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Cannonball Read III: Blood, Bones, and Butter: The Inadvertent Education of a Reluctant Chef by Gabrielle Hamilton

By heathpie | Posted Under Book Reviews | Comments (5)



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In her satisfying memoir, Blood, Bones, and Butter: The Inadvertent Education of a Reluctant Chef, Gabrielle Hamilton invites the reader into not only her New York City restaurant, Prune, but her entire life. In fact, this memoir is just as much a story of family as it is of food.

BB&B is divided into three sections: Blood, her adolescence, wild teen years, and her start in the food world; Bones, the structure that led her to where she is today - college experiences, travel, opening her restaurant; and Butter, her life as a restaurant owner, head chef, wife, and mother.

Hamilton is driven by food, but not just because she enjoys cooking. The thought of cooking—preparing, eating, sharing, and providing—is what makes her a chef. She wants customers at Prune to feel as she felt when traveling across Europe and Asia (hungry and alone) to feel as deliriously happy as she did when she encountered people who took pity on her, fed her, and gave her a place to rest.

Hamilton’s planned, multi-year “disappearance” in Europe is a tale that could stand on its own, but its inclusion in BB&B is just part of what makes her book so delectable. Overall, BB&B is more about family than anything else. Hamilton’s relationship tales—with her parents, her siblings, her friends, and her husband and children—are peppered throughout the book and are so complementary to her narrative, that’s it almost immediately obvious that she holds an MFA in creative writing. Her descriptions of food make you not only hungry, but leave you yearning for whatever it is that she’s describing.

Her strained relationship with her divorced parents clearly marks her life trajectory, cements her choices, and pushes her to be an adult long before she is ready. She makes decisions that will change her life, and some of her choices are absolutely perplexing to the reader.

Personally, I had a bit of a problem with the final third of the book. While I loved reading about her summers in Italy with her husband’s family, some asides and anecdotes felt a little too personal. I almost felt like I was eavesdropping on very private feelings and conversations. But since Hamilton was clearly writing a memoir—not just a chef’s memoir—every word is important.


For more of heathpie’s reviews, check out her blog, The Donut.

This review is part of Cannonball Read III. For more information, click here.









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Comments

I'm reading this now, and sorry to say not enjoying it one bit. I'm still early on in the 'bones' section, so maybe I will enjoy it more as it goes on. Of course, I'm vegetarian, so the extended descriptions of killing various things probably has something to do with how I feel about it.

Posted by: fenchurch at June 3, 2011 9:40 AM

Thanks for the review - I've been dying to read this book. I ate at Prune several times (way back when I lived in NY) and loved it. The restaurant was always a fun and convivial place to eat, with people at adjoining tables talking about their food, and making recommendations. We even got some illegal (unpasterurized) cheese on one trip there.

Posted by: Captain Tuttle at June 3, 2011 11:20 AM

I just finished reading this the other day. Overall I liked it, though I don't understand her marriage at all and near the end I thought she got a bit self-aggrandizing.
The first two-thirds was great, the last not so much. Also, there was a lot of tense-switching that took me right out of reading and put me into proofreading mode.
Read it for her childhood stories and how she came up, that was the better part. When she starts having to analyze herself in the present or recent past, she loses all sense of focus.

Posted by: MyySharona at June 3, 2011 6:10 PM

Of course, I'm vegetarian, so the extended descriptions of killing various things probably has something to do with how I feel about it.

Thanks for the warning, fenchurch.

Posted by: Kristen from MA at June 4, 2011 6:54 PM

I agree about the third part of the book being a mess and overly personal. And, yeah, I agree that her marriage really confused me.

For me the book wasn't what I was expecting (I was hoping for something along the lines of Tony Bourdain-like storytelling about being in the food biz). It ended up being really depressing read. She had a hell of a childhood (abandonment issues and neglectful parents) that felt both glossed over and somehow celebrated in a weird way.

I felt the book was less about her being a chef and more a personal memoir from someone who happens to cook and run a restaurant.

Posted by: MonkeyHateClean at June 4, 2011 9:23 PM