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100 Books in One Year: Yes Man by Danny Wallace

Cannonball Read / Sophia

Book Reviews | January 22, 2009 | Comments (11)


Yes Man (2005) by Danny Wallace was another one of those books on display at the bookstore that caught my attention. I think the first time I noticed it I didn’t even know there was a movie coming out, but the idea sounded interesting enough, so I put it on hold at the library. And now that I’ve read it, I can say I enjoyed it; it was a quick, fun, and entertaining book.

Danny Wallace is a twenty seven year-old English bloke living and sometimes working in London. His girlfriend has recently dumped him and he’s feeling down, staying in a lot, and neglecting his friends. He decides that he needs to change his life around and as another “stupid boy project” decides to embrace the idea of being a “Yes Man.” He vows to say yes to every favor, request, suggestion, and invitation. He first tries out his new philosophy for just a day but quickly decides that one day is not long enough to make any lasting changes and subsequently promises to say “yes” to everything for the rest of the year.

This book was easy to read and consistently entertaining. I found myself laughing out loud more than once. What’s even more suprising to me, considering how much I enjoyed reading it, was that looking back, Danny doesn’t actually do all that much. Many of the funniest parts of the book come from Wallace’s superior storytelling abilities and not necessarily from the action. Danny travels, he takes some drugs, he goes out more, he gets a lot of credit cards, and has to deal with spam e-mails, but nothing he does is really extraordinary.

And that is true for Danny’s philosophy as well. One of the blurbs on the cover of the book say, “[o]ne of those rare books that actually has the potential to change your life.” Now, it’s definitely fascinating to think, “what would happen to me if I said ‘yes’ to everything?” Or, “Hmmm, maybe it would be helpful to try to be more open to new ideas, experiences, and people.” But it takes about two seconds before deciding that saying “yes” to everything is a horrible idea that pretty much guarantees a waste of money and time on things of little interest to you. Sure, once in awhile you might meet some captivating person at a party that you thought would be a bore, but some of the random shit Danny did was truly pointless. And the lesson Danny learns, that saying ‘yes’ is good and can have unintended, life-changing consequences, while saying ‘no’ is also important, is already self-evident to a vast majority of the population. But Danny Wallace is a likeable character and a gifted storyteller, and I had a good time reading about six months of his life.

As far as the book’s move to a movie, I find it difficult to imagine a good movie coming from this material. I can easily put Yes Man and Marley and Me into the same category. Both were enjoyable books that made me laugh out loud. Nothing truly extraordinary or especially meaningful happens in either book, but it’s the charisma of the storyteller and his relatable, humorous story that catches readers and draws them along. Now, I haven’t seen either movie, but it sounds as though the film makers were not able to translate that to the screen. I also have an incredibly hard time with Jim Carrey as the main character. Maybe I’m just a fan of accents, but the whole account was a lot funnier when I imagine the narrator as a young, English bloke. This might be because the humor is more stereotypically “English,” often understated and satirical. And Danny Wallace played it pretty straight and sincere throughout the book. Jim Carrey just does not seem like a good fit for this character. Oh well, doubtful I’ll ever watch the movie anyhow.

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Comments

"Now, it's definitely fascinating to think, 'what would happen to me if I said "yes" to everything?'"

Here? You'd walk funny, all the time. But your face would have a healthy sheen.

Posted by: bucdaddy at January 22, 2009 9:19 AM

Another entry in what I've just decided to call the "stunt memoir", wherein a person imposes artificial constraints upon his/her daily life, then records it for posterity. See also:

The Year of Living Biblically by A.J. Jacobs
The Omnivore's Dilemma by Michael Pollan

Super Size Me would also fit. I'm sure there are others. This one actually sounds the most interesting of the group, as there doesn't seem to be a larger agenda being pursued, and so it's probably less deterministic from the outset. Thanks for the good review.

Posted by: sansho1 at January 22, 2009 9:55 AM

Several years ago there was a woman who wrote a book just like this. "The Year of Saying Yes" or something like that. Basically, she didn't turn down anyone who asked her out, and she ended up marrying someone she never would have normally gone out with.

Posted by: BWeaves at January 22, 2009 10:24 AM

That was one of the things that stood out for me in Yes Man - how expensive an endeavor it would be to say yes to everything.

Korean, guitar, and flying lessons, buying plane tickets at the last moment, all the shit he bought, it was lucky he was a bank employee who gets a raised in the first part of his experience. I can't afford to say Yes to everything. Hell, I can't afford saying Yes to the things I really want.

But such is life. And now to wait for the anti-capitalists to come out of the woodwork and tell me the flaws of the system but not offer any reasonable solutions.

Posted by: Jim at January 22, 2009 11:21 AM

Oh god ugh, the guys I would have to, ugh, no. No, man.

Posted by: jamiepants at January 22, 2009 12:05 PM

I agree, jamiepants. This book would have been VASTLY different if it was written by a YesGirl. Eeesh.

Posted by: Sweetie Dahling at January 22, 2009 12:36 PM

The book would be even funnier if YesMan's friends had taken him to and ditched him at an S&M club. Well "friends" might be the wrong word.

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