the sentiment on Burton's Batman. Caught part of it the other day on TV (the art gallery scene and subsequent chase). Maybe it was time, maybe The Dark Knight, but just those 10 minutes were painful. I think perhaps Beverly Hills Cop has been unseated as the most dated film of the 80s.

Posted by: WestCoastPat at August 13, 2009 10:03 AM

The Ring is a great one, TylerDFC. That fucked up me and an entire theater full of people who couldn't get into 8 Mile (I guess that could have been a red flag). Bought it when it came out on DVD and mehhhhhhhh.

Posted by: Eep at August 13, 2009 10:03 AM

A league of their own!
I LOOOVVVEEEDDDD Genna Davis and Rosie O'Donnell before she got militant
and crazy.

Also as a side note: My fiance and I have watched ; Casino, Fight Club and
Cape Fear (Nick Nolte version) more times than we can count and could act out
all corresponding scenes.

Posted by: blacksred at August 13, 2009 10:07 AM

The Dark Knight.

I saw this movie three times in theaters and fucking loved every minute of it. I got the DVD and it took me two days to watch. Now, if I pop it in, I just skip to the Joker scenes.

Posted by: Kris at August 13, 2009 11:12 AM

I can't believe I saw Rushmore on this list. Christ almighty, that's a bloody travesty!

For me most recently, it has to be Role Models. I loved it when I saw it in the theater. A few weeks back I watched it with a girl I was seeing and save for the first act, it just wasn't as funny. And let's not even get into the ending.

Posted by: Alon at August 13, 2009 11:19 AM

-Napolean Dynamite
(but I could watch the dance scene on an endless loop and not tire of it)
-Rudy
(pumped me up like no other in high school- showed it to my wife a few months ago and was thoroughly embarrassed)
-Burn After Reading
(the only Coen bros movie I've ever turned against (Int. Cruelty and Ladykillers having not made the first cut)
-Super-size Me, Bowling for Columbine
(many 'timely' documenaties seem to lose relevance and watchability after a few years)
-Return of the Jedi

I refuse to watch Dumb and Dumber and Billy Madison, wanting to preserve the love I had for them when I watched them both monthly in high school

Eternal Sunshine, on the other hand, has grown on me every time I've rewatched it...

Posted by: dg at August 13, 2009 11:52 AM

mysharona
I'm actually pretty sure Bastian shouts "Mona" out the window. I remember thinking "That's the most beautiful name he knows? Really?"
I was clearly a very cynical child...
I'll give it this, though - it's a damn sight better than Moon Child.

Posted by: Tae at August 13, 2009 12:16 PM

You guys can look this up on youtube or the script, it really is "Moon Child."

Posted by: Eep at August 13, 2009 12:29 PM

I've seen American Psycho probably 50 times, maybe more, and I still think it's hilarious and horrible at the same time.

A movie I used to love that I can't really sit through anymore: Total Recall

Posted by: annoyingmouse at August 13, 2009 12:33 PM

The movie I've fallen most out of love with is definitely (through absolutely no fault of the film itself) would be The Usual Suspects.

Let me explain:

One of my roommates from sophomore year was a HUGE Kevin Spacey fan. Our other roommate and I were shocked (shocked!) to hear that, despite this, he'd never seen The Usual Suspects, so we popped my copy of it in, roommate fell in love, blah blah blah.

Problem is, the roommate loved it a little TOO well.

Our apartment was a pretty good size, but there were only two bedrooms and a loft. The loft was a perfectly serviceable living area and we'd rotate who'd be in a room and who'd be in the loft. During the time of the Usual Suspects marathon, I was in the loft. I woke up more times than I could count to the man in the hospital screaming "Keyser Soze!"

So, perhaps, it's not that I've fallen out of love with this movie, but more that familiarity bred contempt. It's been about four years since I've watched it, but given my over-exposure, you can hardly blame me for wanting to avoid it for awhile.

Posted by: Cherry at August 13, 2009 12:41 PM

Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me

Posted by: Al Christensen at August 13, 2009 12:52 PM

Monty Python and the Holy Grail. I loved it the first fifty or so times I watched it. Now, I can't stand it.

Posted by: Phillip J. Birmingham at August 13, 2009 1:05 PM

I fall out of love with movies because I overwatch them, obsess over the, and then realize how my love was completely out of proportion with the actual quality.

Posted by: Manda at August 13, 2009 1:07 PM

American Ninja. I truly thought it was phenomenal when it first came out on video.

I told a teenage friend that Cannon were the future of the movie industry. WTF ever happened to Dudikoff anyway?

Posted by: elzupasmonkey at August 13, 2009 1:42 PM

Posted by: Cherry at August 13, 2009 12:41 PM

Substitute Pink Floyd's The Wall (album not movie) for the Usual Suspects and you've described my senior year in college right down to the roommate's introduction to the obsession, the size of the apartment, and my subsequent feeling about the title.

Posted by: ed newman at August 13, 2009 3:09 PM

My pick is "Lost in Translation." When I saw it in the theater, I LOVED it. It really worked for me; then when I rented it from Netflix to show to some friends, it really didn't work at all. It was sort of long and sort of boring in parts and Scarlet was kind of whiny.
I have a theory that seeing it in the theater made a difference because of the size of it. In the theater, I was just as enveloped and surrounded in the colors, sounds, and tone of Tokyo as the characters were. On tv, not so much.
Has anyone else experienced something similar with this or another film?

Posted by: SHAWN at August 13, 2009 4:23 PM

Thanks a lot, assholes. Now I'm going to have The Neverending Story theme music stuck in my head all day. I'll be damned if that's not a catchy bit of childhood nostalgia.

"And there upon the rainbow is the answer to our neverending story...lalalalalalalalala."

I remember watching 28 Weeks Later and thinking, wicked awesome! Zomb-ayyys! Grr! Argh! Upon reflecting on the film, I realized that it was balls out ridiculous.

The only conciliation I could take from it was finding out the surreal names of the two lead actors, Imogen Poots and Mackintosh Muggleton. I like to think their families were part of a traveling Renaissance troupe, because those names just scream character. Why water down their names to Tammy and Andy in the film when their given names are soooo much better?

Posted by: Leigh at August 13, 2009 4:58 PM

I remember feeling that way about Napoleon Dynamite as I was leaving the theatre.

Posted by: Ali at August 13, 2009 7:46 PM

Just watched Chasing Amy again two weeks ago. I couldn't wait to relive my first year of college memories.

Jesus. Did not age well. Such prudery.

Posted by: Shannon at August 14, 2009 1:13 AM

Oh, Vermillion, you said "aesthetic" when you meant "ascetic." That's so cute!

For me, it's probably "Empire Records." Loved it in the late '90s, can't endure it now.

Posted by: Kate the Great at August 14, 2009 4:13 AM

I have to stop reading the comments and just come down here and say a few things--it's all about how well the film ages, so that's more global, but on a more personal level, it also has to do with who you are when you view it and when you view it again.

I saw American Beauty as a married person in my 30s, not quite as far along in life and marriage and parenthood as Lester's character, but pretty damn close.

The husband and I saw it in the theater and we happened to have been going through a rough patch at the time. Close to the beginning, when you see Lester masturbating in the shower and he voices over that "this is the best moment of my day" Mr. Snuggie laughed a bit too hard and loud and nodded a bit too much. Oh my.

Our lives were never as bad as Lester and his wife, but it turns out we both came uncomfortably close to finding too much about that couple in ourselves. We were scared--when our then pre-teen daughter was in high school, as their daughter was, would we have lost touch with her, too?

Was my gardening obsession going too far and a replacement for other things? Did I maybe need to finally get help for my OCD and other anxiety issues (though in my defense I've never been much like the wife as far as her personality goes).

Had we lost touch with one another?

It had nothing to do with being smug hipsters. I STILL don't know what that is! (Would someone please for the love of God finally tell me?) We just saw too much of ourselves for comfort, which compelled us to watch it and watch it and watch it. Would this be us in five years? (Oh and Lester's obsession with the teenager made Mr. Snuggie feel sick to his stomach, so that part fortunately did not resonate at all.)

Anyway, it hit us where we live. (And we made some needed changes, not completely because of the film but it was an impetus.)

But I've seen other flicks at other times that just never connected with me or me with it. And then watched it years later and....got it, felt it.

I still like Napoleon Dynamite. The first time I saw it, I was teaching high school. So I saw it through that lens and saw some of my own students in the characters.

Now I just like it for the sheer absurdity of it. Who didn't know a kid with so few social skills that he says, in front of the person he's referencing "is that a new kid?" Little things like that make ND good for me. I think people wanted laugh-out-loud out of it and it's not that, at least not for me.

Posted by: Snuggiepants the Deathbringer at August 15, 2009 11:36 AM

To add:

I fell in love with Monty Python and the movies in college. Sometimes I WAS laughing because my boyfriend was laughing, but other times I genuinely liked the flicks.

Then in my mid-20s I watched them all again and thought "what the hell? This shit isn't even funny!"

But lately (late 30s now) I've been re-watching them again and damn if I don't get it now. I guess I had to get over a major case of the stupids just to understand a lot of it, but it makes me hoot now.

So yeah, I think you can love, then not love, then love again.

The whole theme of Napoleon Dynamite is the buddy system. No more going it alone.

Posted by: Snuggiepants the Deathbringer at August 15, 2009 11:45 AM

Bedazzled. The original with Dudley Moore and Peter Cook, not the remake, which I've only seen once.

I recently introduced this to my boyfriend. It was still pretty damn funny, but ... wow. '60s movies sure were paced slooooowly. Somehow I managed not to notice this during my multiple viewings as a kid.

Posted by: cinderkeys at August 17, 2009 5:11 AM