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The Science of Fucking

Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex by Mary Roach / Sarah Larson

Book Reviews | May 22, 2008 | Comments (30)


I once had a roommate who didn’t believe in orgasms. She believed in sex; in fact, she was kind of a slut. She had at least 20 partners and participated in four different threesomes (that I know of) in the eight months we shared an apartment; she just didn’t believe in sexual pleasure. She said it was “unnatural” to derive physical satisfaction from sex, and that only nymphomaniacs actually have orgasms. Incidentally, she was a thoroughly unpleasant shrew and the worst roommate I ever had. I suspect these things may be related.

This former roommate of mine and her odd sexual hang-ups are downright tame and boring in comparison to the many subjects covered in Mary Roach’s latest book, Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex. Examining the history of sexual physiology from the time of Leonardo da Vinci’s cross-sectional cutaways (drawn 20 years before he began dissecting cadavers) through present-day, Bonk is a fascinating journey through repression and excess, and the effects of both societal morality and economics on the scientific study of human sexuality.

As with her previous books Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers and Spook: Science Tackles the Afterlife, Roach is exhaustive in her research for Bonk. Covering the gamut from clitoral studies conducted by a French princess named Marie Bonaparte (descended from Napoleon Bonaparte) through the July 2007 EMEA approval of the Intrinsa testosterone patch for women with low libido, Roach leaves no area of sexual science uncovered. She paid $20 to attend an event at the San Francisco Center for Sex and Culture titled “SEX MACHINES: Book Talk, Slide Show & Machine Play Party!” in order to try to find out more about the Williams and Johnson artificial-coition machine, which was essentially a penis camera used to study female sexual arousal and orgasm. She conned her husband into going to London to participate in a 4-D ultrasound of human genitalia in the act of sexual congress, because participating was the only way she could observe the application of the new scanning technology, which captures real-time images of internal sexual anatomy in motion.

Interwoven throughout the engrossing tales of pioneering individuals and their discoveries are examinations of the effects of political climate and economic constraints on scientific research. In 1925, Marie Bonaparte met Sigmund Freud, and then proceeded to discredit her own research on the role of the clitoris in female sexual gratification. The Rockefeller Foundation pulled Alfred Kinsey’s funding in 1954 after a congressional investigation. The 1966 Masters and Johnson paper Human Sexual Response was rejected by medical journals for being pornographic. Despite the relative relaxation of societal restrictions regarding the scientific study of human sexuality, most modern sexual research is conducted in corporate R&D labs, and scientific discoveries are made by default. There’s money to be made in the pharmaceutical and sex-toy industries, so studies are funded and discoveries are thereby made regarding sexual arousal and response, not out of scientific interest but to increase the profitability of the end product. Where there is no perceived profit-making application, however, there are no funds for study. Researchers still fight for the freedom to work, only instead of conservatism, their biggest hurdle now is economics.

Reading Bonk is like running a mental marathon through historical anecdotes and scientific fact, but Roach’s breezy pace and approachable style make the journey enjoyable. Not content to settle for a dry, lazy summary of the science of sex, she easily navigates the inherent absurdity of such topics as dildo manufacturing and recipes for simulated human semen, and delicately balances wit with an abiding admiration for the endeavors of those who dared to push the boundaries of sexual discovery. Her easygoing humor is often at its best in the footnotes, as in this one from the first page of Chapter 13: “Nominations for a Nobel Prize, I found out when I contacted the Nobel Foundation to try to verify Shafik’s, remain secret for fifty years. You make the claim, and nobody can prove otherwise until after you’re dead. Add one to your résumé today!”

Roach’s engaging writing turns the strange, involved, and often awkward history of sexual study into a wonderfully interesting and respectful book. Dense without being dull and funny without resorting to juvenile humor, Bonk is, quite simply, a pleasure to read.

Sarah Larson never ate a scorpion on television and is not dating George Clooney. She lives in Minnesota, where she is usually up to no good and occasionally records her miscreant shenanigans at Unscheduled.


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Comments

Mary Roach is a damn fine writer who really seems to enjoy her job. I really loved Stiff, and while I didn't think Spook was quite as good, I'm still very much looking forward to this one. Glad to hear you enjoyed it!

Posted by: bristlesage at May 22, 2008 12:53 PM

I've been meaning to read Stiff for a long time now and was curious about this book as well, so now I'll definitely be picking this up for some summer reading. Great review Sarah!

She said it was "unnatural" to derive physical satisfaction from sex

Seriously? Seriously?! That's crazy talk, the Godtopus created the clitoris for a reason.

Posted by: Julie at May 22, 2008 12:59 PM

The question is, will Mary Roach post an insulting comment on some random website about you?

Oh, wait...

As is becoming the norm, excellent review Ms. Larson (if that's your real name).

Posted by: TK at May 22, 2008 1:03 PM

three of my friends are "adult home novelty" peddlers, and after attending countless (as in I really have lost count) sex toy parties to support them and hearing a variety of very interesting party-relevent facts and stories, I have become pretty interested in the subject of sexuality and society through the ages

it really is fascinating

this sounds like a book for me!

most excellent review Sarah, very glad you started writing them

Posted by: Bethy at May 22, 2008 1:13 PM

The question is, will Mary Roach post an insulting comment on some random website about you?

Well, as luck would have it, Mary Roach is not a deranged egomaniac, so no worries there.

...still, though, I have to admit I was kinda relieved when the book turned out to be excellent.

Posted by: Sarina at May 22, 2008 1:13 PM

and it seems like your ex-roomie would make a psycho-analyist very very happy....

Posted by: Bethy at May 22, 2008 1:14 PM

Sweet, I'll make sure to pick this up. Stiff was both hilarious and fascinating, so perhaps this will make equally good beach reading. Awkwardness level of pulling it out of your beach bag may be up for debate, however. Books about dead bodies vs. books about the science of sex? A true question for the ages.

Posted by: kalexal at May 22, 2008 1:17 PM

Just for the record I DID happen to be nominated for a Nobel Prize in 2006 for discoveries related to Orgone energy. I modified your typical Orgone Chamber using various nano tubings, whoozies, and whatsis. I'm huge in Japan. Hasselhoff huge.

Posted by: Lizardqueen at May 22, 2008 1:26 PM

Thanks for the review. I'll definitely check this one out. I read Stiff on my commute to work and it was a little awkward when I ran into a co-worker who asked what I was reading...well, it was awkward for him, not my fault I like science and history.

Posted by: clairy at May 22, 2008 1:27 PM

I was reading it in the office kitchen one day while I ate my lunch, and I had the dust jacket off so the cover was blank, and pretty much all you could see was the word Bonk on the spine. Our admin (who's a really old lady) walked in and looked at the book and said, "Bonk? What's that about?"

I told her it was a murder mystery. She's 74. I didn't need the hassle of her dropping dead from shock.

Posted by: Sarina at May 22, 2008 1:32 PM

Heh, that was very considerate of you Sarah. I love reading books with wonky titles on the subway, you should have seen the looks I got when I was reading The Lust Lizard of Melancholy Cove.

Posted by: Julie at May 22, 2008 1:35 PM

This sounds interesting and entertaining. Great review Miss Sarah!

Posted by: Kolby at May 22, 2008 1:48 PM

Julie, +1,000,000 for Christopher Moore references.

Posted by: TK at May 22, 2008 1:48 PM

i LOVE the lust lizard of melancholy cove!

that is all.

oh, and i am definitely buying bonk today in my local bookstore!

Posted by: smash at May 22, 2008 1:52 PM

Awesome, I've seen this book and wondered if it was actually as good as it sounded. Thanks for the review, Sarina! Sounds like I'll have to pick up Stiff as well.

Oh, how I love a good science-geeky book with humour! Anyone else read Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to All Creation?

Posted by: MO at May 22, 2008 2:03 PM

I read Stiff when it came out as part of a book club I was in with my then-girlfriend. After we broke up, she would randomly show up at my apartment crying, screaming that we were meant to be together, and generally acting like a lunatic...for 7 months...we had only dated for 5.

I have tried to erase every memory of that time period, unfortunately including the memory of that excellent book. I will most definitely check this one out and probably Spook as well, since I didn't know it existed.

However, Sarah/Sarina, I will whine and post hateful comments about you if I do not enjoy it. I'm sorry, the precedent has been set, my hands are clearly tied.

Posted by: MC Peepants at May 22, 2008 2:25 PM

I loved this book! I also had the opportunity to see Mary Roach live in Austin, TX and she was really witty and down to earth. She can make the most serious of subjects hilarious, and yet somehow stays respectful at the same time (especially in "Stiff"). I can only wish I had the tenacity and drive for research that she has!

Posted by: peachfish at May 22, 2008 2:54 PM

Posted by: Kevin Longrie at May 22, 2008 3:13 PM

Stiff was a great read and Spook is sitting on top of my still growing pile of to-read books. Good hear this one is good as well.

Posted by: Brian at May 22, 2008 3:59 PM

This looks like a really good read actually. It reminds of me of something I just read, which seemed to make a lot sense and get me in the mood:

http://decentcommunity.org/2008/05/15/making-love-with-the-help-of-gigantic-vats-of-grease/

Posted by: Tubesteak at May 22, 2008 4:38 PM

Okay, I have to tell this story (hah, another one from the trenches of science). A couple of years ago my department had a visiting speaker whose talk was basically about the relationship between L-Arginine and sex. "Sex" was right there in the title, so of course, for once the auditorium was packed. Dude gave a good show too. He was wearing one of those suit jackets with the elbow patches and, I kid you not, a yellow and purple polka dot bow tie. And he was awkward as all hell. Imagine an uber-nerd giving a lecture that involved measuring the strength of boners in rabbits (we later dubbed the device the bonerometer). There was a slide showing the timescale of orgasms in male and female rabbits (Males: 30 seconds, females: 30 minutes, go figure, and thank you mom for the multiple orgasm genes btw, I've never actually had to deal with that problem). Best talk ever. Also - having sexual issues? Take some L-arginine. I hear it does wonders for the strength of boners.

Posted by: s. pisaster at May 22, 2008 6:18 PM

That grease thing is clever commentary on the state of America, right? Rolling around in pizza grease when you're baby-makin'? This can't be real, say it ain't so!

Posted by: TyranThesaurus Rex at May 22, 2008 6:47 PM

i bought bonk as soon as it came out and it was such a great read. not only does mary roach know her stuff but she's got a great sense of humour - it seemed as though i was laughing out loud every other page. it is now on rotation with all my friends.

not since house of leaves have i appreciated footnotes so much.

Posted by: kate at May 23, 2008 11:36 PM

Wonderful to see a woman throwing around those lovely gender-specific words like "slut" and "shrew". I was so happy to see more women writing for Pajiba, but oh well.

Posted by: F at May 25, 2008 3:04 AM

Would it have made you feel better if I had said "playboy" and "dick"? Or perhaps we women should be allowed only gender-neutral language? I could have used words like "promiscuous" and "temperamental", and then it would have been like reading insults written by a robot or somebody's grandma. Would that have pleased you? Because wow, that sounds totally awesome to me. I love being overly cautious to the point of paranoia!

Posted by: Sarina at May 25, 2008 11:32 AM

...throwing around those lovely gender-specific words like "slut" and "shrew"

In whose lexicon are those germs gender-specific?

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